When the love is still there and both of you have the money to raise up this child,why not keeping the pregnancy.

Everybody can do mistakes.It is only the trust is distroyed.Can you still trust her?

Does both of the parents know about it?What do they say?

Can you be sure,if the baby is yours?
You have to do a DNA test.That is for sure.Will you still like to stay with her,when the test shows that you are not the father?

Think very well about all these thing.Because it will be the child who will suffer it later.

Sometimes abortion could be the solution.Choose a good clinic.Everything will be okay.

Good luck.

Chi-chi

Why don't you date men?

Hi.

I was thinking that my own 4 year old son ist stubborn.I am very sorry.
The stress is so much,that you might be close to madness.

My son also like to fight like Bruce Lee.Mostly with the father.But when it is enough,he understands.

When he sees a toy at the shopping-mall it will turn to war.If i will tell him,that i am not going to buy it,then he starts to cry and throw himself on the ground.If i explain slowly to him he does not want to understand it.when i continue my walking,then he will get up and follow me crying.I will tell him,that his father will buy it for him tomorrow.He will keep quiet and forget about it later.
I avoid taking him to stores.I know when he gets a bit older,he will not do all this nonsens.

But the funniest thing is,when my husband is around,our son never do all this silly things.

But in short.Your son's behavior is out of controll.Could it be that he is hyperactive?
Did you took him to a Doctor?I mean a speciallist?And some kids have an allergy against some foodstuffs.Anytime after eating it,they get agressive.
Just try to be consequent.When you want to take him somewhere and he missbehaves,you will not take him out again.If he starts crying for something,send him to his room until he stops crying.A no is a no.Do not discuse with him.


Do not overpamper him.Show love and be consequent.He should eat always to the same times and he should go to bed at least by latest 8 o'clock.

Take him to a doctor and always keep an eye on him.You have to controll your child,not your child will controll you.
Good luck

Chi-chi

Thanks a lot.

Can't remember.Heard it in the german news some days ago.

87 kg is nothing to compare what they found in germany today.A ship coming from Ghana to Hamburg seaport.The ship loaded pineapples

The pineapples(it was marijuana) was weighing 5 tonnes. .worthing 28 million euro.

This is what they call a big fish.chineke.

Hi,

he should be a young man,who knows about the latest things.Let him show you examples.Maybe you can look at some buildings he has drawn.

Good luck.

Hallo,
i have a question about solarshields on top of the houseroof.Does anyone of you know a good company,who is dealing with solarenergie in Lagos or Enugu.
I need an address.I have heard that chinese and british people is dealing with these things.
We are building a house and we do not want to depent on NEPA or buying diesel for the generator.

Thanks CHI-CHI

Excuse me.
In our house,all of us is sitting down.Even my nigerian husband(Igbo).That is what he even did,when both of us met eachother.
It is a question of hygiene.
No matter how careful a man is trying to piss.There will always be some drops jumping somewhere else.

Apart from us and our 4 kids nobody else is using our toilet,unless we get visitors once in a while.

When we go to outside toilets,then my husband is standing and we women are ALMOST sitting down.We avoid to touch the seat.

Bcs.we don't want to catch a disease.

What do i think?

I think it is very stupid of you.

It is always the same thing with you young teenagers.

When you can not follow some little rules,your parents gave you,then the only sulution is,to run away.

Are you not even to young,to have a boyfriend?

Think about your education first,before you think about moving to your boyfriend.

I really want to have your problems.

Have you ever think about how your mother feels about it.

She is giving you the rules,bcs.she wants you to be a nice girl.For you to be respected by familymembers and neighbours.

She loves you.

If she does not,she will allow you every nonsens you want to do.

Can't you children understand our feelings?Don't be selfish.

Sit your mum down.Maybe both of you will find a compromise.

Good luck,but think twice.

My words in your thoughts.

If the pocket allows,you can have as many children you like.

But when money is not enough,i think 2 children is okay.

We have 4 children.3 girls and 1 boy.

It is easy to become parents,but is not easy to be one.

First of all i want to tell you that i am very sorry.It is not your or even your husbands fault.Your father made the mistake,bcs. he never inform his son that he has a halfsister somewhere out there.Your father were more closer to your husband,so he supposed to tell him.
So now the child has fallen into the gutter.So what to do?
Both of you will never have the sister and brother feelings,bcs.both of you never grew up together.
If both of you have so strong feelings for eachother,then go ahead beeing married.

But when it comes to pregnancy,both of you have to forget it.Same blood might give a handicaped child.
The only way to have children,is to adopt them.

So,think twice.Everything is in your hands.

That is why i hate men,who sleep around and droping children everywhere,without them knowing about eachother.

Good luck,my sister.

Your husband never know you up to now.He does not trust you.
Does he know your girlfriend the time both of you met eachother?

Does it means,that you have to quit every girlfriend which is not married?

Can you also forbid him not to go out with his unmarried friends.

This is what i hate in men.Telling you to forget about your best friend,because now you are a married woman.

If you really want to cheat,you can also do it,when you go alone to the supermarket,without your girlfriend.

If you love your husband,nobody can decieve you.

Sit down with your husband and talk to him.If he does not understand your feelings,he does not want you to be happy.