Richard Templar, a seasoned psychologist and parenting expert once wrote, “If your children are ever going to take risks, you're bound to be worry.”

Yeah, Rich's words are true. But you’ve to keep your worries to yourself.

According to Rich, “You'll worry when they climb trees, you'll worry when they learn to drive, you'll worry when they go off on holiday without you... What you've to remember is that you're not the only one. Your kids worry about all these things too... but determined to make themselves do it.”

Your job as a parent is not to increase the worries and fears of your child each time they want to take a reasonable risk.

Your job is to reassure them. Give them the confidence to go ahead. Make them feel that everything is fine even when your stomach is full of butterflies.

Hide your worries at such times and give a placid smile of reassurance. That's your job as a parent. It's tough, but someone has to do it. And that someone is you.

Richard Templar goes ahead to give a valuable counsel to parents, thus:

“Try and stop yourself [from] saying ‘Be careful’ every time your child steps out of the door. Not only does it imply a lack of trust in your offspring, but a child who is told to ‘be careful’ when they carry something fragile is much more likely to drop it than if nothing is said. ‘Be careful‘ can start to make a child think something is about to go wrong.”

Children are heavily influenced by their parents, and parents can saddle their kids with all sorts of worries if they (parents) are not careful. Since your children are bound to come up with plenty of fears of their own, they really don't need yours as well. So keep them to yourself.

Again, keep your worries to yourself.

#ParentsTakeNote

~Chidi C. Ifeachor

How do some ladies develop bad odour in their vagina?

This is one question many girls keep on asking. And my response each time I get such question is what I'm going to share here.

A woman's vagina is her pride. A dent on it would be a blow to her self-confidence. This is why every woman must strive to protect her vagina at all cost.

Odour of the vagina can be caused by various factors such as diet, poor hygiene, STIs. But from discoveries, many cases of bad vagina smell in Nigeria are caused by using POOR SANITARY PADS.

Let me break it down.

During menstruation, it is risky for the vagina to be stuffy. It's always important to use a sanitary pad that allows air into the vagina, while at the same time catches and stores menstrual flow until the pad is disposed.

But what we find today is that most cheap menstrual pads being sold in the market are usually made with toxic, non-pliable materials that doesn't allow air into the vagina. You’d be surprised to know that an average pad in the market may contain more plastic than cotton.

As expected, these non-air permeable menstrual pads make the vagina stuffy. And so bacteria that live in the menstrual blood become trapped inside the pad for hours and start breeding more rapidly than it would in the environment that contains more oxygen.

These bacteria gradually begin to cause unpleasant smell in the vagina, and soon the smell may become chronic if the woman continues to use cheap menstrual pads.

Most companies that produce these cheap sanitary pads doesn't care about the health and well-being of their customers. All they want is to sell their product.

The vagina is like the mouth, when you close it for too long, it naturally begins to smell. And at times, when it smells, the woman may not even be aware of it.

Most men don't tell their wives and girlfriends that they have awful smell down there. The usual thing is that men would start avoiding such women. Some married men would start chasing other girls to satisfy themselves.

Vagina odour is one major reason why many guys have dumped their girlfriends. Just as women hate it when men can't satisfy their sexual desire, men can't bear to discover that his woman has bad odour down there.

Remember, the fact that you currently don't experience any smell down there doesn't mean you're immune in any way. You're at risk of getting vagina infection and ordour anytime as long as you continue to use the wrong sanitary pad.

To completely rule out the risk of developing bad vagina smell, I advise you to use healthy anti-bacteria sanitary pads that allow air into the vagina. The best sanitary pad you can use is KEDI 7 LAYERS SANITARY PAD.

KEDI Sanitary Pad is perfect, safe and comfortable. It prevents the vagina from being stuffy and therefore prevents vagina odour.

Kedi Sanitary Pads reduce pressure, release fatigue, enhance immunity, improve metabolism, and regulates endocrine system. The pad is also anti-bacteria and antiseptic.

KEDI 7 Layers Sanitary Pad gives you a refreshing aroma that prevents the escape of any foul smell from the vagina during menstruation.

Use KEDI pads and keep your vagina safe!

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MISEDUCATIONS:
my GF doesnt even know where i work. let alone how much i make or when my payday is. thats none of her business

What about your wife?... would she not know also?
Besides, if your girlfriend doesn't care about what you do for a living, hmmm! problem dey oo.
Good luck shaa...

Lonestar124:
Enough of all these epistle.

Lol... Person force you read am??

post=67599013:
Awwwwww, so beautiful.
Thank you!

You’re welcome.

In a previous article I did mention that wives have a lot of role to play to ensure the flow of love in the family... Well, men too h
ave their own share of responsibilities. The list below will help every man be that husband every woman desires. Take a look.

1. Take the lead
Always show how things should work by exemplary living. Initiate working ideas, be a resourceful and shine the light for your family to follow.

2. Have a listening ear
Always try and hear your wife out before replying. Don't shut her up for any reason. Pay attention to her complaints as this will help you lead better.

3. Allow her to take the lead sometimes
Don't act like a domineering boss. You should give your wife the free hand to take the lead in some occasions and discover more of her talents. By so doing, you'll get to know her better.

4. Respect and consider her opinions
Always allow your wife to make contributions of her own opinions to topical issues at home. Her own suggestion may contain the very solutions you're looking for. Don't be a "Mr-know-it-all".

5. Compliment her frequently
Give your wife compliments frequently. Focus on her good qualities always. Show her how much that you cherish and adore her. Let her know it.

6. Apologize to her when you're wrong
To be the husband your wife desires, you need to be a humble person who can admit his faults. It's a simple statement of fact that no one is above mistake, therefore, if you realize that you've offended your wife or she complained of you hurting her and you know it, just apologize to her.

7. Show your love for her in public
Every woman wants the world to see how her husband cherishes her. Demonstrate your love for her in public. Hold her hand or put your hand around her in a public place. This is what she desires.

8. Let her understand your level of income
Don't hide how much you earn. Let your wife understand what you can afford and what you can't afford.

9. Attend social function with her
Endeavour to take your wife along when attending occasions such as wedding, launching, child naming ceremony, etc. Women like to go out with their husband.

10. Spend quality time with your wife and family
Never allow business and work to take your time to the extent that you'll be left with little or no time for your wife and family. Always make out quality time to stay and play with them.

11. Make her your number one
Show her that personally and materially, she comes first before any other thing or anyone else on earth. Remember she's one with you.

12. Always treat her like a wife
Some people look down on their wives. Some treat theirs as slaves, maids or second class citizens. This is very wrong. You should treat your wife with respect and dignity.

The list is unending. But following the tips provide above will definitely make your wife thank God for getting married to you.

Is there anything you agree or disagree with? Let's hear what you think in the comment section.

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11. Wearing the Vaginal full armor:

This includes the use of shield, barricade and iron made granny panties

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UDbester:
ops, are you talking from experience, cos the last time i checked guys dont have V, they go with D.iK kUDOS

UDbester, I don't need to have a vagina to know those things. Various medical studies have been done. A little research is all that is needed.

The vagina is, no doubt, the most delicate part of a woman's body and as such should be given special attention. They've taught you to wash it with soap, spray it with various body sprays and use tampons when in periods, among other things. However, some of these things you were equipped with need to be changed now.

You might think you know everything about keeping your vagina free from infection, but you could be wrong. Read this article let's see how much you know about keeping your vagina healthy and happy.

To maintain a healthy vagina you must know what to do to avoid infection. By following these healthy habits, you can protect your vagina and avoid uncomfortable infections once and for all.


1. Vaginal fingering:

Some couple enjoy using their fingers to sexually stimulate the vagina or the anus during sex. However, this practice can be dangerous when you consider how many guys even remember to wash their hands when they're sexually charged to the brim. Some people don't keep their nails clean so they gather a lot of germs that might be deposited in the vagina during fingering. This often leads to one vagina infection or another.

The practice is generally considered "safe sex" as long as the nails are clean and there are no open wounds on the fingers. The nails should be trimmed and filed; long, sharp or jagged nails can cause cuts, injury, or severe infection. Ensure that your man washes his hands thoroughly with soap and warm water before fingering to avoid the spread of bacteria or germs.


2. Avoid the use of Vagina Hygiene Products:

Do you think you need some assistance keeping things all clear down there? Well,you don't. Because your vagina actually stays quite clean on its own without the help of outside cleansers. Studies have shown that using vaginal hygiene products can put you at increased risk of infections and pelvic inflammatory disease. Just don't do it.

Some people put antiseptics or detergents in water and use the solution to wash the inside part of the vagina with the help of sponge or towel. If you do this, then you're engaging in a dangerous practice. It's wrong because it kills the harmless (or normal) bacteria in the vagina, leading to infection.

Many parents threaten to insert pepper into the vagina of their adolescent daughters as a form of punishment. And some parent actually do it. This is so wrong! Whatever it is, putting something in the vagina for whatever reason is not cool at all.


3. Be careful with anal sex:

Anal sex refers to the insertion and thrusting of the penis into a person's anus for sexual pleasure. While anal sex is commonly associated with male homosexuality, research shows that it's not uncommon in heterosexual relationships. You know what I'm talking about, right? ok. But what a lot of girls probably don't know is the high risk associated with anal sex because of the vulnerability of the anus and rectum.

Apart from that, to have anal sex and then go on to have penovaginal sex may put your vagina at great risk. The penis picks bacteria from the anus and deposits them in the vagina, even if you use a condom. So, make sure not to go from anal to vaginal sex without changing the condom or properly cleaning off first. Going from backdoor to front exposes your vagina to a host of bacteria and can up your risk of infections.


4. Quest to make the vagina tighter:

Just the way some women complain about small penis, so do some men complain that their women are too big down there. They complain about not feeling enough sensation during sex. Consequently, many ladies are pushed to find a quick solution. They apply all sorts of herbal and synthetic products that promise to tighten the vagina. Some of these products may cause infection, while others may actually make the vagina get tighter, sometimes, to the extent that penetration becomes difficult-- and that's another problem on its own.


5. Approach antibiotics with caution:

Another threat to your vagina happiness are antibiotics. you might ask: "what exactly is this guy talking about here?" But the fact is, those antibiotic pills can kill off some of those wonderful lactobacilli (harmless bacteria) that keep your vagina healthy. If you've to take an antibiotic drug to fight infection, you should follow the right prescription. The harmless bacteria in the vagina are there to prevent the vagina from infection and bad odour. Do't do away with them.


6. Wear cotton underwear:

Cotton underwear allows air to flow freely through the fabric. This prevents the development of damp conditions that promote the growth of yeast and unhealthy bacteria that might lead to an infection. Avoid underwear made from synthetic fabrics, silk, nylon, lace, or other materials.

Again, always wear loose-fitting clothing. Stretch pants, skinny jeans, and tights trap moisture against the skin and prevent airflow, often leading to yeast infections. So, go for skirts and gowns more often. Loose shorts are also good.


7. Wipe from front to back:

After using the toilet, it's important to wipe the anus from front to back, rather than the reverse, to keep fecal matter from entering your vagina and causing an infection. Also, use plain, unscented toilet paper to wipe. And don't use any product that contains perfumes and chemicals to clean your anus or vagina.


8. Eat plenty of yogurt:

It has been discovered that yogurt has the same kind of harmless bacteria that your vagina needs to stay healthy. Yogurt can help you replenish your body’s bacteria if you make it part of your daily diet. Eating yogurt is a great way to both prevent and treat yeast infections.


9. Use of water closet (WC):

Be careful when using a public toilet anywhere. Some ladies have the habit of not sitting on the seat of the water closet when using it, so they end up urinating on the seat. The possibility of picking infection when using a WC in that condition is high. Don't let your underwear hang on your thigh as you use the WC in a public toilet because your underwear may come in contact with harmful germs on the surface of the water closet.


Always make sure that the water closet is well flushed before you expose your anus and vagina to it. In a case where you can't find water, make sure you use enough toilet roll to cover before using the WC to avoid any splashes on your vulva.


10. Avoid self-medication:

If you notice something out of the ordinary, consult your doctor. Many women are not familiar with the way their vaginas look and feel, so they're not aware when something changes. Every vagina is different, and it's important to know how your vagina normally looks, feels and smells so that when something changes, you'll easily notice and seek medical attention if necessary. Go to the doctor if you notice a stark change in color, warts or other bumps, discharge that smells or looks different, or if you have pain in your vagina. Don't rely on self-medication.


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The song "It Is Well With My Soul" was written by a successful Christian lawyer Heratio Spafford.

His only son died at age 4 in 1871.

In 1872, the great Chicago fire wiped out his vast estate, made from a successful legal career.

In 1873 he sent his wife & 4 daughters over to Europe on a summer trip on the ill fated SS Ville du Havre. Since he had a lot of work to do, he planned to follow them later.

The Ship sank and he lost his 4 daughters with the wife being the only survivor. She sent him a famous telegram which simply read, "SAVED ALONE". He rushed to her....

On his return home, his Law firm was burned down and the insurance company refused to pay him. They said "It's an Act of God". He had no money to pay for his house and no work, he also lost his house.

Then while sitting and thinking what's happening to him, being a spiritual person, he wrote a song - "Whatever, my Lord, You have taught me to say - It is well, it is well with my soul".

My dear friend, a good attitude will determine your altitude. When you look at your life, career, job or family life, what do you say?

Do you praise God? Do you blame the devil? A good attitude towards God makes Him move on your behalf. Just sit down and say, "Today, God, it is well with my soul, I am thankful I had a peaceful sleep, I am thankful I am alive with possibilities, I am thankful I have a roof over me, I am thankful I have a job, I am thankful that I have Family and Friends.

Above all, I am thankful that I have the Lord Jesus Christ on my side."

Be blessed and don't be envious or shocked when others are prospering because you don't know what they have been through to get there (test, trials and tribulation) so thank God for what you have.

"Little is much when God is in it. It Is Well With My Soul!". Touch someone's life with this message. If God is for us, who can be against us?


God has seen you struggling with something. God says it's over. A blessing is coming your way. If you believe in God, say a powerful AMEN!

Tomorrow will be the best day of your life, I assure you.

~Chidi C. Ifeachor.


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Ninejaywon:
I was enjoying your write-up till I saw 3.2kg of garlic. No, I take that to be a typographical error. To consume 3.2kg of garlic per day would be suicidal.

Thanks for the observation, Ninejaywon. I mean to write 3.2g which would be about 3 to 4 cloves of garlic.

Most of the infertility problems men experience are as a result of inadequate supply of sperm in the form of low sperm count or low quality of sperm. These sperm conditions have been linked with factors such as lack of necessary vitamins and zinc deficiency in the body. So, making some nutritional changes can help to bring your sperm count up and improve your sperm quality.

I've put together 7 foods you definitely need to add to your diet to improve your sperm and reduce your chances of being infertile to zero.

1. Egg:
Egg is one of the food that helps to improve sperm count as well as sperm motility. Eating eggs regularly protects sperm cells from free radicals that can decrease your count. Also the high content of vitamin E and protein in egg assist in the production of strong and healthy sperm which is necessary for fertility.

2. African Walnut:
Before you start wondering what walnut might be, let me just tell you that African walnut is that dark hard-shelled seed popularly known as "Asala" in Yoruba. Yeah, now you know!

Walnut is a great food. It has been discovered that this nut contains Omega-3 fatty acid that helps boost sperm volume and production by increasing blood flow to the testes. Walnut is also rich in arginine which contains twice as much antioxidants as other nuts, making it fight free radicals more effectively.

3. Garlic:
Known for its repugnant odor, most men often avoid garlic. But the smell of garlic shouldn't stop you from adding it to you diet list if you plan to have your own baby soon. Garlic has the good reputation for boosting immunity; beyond that, it helps in the production of healthy sperm it's rich in selerium that helps in sperm motility. Add garlic to your meal today and start boosting your sperm count. About 3.2 g (i.e. about 3 to 4 cloves of garlic) a day is a good amount to consume.

4. Spinach:
Spinach is an annual plant widely cultivated for its edible dark green leaves. The plant is eaten cooked as a vegetable or raw in salads. It's rich in folic acid which is vital to the development of healthy sperm. When your folic acid level is low, there's a greater chance of birth defects due to faulty sperm chromosomal abnormalities. This is why you should eat spinach.

5. Banana:
You probably know already that banana contains a bromelain enzyme that helps increase libido and sex drive in both men and women. What you might not know is that the fruit also contains vitamin A,B1 and C which help your body produce healthier sperm, as well as increase sperm count. indeed, banana is a must-eat-fruit for any man who wishes to enjoy his sex life.

6. Watermelon:
Watermelon is another good fruit as far as male fertility is concerned. It improves sperm motility. A photonutrient known as citrulline in the fruit helps in relaxation of the body's blood vessels and also improves male sexual performance.

7. Zinc-Rich Foods:
Foods rich in zinc such as oyster, red meat, beans pumpkin etc, helps in sperm production and development. Zinc deficiency in the body has been blamed for low sperm motility. Consuming enough of this mineral will definitely put you on your way to making healthy babies. However, it's important to note that excess zinc in your body is unhealthy. So it's imperative to regulate your intake of zinc to about 15 mg per day.

The foods in this article are by no means the only ones that can improve your sperm. But they can give you the nutrients and minerals you need.
And one last advice: Don't go on to take fruits and supplements when there's an obvious case of sexual infertility. If you've any sexual problem the best thing to do is to see a doctor.

written by Chidi C. Ifeachor

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Guys, the influence of birth position on one's personality is not a mere assumption. You can do some research to find out if the post is "Absolute Nonsense" or not.

Are you the firstborn, a middle child or youngest in your family? Your position in the family can affect your personality, behaviour and world view.

You didn't realize that, right?

According to some experts in psychology, birth order is considered to be one of the most powerful influences on personality, along with genetics, gender, temperament, and parenting styles.

Your position in the family, also known as Ordinal Position, has a huge influence over your total personality at adulthood.

Ordinal positions refer to the 5 basic positions of siblings in the family, which are the firstborn, second child, middle child, youngest child and only child.

And, just in case you don't know, none of these positions is better than the other. Each has its own good and bad points.

I assure you, this article will help you know why you act the way you do. It'll also help parents understand children and their misbehavior, so as to know how best to do the hard work of parenting.

Now, let's explore the characteristic experience of each ordinal position in a normal family structure.

1. Firstborn:
Because he once had it all to himself and would still prefer to be the first and foremost, he tends to feel entitled to rank. The firstborn are usually conservative in attitude. They often stay near adults and authority figures.

They're well organized and take responsibility over their younger ones. However, they can become suspicious and hostile to others if their social interest is threatened. The first child is somewhat elitist in his views.

2. Second Child:
The second child is behind and has to catch-up. Someone seem to be ahead of him, a standard bearer against who he measures himself. So, he learns to compete. The second child is more revolutionary and competitive in outlook, although, he's more willing to follow another's lead.

At times the second child tries to out do any standard set by the elder child. This kind of attitude might lead the second child to set unachievable goals for himself which might lead to failure.

3. Middle Child:
There's already a standard bearer in front and a pursuer in the rear. He's surrounded by competitors. He may feel squeezed into a small area in the family - not enjoying any of the advantages of the elder nor the younger one.

The middle child tends to be sensitive to mistreatment and unfairness. He sees the position as the most burdensome and constantly seeks open assurance of his place in the family from his parents.

4. Youngest Child:
Usually, the last-born is the pet of the family. He may have the advantage of many role models, but he has a lot of ground to cover in order to catch-up. If he's pampered, he may act helpless and dependent, expecting others to attend to his every need. And therefore, find it difficult to cope with life challenges.

5. The Only Child:
He never had a rival and so tend to be curious rather than competitive. He's usually congenital and charming. His social behaviour is intended to please rather than to outdo.

The only child spend most of his time with adults. For this reason, he matures early, developing a rich imagination and learning to be highly creative.

However, not having experienced competition, nor felt dethroned by another sibling in the family, he might find it difficult to cooperate with his peers, especially when he starts school as he has not learned to compete for attention.

written by Chidi C. Ifeachor

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