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Family / Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Chidike200: 9:23am On Aug 17, 2022
Soulflai:
I shouldn't have brought this here but the emotional bargage is too heavy for me to move on in. My marriage of 2 years is about to crumble.

I met my wife in Kaduna Southern part in 2017. Our relationship had been a long distance one as I base in Lagos while she also work in Kaduna, but we eventually married in 2020. The bone of contention is the issue of her ex. That point we are dating, I always caution her to cut communication with the guy, she will do it by deleting the number, but later I will find out they're still relating.

Last month, I purchased a new phone and I had to give her my own. So on the process of reinstalling Whatsapp on her phone, I retrieved all the backup Whatsapp messages 7 which left me devastated. The chat history with her ex really left me broken.

On multiple occasions after I paid her dowry, she met with the guy and they had sex. Multiple times pals! Even after marriage, when she is 5 months pregnant, the guy still had her with my baby inside her!

I am really broken pals, I confronted her on this, she started crying that she will cut communication with him. The guy even send some money to her account on difference time this year.

This is the height of emotional damage. I am just leaving each day just to find my leg financially. I am trying my best, but it is not enough.

Lastly, I called the so-called ex on phone to cut communication with her, the guy is in Kaduna I think while we are in Lagos. She also blocked him all avenues likewise. My decision now is that any time I discovered any form of communication between her and the guy, it is over with the marriage. I think she is not really in to me like that, which beg the question while she married me in first instance.

If am your brother, what advice would you recommend? I only choose to be lenient because the kids are just too small to have their parents separated early. If not, I would have sent her parking!.

Right now I am just not happy with life afterall.

My guy you are stupid for saying your marriage is about to crumble when you didn't have any marriage

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Family / Re: My Wife's Ex-Boyfriend Is About To Ruin My Marriage by Chidike200: 9:19am On Aug 17, 2022
Soulflai:
I shouldn't have brought this here but the emotional bargage is too heavy for me to move on in. My marriage of 2 years is about to crumble.

I met my wife in Kaduna Southern part in 2017. Our relationship had been a long distance one as I base in Lagos while she also work in Kaduna, but we eventually married in 2020. The bone of contention is the issue of her ex. That point we are dating, I always caution her to cut communication with the guy, she will do it by deleting the number, but later I will find out they're still relating.

Last month, I purchased a new phone and I had to give her my own. So on the process of reinstalling Whatsapp on her phone, I retrieved all the backup Whatsapp messages 7 which left me devastated. The chat history with her ex really left me broken.

On multiple occasions after I paid her dowry, she met with the guy and they had sex. Multiple times pals! Even after marriage, when she is 5 months pregnant, the guy still had her with my baby inside her!

I am really broken pals, I confronted her on this, she started crying that she will cut communication with him. The guy even send some money to her account on difference time this year.

This is the height of emotional damage. I am just leaving each day just to find my leg financially. I am trying my best, but it is not enough.

Lastly, I called the so-called ex on phone to cut communication with her, the guy is in Kaduna I think while we are in Lagos. She also blocked him all avenues likewise. My decision now is that any time I discovered any form of communication between her and the guy, it is over with the marriage. I think she is not really in to me like that, which beg the question while she married me in first instance.

If am your brother, what advice would you recommend? I only choose to be lenient because the kids are just too small to have their parents separated early. If not, I would have sent her parking!.

Right now I am just not happy with life afterall.

This is what happens when you think a woman will change. A woman can't and does not change and who told you and how are you sure the baby belongs to you. My brother just be with her and let her go through what it means to be a loose woman and a cheat.

Don't trust a woman

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Travel / Re: My Journey To Hanoi, Vietnam by Chidike200: 12:24pm On Aug 11, 2022
WhyNa:
Sometime in 2019, I started nursing the idea of teaching English abroad.

I did a lot of research, lost a lot of sleep, penciled down and weighed my options. I was also lucky to meet a senior bro who towed the same line and is doing well. God bless him real good.

The first thing I found out was I was going to need an English certificate, preferably CELTA which was going to be a one month intensive course.

Only problem was....it would cost a fortune

Hello
I want get details about the Teaching English in Vietnam.
Travel / Re: Please I Need Advice I Want To Go Teach English Abroad by Chidike200: 2:46pm On Aug 05, 2022
Whales001:
Check out Vietnam! Join the Vietnam links on nairaland to learn from Nigerians wo have gain jobs via teaching you can also reach out to me . Am not an agent, can only link you up but before then go sit and write your teofl and celt certificate to enable you teach in Vietnam plus have your degree and police report handy.

Best of luck.


OK, I will do all of that sir.
Travel / Re: Please I Need Advice I Want To Go Teach English Abroad by Chidike200: 2:30pm On Aug 05, 2022
Chnbanc:
Please I Need Advice I Want To Go Teach English Abroad.
Oga na with this your wacko English?
I pity the country wey go allow you to teach English for their school.

You are the most stupid idiot I have seen on Nairaland. You are stupid and a fool for typing nonsense.
Travel / Please I Need Advice I Want To Go Teach English Abroad by Chidike200: 2:13pm On Aug 05, 2022
Hello house,

Please which is the best country to teach English, also which is the best and easiest I can enter as soon as possible.

I'm tired here and I don't want to be depressed in this country.

Chidike.
Romance / Re: He Caught Me Cheating 3 Times And Forgave Me – Lady Gushes Over Boyfriend by Chidike200: 1:05pm On Jul 28, 2022
Playloaded:
According to the lady, her boyfriend forgave after he caught her cheating three times.

A Nigerian lady has taken to social media to celebrate.

According to the lady, her boyfriend forgave after he caught her cheating three times.

She could be seen vibing with her man in a video posted online.

She wrote:


https://www.playloaded.com.ng/he-caught-me-cheating-3-times-and-forgave

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CgfRlAzqxi5/

He go still dump her soon

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