sweetjohn:
Lol. Shameful.

To all Islamic terrorists, no amount of lies, propaganda and fake sympathy against Israel will make Israel shake a bit. Israel mean you guys this time around.

I am the most excited human on earth today. I just read that Israel is planning another attack on Iran. They said the Oct 26th attack was in response to Oct 1st attack and now they are planning a second attack on Iran for an attack against their PM, Natanyahu. And my joy was full when Iran foolishly said they will respond after discovering that Israel Oct 26 attack on them was huge. This Islamic idiot don’t even have sense at all. Been praying for this. Bc how can Israel allow that useless supreme leader still breathing. E pain me o no be small. Thank God they have waken up to effect that reality.

For those crying and saying rubbish, that without the American Israel will be destroyed. Now let me give you Islamic buffoons little history:
1. Israel and America entered into alliance in 1978. That was the year America started giving Israel financial and military aid and Israel in return started supporting America with innoventions, technology and intelligence.
2. Israel gained independence in 1948, 30 years before they entered into alliance with the Americans
3. The whole Arab nations ganged up to fight Israel in 1948 and Israel without America defeated all of them.
3. The Suez war (1958) with Egypt. Israel won without America in the equation
4. The 6 days war (1967). The whole Arab again fought Israel and in Just 6 days, Israel defeated all of them. This is without any weapon coming out from America or Europe to Israel.
5. War of Attrition (1970). Again Israel defeated Egypt all alone.
6. Yom Kippur war (1973). Again Israel defeated Egypt and Syria all alone.

It was in 1978 that Israel decided to enter into alliance with US for financial and military support. And the reason is simple, wars are expensive and building high quality military arsenals are very expensive. Israel is not just a small country but a tiny one at that. They don’t have that financial capability to develop such weaponry but they have they innoventions and technology to develop huge arsenals. No country can even developed all weaponry not even Russia or China. Secondly, US don’t want Israel to be close to Russia. Bc Israel and Russia has good relationship before which include purchase of military weapons from Russia. So US has no option than to accept such alliance. US can never do anything that is not of her interest including alliance with Israel or Saudi Arabia. Bc it’s same alliance they have with Israel they do with Saudi Arabia the only different is that Saudi Arabia is a big country and has lots of lots of money.

Bullfallo:
Nigeria tax system is unfair.

Let assume we have two state. A and B.

State A. Have sane population who are productive. Because of their level of education they have 2 or 3 kids and while a hand full of the population refuses to settle down because of fear of the unknown and as they live on budget.

They pay tax and contribute immensely to the development of the country with a monthly IGR of 100 billions and their total population is 10 million.

Majority of this money is used to subsidize electricity and petroleum product for the general public.

While state B. Is the opposite of state A. they have a total population of 60 million, majority are in adject poverty. They contribute 5 billion to the country monthly IGR. They benefits from the electricity and petroleum subsidy.

The also benefits more for the civil and public employment ratio.

Now the country is left with 30 billions after other expense and need to be shared back to the state for projects and development.

State B need the lion share because of her population.

Does that make any sense to you?

It only means people from state which chose not to have more kids in other to control their budget are not finding the kids of state B which choose to have dozens.

This unbalanced sharing formula can kill productivity and creativity

immortalcrown:
Since she said that Oyedepo's prayer is what made her a minister, I wonder whose prayer is preventing her from becoming a minister now. Or, has Oyedepo stopped praying for her?

Added:
For those quoting and telling me that God gave her the position, you are totally wrong. God gives potentials. Humans decide what to do with the potentials. What you do with your potentials position you for opportunities. What you do with your potentials determine what you benefit from the opportunities. It is the same way you have the choice to either use your ability for righteousness and inherit God's kingdom or use the ability to swim in sin and go to hell.

Intelligence is what God gave Betta Edu. She chose to utilise the gift to get herself career development opportunities. The career development earned her the political appointment, the same way her corrupt practices earned her the termination of the appointment. Another person can get the same gift and use it to japa. Are you aware that she served as a commissioner for many years and also served as the national president of a medical association without crediting those positions to Oyedepo's prayer? Are you also aware that her tenure as a commissioner was under Wike's governorship tenure in River State? Ask yourself now who between Oyedepo and Wike played a vital role in making her a minister.

In conclusion, her intelligence is from God but where the intelligence takes her to is her own effort. God gives talent but man decides what to do with the talent. Oyedepo's prayer didn't make Edu a minister.

Georgry:


There is a very tiny line between being ungrateful and yielding to godfatherism, I don't pity Fubara at all, he knew exactly what he was signing up for, if someone single-handedly brought you out of nowhere and make you the governor of River state, the person owns you now, be it Nigeria or America, that person simply owns you, that's why in America, they make it very hard for any single individual to have absolute influence on an election result..

Fubura knew this, he accepted it wholeheartedly, Wike even locked a prospective governorship candidate up days before the primary election, and now he's playing dumb.

he who rise by godfatherism should die by godfatherism, I have no fvck to give.

EngineerOloye:


Rather FG should ensure that those exporting it do so at international rates, but Government keeps the marginal difference of extra profit the marketers would have made. Hence, there will be no special incentive to sell abroad other than for increasing market.
That will ensure we have more dollars, keep the price down locally

franchasofficia:
You are an ignorant kid and that is why many of you commit crime foolishly thinking its smartness until you are caught one day.

What she did is Obtaining By Tricks popularly known as OBT which is a form of internet fraud/scam scheme that is under the jurisdiction of EFCC crime control.


Advertising a service to the public using internet platform or whatever platform to lure people into paying you money only to default from rendering the service they paid you for is a crime punishable under law.


When this scammer girl perfects in this petty scam of defrauding guys online in the name of rendering sex related services, she would advance to a higher level of scam which would hurt many people and possibly scheme them off their hard earned money after they pay her and not get the service she promised to render.



Please stop being ignorant in the name of trying to appear morally upright, condemn illegality and crime whenever you see one irrespective of whether it aligns with your moral standard or not.


Have a good day

kettykin:
Nice . Lagos to Abidjan $15b and Enugu to Cameroon $ 300m . How I'll these loans be paid back.
.if have my say I will commence onitsha to Aba to Yaounde expressway via uyo , calabar as this will boost the export of Aba made things as well as boost trade. And there will be hopes of paying back the loans

Rizzputin:
Most single mothers are sweet, caring and supportive when they like you.

In fact, they can be so caring and well mannered you'd want to marry then asap.

But... it's a trap. They're merely pretending. Once they get what they want from you (marriage), her bad side will start showing.

Take note, I didn't say "true colour" Because someone's true color isn't just their bad side. It's a combination of good and bad. So, once she gets married to you, the bad side of her true color will show. And some times, it may not be a bad side you might want to deal with or handle.


The second reason why you should never marry a single mother is because she has a hidden resent for men. Her story is typical amongst single mothers. Their exes are always "deceiving" them.

But regardless of how sad their ex story is, she CHOSE to date him. CHOSE to sleep with him unprotected. So even though her ex will get a majority of the blame. She gets the blame too. No matter how bad she paints her ex, it's the same man she opened her legs for and had a baby with.... and it's the same man that's now the father of her child...

Which brings me to the third and biggest reason....

No matter what you do or sacrifice, no matter your love for each other.... that child will always be above you in her heart & mind. The child's needs and wants will be placed above yours.

Which means a strong connection and attraction will always be to her ex. Her ex can use the child to get to her heart and between her legs again and again.

Worst of all, the ex can make life a hell for you if he wants the child to come and stay with him. If the woman doesn't agree, you'll find yourself entering into a war you shouldn't be in.


On that note, the best thing is to repay her in whatever capacity she has supported you and bid her fare well.

The only time I MIGHT consider a guy marrying a single mother is if the father of the child is dead.

If not, it's a bad idea

CrystalTiger:
I can't find words to describe you honestly 😠..God forbid that people actually celebrated your birth, you ought to have died in the womb, you this useless unfortunate being..

After you were almost bathed by hot water and found out you were still one of the many dicks ravaging a worn-out poverty stricken pvssy, you still went ahead with the same devil?..

Kai, if I could see you, I'd wrap you up, put you on the roadside, pay a Dangote driver to run you over multiple times.. You're not supposed to be alive telling this story, I hope the depression kills you because it's obvious you're not done simping..

Klass99:
The first woman who commented to say married life is not easy just sounds naive and clueless. What did she honestly expect or think it would be like?

Didn't she grow up in a two parent household to see what parents go through and how their needs often take the back seat for the sake of their children? What am I saying sef, even a one parent household ought to teach you that.

Please what do they teach intending couples in pre-marital counselling? Because some things are basic common sense knowledge from just watching our parents or other married folks in our world and space. You can learn valuable things from simply observing others.

Zonefree:
A female Nigerian student would slave for her school boyfriend for 4-5 years without complaining.
-She'll cook and serve the young man and his friends.
-Wash his clothes.
-Clean and tidy his rooms/kitchen.
-Wash his toilet.
-Attend to his sexual needs in marvelous ways.

All these for free!

Same girl will get married and start to complain after just 8 months that house chores are too much for her. Same chores she was doing for her school boyfriend for years without complains!


If you want to practice feminism, stay in your father's house! As long as marriage is in your dictionary and you're getting married in an African settings, get ready to work!

Lazy dimwits!

Love800:
I have a question bothering me.

If one goes to a major seminary and after graduation, can he get a normal job apart from being a priest?
Is a seminary certificate, a degree?

You've been asking this question for a while now... Except you're not the same person.

A Seminary Degree is not really useful in the corporate world.
Here are my suggestions to you:

1. Take up a lecturing or administrative job in your seminary.
2. Do a Pgd programme in courses like Guidance and Counselling and pivot.
3. Join the para-military (NDLEA, Customs, etc). Most paramilitary org don't bother about professionals much. Just be a graduate and you're good to go.
4. Join the military
A. As a Chaplain through Direct Short Service (DSSC) Recruitment (Air Force officer Cadre recruitment is currently on. Apply. Na only church for barracks/base you go dey work as Chaplain). Army Officers Cadre Course 28 just passed out last Month. As a Chaplain Officer, you are very much guaranteed of a soft life. Your max limit after 35 years is Colonel (Army), Group Captain (Air Force) and Navy Captain (Navy).

B. As a Combatant (SSC). You get to be an Infantry, Armoury or Artillery Officer... You will mostly be in operational grounds (NE, NW, ND). You will fight Boko Boys, Militants, Bandits and UGM. Just very small percentage (with strong backing) will end up in other corps such as Finance. Your rank limit after 35 years will be a 1 Star General (Army Brigadier General, Navy Commodore, and Air Commodore). Just be a graduate in any discipline and you can apply for this.


Finally, if you're still young in age, get a job in your seminary if you don't want uniform work and don't want anything to do with being a priest. Then do Pgd and establish a new career.

NwaAmaikpe:




Women will forever remain a wonder.
Some things about them start to make sense and just when you are almost certain of your mastery, they get you totally confused again.

Isn't it ironic that if Janice Combs were 40 or 50 years younger, she'd be considered an evening newspaper, but here is an 84year old looking like a bestselling Encyclopedia.
Just like wine, women get better with age.

But not our Naija women.

Those ones will only take care of themselves to get a man, and once they've gotten one, all the effort ends. Fashion vanishes, they'd ditch fancy lingerie for wrappers and Adieu Papa tshirts.
Some won't bathe except when on their periods, others will perpetually wear wigs on unkempt hair and the very majority of them have bulgy shapeless tummy.

With the girdles, tights and all, it is faster for a mechanic to couple a new engine than for a man to undreśs a fully dressed Naija woman.

You can't eat six wraps of fufu with two bottles of orobo Pepsi and watch Zeeworld all day in bed then expect a waist trainer to do magic.

I don't blame them, I blame our men and it's just a shame that Nigerian men have no taste; anything goes for them and that's why Nigerian women can't be bothered.

There are some pregnant women I've seen and wondered if it was truly a man that impregnated them or it was artificial insemination.

God knows that I'd rather mastùrbate than cavort with a lady of low sex appeal.
If an 84year old still endeavors to look sex appealing, Hanty, what's your own excuse?

With that said, the one thing I know about women is that there's something in every woman that makes them special to at least one person, woman-centric me.

papyjaypaul:
Professor Wole Soyinka describes literacy as the ability to read and write in ANY LANGUAGE. Education is formal and informal, manyof you think formal education is the only pathway to success in life.

You have a white construct of education, success and failure when you only see things from their lens. An average Hausa man can speak, write, read and listen to his language through the radio but you call him aboki because you do not understand the language of his education.

A Yoruba man is shouting "Oshodi-Mile 12" and directing you to enter, paying taxes and taking you from one place to the other but you call him razz because he does not speak the language used to enslave you.

The Igbo man is selling okrika but it is beneath you to bend down select while he is doing import and export, doing marketing and sales.

The educated person is looking down at the Aboki who polished his shoe he will wear to enter the bus that agbero will carry him to his destination in a cloth sold by the Igbo man. He is carrying the papers around with a tie in the heat, yet has no job. The people he is looking down at are feeding themselves and their families, they are doing something with their time. Educated person is analysing online, begging for data, unable to use his education to solve real life human problems. Who is defining success

IyaTola:
I can sense the frustration, self-doubt, and despair in your words. First, please know that you're not alone, and many people face similar struggles.

*You are not a failure*

At 41, you've got experience, skills, and knowledge. Recognize your strengths and accomplishments, no matter how small they may seem.

*Breaking free from low self-esteem and fear*

1. Acknowledge and accept your emotions.
2. Identify negative self-talk patterns and challenge them.
3. Focus on your strengths, skills, and achievements.
4. Set realistic, achievable goals.
5. Celebrate small victories.
6. Seek support from friends, family, or a therapist.
7. Practice self-care (exercise, meditation, hobbies).
8. Learn to reframe failure as an opportunity for growth.

*Overcoming fear of failure*

1. Recognize that failure is a natural part of growth.
2. Break down large goals into smaller, manageable tasks.
3. Develop a growth mindset.
4. Take calculated risks.
5. Learn from others' successes and failures.
6. Practice positive self-talk.
7. Visualize success.

*Revitalizing your career*

1. Update your skills to match industry demands.
2. Network and attend industry events.
3. Highlight transferable skills.
4. Consider freelancing or consulting.
5. Explore related industries or roles.
6. Create a strong online presence (LinkedIn, personal website).
7. Seek guidance from mentors or career coaches.

*Starting fresh*

1. Don't view it as starting from scratch; leverage your experience.
2. Focus on building a strong foundation.
3. Set clear goals and timelines.
4. Surround yourself with supportive people.
5. Stay positive and persistent.

*Depression and mental health*

1. Seek professional help (therapist, counselor).
2. Talk to trusted friends or family.
3. Practice self-care.
4. Join support groups.
5. Prioritize mental health.

*You can still make it at 41*

Many successful individuals achieved their goals later in life:

- J.K. Rowling published Harry Potter at 32.
- Stan Lee created his first comic at 39.
- Vera Wang became a fashion designer at 40.
- Julia Child published her first cookbook at 49.

*Actionable steps*

1. Schedule a therapy session.
2. Create a list of your strengths and accomplishments.
3. Set specific, achievable goals.
4. Reach out to friends or mentors for support.
5. Start learning new skills or updating existing ones.

Remember, your life is not wasted. You have the power to change your narrative. Take small steps, and progress will follow.

Keep in mind that I'm not a mental health professional. If you're struggling with depression or severe anxiety, please seek immediate help from a qualified professional.

Mynd44:
So some friends and I sat down to discuss the way a lot of women act and yeah we got past the whole calling females (in this case not all but a lot) "Fish brains". Nah they ain't fish brains, they just think like and act like fishes. It is somehow derogatory but seriously the we found some home truth.

Okay, how do you catch a fish? You bait a hook and send it down right? I ain't talking about the casting net yet. Now a fish sees the hook, sees the line but cannot avoid the bait and it thinks it is smart enough to eat around the hook without getting caught (Fatal flaw) that's when it realizes it is headed for the surface and sure death. That's how girls are even the seemingly intelligent and religious ones (I hope you realize that by "girls" I mean a huge number and not all right?) well they always love to want to think they are smart enough to go around hooks and never get caught and they can maneuver their way out without a scratch, we know better.

Another point is that the game of women is fishing not hunting. Okay, you can hunt for fish which in this case is a game for special fishes and not the normal ones(the problem is that too many normal girls think they are special). Forget the running after them, all you need is to fish and girls will willingly show up at your door. You know how? Show something around you off. Just throw it around a bit and keep at it. Look some will be fast to call you a jerk or a backside but those ones are the fastest to get caught .

Also "The best way to get a lady's attention is to pay attention to everything around her except her." Invoke that natural insecurity among girls that makes them doubt if they are good enough. It is very cool and cheeky and a good way of playing reverse psychology, look you might say only small boys play and you will rather go for a girl but what's the fun in that? that's too easy na, it is more fun to play with their minds and heads. Most canivores play with their prey sometimes, enjoy it, dont bother. And when she thinks you are least into her, move in.

Okay have you seen a school of fish swim into a fishing net before? The get caught and more still swim into it. It is not like they are silly or gullible, it is fish nature and now, girl nature. surround yourself with ladies and you will get more ladies. That is a trump card. The think like a fish nature of girls is true and here. No girl wants a guy no other girl wants. Look forget that she says she wants a guy with only her, she still wants others to find you attractive. That is what girls do, it is like a darned competition to them to "have" the one everyone else is interested in and so be envied which is why they continually brag about their man.

Oh all these points might be cool and all but one word gets it. Women are curious....... A lot more curious than men. I knew this a long time ago. The most powerful thing to get girls is curiosity. They want to know what it feels like to try something (Fish nature again ) dont make the mistake of putting all your chips down with a lady except you are a mind reader or extremely crazy person like Outlander. So make em curious, invoke this power and that girls will look for you. Her quest to know will be like a drug which will always bring her around and make her keep coming. Now this curiosity they feel is what most girls describe as "attraction" in most cases which they dont know their minds is just tricking them. A dark side which they want to know of is just cool and works like magic.

Now this leads me to a very important fact "Curiosity has gotten more girls laid than any other thing in history"

and oh all these won't work if you have regard for people. For you to apply these, you must have killed the side of you that shows empathy and the side that takes pity on others. You must be willing to see girls as a price and not humans. You must be heartless and dark and with each one you take down, you lose another piece of your soul but it is fun

Well what else can I say? Have fun people. The funny thing is that a lady will still read this and will fall for the same tactics barely 24 hours later, FISH NATURE

Masterviolence:
Whether the target is dead or alive, it does not alter my assertion that Hezbollah, along with its ally Iran, are misguided in their strategies.

Among all the nations in the Middle East, Afghanistan remains the only one that truly understands the art of warfare, capable of sustaining tactical operations against a far superior force, regardless of who the opponent might be. Hezbollah, on the other hand, engages in more rhetoric than actual combat.
Despite their bravado prior to any serious conflict, Hezbollah has long been perceived as an immovable force by many, hence the widespread but misplaced calls for support. However, I hold a different perspective, recognizing that Hezbollah would be easily crushed, much like Hamas, if Israel were to launch operations in the north.

Don't misunderstand me, Hezbollah's combat personnel are undoubtedly brave and resilient. But courage alone does not win wars, for bombs and bullets are indifferent to human strength. Hezbollah's primary focus has always been offense, yet even that is of questionable quality. Their greatest flaw, however, lies in their lack of integrated defense systems.

All they possess are offensive missiles, yet no formidable air defense capabilities. How do they expect to fare against an Israeli military that can relentlessly bombard from the air without concern for civilian casualties? From the moment the IDF began flying over Beirut for hours without facing even token resistance from Hezbollah, no intercepts, not even firecrackers, it became clear to me that Hezbollah was on a path to self-destruction.

As of now, 90% of Hezbollah's command structure has been wiped out, and the war they have been agitating for has not even begun. I am confident many of these deceased commanders relied on iPhones and other Western-made electronics, because the frequency of their deaths by airstrikes suggests Israel has precise knowledge of their locations, sending drones and missiles to eliminate them with chilling accuracy.

War is not about shouting death to your enemies or posturing on camera. War respects neither race nor religion. To win, one must assess the strength of their adversary and engage from a position of advantage. Hezbollah, by firing missiles that Israel’s air defense intercepts at an astonishing rate of 70%, while having no means to defend against Israeli airstrikes, achieves nothing but its own demise. Israel, with an 80% success rate in its strikes, holds an undeniable advantage.

Iran, too, will meet a similar fate if they fail to invest in their deterrent capabilities and air defense systems.

vanbonattel:
It's actually very realistic Lagbaja, nothing for you (according to my friend, the masked one)

See, you're all going about securing Nigeria the wrong way. By using all your muscle to pound down on innocent unarmed civilians in the south, and going soft in the North, even opening Nigeria borders to countries where terrorists come in freely.

The number of army people parading southern population is so high, army is used to settle land matters in the south, they are even used to beat up errant husbands and girlfriends by their different partners, the army is used to mount checkpoints where boys scouts can even maintain security, they are frequently used to control traffic in the south, in fact, if you pay a little more than what they pay servant girls, soldiers will be washing your plates and scrubbing your floors. They are that useless down south.


Moral of the story: Stop using the army to fight civil masters.

emkz:
Well.

This is a smart move. Obaseki, in his power drunk stupor, even took on the Oba of Benin over the place to keep the looted artefacts that were to be returned.

Was that fight necessary?

When Oba of Benin called Oshiomole, Obaseki, Ize-Iyamu and Shaibu to make peace in 2020, only Obaseki attempted to gloat that he was the chief security officer of Edo State, and the Oba asked him to keep quiet as he was uninterested in hearing Obaseki's rantings.

Obaseki fought too many persons and even the palace became a factor in the politics.

Omoregie Ogbeide-Ihama was seen in a video when he decamped saying he'd deliver Oredo to APC. Ogbeide-Ihama had relinquished his PDP ticket to Obaseki in 2020 only for Obaseki to fight him for control.
So let us ask Obaseki the following question:

How did Obaseki manage to lose the following persons:

(1) Adams Oshiomole?
(2) Nyesom Wike?
(3) Omoregie Ogbeide-Ihama?
(4) Edo legacy PDP?
(5) Philip Shaibu?
(6) Benin Traditional Council?
(7) Dan Orbih?
(8 ) Anslem Ojezua?
(9) Edo elites?

What did Obaseki think he could accomplish with:

(1) Omobayo Marvelous Godwins?
(2) People who sing his praises a,d were too afraid to tell him the truth?

If there is any lesson to be learnt, it is to say if you have a huge financial war chest, but lack people skills, you won't be able to install a successor. Tinubu has been a successful politician because he possesses people skills.

Obaseki caused a rift between Oshiomole and Oshiomole's team when Oshiomole forced Obaseki on them. Obaseki humiliated Oshiomole when Oshiomole kicked him out of APC. PDP gave Obaseki succour only for Obaseki to mess up every one who worked for his second term. Obaseki ended up causing rancour in PDP, divided PDP and PDP went into election divided, as they were divided in the 2023 presidential election.

Obaseki's political enemies joined forces and we now see the result.

I don't know if he was a good governor. If he was, he'd have had the people on his side. If he was and had poor people skills, it would cost him severely.

Dear Governor Obaseki, who are your friends in Edo State? I mean real friends?

Namaster:
Women DON'T want Mummy's boys because Mummy's boys have their mother HEAVILY involved in their lives.

As such, the mother is ready to COUNTERACT every attempt of other women to manipulate her son.

The mothers can spot bitches and witches BETTER than their sons. And being Mummy's boys, their sons listen to them.

Plus a Mummy's boy does NOT lack female attention or affection and that's another weapon in the female arsenal rendered useless.

A Mummy's boy may be spineless or lily-livered but they are NOT easy to manipulate because of their OVERINVOLVED mothers.

That's why women RESENT them. They are virtually immune to their tricks.

It's the same reason women RARELY get along with their mother in laws. Women know how women think. Women know how devious women are.

A man that is close to his mother makes women UNCOMFORTABLE. It's like having a Military Advisor in your army who wrote and developed the enemy's strategy for them.

Finally, the idea that men somehow prefer a Daddy's girl is RIDICULOUS. MOST men have ZERO standards.

It doesn't matter to them whether a girl is a daddy's or mummy's girl or even an ORPHAN, they are ready to WORSHIP any girl that'll have them.

Scarcity mindset has dealt a HUGE blow to men.

Case in point is the young man that recently bent the knee in proposal to a dirty-black, thin girl that puts you in mind of a burnt PANLA and still got REJECTED.

Sammy101111:
This cheat code game belong to which game App
24462
Only legend can know this

bukatyne:
Disclaimer: This is Bukatyne's thread

Nectar is a sweet liquid that is secreted by the nectaries of a plant (flower) and is the chief raw material of honey. https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/nectar

Every girl has nectar inside of her that is supposed to ‘sweeten’ the life of the man she marries. It is the freshness of body, soul, and spirit she brings to the table in a relationship. That refreshing laughter that echoes in one’s mind after it is over.

Unfortunately, this nectar is gradually lost per sexual relationship and if not deliberately kept, is dwindled when the lady (grown girl) is ready to get married. She is no longer the sweet, warm, trusting, fresh girl anymore; she is now a woman carrying the baggage of several wrong relationships and have no nectar to offer her husband who is the right recipient of it.

She is not in tune with herself anymore and can’t choose a good man. If she unfortunately chooses a good man, she does not have that nectar to offer anymore. She has become bitter, mistrusting, and unable to provide warmth to her man (husband).

Sadly, this nectar is hard to replace once finally lost or depleted and takes very conscious effort to replenish. Unlike other qualities (I will call them ‘what qualities’ e.g. education, career/job, physical comportment, home keeping, etc.) that are tangibles and can be easily worked on, this nectar (‘who quality’) is part of your make-up or your core from birth.

Keep your nectar for your husband, it was put in you to bless him!



On a lighter note, this thread should enter the contest of one of my shorter threads yet

P.S.: A conversation with GeneralPula on another thread has given me the corresponding of nectar for men: passion/strength/drive.

99thEnemy:
A guy wakes up in the morning, then he gets a text:

“Good morning handsome, I would love to get breakfast with you, all breakfast on me at this spot right down the street from you”.

Then another message: “Hey there stud, I am going to the gym at 12pm, I would love to go with you. Maybe you could teach me a thing or two, I'll teach you a couple things”.

Then he gets another one: “Hey, having a penthouse party tonight, 9pm, it's gonna be great. You can network with other high status guys that we are inviting. It's gonna be great, and I have some of my girlfriends there as well, all bad peaches”.

Yet another: “Hey, what's up handsome. Just sending you some money because you are so damn good looking”.

Let's say that happens to him for 1 day. he probably would think he is the guy.

Then it happens for 2 days. He is going to think damn he is like Thor. He would feel like he is almost on God mode.

Now this happens for 7 days. Then he thinks he is damn invincible.

He literally would think he is God's gift to women If he got this type of attention and got this type of love every single day for nothing more than the fact that he exists and has a ‘PENIS’.

He would become a piece of shit person, would just sit there and be a low IQ slowpoke. Not read, not better himself , not bother being intelligent at anything.

All the above is an analogy that depicts the life of a modern day girl/woman that gets lots of attention and thinks she is super attractive.

Modified by 99thEnemy

Credit: Myron Gaines

vanitybutiwanti:
Fubara also worked for APC, if not for wikes strong heart, fubara won't be governor today, matter of fact fubara is more heartless than wike, he withheld 4 months allocation of duly elected chairmen who worked for him to be governor, he pushed put commisioners who worked for him to be governor. I'm.not surprised you're an Igbo man, you guys talk about things you know nothing about and you hate wike for no reason, Fubara did not buy form for his preffered candidate to contest the various positions in the state chapter of PDP, fubara also stopped funding the state chapter of PDP, fubara plans to work against the 3 senators and 8 house of Representatives members including the minority leader ok chinda who are not supporting him to fight wike and lastly there is nowhere it was stated in the PDP constitution that the governor is the leader of a party, nobody will hand over the structure to him, even if the NEC meeting is held today, get that into your skull.

vanitybutiwanti:
Fubara has money, tell him to bribe too , as a matter of fact fubara receives average of 60b monthly, all the money he has spent yielded no results.

Wike is simply making use of his contacts and reaping rewards from people he helped in the past, everything is not about money, if it was money, Fubara will be in charge of APC and PDP today, when Adolphus Wabara, Bode George and other BOT members went to See fubara, the neophyte said they should forget who has watered PDP in the past, where is that done? Many of you do not know that wike has invested heavily in PDP in the past and you also fail to realise that Fubara is no saint, he also supported and voted Tinubu to be president, he even named his 2023 budget renewed hope budget. In Rivers state, wike is not alone, 3 senators are behind him , 8 out of 13 Federal representatives are behind him including the minority leader ok chinda, you don't expect PDP to ditch these influential and longstanding members because of fubara, right? Even if the NEC meeting is held, the outcome won't be favourable to fubara, without wike, Bala mohammed won't get second term, 90% of governors in Nigeria today did not win their elections free and fair, and wike is that bridge between APC and PDP, a lot is as a stake that you social media politician know nothing about.

NwaAmaikpe:





We must learn to give the police credit for being able to intercept crypto wallets, apprehend protesters and harrass government critiques and also understand why it is not easy to catch these bandits who display on Tiktok.

Most of these bandits studied Internet Security at Massachusetts Institute of Technology and have interned in global IT firms like Microsoft and Kapersky.
They have mastered how to encrypt their data, mask Internet Protocol and redirect geolocations that not even Putin's Kremlin can break into.

You people just sit behind your cracked-screen 2G Tecno Pop phones and think EFCC apprehending Yahaya Bello requires the same tact and coordination as catching a yahoo boy.

You also don't understand that it is a far harder process with excessive bureaucratic caseworking to extradite Abba Kyari to the US than it is for teenagers guilty of sextortion.

Insecurity has drastically reduced nationwide after our security forces arrested those #EndBadGovernance protesters, but no one has shown a single appreciation to them.

But we are quick to throw tantrums because Joe Ajaero was arrested.
It is very obvious that we do not love our country.

NwaAmaikpe:




Motivational speakers have pushed so many people to their early deaths.
What they do is very easy; they first overbloat our capabilities and then remap our sense of worth.
And they come in many forms; as peers, movies or even folklore.

A man who knows nothing about Forex is made to believe that if he stays awake through the night looking at a screen showing position indices that he will never understand in a billion years, that he can make Elon Musk become his servant in four months.

A man who knows it takes him three minutes to catch his breath after climbing a flight of stairs, will watch a porn where KrissyJoe shags Ladygold for over 30minutes and want to do the same.

I am grateful to God that all the preachings in the world never moves NwaAmaikpe; I am comfortable at my pace and will never wish to outdo myself even for myself, let for anyone else.

Why will anyone let themselves be pushed to assume a capability they don't have.
Why will anyone only aim to please others?

The other day, someone complained about being a one-minute man and I couldn't have been more gobsmacked.

Only a masochist will wish to last for 15minutes during sex when it takes him only 52-seconds to enjoy the pure bliss of cum; then still feel guilty because a lady refused to cum when he was cumin.

That's taking blame for someone else's wickedness and this is why more men are dying nowadays during sex; because they want to impress.

If only they know that that motivational speaker is yet to meet his own needs; if only they know that most porn actors can not even sustain an erection without drugs;
If only they know that after the stomach which only gets pleased momentarily, the kpekus is the most ungrateful part of the human body.

If only they know that this life is a personal race, they will understand the peace in contentment.

Namaster:
You can put her in a scrub and hang a stethoscope around her neck but a BIMBO will always be a bimbo.

A DOCTOR without commonsense!

Also, it's HILARIOUS that many women seem to think that men have a problem with being the SOLE provider.

Men DON'T!

What men have a problem with is being the sole provider for a woman that has seen MORE dicks than a 65-year old PROSTITUTE still in active service.

What men have problem with is being the sole provider to a woman who will talk to him and treat him like an EQUAL when it suits her and act like a damsel in distress when it suits het too.

What men have a problem with is expecting them to be the sole provider for someone that would NEVER do their laundry.

What men have a problem with is being the sole provider because of a vagina that someone FUCCKED with a Meatpie and Bigi Cola.

Problem is women want men to stick to the ancient masculine tradition of being a PROVIDER without satisfying the ancient feminine traditions of being sexually pure, submissive and generally helpful.

It's a kind of quid pro quo. But women want the QUID without providing the QUO.

Kolework!

We trained them and attached them with the police and the army to work in synergy after providing them rifles, bulletproof vests, umbrellas, three sets of uniforms and shoes, among others,” he added.

Many Nigerian Soldiers living in barracks live in one room like this. A two bedroom flat is shared by two soldiers and their families. Shared toilet. Sitting room is usually for the most senior rank.

So, many soldiers (NCOs please) live in places like this.. If you're a junior, your room becomes your everything except kitchen and toilet. And many of them get married and give birth to children there.

Navy and Air Force personnel usually have it much more better though than their army counterparts.

madridguy:
Emir Sanusi should be honest with himself as someone who has traveled to.many countries. How many countries do you see people going around with cows.

It is an old practice, let anyone who want to rear cow buy land and provide them food and water instead of taking them into peoples farm.