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Viraltrends123:
You are just lucky, you know you can't advise anyone to get married after just 3 months. Even my childhood friends, I still don't trust most of them

But this lady dated this guy for three years and still couldn't detect that the guy is just cruising with her.So you can't really know a person expect if God wills it.

I pray that this man will deliver by God's grace.....

Viraltrends123:
Just 6 months, seriously. Haven't you listen to Mr. Reason with me,where a girl left him because she's tired of waiting, need he is a multimillionaire.

As for me, I will go back to our yoruba tradition and islamic way of not dating. Have friends, male friends, female friends, anyone that likes you will have to see your parents first.

Well, I guess that's just my opinion, I dated my husband for just 3months.

Hmmm.....tell her you aren't feeling the relationship again like you used to and that you would want a little break for 3months and that if God wills it, you will both come back together.But meanwhile,do you know that, for the 3years she was with you,she may have sent serious suitors away thinking she was in a courtship with you.


You have already broken her heart with all these thoughts in your head,the earlier you close the deal, the better.Christmas is around the corner maybe God will have mercy on her and give her a better man that she will marry.

To the ladies,any relationship not been concluded officially to a permanent site after 6months should be deserted.

The young man doesn't love this lady,so no point preaching love to him.

wordapostle:
I had that issue after my first child, after 8 years of 3 children I've learnt to live with that. I think it is just in mothers to behave that way. I just pray to God for grace to continually provide for family rather than start shouting of less attention, time, love or meat lol


What has really helped me to get loved as much as my children is helping my wife love the children in little things in the way she understands as love, like helping with assignments, play time, bathing them, feeding them, outing, shopping and going to bank, my children like going to bank maybe because from bank we usually branch shop rite or buy toys that will be lost or damaged the next day.

Husbands are babies to their wives until the real babies come you will know your real position. It may continue this way until your children are grown and leaves your house, then your wife can come back to you.


But some are not not this way. My wife loves and cares for me so much but she puts extra when it's the children maybe just maybe because because they are children

You are a good man and husband.

Hmmmm.... bloggers will not let this man rest now....

Ulunne777:


But when he signed agreement and collected money,nobody heard his voice.

@Op,you are a thief and maybe because of your attitude ,friends couldn't lend to you reason you ran to them.

True shaa.... they didn't force him to collect the money, for him to even collect that loan says a lot about his personality.No family and friends to borrow him 3k.... hmmmm

3k to pay 3700

Hmmmm...

sisisioge:
Maids getting 100k dash money.
Buying 100k diner.

May God punish poverty o. And one husband was calling his wife a liar for failing to feed his family of 3 for a week with 4k. It is well.

... Aunty, the thing taya me....

Beans and potatoes.....

Congratulations.... may God bless your new baby and bring you favour....

Akposy:
Happy birthday to me! Another chance to rewrite my story

Happy birthday dear

Mylordmygod1:
As a National Diploma (ND) holder with upper credit (3.22) in chemical engineering, which i obtained since 2017, i'm still hustling like i never went to school at all..

There was no money to further my HND, as i even managed to finished my ND due to finacial difficulties..

Ever since i finished my ND, life as not been easy for me, i've been hustling together with people that don't even have o level result. It now seems to me like i wasted all the money i spent for my ND days.

I'm currently living in the village, and i'm planning to travel to the city with my National Diploma (ND) certificate for greener pasture..

Can my ND result be useful for me?

What kind of job can i get as an ND holder in Chemical Engineering?

Oga,go and submit your CV at Nestle,Agbara Ogun State before November 2nd..... you won't regret you did.

Lindajames1010:
The only thing I miss is d fact that I wasn't bothered about making money.......

D rate at which I think about making money this days yet nothing is coming in .......that alone make me restless and sorrowful

Seek God's face through prayers..... Only Him can change the situation and give you positive results..... for God's goodness and mercy shall always follow you,all the days of your life.

I was doing amebo on top my brothers Dem head..... ; if you play ball outside,I will jeje wait for Papa at the door to tell....


Free food(mummy's delicacies.... chaiii), not having to think about anything but just schooling.....…children department bible quiz and the gifts that follows, Christmas wears .... and so on....

Abba114:
wow u r back redpill threads are still there go nd criticize them i love it

No be me ooooo..... someone must be impersonating....

Npower ooooo

Rosement:
Your own truth is gamophobia is an offensive. Anyway, the good news is my life is in the hands of God and not in your hands. God will determine my fate not you. Mama, thanks for your concern.

Sure, your life is in the hands of God........

You're welcome ma'am!!!

femi4:
When you are 30 ....you ll definitely come to terms with any form of commitment

Exactly......they don't want to hear the truth....it will all end in Shiloh Las Las....

Rosement:
Mine sis, this is not a blaming game but you are still very confused, listen to yourself you are asking me to leave my own fears and focus on my guy's strength. When you have a phobia, it means you are scared of something, that thing doesn't have to be scary for you to be scarce of it, fear can be caused by anything, even trauma can trigger fear. Other people that have been commenting understand what I am saying, there is no point explaining to you, you won't understand, if you want to enlighten yourself read more on phobias.

My dear, I'm not asking you to do anything, I'm not also blaming you for anything but if you are afraid of commitment in a marriage relationship,then look within yourself......

Rosement:
Madam, phobia is an extreme fear of something, anybody can be afraid of anything, you can be good at something and still be afraid of it.

Madam,what is triggering your fear?Quite funny how you can define key words but have refused to agree that you are the reason for your fear(s).....

Rosement:
Please aunty read the post first so you can understand, I started with if you have a recovery story, please share. We are talking about gamophobia, this is not a gender war. Gamophobia is the fear of getting married or the fear of commitment.

Aunty, you don't get it,do you? you are afraid your partner would not be committed in a relationship but are you yourself going to be committed in that same relationship.We tend to blame everyone and everything but ourselves....If we,as humans works on our weakness.... the world would be a better place.

Rosement:
You are kind of confused, you are probably commenting on the wrong post, I am not blaming any gender or saying I am perfect. I only stated my fears.

No, I'm not confused..... you are the one confused about marriage and that's bringing your fears.From your response, the writing is clear.You are afraid of your future partner and what he will bring to the table but you are refusing to accept that you yourself could be the future problem or person to fall apart.....

Trust... lol... you talk about trust? Can you yourself be trusted?

The earlier you come to agree that you yourself is not perfect,the better.Who told you that the negative changes you are afraid of won't be coming from you.In marriage, you work on your selves to fit in.Women changes faster than men.

She said she wants to ease her self and her bladder was very full....the baby was doing her strong thing.....



her face shows was highly in discomfort....

I'm baffled at nwaamaikpe's comment.. so you can type without any form of subtle abuse?

Please,is today public holiday?did your children go to school today?

VlamesIffect:
But this isn't necessary tho.....

Anyway happy birthday to her.

Explain, please....

But,poster.... I want to ask, what about your church/mosque leader,they know you in person and can assist you.Scammers will not allow genuine people who need help to get help.


Don't worry the favour of God will come through for you.