Typical nigerian men.
See belly na.
Na sh1t sh1t full that belle .


The only enjoyment they know is woman, food, football and beer.

Tomorrow stroke catch them they will say their villagers are after them

I'm sure you and your hubby are Nigerians .

Typical.

Pls stay in your acquired civilized country and give birth to your baby.

Except you want to keep living life of burrowing.

Ending up working throughout life to get a good retirement fund.

Where una go come hide the nigerian passport?

Una go open new account begin beg money.
While using the old one to curse people online.

What kind of story is this. I really hope this is a story.

The 'doctor' is still walking around free

Health care. Health care. Little things we take for granted.

With his money this will surely go under the carpet.
Government busy doing nothing.

......

MrAnonTAC:
Out of anger & the feeling of rejection from him I often think about sleeping with other men to make myself feel better. I've never in my life had a hard time getting sex. I've always had a better than great sex life but now it's non existent. I practically beg for sex & he denies me. When I ask why he gives some excuse about not being in the mood etc. But then I find that he's been watching porn & masterbating. I'm all for masterbation but it repulses me & makes me
so insecure to discover that my husband rather masterbate to porn than have sex with me. It bothers me further that he is also doing it at work. My gut is telling me that he is masterbating at work because someone there arouses him so instead of walking around with a boner he goes into the bathroom & masterbates. These thoughts infest my brain like tiny maggot bugs. I can't take it. Why doesn't he want me Why do I have to beg for sex?? It's been MONTHS! On top of that he won't allow me to have toys or please myself. He gets mad! Honestly I think it's insulting that I have to please myself... So I think about cheating now! ALL THE TIME! I want to hurt his feelings & make him feel rejected & unwanted like he is making me feel. I want to have amazing sex with someone else & have him find out so I can show him that somebody else wants me. I want him to feel my pain. I want him to be disgusted with himself for sexually starving me & neglecting me. I want him to feel this pain. If I could Bleep somebody in front of him I would. I would show him how one man's trash is another man's treasure. I want him to regret ever making me feel like this. A part of me resents him so much. The other day he broke his neck to stare down this rather attractive female in front of me. It hurt my feelings. Even the women in the porn look nothing like me.. It hurts So yea... I'm to a point where I just want to hurt him back & feel good at the same time. I want a huge cock that belongs to somebody else in me.

Source : TRUE ANONYMOUS CONFESSION BLOG

Most guys that abstain from se.x early stages måsterbate alot. Esp the brothers in the church, gays, the ones that girls irritates. They often please themselves and later in life get married due to societal pressure for kids.

My dear, it's either you join him måsterbate of you find your way out.

Cheating is not a way out.

ukay2:
My oga feelamong and other NTB gurus,

please can I have a link for 4th quarter NTB programme calender?

It was pasted end of page 116.

See jobless niggas

After them come nairaland shout feminism.

Thankgod they are now chaneling their energy in something productive. Hunger Don mama their belly

cococandy:


Not like it bad for people to work such hours if they want to, but the small pay and no benefits and no security is discouraging.

Plus most importantly, no one to look into your case if you're harrassed. If you don't like the harassment, your only choice is to quit.
That's the most important part.

Is it not better to open small kiosk and sell my cowbell chocomilo.

Anyway, they are not complaining. If not, they will do something to change their situation

cococandy:


Lol. And making you work all day 7days a week for it.

On Sunday you resume by 11am after service.
Wickedness.

cococandy:


I thought so too.

@bold tell me about about it. If you're working for any private company in NIGERIA, na dem get you be that. You gotta do as they say because they can drop unjustly without repercussions.

With the 20 tassan naira they pay as salary

bukatyne:


@Bold:

On point

I doubt people in real life go about saying I am a feminist etc. bla bla

Your actions tell If you are or are not.

Again, not everyone will be a feminist / Christian /liberal/ conservative etc

@Mizmycoli: nice thread

Afteral, the Bible says 'Love your neighbor as yourself'

You have got to love yourself first which you Now extend to other people.

At bolded, that's why I don't get it when yall engage in endless back ànd forth.

Asking rediculous questions they already have answers to. Who get that time to try and convince

It's either you believe or not. EOD

M

damiso:
Please I want to ask a question following on from the I am/not a feminist label argument that has ensued esp. based on Chillis assertion about women who are enjoying privileges fought for by activists not being want to be called feminists.

Please what are those privileges or rights in NIGERIA that women now enjoy from NIGERIAN Feminist activities? And no I am not talking things like TED talk by Chinamanda I am talking about actual political issues( social and cultural norms are subjective and influenced by location, culture which is quite vast In Nigeria or even family background sef) so its difficult to gauge how that has been influenced by the femisnist movement. I never thought I was less than any boy right from when I was young and that was not even before I knew of the word or movement called feminism.

I want issues like right to vote, right to own property, right to education etc. as these are some of the things that Feminists eg the suffragettes had to fight for in the west. I know there are loads of organisations and people that talk about empowering women financially, culturally etcin Nigeria but I rarely see the insistence on being called 'feminist' organisations like I see on NL.

I personally don't see why anybody cant choose to identify or call themselves anything they want to. I just don't get the flip side on why any woman who believes women can and should be empowered but just chooses not to say ' I am a feminist' is a joker.

A lot of priviledges enjoyed by AAs today was fought for by the civil rights movement but that same movement is not really reckoned with by some AAs today because some believe that organisations like the NAACP have become overtly self serving. Does that mean that those AA's should not vote,get a job, sit on the bus next to a white person?etc. I don't believe they should deride those who are civil rights activists ( like I don't feel feminists should be derided) but why cant they say they 'choose' not to be called one.Afterall some of the rights that they now enjoy was fought for by that movement.

What are you saying? Is it thé joker i called people that made you type all thèse. When féminists are called names.,no one Will find your input but Will quickly find you on thé reverse.

Madam, pls take thé back Seat i dont havé Time for plenty talk.

Edwife, m'y gadget is messing up. Thé french no wan disappear.

If you dont bêlieve in something,your business but dont Also try to rédicule others.

I suggest you and d'amiso should take her advise

ukay2:



OK. I want 365 days NTB come September 3rd...

what of the access bank shares question I asked.?

thanks

I wouldn't buy any nigerian shares. That's just me.

Either I invest in TB until I'm sure of some other profitable biz or real estate investment to do.

Nigerian shares only the inner cabals know when to reap profit off people.

That's just me sha.

edwife:


We have activist for every human right,enjoying the reward is not the problem,the problem here is must i be tagged?

If some of their beliefs or ideologies don't stick with me should i just accept it because they fought for me?

My mother has been working before i even know what feminism is all about and have done well for her and her family without being tagged a feminist,why should I?

You are not a feminist. Simply. I don't know there is a tag for feminist.

My dad is a feminist because of his beliefs but I don't go around calling him a feminist . He doesn't g around too saying I'm a feminist.

His actions shows it.
Non feminist should give themselves another name and leave our feminist name for us abeg.

ukay2:




My oga feelamong.....

Pls help me answer these questions...

Hope fidelity securities ltd are reliable and how long have u use them?
How can I transfer my stocks from investment one firm to fidelity securities?
How much is their custodian and transfer fees.?
How much is their opening account ?

Is NTB bidding for 365 days come 3/9/2015?


Should I buy access bank shares now or I should wait till Thursdays next week for the share to fall down to maybe 4.0 naira?

Thanks my oga.
Waiting for your prompt response.

Before you move your funds, try and compare the basics.

Most of these investment houses have their own %. I think 0.05% or so and how long you will be investing.
By the time, you move your funds, charges , tax etc... will you be on the positive or negative?

Sometimes, Most banks their secondary markets are even better than the primary.

I know I got a better offer from the last secondary market than if I were to take the primary option.

Fatty bumbum.

Funny shoes in bikini

edwife:


Chilli and who are the one typing i am a feminist impressing?

Is there a reward to that? Do they pay people or write your name somewhere ?

There is no better reward believing in something and sticking to it.

I don't have a problem with non feminist.
I have a problem with those that enjoy the reward by the fight of some of these activist , those that preach the same thing the activist are fighting for then turn around and say..

"Pls oh ,I'm not a feminist '

What a joke

Enoquin:


Feminist? Oh, that tickles
If that would make you sleep better, be my guest!

Don't bother about my sleep.
If there is fire in my house, i don't even wake up these days.

So you take care and love yourself better these days.

Glory be to God.

cococandy:
My sister in law just recently lost her job in ecobank NIGERIA because she has a baby.
They don't have time for maternity leave. I don't know of it was because she's a contract staff or what.
Same thing with my aunty of late memory. (May she RIP.) She was sacked after she had a baby by the private company she was working for.

I just dey pity her ( that my sis-in-law) but she was the one advising me to curb my support for feminists as they have 'ruined' America.

I'm wondering what kind of security her anti-feminism has been able to achieve for Nigerian women.

Here you can't sack a woman because she had a baby. Pregnant and nursing feminists will come park in front of your company and you will be on the news for so long the damage control will make you grow white hair.

I guess its because she was on contract. One man(private) company is usually the worst.

They have ruined America yet they use all their savings to get a tiny visit visa and start hiding like refugees in the ruined country

babygirlfl:


Forget all those am not a feminists. People reap the fruit of feminism then shout am not a feminists to impress people.

Who are they impressing?

Mizcoli who are you impressing by typing I'm not a feminist

cococandy:
Actually chillisauce is right.
It's only because people misunderstand or should I say deliberately refuse to understand feminism when feminists talk, otherwise it's easy to see that those those parts she highlighted have everything to do with it.

The thing is nairaland feminist talks never end well so mizmycoli if you have to call or another name to preach the same message, no qualms.

I still dey your back.

So far the message carries on.

She said it tete-a-tete.
Anwolamooo
mizcoli no go kill person with laugh
Tête à tête.

Make I go sleep. Night Don come.

Good night my fellow feminists.

Kimoni:
Oh Lordy Lord
See what we've done to this thread

Mizmycoli - I am soo sorry.

Why you dey apologise. No be feminism thread be Dis?

Pls stay on topic jor.

Kimoni:

3 years without work plus full pay
All hail equality!!!!!





Somebody collect that bottle from Chillisauce

Where did you see full pay!
You are entitled to 3yrs for yoyr second child. Kpomkwem. I no go talk am again.
Make una dey Dia e hear.

The last time I served in Nigeria during nysc, they fired a woman that just delivered her baby because according to them, she won't be very effective .

N'a so she carry her bag go house. I complained. They asked me if I want to join her

Wicked people. I left there after 3months.

Maybe this woman go dey her husband house follow shout I'm not a feminist

Kimoni:


Chineke meee

Cococandy, and you did not tell me since that this is what feminism is about make I don go collect form. Dis kain equality sweet o.. Choi

Chillis, you are drunk! Confirmed!!!

Dey Dia make pant dey wear you.

3yrs o. For 2nd child.

Kpomkwem

That's why I will fight and follow all protest to protect my darling adopted country.
Any protest dem call, I go even carry nakêd breast join enter road.

Dannyabu:
My Wife Lied About Her Age

Four years ago at 35, I married my wife, who I thought was 35. We both wanted children, but unfortunately, she had miscarriage in the second year and stillbirth in the third year. We began consulting a fertility specialist.

After she started asking questions, my wife admitted she is actually eight years older than she had led me to believe. She's 47 years old! She's cried and cried, begging for my forgiveness.

She's gone to try fertility treatments to get pregnant, but I don't want her to continue that for health reasons. I have forgiven her but as an African man; I'm NOT willing to consider the adoption option. She says, of course, that she feared I would walk away if I knew the truth, but she must have known it would come out sometime, somehow. I think I still love her, she is really a wife material, respectful, lovable and very industrious lady but I feel so betrayed! Letting a husband believe you're years younger than you are with all the implications for child-bearing, is a grotesque deception. Sometimes, I'm always wondering if some things she says are the truth. Moreover, after all the wahala and years in-between, her beauty has really waned. She now looks old! We have become butts of joke from neighbours and even strangers when they see us walking together. I look way younger than she is.

I think of getting another wife, but that has not been my person. I think of divorce, but where do I start? Have I wasted 4 years of my life just like that? We still have faith that miracles do happen. Our pastor has asked me to forgive her and move on, that my ability to forgive her will make her more loyal and obedient to me. She is a naturally good person, but for this act of deception.

Maybe if my wife had been honest with me from the beginning, knowing her age I would have adjusted my planning and expectations for children. But she lied. Should I prove her right in her assumption that when I found out the truth, I would walk away? Any thoughts on helping us get through this? I have given all my resources to make this marriage work.

I need matured and sincere advice please!

The marriage is a fraud .
You can get a divorce and run for your life.
Or you can forgive and work your way out.

47yrs?
Pls go and adopt if you want a child abeg.
Let her not even try again to get pregnant. She should be retiring at this age.

Enoquin:
Beautiful! I wanted to open a thread about something like this but you beat me to it and rightly so because I procrastinated.

I love EnoQuin because it is only after I have loved her that I can truly love someone else. And yet it isn't a narcissistic kind where I believe myself above faults.

That is why it unsettles me when I see posts from ladies who believe it all begins and ends with a man. Yes, men have their value but so do women!

Loving your self is also valuing yourself and you will find that in doing that you subconsciously set a standard even for yourself.

An example: I found out last year that whenever my bae came to town I served him/us better than I served myself. If it was a meal like eba. I'd bring the washing bowl, hand wash, hand wipe, put the plates in a tray, open the water and pour in a cup and then we'd both settle down to a meal.
But when I was alone, even though I ate little; I'd use a wide plate, put small eba on the plate. Put my soup plate on the space of the eba plate, neglecting the tray. Sometimes, I'd pick a bowl of water, other times I wash my hands at the sink. An haphazard sort of service. To me it didn't matter, it was me serving me.
But why should me serving me be worse than me serving anyone else? Did I regard others more than I did myself?
And so the change began. I starting serving myself as I would another I loved.

Feminist!!

Another one.

Now I can take my whiskey and go to bed.

Job well done!

C'est fini.

Africa ôn the rise!

2sex:
Well said brother. I will add ladies should learn to contribute in a man's life value-wise. I don't know about other guys, but sincerely, sex is just no way to connect with me. There has to be something you offer that isn't readily available elsewhere.

Personally, I am a chronic lover-boy, romance or romantic personified, albeit they often abused it, thus my resolve to hide that part of me... I love a woman who has a mind of her own, who believe she can work to earn something no matter how small, one who strive to better her lot, without a man in it

I also don't like ladies whom, when asked a question, they reply with "I don't know" no matter how simple the question is. It shows level of shallowness, inability to make decisions.

This is what I'm talking about.

Another feminist!!!

Yippee.

Africa ôn the rise again

Kimoni:


you are drunk jor abi wetin consign feminism with this thing wey she write so

If I ask you tomorrow what you wrote and you remember, I'll believe you

So you mean you can't see relationship between her topic and feminism.

What do you think i have been preaching in this section.

Is this not crackhaus
Abi na Truckpusher

*wears my glasses*

babygirlfl:


Nne abeg no dieooo. Chillis has a way of saying the truth even in a funny way. She always cracks me up.

My dear check am now, she has a name for it. Tête a tête

Opoko.

Make una dey Dia dey shout I'm not a feminist.
E no concern moi.
I'm reaping the friut of feminism.
3yrs maternity leave with pay!

All hail feminism .

If na Nigeria you carry belly, the next thing you will see its sack letter.

TWah!