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Fashion / Re: Checkout This Trending Zip Hairstyle From Ibadan... by chinsmama: 10:28pm On Jul 16, 2016
They are the pace setters state,others can follow grin
Religion / Re: Catholic Church Baki Iku Destroyed By Muslim Youths For Worshipping On Friday by chinsmama: 10:07pm On Jul 16, 2016
kekakuz:
the way ofparadise in the the way of the sword. that is what their holy book teaches
so what do you expect.
peaceful religion my butt
yet we don't have sword mentioned in our holy book but you have 200 mentioned in yours
Religion / Re: Catholic Church Baki Iku Destroyed By Muslim Youths For Worshipping On Friday by chinsmama: 9:57pm On Jul 16, 2016
kekakuz:
the way ofparadise in the the way of the sword. that is what their holy book teaches
so what do you expect.
peaceful religion my butt
yet we don't have sword mentioned in our book but you have about 200 mentioned in yours
Politics / Re: Goodluck Jonathan Remembers Yar'adua 6 Years After by chinsmama: 1:51pm On May 05, 2016
dwen:
it[s][/s] is very obvious that you inherited this goat brain from your father, because you sound as stupid as Him.
you don't have to insult anyone if GEJ issue is so painful you relocate to another planet. Haba !!!
Celebrities / Re: Genevieve Nnaji Stunning Look At An Etisalat Event (photos) by chinsmama: 11:20pm On Mar 24, 2016
Always looking beautiful

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Travel / Re: Woman Blasted For Photoshopping Her Trip From Kenya To China (Hilarious Photos) by chinsmama: 7:13pm On Mar 04, 2016
undecidedHer china her headache now,who cares
Celebrities / Re: Anything Wrong With Mercy Aigbe's MakeUp? (PICS) by chinsmama: 4:50pm On Feb 22, 2016
Is beautiful joor
Business / Re: N50 Stamp Duty: 10 Things You Need To Know by chinsmama: 11:49am On Feb 22, 2016
Only if such money will be used for the benefit of all abi 'am affected too infact I've been receiving alerts on it

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Foreign Affairs / Re: Mandla Mandela Converts To Islam, Marries For The 4th Time by chinsmama: 3:30pm On Feb 11, 2016
ApenaEde:
Dis is a big head ache 4 infidels. Infidels ( Korinyo) ar sad as they read this. Islam na d way, others ar blunders.
Yes oo tell them

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Celebrities / Re: Sikiru Adeshina A.k.a Arakangudu Is Dead by chinsmama: 5:37pm On Feb 09, 2016
Eyaa!RIP
Nairaland / General / Re: Cow Shedding Tears After Seeing Knifes They Would Use To Kill Him (photos) by chinsmama: 3:26pm On Feb 04, 2016
undecidedIt is completely forbiden in islam to show to animals the weapon by which they will be killed.Very inhuman

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TV/Movies / Re: Korean Movies Chatroom by chinsmama: 8:10am On Jan 24, 2016
What are the latest on Korean movies?Someone should please respond
Food / Re: Free School Meal By Countries Including Nigeria by chinsmama: 9:01pm On Jan 18, 2016
[color=#990000][/color] undecided lies,why are the food served on the same table and on the same kind of plate in all these countries,do they have the same catera?
Romance / Re: A Short Story- Moral For The Ladies by chinsmama: 4:59pm On Jan 07, 2016
Ah! What a story,to the girls out there always look before you leap
Celebrities / Re: Uche Iwuji: ''I Am Sex-Starved But Waiting For My Ex-Husband by chinsmama: 5:57pm On Jan 02, 2016
Pray your ex come back to you, that's if his still available
Education / Re: 10 Ways To Read And Understand by chinsmama: 12:29pm On Jan 02, 2016
Well done op,quite interesting
Car Talk / Re: Accident At Car Stunts Show In Kano (Photos) by chinsmama: 7:20am On Jan 02, 2016
undecidedChei,you can imagine
Romance / Re: If He Doesn’t Have These 20 Qualities, He’s Not Your Soul Mate by chinsmama: 6:55am On Jan 02, 2016
Though,having about 16-18 qualities out of this is also a good sign
Romance / Re: If He Doesn’t Have These 20 Qualities, He’s Not Your Soul Mate by chinsmama: 6:53am On Jan 02, 2016
[/quote][quote author=izuch post=41565161]If there’s someone in your life with these 20 qualities, don’t let go.

It’s easy to list what you find unappealing in a potential mate, but identifying the qualities that make someone desirable for the long haul is a slightly tougher task. What exactly qualifies a person to fulfill the role as your life partner? Not everyone runs a mental checklist before taking the ultimate leap — some just know. But regardless of whether or not you choose to follow that instinct, it doesn’t hurt to validate that he or she is the one.

To distinguish between someone who’s good for right now vs. someone you want to wake up next to every day, consider the following list. If there’s someone in your life with these 20 qualities, don’t let go.

1. Supportive of your passions and decisions.

He or she should be your biggest cheerleader and encourage you to pursue any endeavors despite how it may affect them.

2. Adds value to your life.

Not in terms of monetary value — your partner should contribute a quality that inspires you to grow, whether that means he or she is smarter or more ambitious than you. (But make sure you can provide the same.)

3. Can be completely silly with you.

“Till death” is a long ride that should be filled with the most fun moments. Along the way, they shouldn’t have a problem being playful with you or exposing their inner child without inhibition.

4. Adores you.

Even if you’re not one who needs the validation, your partner should show how much they love and adore you without necessarily putting you on a pedestal

5. Is willing to compromise.

The two of you will never not disagree on something, so make sure he or she is open-minded to your needs and desires, too.

6. Treats your family just as well.

If your partner shows zero respect for your friends and family, it’s hard to ignore, even if he or she has no problem showing their appreciation to you.

7. Values your opinions.

Your partner doesn’t have to agree with you at all times, but he or she should be able to respect your beliefs (without imposing theirs on you) despite them being different from their own.

8. Loves him/herself as much as they love you.

The best partner is someone who can stand alone without constantly depending on your company or attention. He or she should be comfortable with themselves and be totally secure without you there.

9. Trustworthy.

Even if every other aspect of your relationship is solid, the power of doubt is hard to dismiss. Problems down the road will be inevitable if you’re constantly second-guessing their honesty (and vice versa).

10. Exhilarates you, doesn’t deplete you.

Your partner should make you excited about life and its offerings. He or she should never make you feel bad about yourself or diminish your spirit in any way.

11. Has a life outside of the one you share.

It’s important for your SO to understand that you have a life of your own and to encourage you to enjoy things without him or her.

12. Doesn’t hold grudges.

Despite any bumps in the road, your life partner should seek to improve your relationship rather than dwell on any setbacks.

13. Brings out the best in you.

Your partner should not provoke your inner worst qualities — only the ones that make you a better you.

14. Loves all of you.

This includes your flaws, especially. Your personality traits don’t come à la carte so he or she should be able to embrace you as a whole, shortcomings and all.

15. Accountable.

He or she should be able to put aside their ego to be held accountable for any mistakes. Your partner should own up to them rather than place blame on someone or something else.

16. Allows him/herself to be vulnerable to you.

Communication will prove to be the hugest challenge if either of you have a wall up. Your SO should feel comfortable enough to confide in you with all of their fears and secrets.

17. Keeps you in check, without dictating.

It can get boring when someone is in constant agreement with you for the sake of not wanting to upset you. When you’re out of line, he or she shouldn’t be afraid to challenge you and respectfully point out your wrongdoing when necessary.

18. Allows you to be you.

It’s difficult to be fully happy in a relationship when you’re forced to suppress any part of you. You shouldn’t feel restricted whatsoever, whether that includes being able to freely pursue your hobbies or to be your silly self.

19. Dependable.

You should always be able to rely on your partner for anything, from emotional support to upholding their commitments. You don’t want to have to waste time worrying about if they’re acting irresponsible.

20. Is easy to be with.

Every relationship comes with its battles but by no means should it be a daily war — that can get exhausting. Although the need for improvement is never-ending, your partner should be your counterpart, teammate, and best friend, and mutual happiness should come with little effort.
Nairaland / General / Re: Christmas Eve: 5 Bad Things That Will Happen Tonight by chinsmama: 7:44am On Dec 25, 2015
Martins301:
If you doubt any of this things then you must be an alien from another planet. III have celebrated over 25 Christmases in Nigeria and I can confidently tell you that these things will happen tonight:

1. People Will Get Drunk
All those beer and alcohol manufacturing companies will make sales tonight cos a lot of people will be getting drunk

2. Today Is A Day Of Unwanted Pregnancies

A lot of girls will end up getting impregnated as a result of wanting to catch fun tonight. First week of January 2016 and alarm go blo

HIV and Other STIs Will Be Freely Transmitted

After getting drunk in a popular joint, you can easily fall for the tricks of those oloshos stationed there to make money. Many of them will get you infected with HIV or any other deadly disease.

4. Fireworks Galore
I can't still understand why sane people will waste their money on knock outs and banger. But this is Christmas eve and that's what happens tonight.

5. ..........

Abeg fill in the rest
grin

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