Hardgun:
Haa okay my mind is at rest even my messenger is not working

Even Facebook hmmm....this is something.

Meek127:
why the hell is this thread on romance section.
its not by force to create o.
lol

Yea.... that was on purpose,so I can get responses ASAP from people about this WhatsApp thingy make my mind calm down....

Thank God I am not alone o.....

I have rebooted my phone so many times,switched to different wifi networks yet nothing....

Other people's opinion about you should not even bother you,as far as you're happy with yourself and you have peace....Just carry on.

People must talk no matter what...


P.S Guys who don't engage in those social vices rock.....bigtime

chatinent:
I don't smoke, drink, womanise, too dey crave for money, watch football, club ...and when sb tells me I ain't normal, I am glad. It doesn't mean I don't have fun, I do in my own special way with fam! We go out too, of course!

Why am I glad? That's what I always want to hear. Because when I am becoming “normal” then there is a problem. But when I am not “normal,” it makes me know I am still very very normal... I even celebrate the news.

What I do when I hear such: I remove squares out of my circles.

Case solved.

Awwwn ..... I am so proud of you.

This book that year,I remember wishing I was inside the book sometimes o because of how colorful everything looked...

Our minds sha....

chatinent:


My heart.

Your heart

chatinent:
I hawk gala to put food on my table. So I should commit suicide because sb doesn't like it?

chatinent:


Thanks. I wanted to drop a love emoji for you. I can't. Come and take my heart in place.

Awwwwn .....Thanks a bunch...

Your heart

I am so sorry for your loss...May God replenish all you've lost in manifolds...

Yea it's very possible....

Relationships are deeper than the good people and bad people thingy....somehow it just works out or it doesn't,whether they are two good people or two bad people.....COMPATIBILITY matters alot,once it's not there,sometimes e dey hard o.

Everything just get as e be sometimes sha....

-I either walk out of that environment

-Listen to music (especially songs from Johnny Drille and Ric Hassani) OR

-Watch movies

Skyfornia:


I believe you...same with me

That's good to know.....

Skyfornia:


Or probably greediness...

What about you, are you faithful to your boyfriend?

I have never cheated in any of my relationships.

JONSYN7154:
abi?

Yes ooo....

Skyfornia:


Why is it so? Why won't people be contented with what they've got?

I really don't know why o....Is it fear? Or lack of trust? I don't even know the reason.

Dupalmer:
Women should tell us their preference. should a man marry two wives or should a man keep a side chick because take it or leave it. everyman cheats but its only when you are caught that you will be termed a cheat. Men need regular sex to function well and to live long.
who is sexing all the girls in the street both runs girls and non runs girls.

I still maintain that NOT ALL MEN CHEAT,just speak for yourself and leave other men alone....

Skyfornia:
Nobody is ready for commitment nowadays...I mean, it is difficult to see a partner that will be committed to one partner. Especially in Lagos...

This one that you mentioned Lagos specifically,lolzzz...

That commitment ish is everywhere walahi....

chatinent:


You that love me, have you ever told me you do?

Ah abeg o,love you ke .....


Don't put me in trouble o,my hand iz noh there o

I just feel she put that out because some men might like clinginess or be clingy themselves but because of our society and how ladies view such men or how guys view their fellow men who are inclined to clinginess,they tend to hide it.

So she just kuku said let her say her own o,so everyone can know and so that any man who likes her can be himself with her incase he is the clingy type or something like that.


Personally,the deal is let's all do what works for us and meet who complements us. It should be from both parties too because we all need to be loved.


If anybody is doing or trying to do one sided love with you,just fashi that person o.

Katridge2021:
Funnily enough, if a guy gives her all these attention, she would not value him. Too much of attention kills attraction.

People are different o....There are people out there that are suckers for attention,once your attention towards them starts dwindling they let go but once its always there nothing shakes the love infact it makes the attraction grow stronger.

chatinent:
Blablabla.

Says sb whose phone is locked with a fingerprint.


Being clingy will fade up equal love.

Love is not selfish that one party should be the one putting in all those energy.

By the way, why must I be the doer! Love is not NYSC! You are not my CDS!!

For her to sound like this,i think she is gonna match up the guy's energy too,he can't do it alone now.

We all deserve to be loved....it can't be for just one person to do.

You call 4 times only?? Wonderful ......

The person should just tell his wife everything and carry his cross after that....He should just face whatever comes his way and learn from it....

What's your take on being clingy??

Yes o....

Greatzeus:
From my own side,my experience with nairalanders offline has been good. I have two nairalanders at computer village I meet when I have any issues or need to buy a gadget. I solicited the help of one to buy a mini laptop for my 8 years old niece,when she broke the screen,I called him and he helped me fixed it for a good price. In fact I left and told him I will send his money,and he said ok,and I sent the money when I had the chance, we're cool like that.
I have also went from Ikeja to Ajah,to meet a female nairalander who needed movies and series. I actually entered her room,sent about 300gb worth of movies and series to her,she sent me my money and I left peacefully
Though she cheated me, because she didn't pay my transport,only money agreed sum for the movies but I didn't mind just cos she's a nairander.
I bought my PS3 from a nairalander also,till date no issues of any kind.
I was supposed to meet another nairalander last two weeks for PS3 games installation but he later cancelled for something urgent I think.

300gb worth of movies.....WOWZY .....

I wish I was her right now,I need movies o.

I have also met really cool,interesting,insightful,
and really wonderful people here,but the fact remains that normal people on nairaland are really few

Dupalmer:
The bitter truth is that everyman cheats so there's no point leaving the relationship especially if he doesn't maltreat you.

Some men actually cheat because they treasure the woman they are "cheating". #hardfact

Most men who are cheats are very caring and generous to their wives especially if she doesn't see evil or hear evil or do evil. Enjoy your man. The ones that will advise you otherwise are either hypocrites or insincere or both.

Make him promise you to practice safe sex outside your relationship and watch his reaction. Thank me later.

What kind of generalization and advice is this sef....Please speak for yourself.

Not all men cheat abeg.....some don't.

OP please don't be with a man who cheats and a man you cannot trust,there are men out there who are faithful and trustworthy,I know it's not gonna be easy when you leave him at first but time heals all wounds....

You will be fine with time....

Yes I can be faithful to one person o,if I can be faithful in a relationship, why can't I be faithful in a marriage....

Pierocash:
she is the worst woman I have ever known. She lacks empathy,lacks affection,lacks contribution. She is a pure definition of a parasite

Pele....so sorry about it....

May God heal your heart. Nairaland stories have really opened my eyes to alot of things. I didn't know guys go through this kinda stuff.

Pierocash:
Ditch the leech. I dumped her after 4yrs . This is just same scenerio. She contributes nothing ,and always demanding which I do give her.

She blatantly told me she can't do anything for me because we aren't married. That was the last stroke that broke the camel's back,I dumped her straight, cancelled every marriage plans. She is doing everything possible to get back,I blatantly told her it is over.

This girls are wicked and heartless

Hmmm this is serious o....And she expects you to do for her....

Some girls sha....