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Autos / Re: I Need A Near Tokumbo Grade V Boot by cj1900: 4:57pm On Aug 08
Peak11:
I have a 230e v-boot padded on offer, even though i can see it is not on your wish list.

Pls can you inbox me your contact details
Autos / Re: I Need A Near Tokumbo Grade V Boot by cj1900: 9:51pm On Jul 29
Sellfish:



Use that 250k import am


Ashiere

Use that 250k import am, I will pay you 5m to collect am. As if I am looking for a toy car. Thanks for stopping by all the same.
Autos / Re: I Need A Near Tokumbo Grade V Boot by cj1900: 9:49pm On Jul 29
Any pointers will be greatly appreciated
Autos / Re: I Need A Near Tokumbo Grade V Boot by cj1900: 9:46pm On Jul 29
Keedyreal:
Reachout to henrypraise on nairaland here he has a very clean one for sale.

How do I do that pls? Do you have a link?
Autos / Re: I Need A Registered Lexus/avalon/benz For 9m Or Less. by cj1900: 7:07pm On Jul 29
Thanks guys. Your feedbacks were very helpful and I finally got a deal.

Thankyou so much.
Autos / I Need A Near Tokumbo Grade V Boot by cj1900: 6:54pm On Jul 29
Hi folks, I am about spending a substantial amount to import Mercedes 300e (V-Boot) and as a final resort, I am looking here to see if anyone has any contact of anyone who has thesame model that is near Tokumbo standard.

Just to clarify as well, I am NOT interested in any other car apart from 300e (V-Boot). I may consider 200 or 240 (flat boot). I am head over hill in love with it hence, I am particular about it.

If you have the tokunbo, pls contact me asap.

If you find someone with whom we finally do a deal, I’ll pay 250k..

Pls help if you can.
God bless.
Autos / Re: Very Clean Mercedes V-boot. (550k) by cj1900: 6:45pm On Jul 29
I will pay 5 million for this grade this year. Anyone has any?
Autos / Re: I Need A Registered Lexus/avalon/benz For 9m Or Less. by cj1900: 11:29pm On Sep 14, 2023
MatrixReloaded:

Go to any car stand or even jiji and search for it. Don't be on faceless forum and demand a sellable car as you seek. Check auto section and browse your desire automobile and reach out secretly to the seller. Stop exposing yourself on NL.

Thanks for the advise. Much appreciated. I have been searching and still searching through those places you mentioned. I just want to weigh all my options but I'll be very careful.

Regards
Investment / Re: Not easy by cj1900: 10:32pm On Sep 14, 2023
Una don start again abi?

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Autos / I Need A Registered Lexus/avalon/benz For 9m Or Less. by cj1900: 10:25pm On Sep 14, 2023
Hi guys, evening.
I am in need of any if the following cars, neatly used in Nigeria.

Lexus Gs - 2012 upwards
Lexus ES350 - 2013 upwards
Toyota Avalon - 2013 upwards
ML350 2012 upwards
E350 - 2014 upwards

Cars that I don't want
Venza
Corolla
Camry.

Scammers are free to try too, whatever you see, you take. Don't ask for mercy.

If you have any of these, pls let me know what you have. I need it ASAP from now until month end.

Thabks and God bless.
Family / Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by cj1900: 2:04pm On Apr 16, 2022
GodisFirst:
There is nothing wrong in him staying with your wife in your absence. You wife will definitely need someone to help her run around on some errands, like going to refill the gas, buy fuel for the generator, even drive her to the hospital or market if she has the need.

If he stays away and you are not there, your wife can invite him or he can on his own come uninvitedly and that which you are afraid of may still happen. It could be between your wife and any other man or boy if your wife is that kind of woman.

What you should worry about is 'the type of woman you are married to'. Is she a faithful woman that can wait for you till you are back? If she is a good woman, she will resist any temptation and even inform you as soon as any man starts making advances to her.

So in conclusion, tell you wife your fears and let her know the dangers so that she wouldn't be carried away by youthful ignorance as you said she is too young, but to alert you as soon as she senses danger. So it is left for her. Don't forget that even while you are with them in the house, if she is a bad girl, she can do that which you are afraid of, right under your nose without your knowledge.

Do your best and hand her over to God. Good luck.

We will get a nanny and house keeper, she can do the house shopping.

As for my wife, I am extremely convinced at this stage that I did not make a mistake in the choice of a wife. She is a good woman and I trust her

The situation I am not ok with is creating an atmosphere where 2 adults of opposite gender will begin to discover each other beyond necessary boundaries. You spoke about helping out, unfortunately, that also is an aspect I don't even want to entertain because with help comes entitlement or worst of all, sentiments.

I have really heard a lot of valuable advises and quite frankly I needed to throw it to the open just to make sure that I am NOT being insensitive if I explain to my cousin that leaving my wife with him is bot really an option I am willing to explore.

Thankyou and thanks to everyone for taking out time to respond. God bless
Family / Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by cj1900: 11:07am On Apr 15, 2022
akinsmyk:
This actually happened to me. In this case, I was the cousin. We’re family members. My brothers mum is the elder sis to my own mum so I was living with them right from secondary school days while we were both teenagers. He’s 3years older than I am.

So when my cousin elder bro graduated from uni and get a good job, he moved out from the family house to get an accommodation on the Island coz that’s where he works. When I finished school, I joined him too coz we have been living in the same room as the only males as a teenager.

Before my bro got married, his fiancé used to come to the house and we gist like friends, we all do hang out together to catch fun and go places together. At times I drive our wife to be to the market or shopping malls in my bro’s car if he doesn’t feel like going.

When they were going to be married, I made move to leave but they said that I can stay. It was a 2bedroom apartment tho and we later moved to 3bed.

2years later, my cousin was transferred to Europe to work living behind the wife and me while working her visa too.

I and the wife stayed 6months together in the apartment before her visa was ready without anyone giving thoughts about rubbish or whatever. My own gf do comes to the house too which they know.

So it’s all about knowing who you married and the kind of brother/cousin you have. If you can vouch for them, so why not. Not everyone is immoral and useless. Some things are just so wrong without being told.

Thankyou very much. I will consider it further
Family / Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by cj1900: 10:56am On Apr 15, 2022
Fiscus105:



Trust her? Yet still doubting her staying with ur own cousin not friends or outsiders oo.

If you cannot trust ur family around ur legal wife how much more outsiders and exes.

I think you should be more concerned about her exes who may likely play rebound ball after several years of separation.

I married her as a virgin. She has not given me any reason not to trust her. Finally, it is not the case that I don't feel comfortable with my family members around, he has been with us for over 5 to 6 months now. My concern is a situation where I leave the house allowing just the 2 of them to stay in the house.

Specifically, there is a natural tendency for humans to grow an attachment when they spend time together and that's where my concerns are..

Anyway, thankyou for your advise
Family / Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by cj1900: 2:57am On Apr 15, 2022
Thanks guys for all your advices.. It is really worrying because I am trying not to sound insensitive to my brother but at thesame time, it is common sense that someone's wife should not be living under thesame roof alone with a full grown man.

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Family / Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by cj1900: 2:53am On Apr 15, 2022
Richy4:
If you have 250k, maybe u can sacrifice it for your peace of mind...Give it to him to look for an accommodation.. he will understand...I believe it was financial issues that made it seem like he was not showing signs of going away... Give him that money and see how his spirit will revive....Please remember, do not give out of compulsion.... U do not owe him money... just a suggestion. smiley

This is another idea that I have never really thought about. Thabks for that advise, I will explore it further.

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Family / Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by cj1900: 2:52am On Apr 15, 2022
thisnaijaguy:
Bros, you can’t eat your cake and have it ooh. Your cousin is at a matured age with similar hormones. Same as with your wife.

Women will likely have a feeling with someone who “has always been there for them”. Cousin could be helping with a few things around the house and what stops him from helping in za oza areaz ?

To avoid stories that touch the heart, you and your wife should reach a middle ground and come up with a permanent solution. One person has to relocate and join the other ooh.

Thabks for your advise buddy. We are working towards that. I dint really want to raise my kids abroad, so I will be relocating finally within the next 3 years.

In between, we get ro spen 8 months together every year.

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Family / Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by cj1900: 1:54am On Apr 15, 2022
Hi guys,
I won't take much of your time. I have a very delicate matter in my hands and I need diverse opinions please.

Background
I don't live in Nigeria but me and my wife both have a very comfortable 4 bedroom duplex in Nigeria. We have a one year old baby. I have been in Nigeria for 5 months now and I will be returning to UK in a few weeks.

Ever since I've been in Nigeria, my cousin (mid 30s) has been with us. Quite frankly, it is not very easy for him at the moment and i do care about him as a brother. He is in the process of processing his visa, so its not as if he is loafing about.

The plan is that both me and my wife will be taking turns in visiting each other for the next 2 or so years until I return fully to Nigeria.

The problem
The problem is that I do not feel comfortable leaving just him and my wife under thesame roof whilst I return and he is not showing any signs of leaving when I return to my base.

So, this is my situation and I don't know if I am being insensitive.

I married a very good wife and under most circumstances, I trust her. I am just not comfortable leaving my wife with any man atall under thesame roof.

I need your opinions pls.

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Politics / Re: Adeyinka Grandson Convicted On Charges Of Terrorism, Inciting Genocide by cj1900: 12:30am On Dec 02, 2021
sokera:
Adeyinka Grandson live in UK and Nnamdi Kanu also live in UK … all these while Nnamdi Kanu was saying trash they didn’t arrest him but before AG said Igbos and Fulani should leave yoruba land or risk being killed he was arrested … AG was right when he said British , Igbos and Fulani are undermining yoruba nation greatness … AG we the yoruba conservative are strongly with you no matter what … forever we are with you …

AG is a nobody and it is a travesty of common sense to compare him with NNK.

Have you ever thought of things this way:

We have waters, why isn't any of our seaports working? If it was, we wouldn't have much business with lagos.

Secondly, do you even know the level of igbo wealth in lagos? Do you think lagos would have been so great if people dis not put their resources to it?

Listen my dear friend. The Yorubas are the most Liberal in Nigeria, God bless them. The Igbos are the most selfless, yes, we buy lands build mansions in another man's land, we contribute meaningfully to the economy of our hosts. The right hand washes rhe left and the left washes the right.

The only people who co tribute nothing are the fulanis.

The problem between Igbos and Yorubas is a problem between 2 brothers. Let us move away from the parasites first, then if you still want Igbos to leave lagos, that's fine. We will negotiate the terms and duration and in due cause, we leave your land and develop ours. After all, we will have functional sea ports by then to do our business.

AG is a lunatic and he doesn't pull crowd. His ideology is flawed because Igbos contribute heavily to rhe success of lagos. Fulani contributes NOTHING
Politics / Re: Adeyinka Grandson Convicted On Charges Of Terrorism, Inciting Genocide by cj1900: 11:37pm On Dec 01, 2021
dettolgel:
IPOB stop rejoicing.

Convicting him is setting the ground work for the conviction of Kanu if he manages to wriggle out of Nigerian legal system grin

UK has just created a precedent and Buhari can capitalise on it by allowing the court to release him.

In that way he can please the SE ( this will create an in road for APC come 2023), while allowing the UK to arrest him on same charges as Grandson upon his arrival to the UK. The UK will become the fall guy. grin

IPOB it seems whichever way the pendulum swings Buhari might have his cake and still eats it.

Buhari should pay me for strategic advice grin


Your analysis is flawed on several grounds. MNK and grandson are not on thesame level. The British are sensible enough unlike your your zoo to carry out simple impact assessment.

MNK is fighting for a just cause. MNK has millions of followers worldwide who are following thesame ideology.

When people say he incites violence, that is rubbish because his statements are contextual. You should listen to his messages with a neutral mind and you will understand.

The fulani started killing people in benue and yoruba land. These animals would butcher human beings like animals hoping to unleash mayhem from Benue all the way down to the East and from yoruba land all the way down to the east also. They wanted to conquer Nigeria like they did rhe hausas.

It was under this circumstances that MNK, the man who earned rhe respect of all Igbos lunched ESN and foiled their plans forever.

If you interpret his statements as inciting violence, the context is in self defence against barbaric fulanis pigs who have zero education and who go about killing people.

If Nigeria have any evidence against him, let them man up and come to court.

In summary, MNK will NOT be intimidated in the UK and if MNK goes to a UK court, then, it will be such a resounding victory.

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Investment / Re: A Golden Opportunity To Earn Dollars Online by cj1900: 2:34am On Jun 05, 2021
Just passing

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Investment / Re: Advise ??? by cj1900: 12:51am On May 21, 2021
Thanks everyone
Investment / Re: Advise ??? by cj1900: 10:03am On May 20, 2021
Ok,
Thanks, I’ll have a look

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Investment / Advise ??? by cj1900: 12:57am On May 20, 2021
Where can I invest N5m profitably

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Investment / Re: Sh!t Coin Investors Thread by cj1900: 12:19am On May 20, 2021
Really
Investment / Re: Crypto Mining: Mine Dogecoin From Your Laptop At Home Very Easy by cj1900: 12:13am On May 20, 2021
Hmmm

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Investment / Re: What Investment Platform To Invest In 2021 by cj1900: 11:27pm On May 16, 2021
Good luck
Education / What is the educational requirement to run for the office of the governor by cj1900: 5:21pm On Jan 17, 2021
Any ideas?

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