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[Women's Guide] HOW TO MAKE MEN CHASE YOU

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If you are reading this, I'm assuming you're one of the few Christian ladies who are looking for responsible husbands and not one of these girls that only want money, money, money!
Zzor has silently left the building

So sharply let's start will three reasons why men chase women

1. Sex
2. Too feel good
3. I want a wife

Assuming you aiming for no. 3 men you must avoid the only script in most nigerian women's handbook; PLAYING HARD TO GET

Nowadays a lot of girls does this even the ugly ones that I have zero interest in. You sef Imaging one dirty mechanic playing hard to get to you. Will you start chasing him up and down because he played hard to get?

I understand playing hard to get helps to spice things up in the beginning of a relationship but it doesn't work on the long run so you must know when to stop.

Else you end up getting low-value ordinary men who are just ready to wife anything they see.

Standard men will leave you once they realize you still showing too little interest in the relationship. They wouldn't want to force themselves on you.

While 'ma redpilled niggas' aka Alphamales will drop you after assessing you and your game with their analytical eye. And even if they don't. It's because they want to fvck you and when they do succeed, they will dump you and your sorry ass almost immediately.

So unless you are those girls that will make a man chase them while they milking his money all the way. Forget nollywood, playing hard to get is not good on a long term relationship. Know when to stop.

Now what do you do to make premium men chase you?

Good, you add values to their life.
that way you stand out from the millions of hungry girls requesting urgent 2k.

Im not asking you to give them all your savings, alpha men don't follow a woman because of her money. There are other wa..
...to be continued later (I'm tired of typing )
Meanwhile you can share your own tips.

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Okay this article is undeveloped and and liable to be seriously misread

Coming later...

So when you help them it will be something like ' I just helping you because I'm good not because I really love you and that'

So a way to avoid all this stuff is to first stop begging for all this emotional investments and so.
Make it clear or almost clear that you don't have any emotional business with them you don't like them you just want their *********
If far better to be know as a pussy hunter than a love peddler.

Let me try to give an example of how things backfires

Boy A. - "slizzy help me with this stuff"
Sizzy - Okay Sure! (Girl B always help him with this)

Pre-selection works

Then after a prolonged period---
Sizzy wonders why Girl B stop helping him with it. Could he had been terrible? Then later start retreating

POA - Playboy Alert!

You may not get this thread without proper understanding of :-
POAs
Pre-selection
etc

As a POA you have no business with one girl. How do you get multiple girls with out raising the playboy alarm?
This is much harder in a social group.
We know getting a girl might help you with the pre-section process but this can also backfire as you can be seen as unserious.

*if you engage in multiple relationship if you're lucky you can get a competition where every girl is fighting for you.
Or get a total blackout from all of them.
This is when every one abandons you because you seen as a directionless love peddler.

Menu: https://www.nairaland.com/5565525/good-communication?

The general rule is when you're saying something positive point your arms to yourself.

When your saying something negative point outward away from you. And let the subconscious do it thing.

More coming later....

TODO: Grammar check.
If you notice error mention me in that thread called junk.

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In gett this effect a popular way is to slowly turn your head first so that she will noticed you and look at you, then your eyes. yeah it works 2/5 of the times

Move your head slowly and your eyes slower, she sees it coming and look at you first..

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The Cockerels

No matter the level of skills you have eyes contacts is one of best tools you can have. And it also one of the most missuse. It can tell whether you a confident person or not, cheerful or sad. It fun when you know what you're doing and really uncomfortable when you don't.

In the Cockerels it is much more preferable to get women to look at you first before you do. Yeah it feel more correct and more powerful(more powerful than her to look at you just because she noticed someone staring)
When she does she it mean she is declaring her interest in you and Also mean you're a person of value for her to had noticed you.
So by default chasing.

#When she looks at you while you are looking away it shows that she is the more interested party. And she sure value you more than men she caught staring at her.

How to get this effect is what I will be posting tomorrow.

To be caught stealing glances is the last thing you want. It means you have declared all interest for her and you're completely conquered.

And outright staring, yeah seems kind of creepy.

But if you're still going to look be very confident about it.

Still typing.

ZionMyWorld:


I retired recently, gonna have more time for family now.

That's good. Be romantic call her sweet names lest they steal her heart away from you.
if she get the care and attention she want from you she will no longer seek it from them. And gradually she will finally be yours again.
Best of lucks

On holding conversations:
#1Volume,Energy
#2 Lighthouse and Positivity
#3 Dynamic tone and rhythms
#4 Investment for attraction
#5 Emotions recipe for attraction too.
#6 Teasing.
#7 Avoiding traps.
#8 Humour
#9 Chase Frame

Good Communications:
#1 Eyes
https://www.nairaland.com/5575479/better-eyes-contacts-cockerels
#2 Arms
https://www.nairaland.com/5585184/arms-cockerels#84973757
#3 Walk
#4 Dress
#5 Voice
#6 Touch
#7 Control

ZionMyWorld:


Yes! I agree she has been bored, because i spend most time away from home due to work.

However she runs a school, we setup a private nursery/primary school, she manages it. With regards her job, she have job. What she had been lacking is my physical presence, but it's not my fault, it's the nature of my work.

At least now we know where the problem is coming from.
Not that she doesn't love you but she's bored and needs some fun.
How do you intend to solve this?

2) You are not that awesome yet just a normal fellow. But you know how to hold good conversation with people when you mean to.

Unfortunately there is not a script we can memorize to hold good conversation but there are general guidelines you can follow.

There are to kinds to what I want to say.
1) You master the art of conversion every words of yours draws people closer to you. A dull place becomes bright at your presence. You know how to make people feel better. You words are gold and everyone just want to hear you speak they want your opinion in every matter. etc

To attain this level of awesomeness practice practice and practice is what you need. With much practice you will be able to discern the right thing to say always

ZionMyWorld:


It's disturbing...

I think she does that because she's bored.
Since she has be doing it for a long time you can only take it from her bit by bit.
Do you take her out often? e.g fun and romantic evenings on weekends
Also she needs a job to keep her busy. Find something she has passion for.

You will agree good communication is needed to sustain a relationship. Also it one of the main elements of attraction, as girl will come back to you if she enjoys talking to you.

Communication comes it different form e.g visual examples looks and glamour But we shall focus more on verbal.

ZionMyWorld:

Am beginning to think of getting a divorce, it is making me miserable. I love my kids, I don't want them to suffer, I don't want them to experience broken home.

What should I do now.... PLEASE ADVICE!

You love her so much yet you're thinking of divorcing her just because of phone calls?