So now you know perception matters as we would all like to be in the US but only a few
people over there would like to be here as most of us don’t want to be in Syria or North Korea.

In fact that a way of making people like you, when they think of you their hearts should gladden and be excited.

Our brain would prefer us being with a bright, cheerful , and funny person who is a future threat to us, than to a all sad and gloomy innocent mourner.

So how does this concern us? Girls hunting is not all about relationships with only those who have
interest in us but triggering the interest by bending perceptions. Although we can’t completely
control perception there is a bit to do to make sure that no negative stuff is attached to us
while having positive energy around us.

[center]THE POWER OF PERCEPTION[/center]

Prior to that time can't remember when my sis. already told that the girl was
proud and won't greet her. Then I began to notice it this girl would walk pass and we would never greet. Then I guess it became registered in my sub.(subconscious)that she was arrogant and as you know
hatred begat hatred (not every time though) and bam! I disliked her.

This girl had done nothing to me in fact the first day I saw her I
admired her so what triggered the hatred in me? Was it her rubbish dressing? I pondered.

and There was a call for leading and no one seems willing to take it either they were unprepared
or just shy, then a someone quite younger than me stood to take the lead. "I like your courage” a voice
behind me spoke. I turn in agreement to see whose voice it was and felt like 'this arrogant girl
trying to boss again' so although i agreed with what she said, as in yeah the boy was courageous.
Her voice still irritated me.

looking at my target(who I'm about to ask out) from afar(in a social group I refused to mention
for obvious reasons), I had already decided to check her response sharply if it was going to
positive or not, if it was not I quickly move on. I am hell-bent on developing my skills and
won't waste time on persuading anyone.

This article is a part of the recently started Cockerels series...