I've got a somewhat disarming surprise for you. The title of this article isn't simply some "rah rah" statement meant to serve as a one-liner pep talk.

It's the actual solution.

The point-blank truth is that if you're in the habit of finding fault in most everything and then ranting about it, then women aren't going to find you interesting at all.

While it's true that "negativity" is a general turn-off for just about everyone, that's not even the whole story.

In a woman's eyes, the problem with men who are "complainers" is that they appear HELPLESS.

They occur as lacking personal power.

That's because the "complainer" gets frustrated and bent out of shape over something that he perceives he either can't change or doesn't even want to deal with at all.

And if he can't handle life's trivial challenges, then he's obviously in no condition to be a protector and a provider.

Yep...it all comes down to that once again.

So this is very, very real. The very moment you make the decision not to complain about things, you improve your chances with women.

Set a mental trigger in your mind so that you immediately catch yourself whenever tempted to launch into a negative tirade on some trivial thing.

Whenever the "alarm" goes off whack yourself upside the head. Make it stop.

Now, as usual there IS a twist to this whole conversation, however.

Read the full article here: http://www.relationshiptalkforum.com/blogs/dating-and-seduction-guide/843-one-easy-way-to-be-more-attractive-immediately


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You are amazing!

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How do I approach a lady who is walking with her man

Or a lady who is properly on a date with another guy

Hey!

C'mon if she is with a man then it proves she isn't single. So, go find a single girl.

I believe you don't like trouble?

If you have questions, let me know...?

Let's face it. Cold approaches are plenty challenging enough, even if the woman is sitting by herself in an empty coffee shop already smiling at you.

But even assuming you've conquered approach anxiety with a big, heavy hammer (and if you haven't, see yesterday's newsletter) there are some situations that can make even the most seasoned veteran scratch his head and go, "Now what?"

Well, by now you know I'm all about eliminating the phrase "now what?" from our collective vocabulary.

Until that day finally gets here, however, here are some practical suggestions--rapid-fire style, mind you--for meeting a woman you just have to talk to, regardless of how sticky the situation is.

How about a "top ten list"?

Here are the first five this time around. Bear in mind that challenging situations WILL typically require bold action:


1) She's Walking The Opposite Way Down A City Street

In a scenarios like this, you've got to be pragmatic...and you've got to be fast. There's no time for thinking, just action.

If ever the "three second rule" is particularly mission-critical, it's under circumstances such as this.

So call it out like it is.

Approach the woman from an angle where she can see you, tap her on the shoulder and pronounce--bluntly--"Look, I saw you and I knew I HAD to meet you. You're obviously headed somewhere and so am I, so give me your number so we can continue this conversation properly later."

First of all, you'll be shocked by how frequently your sheer confidence turns a woman on in situations such as this. Second of all, you'd better have something to write with. There's no time for trifling with cell phones, etc. Write her number on your hand.


2) She Has Headphones On

Oftentimes we automatically assume that a woman has headphones on at the gym, beach or wherever to "tune us out". You're probably right.

But all you need to remember is that women are hard-wired to follow our lead, and they are NOT hard-wired to their smartphones.

Again, approach from an angle that won't seem like she's being ambushed, get eye contact with her--even if you have to get right in front of her face to face (at least 18" away, please)--and simply tap your ear.

That's the universal symbol for, "Would you please remove your earphones?"

Prepare to be shocked by how consistently this works. And when she loses the headsets, also be prepared to introduce yourself. As always, your confidence will be credited to you by any woman with her head screwed on straight.

That is, unless you're flat-out creepy, or something--which you're not.

Read the full article here: http://www.relationshiptalkforum.com/blogs/how-to-attract-men-and-women/834-how-to-meet-a-woman-even-in-the-most-challenging-situations-you-can-think-of

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Did you know that what you don't say is more important than what you actually say to women - learn why.

Trust me, women are nosy, and if you haven't realized that by now, then you are in for a real eye opening experience. But why are women so prone to being nosy?

Women are nosy because they are challenged to know everything about you...

Women will work till pigs fly to figure everything out about you, but guess what? Once she knows everything, you are TOAST! You see, women don't really want to know everything about you, but rather just love the challenge of trying to get to know everything.

This is why women go nuts when they find out you may have a secret, or they go crazy when you tell them that you will "tell them about it later". Women want to know everything NOW, and become extremely emotionally drawn to you when they are not able to know things as quickly.

Women bore of men once they know everything about them...

You may already know this famous quote which states: "Focus on the journey, not the destination". The reason this quote is so relevant, is because as humans we naturally become bored of things after we have them for a while.

It's the same reason why you may always be wanting more money, that new shirt, a new car etc... Because once we have something completely there is nothing special about it anymore, and once we have all of it, we easily grow bored of it.

This is exactly why women can fall out of love with men so easily, and it's the same reason why you haven't been able to snag a girl yet.

"Don't say it", the simple rule which can have her going nuts over you...
Since women can easily grow tired of you once they are handed everything on a silver platter, what you need to stop doing, is simply answering her. Let her work for it, and let her sit there and try and figure you out.

She will want to know if you are single, she will want your phone number, heck she will want so many things, BUT the only reason she wants them initially is because she knows nothing about them, and therefore that presents a challenge to her.

This will have them emotionally drawn to you within seconds, because it will psychologically force her to feel the need to know you more.

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You don't always have the longest period of time to get a woman's interest, which means you need to be able to get it fast so you can get her number, especially if you only have a few minute's time to do it.

Read on to find out how you can get her interested in you within 2 minutes or less....

Step #1: Finding common ground

If you only have a little bit of time to be around her, and if you are trying to get her phone number in a busy place, then you need to find common ground first.

To do this you should talk about something which is neither related to you or her, but rather something else which she can agree on. For example: if you are on the street, you can talk about crazy traffic and crazy drivers.

What you want to do, is find a topic for common ground which can emotionally "excite" her, and this is often something related to safety. It shows her that you are a genuine guy instantly, but also can be turned around to make you appear confident.

Step #2: Portraying your confidence to go in for the kill

The next step is to appear confident and make her aware that you are a man who can make the right decisions, and a man who has standards above what most guys do.

To do this, you can turn the conversation over to something related to you, which relates to the topic, but shows her that you can handle situations.

The best way to instantly appear confident is to add humor to it and even get a little cocky. For instance, continuing on the traffic conversation, "I'm a big boy now, and I help grannies across the street so they don't get hit"

She will find that funny and also will take it as a sign of high confidence because you are telling her what you do, rather than just concentrating on what she does.

Step #3: Presenting a challenge to her

If you want to further things and really make her want to say yes to you, you can turn things around by presenting a challenge to her. Women love to be challenged, but at the same time you can instantly psychologically make her feel enticed by saying something like:

"You shouldn't be out here walking alone either, you might get hit, and then I'd have to get that guy over there to jump in front..."

What this does, is it immediately tells her that YOU wouldn't jump in front of a car for her, which suggests that there is something about her which makes you not want to, and in turn presents a challenge.

In the end, when you approach her smoothly with these steps, you will have her interest within a few seconds, and can in turn get her phone number or anything else you were looking for from her.

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You are about to be shocked, and I mean EXTREMELY shocked, because believe it or not, women DO NOT like to be complimented right away!

You may be sitting here thinking, "well wait a minute here.... what!?!", but let me show you exactly what I mean!

Read on to find out 3 reasons why you should not compliment a woman immediately...

Shocking Truth #1: You Look EASY...

You are a man, and it's not your job to walk up to women and immediately show her how desperate and pathetic you are, but when you compliment a woman right away, you are in effect doing this.

Of course, you do not mean to, but it instantly tells her you are easy, because you are simply handing out your attention and affection right on the spot, only on the basis of her looks.

It literally means that she has to do NOTHING to get you to want her, and in return makes her feel as if you are one of the most unoriginal and boring men out there.

Shocking Truth #2: There is nothing for her to DO...

When you compliment her, it gives her nothing to do, because you are putting her in the spotlight and are concentrating solely on her. You brush your needs aside, and everything else and she literally will have nothing to do but listen to how much you want her.

She needs to have a challenge presented, or a reason to want you in return, but if you are always just dishing out compliments left, right, and centre, she will really feel like once again, that you are just too easy and will feel like you cannot mentally challenge her in the way she needs.

You should know that women are turned on emotionally, and come to like you all on an emotional basis, and when you compliment her, you are keeping everything to a PHYSICAL level, which in turn does not spark or light up her emotional side and keeps things rather cold.

Shocking Truth #3: She already knows and she will judge you...

She spent the time to make herself look great, and she was staring at herself for hours in the mirror picking out the right clothes and styling herself to look great. She already knows she looks great, and virtually anything you can compliment her on she is already aware of.

Why point out the obvious, because when you do this, she will JUDGE you. Women have this idea of men already in their mind. For instance, if you comment on her breasts, she will assume you want sex.

If you compliment her by saying she is beautiful or gorgeous, she will assume that you are just desperately easy and will ignore you.

You must remember that women are constantly approached in this manner, and after a while they just get used to it. There is nothing useful or exciting in hearing compliments like these, and the only thing she will have left to do is judge what you are looking for, and from that she will reject you.

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There are some kisses that you remember for a long long time and there are some that you would like to forget even before they end. So what is this factor that makes some kisses great and so memorable and some so "yuck!"? Well, here are seven tips that guys can use to become super kissers!

Looking good
The first thing to do is to look like a man that a girl would like to kiss. Having bad breath, not smelling good or wearing dowdy clothes all send out the wrong signals. You have to be the man that a woman wants to kiss. So, dress well, appear groomed, and take care of your breath with breath mints and most importantly have soft moist lips and shave!

Be uninhibited
When you head out with a girl forget about the guys that she has been with or how good they might have been at kissing. Enjoy yourself with her and remember that if they would have been that great then she would have been with them. That she is with you is what is important.

Emotional connect
Establish an emotional connection with her. Talk to her and listen to what she has to say. The more you enjoy each other's company the more enjoyable kissing is going to get. Emotional connect is what makes women comfortable and in a position to enjoy anything physical. So learn to listen and to talk.

Situation
Great kisses are the ones which are given in solitude, in places where you can forget everything else and just feel and hear each other bodies and breath. Avoid places where you feel self conscious as this will make you stiff and the kiss will be over even before it starts. Be in a place where the only thing that is of consequence is you and the person with you!

Adaptability
A great kisser will adapt to the rhythm of the person that he is kissing. He is aware of the different forms and styles of kissing and is willing to experiment with his partner. But adaptability is when you are able to shift form one gear to another gauging a person's response. Learn of all the different types of kisses, the nip, the French kiss the regular kiss, the gentle caressing of the lips etc and use it on the girl that you are kissing

Rhythmic
Your kissing should be in rhythm with the girl you are kissing. It should be soft, greedy, passionate yet gentle all at the same time. It should give the person enough time to catch her breath and not make her feel suffocated.

Let your kisses be warm and comfortable at all times and in harmony with what you are feeling. Taking a short break and gazing into her eyes while the two of you breathe together is a great way to reconnect and become a kisser that nobody forgets.

Stay in control
While all this is going on be in control of yourself. Don't lock the girl in an embrace where she might feel like she is being suffocated by an octopus. Also groping is a strict no no. Put your hands on her back or touch her face while you are kissing but that's the maximum about where you should be going without permission.

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There are a number of men who do not approach women because they fear that they will be rejected. Some of these men hide this fear by constantly hanging out with guys and some hang out in bars wishing that by some stroke of good luck a girl will walk up to him and express her interest. Well life does not work that way. So here are a few ways to overcome the fear of rejection around women.

Take the chance
Stop thinking that you are not good enough and that she is too beautiful to want to hang out with a guy like you. Look at people around you. You will notice a number of gorgeous women hanging out with very average looking guys. This is because those men did not hesitate to go out there and get her! Your world will not come to an end if she says no but your day will certainly be made if she says yes. So, go out there and take that chance.

Look good, feel better
When you look good you feel better. This reflects in the way you conduct yourself. Also the chances of a woman rejecting a well dressed guy as opposed to a sloppily dressed one are far lower. Dressing well also shows that you care about your appearance and women relate very well to that.

Have an honest conversation
When you are able to get talking to a woman try and have an honest conversation. Don't be superficial when you speak. Instead, use your intellect to build a stimulating conversation. Women very rarely reject guys who they can talk to and those who do are not worth pursuing.

Learn to listen
Listening is an art that most men are not good at. And women are on the look out for a guy who can listen to them. They know when you are listening when you follow up their statements with related questions. This also helps in getting to know a person better and build an interesting conversation.

Learn to be resilient
No man has a 100% success rate with women. All men at some point in time in their lives have been rejected by someone or the other. Remember that it is all right to fail and be rejected. Just because some woman rejected you does not mean that you are a loser. This resilience will help you in your quest to meet women.

Be confident
Confidence is one quality that women find extremely attractive. It is confidence that separates the average guy from the alpha male. If you are confident of yourself then you need not fear any woman rejecting you. Also if they do then it is really their loss and not yours.

Be humorous
Humor is a quality that can get a person out of any sticky situation especially if it involves getting rejected. If you have been turned down by a woman, remember that she is equally uncomfortable rejecting you as you are getting rejected. If you use humor to make her comfortable and lighten up the situation, then chances are that you might find her getting drawn to you!

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Your heart is set on a particular girl and you want her to date you. Well you need to create a good impression on her to make her find you attractive as a person.

Looks are not the only thing that girls go for. There are a number of things that will go in your favor if you really wish to attract her.

1. Be yourself in every way possible. Be genuine and do not put on an act. The worst thing that could happen is to be caught at putting on a show.

There may be some draw back or flaw about you, but it is better to accept that than to pretend and hide your faults.

2. Develop a sense of humor and jovial attitude and be open hearted and friendly. You will find people drawn towards you because of these qualities. Any girl in return will be drawn towards you when they find others drawn to you.

3. When they see the trustworthy, dependable side of your personality it will be a sure attraction as any girl would like to have a person who is dependable and reliable at their side. They know they will be comfortable and cared for in their life.

4. Be punctual and stand by your commitments when you say anything. No girl likes to be kept waiting especially if you date her. Time is an important factor to be given concern so she'll never trust you for a future date.

5. Dress smart and cleanly. Never be shabby and untidy specially when going out with her. You need to take care as no woman likes to be seen with a sloppy and shabby person.

6. Take into consideration her preferences as well on a date. Allow her to be the one to sometimes suggest a place or the cuisine she'd like. Pamper her during such times. She'll feel good about being out with you.

Putting your best foot forward will certainly make any girl like you, so take care.

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That girl has caught your attention and you just cannot do without approaching her and letting her into your mind to know what you're feeling for her. She's caught your fancy but you don't know if you've caught hers.

But there are ways to go about it and seduce her in seconds. You need to be the man just about any girl would fall for and desire to be with.

1. Carry yourself smartly and dress smartly. Dress is part of the attraction game. If you're dressed well and smartly you will obviously catch the attention of just about any girl.

2. Brush up your communication skills if needed. Bring in humor and lightheartedness in your way of speaking. Be jovial in your mannerisms and keep everyone around you humored and in splits of laughter.

3. Learn to compliment and appreciate the girl who's attracted you. You need to make her feel good about herself and that men are after her.

4. Be the center of attraction yourself. Be center stage when there's a crowd of people around. When she sees that you catch everyone's attention she too feel focus her attention on you.

5. Brush all your bedside manners. Make friends and know more about her from her and not through others. Tell her about yourself, what you do and wish to accomplish. Try to draw her admiration for you.

6. When you ask her out, plan it with care and do it diligently. Give her a choice of places to suit your pocket and let her choose or decide for yourself. Give her the choice of the cuisine and ask her preference about the food you order.

7. You could perhaps choose a place where there's music and some dancing too. That would be a wonderful opportunity to get mutually closer socially.

Adopt a style which is not a temporary put-on for the occasion only. Be the kind of man any woman would wish to be with and can rely on for a lifetime with you.

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This is one of the easiest things to do - if you know the ropes! Many a time a boy can spoil his chances of getting friendly with the girl he's attracted to just because he came on too strong and put her off or he was too scared or shy to approach her! Here are some tips that will help you.

Don't suddenly ask or demand for her number. The girl will probably behave like you are asking for private details that she would never give you! Don't make small talk and then expect her to hand you her number. Be wise and give her time to trust you. Make sure that when you finally ask for her number, you behave like it's no big deal and doesn't make a difference one way or the other if you don't have it. She will probably want to give it you.

Build up a connection with the girl. This will take some time so you have to be prepared to spend that time with her to get her to like you and trust you. Find common interests that you share and converse with her on topics that can open doors for your future plans with her. This will make it easier to get her number.

One way is to make sure you are so attractive and sexy - someone who all the girls want to be with - so that the girl in question will want YOU to give HER your telephone number! Work on your physical appearance and look terrific!

Be cool and self confident, maintaining eye contact with her all the time. If you don't overdo it and make her want to spend more time in your company you are on the verge of being successful.

Fear of rejection will try to stop you from making an effort to be charming and persuasive. Don't give up - if she begins to like and trust you she will give you her number.

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Have you ever wondered how you are going to make the girl of your dreams fall in love with you? Sometimes, it just seems that you fall short no matter what you do and all the other guys seem to be "Mr. Popular" compared to you. Have no fear, there are plenty of ways you can smarten up and be the guy everyone wants to be with!

One of the most vital attitudes you should have is the "cool and confident" attitude that is sure to attract most girls. No girl wants to be seen with a guy who has a low self esteem, and who walks around like he's not really sure what he wants! Work on that self confidence and positive attitude it is sure to rope the girls in.

Always be the bright, cheerful and optimistic guy who has a great sense of humor! There is something very endearing about a boy who can always make you laugh - even at yourself! It will make the girls comfortable around you.

Try to be the type of guy who is not ashamed of who he is. What a relief it is to find a guy who is honest and straight forward. A girl hates to be on the defensive and will appreciate being with a boy with whom she does not have to pretend to be someone she is not!

Don't try too hard to impress the girl you like. If you overdo things she is likely to see right through you. Always be truthful and show her that she can trust you. A guy who is too fulsome in his compliments may come through as a "phony". This does not mean that you should be blunt and rude. But it would help if you were diplomatic and chivalrous in your manner and bearing.

If you are successful in incorporating the above traits into your character - you will be not only likeable, but lovable!

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If you assume that you are a Greek God and that any woman will love you irrespective of how you look or behave then you might just wake up seeing stars after being hit by a woman's boot.

Instead, pay attention to these 4 things that really turn women off and then turn yourself into a loveable Greek God.

The 1st thing that turns most women off is if you dress shabbily or emit an offensive odor from your body. So, make sure that you dress smartly, look clean enough to eat on, and smell fresh.

You should brush your teeth and your hair before meeting any woman, spray on cologne or after-shave and wear new socks and shoes to prevent any odors leaking out from any corner of your body.

The 2nd thing that women hate is a spineless guy. If you do not have any self-esteem and simply mumble or stammer your way through any conversation then no woman will agree to go out with you.

Instead, inject yourself with self-confidence and puff out your chest slightly when speaking with women.

The 3rd thing that turns women off is if you do not respect them or their views. If you just take the woman and her views for granted and try to show her down during any conversation then that would be a real turn-off.

Respect the views of any woman that you talk to and if you do beg to differ then do so politely and with proper reasoning instead of trying to engage in a verbal war.

The 4th thing that really turns women off is if you are totally full of yourself. If it is only 'me' instead of 'we' in any talk that you have with a woman then the woman is sure to perceive that you are a selfish guy that is full of hot air.

Make sure to listen to a woman's views and if you truly do like a woman then try to include her into your future plans instead of simply bragging about your own plans.

Avoid doing these 4 things to remain in the good books of women. Ignore them and women will be quick to respond negatively and you might simply be left high and dry without any date.

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When a man is in love there are some unmistakable signs he gives off. This is great news for women who are in a relationship with someone who just isn't comfortable proclaiming his love verbally yet. It's also helpful for those women who start to have a bit of nagging doubt about whether their guy is still as in love with them as he once was. Once you know what to look for you'll be an expert. You'll be able to spot when the guy you love is feeling the same way about you.

One easy way to know when a man is in love is his schedule. A man will completely clear his calendar if there's a woman he's interested in. He'll think nothing of moving meetings or canceling plans with friends if he can use that time to sneak in a few moments with her. A man in love doesn't search for excuses for why he can't see his woman. He wouldn't do that. He wants to be with her as much as he can and he'll squeeze every last second he can out of their time together.

Telephone calls take on this entirely new life when they are part of a dating relationship. Women use telephone calls, their frequency and the lack of them to judge how a guy feels. That's absolutely warranted. When a guy is in love he throws all caution to the wind. He calls his woman as often as he can find the time. He's not late in returning her calls. He sees that telephone as a lifeline to her and he takes full advantage of that.

Does the man you're with love to know things about you? This is one of the subtle signs that show he's in love with you. A man in love is a bit like a child on Christmas morning. The only difference being that the gifts he wants to unwrap are all about uncovering details about you. He's excited when he learns what your favorite color is and he loves knowing what you take in your coffee. He craves more and more information about you and he can never learn enough.

A man's eyes are indeed windows to his soul, but they say a lot about his heart too. You can tell when a man is in love based on how he looks at you. It's really unmistakable. He'll stop looking and start gazing. He'll have a small, soft smile on his face when he does. You'll catch him gazing at you when you're not expecting it and if you ask him what he's thinking, he'll likely just smile at you. If your guy does that, his heart belongs to you.

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So you want to know how to make him adore you? It's something a lot of women wonder about once they've met a man they believe just may be the one for them. Although some people may tell you that there's nothing you can do to draw a man closer, they're wrong. There's actually plenty you can do to influence how a man feels about you. If you want to make him love you, you need to find your way into his heart. That's much easier than you may imagine it to be.

Three very effective tips on how to make him adore you are:

Be independent. Men absolutely love independent woman. They enjoy spending time with someone who has her life together and is totally self sufficient. If you can show him, honestly, that you take care of yourself and you're happy doing that, he'll find you magnetic. Many women are open about the fact that they don't feel complete unless they are with a man. When a man hears this, it makes him uncomfortable. He'd much rather hear that you're very content with your life but would welcome the addition of a partner. There's a subtle difference there but to a man it's very important. Show him that you're a strong, self-determining woman and he'll definitely be incredibly attracted to you.

Accept him as he is. One very common complaint that men have is that the woman they are with wants to change them. No one is perfect and if the man you adore has some flaws that you think he could improve on, you need to learn how to keep your opinion to yourself. Just as it stings when our man tells us that we could lose a few pounds or that we're a bit lazy, the same is true of men. Learn to love him for the man he is, not the man you want him to be. He'll feel grateful that you accept him for who he is and they'll be an even stronger emotional connection between the two of you.

Keep things light and carefree. Pressure doesn't have a place in a relationship in which you're trying to get a man to adore you. Men want to move at their own pace and if you tell him that you love him too soon or you talk about making a commitment before he's ready, he'll resent you. Enjoy the relationship for what it is. Don't talk about the future and don't mention love. Let him guide you towards where he feels things need to be. Most men need that and if their woman gives it to them, it creates an unbreakable bond.

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We all know at least one woman who never seems to have a problem winning any guy's heart. There's something about her that men just find naturally irresistible. As much as we wish there was a way for her to bottle that up and hand it to us, there's not. For those of us who have struggled or are struggling to win our man's heart, there are a few tips that offer a real advantage.

Here are some helpful tips to help you when it comes to winning your man's heart:

Embrace your relationship with your family.

Most women have no idea how important strong family values are to a man. If you constantly complain about how your mother drives you crazy or you go on about how envious you are of your sister, he's never going to feel that close to you. Your relationship with the people you are closest to will serve as a preview into how you handle family dynamics. He may actually pull back if he doesn't sense a close bond between you and your family members.

Celebrate the funny girl in you.

You already know the value in having a strong sense of humor. We all do. However, you may not fully understand what a turn-on it is to a man. Men want to be happy. They strive to find someone who can make them smile on a daily basis. Become that for him and he'll never want to let you go. Be wary of making fun of him though. Men don't want that and it can alienate him very quickly. Find the humor in life and in everyday circumstance.

Never apologize for your flaws.

Part of being a woman is being self conscious about the things we wish we could change. We've all looked in the mirror and cringed at what we saw. Don't point these out to him. He never wants to see you question your own self worth. If you embrace your flaws and love the woman you are, he's bound to fall in love with you. Love yourself first and it will magnetically attract him to you.

Always be easy going and compassionate when you are trying to win your guy's heart. Show him that you're naturally easy to be around and he'll feel closer and closer to you. He not only wants a woman who will take his breath away, he wants a companion and best friend in her too. Be those things and he'll be yours forever.

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Is there an easy way to tell if your boyfriend is crazy about you? We all wish we were with a man who was vocal about his feelings. Sadly, most men just aren't. Instead, they wear their hearts very close to their sleeves and we're left to our own devices to try and determine exactly what they feel. If you suspect that your guy is wildly crazy about you, there are ways to know for certain.

Here are 3 signs that your boyfriend is crazy about you:

He loves being with you. As obvious as this sounds, most women don't fully understand it. When you're with a man and he wants nothing more than to spend every waking moment with you, he's in love. If he calls you frequently just to hear your voice, he's crazy about you. On the other hand, if your boyfriend rarely makes time for you and he cancels at the last minute with what sounds like a lame excuse, the man is nowhere near close to being in love with you. A man in love puts spending time with his woman at the very top of his priority list.

Your needs come before his own. A man who is smitten with a woman wants her life to be as comfortable and pleasant as possible. He'll go out of his way to ensure she's taken care of. If he always is striving to make you happy, he really does love you. If he doesn't listen to your opinion or makes plans without consulting you first, his feelings don't run that deep yet.

He'd rather talk about you than him. This is a very subtle sign of a man in love, but it's incredibly telling. When a man is in the getting to know you phase with a woman he'll talk endlessly about himself. He wants her to know every small detail about him. Once he crosses that threshold and falls in love, he'll start craving information about her. He'll want to know all sorts of facts including her favorite color, what she was like as a child and what types of movies she most likes. If your guy focuses the conversations on you, and you alone, he's definitely falling for you.

Always trust your inner instinct when you're trying to gauge what your boyfriend feels for you. If you believe there's a strong emotional connection there, chances are very good that he's feeling the same thing.

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You've met him. You're certain of it. The man you believe is your soul mate has appeared. He's everything you ever imagined he would be and he's interested in you. The problem is that you're more than interested in him. You're already planning your happy-ever-after together. Obviously you have to temper yourself so you're not proclaiming your undying love and devotion to him too soon. You need to ensure he feels the same way about you. Understanding how to get the man of your dreams to want you is the key to having the future you want with the guy you adore.

Learning how to get the man of your dreams addicted to you is all about appealing to his sense of self. There's a huge difference between men and women when it comes to love. Women tend to fall in love with a man because they see qualities in him that they admire and adore. For men it's a bit different. If a woman brings out qualities in a man that he likes, he'll feel close to her. For instance, if you make your man feel strong and helpful when you two are together, he's going to enjoy that feeling and want to be with you more and more. The key to getting him to fall madly in love is to show him what a wonderful person he is.

One major mistake that many women make when they are trying to win over a man is they reveal too much of themselves too soon. Men love and need mystery. If you rattle off your entire life story over the course of the first few dates he's going to run for the hills, never to be seen again. He wants to learn about you slowly and he wants to discover unexpected but exciting things. Pace yourself when it comes to letting him know all the parts of you. Holding back a little is just like playing hard to get and it works like a charm each and every time.

Also, a sense of humor is something every man longs to find in the woman he's with. Men want to laugh as much as we do. They want to smile and giggle with the woman they spend time with. Show him that you have a great sense of humor but don't ever make fun of him. Doing that to a man can instantly kill any attraction that may have been there. Instead, find humor in the world around you and he'll love spending every moment he can with you.

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Have you ever wondered why some men always get more women than they can possible handle while others don't even get one?

Why is it that some men can easily pick up hot women with effortless ease while others get shaky legs at the very thought of approaching an attractive girl? Our society calls these guys as naturals, professional pick up artists etc etc.

But the fact is that these guys understand something about women...Normal guys aren't even aware of. They understand what women truly look for in a man. And let me assure you that it's not what you think. This is the reason why...It might come off as a surprise to you. Read on to discover what I truly mean here...

Women don't want...What they say they want...

Wow! Big statement right there huh?

Well guess what? It's true...When questioned a woman will tell you that she wants a guy who is nice looking, tall, prince charming etc etc...But in reality you will always see such women choose the exact opposite of what they termed as the perfect match.

Now why is that?

Well simply because women have been programmed to think in a certain way...They are given this idea that they should always go for a nice guy who treats them like a fairy queen. But it doesn't work this way in the real world.

Ok...I guess you are right! But then what do women truly want?...

Good question!

They want a guy who knows how to trigger attraction. And this is the reason why a guy's looks, financial situation or status doesn't hold much significance.

In order to make any woman want you...You have to learn how to trigger attraction. And a woman feels attraction for a man when-

- He isn't too easy to get.

I mean seriously think about it? As humans we all want things we can't easily have. We all put a higher value on the stuff which is beyond our reach therefore you need to do something similar here.

It doesn't sound that easy...How do I do it?

Well it's easier than you think...All you need to do is to use mixed signals in your words.

How?

Well here is an example...

Here is how a normal average guy approaches a girl-

Hey...My name is Bob. You seem nice....Would you go out with me?

Does it work? Not really. Now let's do it the right way. Instead of being too direct with our approach...Try saying something like-

Hey nice dress...I really like it.

She would respond by saying thank you.

Then say- Oh wait! You are actually the 4th girl I have seen this evening with this same dress...Is it on sale or something?

And bam. You showed interest by saying you like her dress but at the same time you softly rejected her by saying her dress is very common.

So what does this do? Well since you softly rejected her...She would show instant interest in you and this is where you can easily carry on the conversation further.

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Do you know the primary reason why a lot of men tend to get rejected by women? It's simply because they do not know how to pass the female tests.

Here is a fact for you- Do you know that females test men all the time? And they do it unknowingly?

You see everything out of her mouth will be some form of a test and it's extremely vital that you understand how to deal with these tests or else you will never be successful around women.

Read on to discover some of the most effective ways you can use to deal with these tests...

Don't let her dominate you...Which means...Don't fall into her trap...

Do you know that the moment a girl can dominate you...You have lost the battle? And where does it all starts? Well it all starts with questions. Questions like-

- What were your past relationships like?
- Did you breakup or did she dump you?
- Why do you like in me?

You see most guys tend to answer these questions in the wrong manner which often gets them into more trouble than they can actually manage.

For example-

When she asks you about your past relationship and you get too direct about it...It may not be the right move. You see what this does is...It gives her vital feedback according to which she would act around you.

Which means in case...Your ex dumped you...She lose all attraction for you simply because now she knows that you were the one who got rejected and she will instantly start digging for reasons why you got rejected. And that is where you will lose the game.

Therefore the key here is to answer her smartly. For example...If she asks you about your past relationships and who dumped whom...Respond by saying-

Well...I don't know you well enough to discuss this with you.

You see by softly rejecting her this way...Not only do you pass her test but also build more attraction in the process.

Never let her figure you out completely...

This is the core reason why it's absolutely vital to maintain the element of mystery in the relationship. As long as she doesn't know everything about you...She will always go that extra mile to know more about you.

And at the same time will give you extra important & will also keep you on top of her priority list. The best way to make sure she never figures you out completely...You should always make it a point to give her a bit of information and let her beg for more and more.

For example...Next time you are talking to her say something like-

Oh! I had to tell you something important...But I have to rush right now. Maybe later. And then take off!

This is where she would get extremely eager and excited at the same time to know what you had to tell her which will amplify attraction.

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Dating is a tricky game and people have a lot of options to choose from. So, if you meet a girl that you like it becomes very important that you behave well in order to keep that person interested in you. Here are a few ways that you can learn to behave well in front of girls.

Be yourself
Don't try to be something that you are not. Imitating your favorite movie star or not telling the truth about your past is not going to help as women are very perceptive and will see through it soon enough if not immediately. So, be honest about yourself and answer all questions concerning your past truthfully.

Keep your body language positive
Having a positive body language is also very important to impress a woman. When you are around a girl you want her to feel welcome and invited into your world and not shut out. So, be relaxed, sit with your arms and legs open and don't fidget with things around you.

Listen to her when she is talking
Pay attention to what she has to say. When you do that you can have a healthy conversation and the woman also feels that you are onto her not just physically but find her mentally stimulating as well.

Don't look at other girls
If you look at other girls and if your girl catches you doing so then your date is O-V-E-R! Never check out other women when you are with one yourself. They find it rude and demeaning and will never see you again.

Don't talk about women like "things"
You have to learn to give women a little respect when you talk about them. Don't talk about them like they are objects or intimacy gadgets. Calling a woman "babe" etc can look extremely masochistic, so refrain from any such adjectives.

Don't use foul language
Reserve your foul language for beer time with the boys. Make sure that you never use bad language around women as they find it disrespectful. If there is a slip and you say a bad word by chance then you must apologize immediately.

Be chivalrous
Chivalry will never go out of fashion. So, even if you are dating a high flying, financially stable, self assured woman make the additional effort of being a little chivalrous. No matter how successful women are, they will love a guy who pulls out their chairs for them, holds the door open when they walk in or out of a room, stand up when they get up and at least offer to pick up the tab!

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Being able to make a girl laugh is a sure way of making her like you. Just like people say that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach, in the same way the way to a woman's heart is through her laugh. So, if you want to be popular with the ladies or just want to impress a girl find out ways of tickling her funny bone. Here are a few ways to get the ball rolling.

Laugh at yourself
You could talk about the embarrassingly funny incident on your way to work, funny stories from your childhood or mad college stories. Having a self deprecating sense of humor seems very charming as it makes you look like a man child. Don't go on an overdose though. You don't want her to alter the good impression that she has formed of you.

Listen to her
Pay attention to what she is saying and it will give you a good idea about what makes her tick. During your conversation fill up the blank spaces with appropriate and witty one-liners and punches and see how she cracks up.

Don't make fun of her
You can mimic her sense of humor but don't ever make the mistake of mimicking her. Men might find it amusing to make fun of each other but women don't. So, unless you want her to think of you as an insensitive and cruel person, please don't make fun of her.

Crack old jokes
You can borrow some of your laugh material form old joke, sitcoms or stand up acts and use them in a time appropriate manner, Find out about the television programs that she likes to watch and mimic them (not by making them seem stupid) and make her laugh.

Observe people
You could also observe the people around you and make some funny observations about them. Be discreet while doing so as it may be fun for a while but overdoing it can make you look insensitive.

Be patient
Don't be in a hurry to make her laugh. This will probably backfire. Humorous conversation takes time to build up as it is a process of trial and error so be patient and carry on.

Don't clown around
Don't become a clown trying to get her to laugh. Turn the funny button off occasionally so that you don't look like you are trying to impress her. That can be a big turn off. So, be yourself and have fun while you are talking to this girl but back off and tone the wit down when her laughter begins to sound forced.

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Like all musical pursuits improving in the field of singing is about constantly challenging yourself. It’s no use doing the same comfortable exercises over and over if they don’t seem difficult they are certainly of little value.

The real secret in avoiding plateaus on your singing journey is to constantly bombard yourself with more challenging technique exercises and immerse yourself in a wide variety of genres. The larger the field of music you draw from to study the more comprehensive your identity, as a singer will become.

Be wary of your own snobbery and remember not to simply choose music that affirms to your personal tastes. This is to widen your horizons. Singing with accompaniment or seeking out like-minded musicians is also an absolute necessity, not only to give you performance experience but also the crucial skill of fitting in to a music group rhythmically.

At the end of the day practice, resourcefulness and natural ability will be the three factors that determine the singer you are going to be.

As you begin to learn singing your voice exercises should comprise of scale exercises (in simple keys such as c, g and d), warm up exercises and basic techniques such as tremolo and arpeggios.

By this time you have an idea of some songs that you would like to sing. In the case that you have a tutor, this is easily submitted and worked on over a number of lessons. In cases in which the singer is self-taught they should divide the song up into smaller sections and spend a time on each section.

At an intermediate level you should be beginning a design to challenge yourself. The initial way to do this is experiment with different key signatures, no longer restricting yourself to c, g and d and in zealots’ mid-song key changes.

singoramaHaving practiced techniques such as tremolo, staccato and arpeggio, at an intermediate level you will start to experiment with vibrato and refine that sound within the context of your study.

In your beginners period, as your teacher segmented a song for teaching, now you should be able to organize a song and it’s performance yourself. Improvization at the intermediate level connects many learned skills and puts them in context, for example the ways in which various scales work together as with a g scale and an E minor scale.

It is worthwhile for every singer to expand the music that they listen to. Every individual has personal musical tastes but as a singer you are the perennial student. A fan of jazz that avoids disco music has nothing to lose.

A student of singing however has everything to gain. Every style of music from flamenco to popular, classical to country has something to be learnt from it. You must look at music with a worldview. It is hard to deny that many of the world’s most popular singers were pioneers of music fusion.

From an early stage a rhythmic understanding is absolutely necessary. There is no use being an exceptional singer if you do not keep in time to the music. Many singers choose to buy devices such as metronomes when they are beginners to ingrain the time signature of the given piece of music into their mind.

Although this is not crucial learning with some kind of meter will always serve you better. Rhythmically as your singing career progresses it will only get more complicated so it is beneficial to have a solid grounding.

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Vocal Exercises for Singers

Learning how to become a singer doesn't automatically mean you have to land gigs or appear in shows. Although you will get to that part, the first and most important thing you have to do is to train yourself as much as possible. You can't attract the offers if you don't have the quality. Here are some of the things you need to know to become a singer.

Singing Lessons
Teaching yourself how to sing is a good start, however it shouldn't be the last. You can only teach yourself as much as you know, and the singing coaches can lend you so much more insight into the world of music. It doesn't have to be a famous vocal teacher, just a good one. In fact, you can look for a singing coach via the internet through specific keywords like "singing lessons in New York" if you live near the area.

Choose your Song
Some song types blend well with some voice types and it would be better for you to know exactly what song type would suit your style. Are you meant for slow and sweet or something fast? It's okay to delve in to other music types, but do so after cultivating the one that suits you best.

Learn More Music
Don't just stop at singing. Try to learn how to play a new instrument and start reading music sheets. Singing lessons in New York and other tools can greatly be of help if you know where to go to. This will give you a sense of melody by making the music instead of just singing along it. You might even attempt to write a song. Sometimes, it is not just the voice but also the song that catches the people's attention. If you can write a song that's a hit, then it will surely pull you up the music industry ladder.

Recordings
Make sure to get your voice in a CD! This means recording your good performances as "demos". This will also help you pinpoint possible problems to your singing style. You may also record videos to know how you perform overall. After all, being a singer also means knowing the right moves for the song, how to stand and how to captivate the audience not just by the song but by their mere presence.

Public Performances
Once you get a hang of singing, start looking for opportunities to show off your skill. Places like bars, restaurants or even talent shows can give you the start you need. Auditions for musical acts are also an excellent way to promote yourself. You can join up as a back-up singer for a major act and work your way from there. Like everything else, getting noticed as a singer takes perseverance as well as talent.

If you really want to know how to become a singer, then be prepared to take as much bad with the good. For all the benefits you can get out of being a success, you put in more work than you thought possible. So train as much as you can through engaging in singing lessons, preserve your voice and look for opportunities to be seen by the public. Don't give up because the best singers out there are the one who've had years of anonymity.

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