wristbangle:


Bro, there are reasons why a lady may stop seeing a guy which are;

1. She is in love with someone else

2. She is back to her EX

3. You are not in her league financially and morally

4. Maybe your character is dis pleasing her and your outward appearance (vocabulary, mouth odour etc) is not appealing to her.


My advice is move on brother. Go and make money. U will see the magic of huge influx ladies parading your life. No grubbing lady is worth dying for.

Have a nice day.

Your points are well noted. Money is not an issue here, to the best of my knowledge I am very comfortable and could be very caring as well. I never believed a girl could turn me down in that manner.

PunkyVeer:
She has already told you, in no uncertain terms, that she's not ready for a relationship. I'm guessing you speak the same language, so which part didn't you get?

Sometimes women flip flop. Initially, she must have thought she was ready to go out & date again after the break up. But on 2nd thought, decided that maybe she's not really that ready. It happens. Too bad your feelings are already involved but just take her word for it & leave her alone. She knows where to find you should she change her mind AGAIN & decide to be with you. Just give her some space to clear her head. That's if she's not letting down easily though. She could be the cowardly type that expects you to read between the lines & just "get it" that she's not interested. Either way, keep it moving.

thanks alot

Theyveedo:
Give her the space she wants. If she's really into u she will come back when her head is cleared. Stop buggin her with calls n messages cos that will make u loose ur self worth n most likely get u friendzoned.

smells true! Hmmmm

I had known her for quite a while and she had always turned down my proposal for dinner. She suddenly accepted my dinner offer when i was almost giving up, I later learnt she just left a relationship . We continued to meet and see every day and i fell in love with her. We exchanged messages and calls as if my dad owned MTN and her mum was the Managing Director. The feeling was mutual until this day (barely a month into the holy friendship) when she begged we should stop seeing each other and probably stop communicating. I thought it was a joke, my calls were not picked on time and when it becomes a missed call, sometimes it is never returned. My Messages were replied in manners that excludes any emotional underpinning. We finally met to discuss the way forward and reasons for her actions. She claims she is not ready for a relationship and that she has seen enough from guys. I am fully convinced she no longer sees her ex. Please advice, should I continue to persuade her or let-go. Letting go would be very difficult as I have already loved up in no small amount. Your candid advice will go a long way in helping me move forward.