i was wondering what is the best way to approach a gal? people can you help me out? i need a few tips on how to chat up a lady without being cocky or stupid. much like the do's and dont's of talking to a chic.

if you are being pressured into marrying someone that you dont love just because the guy is rich and spends a lot of money on your family. and you are being pressured by your whole family especially your mom, what would you do? (did i mention that the guy is like twice your age?)

is pre-intimacy important during sex? which one do you ladies want more and for how long, the pre-intimacy or the sex itself, and how long do you think that a guy should take during pre-intimacy and how long at least should he last during the sex act.(no exaggeration please)

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love and money, must they go hand in hand or is it possible to have one and not have the other like i mean loving someone without much fuss on the size of the guys wallet. or must they go together in other word "no romance without finance!"

what would you do when you love someone that doesn't love you but just want to be friends with you? would you keep trying or would you throw in the towel and hope for another love to come by?