UrbanMystique:
try me

Try what? Go and look into your own future and then amend your ways so that you can make heaven.

Weah96:

I can see the future. You have a yellow garment or wrapper that you hold dear? Is it not so?

No mortal can see the future except through the influence of Jehovah. Iv heard some people claim they can see into the future and end up quoting false and unreasonable claims.

Its black friday today,isnt it?

I have seen countless adverts on sales and discounts that would usher in the festive holiday season. I have however tried logging into jumia, and I think they are overwhelmed with too many orders.

What do you think?

Omg, this description is too graphic.

I feel your pain as this is a major issue. I hope u find a solution soon cz I cant stand this too. Sorry.

This ‎is a 3 year old thread that was resurrected, but sometimes good to read age old messages.
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Privacy to me means‎ the ability to seclude oneself from others either with the intention of withholding certain information or preventing intrusion on one's personal /physical space.

To the op, is it that when u were dating ur husband before marriage, he never used to lock his phone,and all of a sudden just started doing that? I dont understand people that lock thier phones,it is too obvious that there is some information/txt/pictures or mail exchange they dont want anyone to see.‎

Personally, I would not tolerate the idea of locking phones and guess what? My husband would pick my calls and go through my msgs as long as he likes, and vice versa. what is there to hide?

I pray many more humans would be able to configure their brains & mind to the frequency that cheating would never be an option.

I couldnt bear to watch this video alone, so I called my mum to watch it too. Its rather traumatic watching such and Lord knows that because of issues like this I vowed to leave the corporate world once I get married and pregnant. The life of 6am - 8pm would never allow one take care of children and my husband.

Wat good is in it when u bring forth babies and u cant take care of them? What wealth or riches am I chasing that I would give full control to a nanny?‎
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I hope women from corporate Nigeria would learn a lot from this and look for other ways to make ends meet.

Interesting thread.

tobechi74:
Rub pepper on the hand

Few yrs back, I wanted to stop this problem wit one of my baby cousins. She was abt 3yrs old and would suck endlessly. I rubbed nivaquine syrup all over her thumb. The first day,i was on close watch and as she tried sucking,she quickly pulled it out and frowned terribly.i laughed.

She waited for 2 mins and put it bak in her mouth and kept sucking it. I tried it for 2 days and wen it didnt stop her,i gave up. Shes a lot older now and has dropped the habit.

Some of these pics cannot be real. They were probably taken during a movie scene.

Why oh why do people orchestrate the pain of fellow humans? Ur husband is making u lose ur peace and happiness and I sympathise wit u,but killing ur hubby is not the answer.

I think effective communication would help matters here,also take your issue to God. The heart of man lies in the hands of God.

It may be hard,but wen angry, pause for a minute to think of how to get out of the situation,keep mute for a minute and then walk away.

The sisters really look alike.
Wishing her a blissful marriage.

Don't lose hope.

What really is the problem? Remember that we wrestle not against flesh and blood but against principalities and powers in high places.

what ever battle you are facing, you can not fight it by yourself, Let God fight the battle. It might seem like it is taking years for you to see the results, but in everything, there are times and seasons.

Does the hip hop song glorify God?

If the words of the song does not glorify God, then what good is in it??

Omg, I made a similar post almost a year ago because I knew it would be perfect when we finally meet.

I love your creativity, I write, so I always appreciate a well written piece.

you can have your engagement and white on the same day.

Engagement very early in the morning and church afterwards. this would save some costs.

then limit number of invites and be wise in choosing reception venue.

no, I havnt tried arranged dates or hookups.

Thanks a lot guys!
To the person asking if I'm fine,all I'd do is smile.I would not blow my own horn,but yes I am indeed goodlooking.
I'm cute,and have some really attractive features. I'm average height,about 5"5,brown skin,nice eyes that always attract the wrong men,they call it bedroom eyes,lol.
I'm not fat or slim,some define me as portable.lol!

I decided to leave that out from my earlier post because I don't want to seem vain.

I spoke to my church pastor and his wife a few weeks ago and he ministers in the prophetic.he said I need not rush because the man God has made for me would be a major encouragement to my ministry,and ofcourse all the past men can't be bothered much with church.

I am a God lover and try as much as possible to keep his laws and stay close to church.

Yes I'm a professional,we do have get togethers which I try to attend,but nothing yet.
I appreciate all your replies.

I like books, so I go to a Christian bookshop, I go to the movies, weddings, then anywhere else that sounds fun.



I do have some male friends, but 2 of them recently just got married to their old time gf.



the friends I have now are cool, calm girls, they also don't go out much.



to the person who asked, when I said iv met drinkers, etc, I don't drink, but don't knw how I ended up meeting some. okay some I met tru friends, somebody may say, ohh that ur friend, give me her number,etc. then id find out they are abit too wild for me, so that's how I actually met some. tried making some calm down, but didn't work much.



the men I dated and one actually proposed but we had to end the relationship because of genotype AS issue. both AS. it wasn't funny, and I was hurt. but that was a while ago and im ready to meet my own.



lol at riot act. would my mother/father wait to even listen to me quote out the sections? I don't think so dear.

awwww, thanks a lot for your response so far, I appreciate it.



well the God factor, no man has the power to control that, because when God says it is time, then it truly is time.



@eragablessn, yes I know that I cant possibly meet all good men if I remain indoors, but iv also tried in my own power to go out and enjoy the great outdoors. yes there are good men in church but majority of the ones I have seen are either engaged or hooked. I believe I am also tender and gentle at heart, I am very industrious, I am goal driven, encouraging and make out time to develop myself always.



well I wanted to get married at age 25, but id be 28 in a few months. I guess God has great plans for each of us, though it may not go as one may have planned.



thanks @bellong, the pressure is not a joke, but I try to remain sane and calm with it all.

Hello guys,compliments of the season to everyone,hope everyone is doing great.

I'm actually feeling led to post here,though I don't post much at all,but for some reason,I woke up this morning and was feeling abit incomplete,hence coming here to seek some advice on how to live through it all.
I understand that I would get encouraging comments as well as immature and ridiculous comments,but all in all,its the grace of God that has kept us all sane and alive till date.

I never thought I'd be the lady staying calm and waiting almost endlessly for the one I would spend the rest of my life with.the one who would one day become my husband and the father of my children.my best friend and love.

I'm generally not the woman you would see often on d streets as I am mostly indoors,I was brought up to be around home,and as such days I have tried going out on my own hasn't been fruitful.I end up spending a few minutes out,then head back home,I also have limited friends because most of the ones I call friends are away in far cities and countries. The few I have around are mostly all married and don't hang out much either.

I am a christian and have noticed that I have a thing for christian men who are filled with the word of God.needless to say that I would eventually be gettin into ministry in my older years,and every prophetic word I have heard about my marriage has pointed to the fact that the man God has prepared for me would also most likely be in ministry and a huge God lover.

Now the thing is where on earth is this man?I am tired of waiting and I don't want to make a mistake.I am in my late 20's slowly approachin 30 soon and would like to settle within the next one year.

My family is puttin a lot of pressure on me and I am starting to crumble under the pressure of havin to remain sane while waiting for my own.I have indeed met a lot of other men who I dare not settle with.eg party rockers,drinkers,womanizers and the rest.does it mean that all the good men are taken?

Asides waiting,I also want to feel loved,wanted and appreciated.I want him so much already.

I am a professional lady,I am yoruba,I am gentle,kind hearted and want to continue serving God.

what can I do to remain calm?

how long more would I need to wait?

does it mean that there is no other Godly man out there?

Lord,I'm not trying to sound funny,but you know I'm a good girl,why does it seem like all the good men are finished?or all of them are taken or about to wed?I haven't met a genuinely good single man in a while.Most of the genuine,honest and loving ones have either been to the altar, or already have the date they would kneel before You for blessings.

Lord you know You are the love of my life and no one would ever take your place,but I think its now time to meet my own special rib.

You know all those people you made me meet,it was all for a reason,to teach me and mold me into who I have become today.what more can I say,than to be thankful.Some truly pleasant and some unpleasant experiences,but all in all,totaly thankful to you boo.

Nothing compares to your loving presence,and guess what,when I do meet that very special man,I'd shower him with so much love that He would have no other choice than to bow before You and be thankful.

why do people waste their time on irrelevant topics?

I wonder what God would be thinking when He sees some topics on this forum. Jesus is the image of God the father, so why would anyone say He is ugly??

when you see Him in His Glory, you and me will not be able to stand and you will have no other choice than to fall flat on your face. His beauty can never be described with words, and you and me will see on the last day what a beauty He is!

As we get ready to start the new year, please let us not rob God of Tithe. God is not stupid for giving us that rule. He is a Faithful God.
Pay your Tithe and test if your Heavens would not be open.

there are many defaulters on this principle, its hard, but again takes discipline and focus.

This is God we are talking about here, not man. He is not a Liar, The one who watches over Israel neither sleeps nor slumbers. Try it, remain faithful and see for yourself.

i actually eat up almost half of the food before its ready, then wen its done, id be too full to eat!

Hello my sweetheart,you have been years and months away,but I know that you are no longer far off,infact,I can say that you are only moments away till I meet you.

You have waited for me,and have searched for me and I can only say that it has all bin worth the wait.indeed I have met those who claim to be you,but ended up not bin you,and guess what?that has only made me a better,stronger and patient lady.

You are a romantic man and I truly cannot wait till you begin to blow me away with your beautiful heart.you are a hardworker,yet gentle enough to let your adorable smile light up my heart each day.

You are you,and I know you have searched for me everywhere.I am here now boo,and I know that in your 30+plus years on earth,you have accomplished enough to make you stand up proud to say that you indeed are ready to build a family with me. I'm catching up age wise to you now,though I have a few more years to hit the big 30!I love you so much already and can't wait till the moment I meet you.

Your love and passion for God is infectious and I love how you always want us to attend vigils waiting for God to move over our lives.

Look at how gorgeous you are,with the beauty within your heart keeping my heart warm.Your yoruba heritage makes it all more perfect as you are able to flow with me and my family.

Did I tell you that I am romantic too? I will shower you with love and kisses and you will wonder what planet I have been hiding.I will make you a better man in the totality of our existence and then you will know that surely,God has sent a blessing your way.

Take care sweetheart,till we truly meet soon.lots of love.xxxx