Family / Re: Is It Okay To Let Your Fiancée Know Your Monthly Salary Range? by cpapa: 3:41pm On May 19, 2023 |
babaYIBO: I’ve been dating this girl since early last year when I was still serving and she’s really into me. She doesn’t bill me unless I purposely send her something. And we occasionally hangout a lot too.
By mid last year, I brought her home to meet my mum and some of my siblings. My mum likes her so much and she would spend time with me in our house.
I finished my service around September last year, and I started hunting for job. I was taking online classes etc..
So I got a job earlier this year, and the pay isn’t bad. Only my mum knows how much I’m earning and few friends. My girl doesn’t know.
Now, I’m likely to be getting a pay rise this month.
I’m also planning to get married to this girl next year, hopefully, she’s been a good girl even when I was jobless.
I don’t know if it’s okay to let her know my salary range. Although I’d not be telling her specifically the amount.
Is this a good idea? No try am I repeat no try am 1 Like |
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Career / Re: CEO Back Home Now Cleaning Nyash In UK - Curvy Nigerian Lady Breaks Down In Tear by cpapa: 2:33pm On Mar 10, 2023 |
Na the same nyash I dey clean here I I collect my pay at d end of the week and change am omo e dey reach 600k per week 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: Delta 2023: APC, Omo-Agege Solicit ‘Obidients’ Votes by cpapa: 8:20am On Mar 06, 2023 |
Fahdiga: Nothing will ever make Obidients to vote for APC. This is stale as it came. Make una no try am any thing APC is gone |
Politics / Re: We Own Lagos, We Own Nigeria - King West, MC Oluomo’s Son Boasts by cpapa: 4:39pm On Mar 01, 2023 |
Let's not make him relevant 119 Likes 6 Shares |
Politics / Re: If Obi Win Any State From North Or South West Call Me BASTARD by cpapa: 4:37pm On Mar 01, 2023 |
Bastard son 2 Likes |
Nairaland / General / Re: Prince Uche Egesi Drums Support For Rt. Hon. Chinedum Orji For Federal House Of by cpapa: 7:27pm On Sep 05, 2022 |
That nonsense guy way d only thing he knows is just to be drinking on his Facebook wall I pity the people that voted him as councilor. The guy can drink for Africa no single constituency project Sorry for the guy ND sorry for ibeku people |
Nairaland / General / Re: Prince Uche Egesie Drums Support For Rt. Hon. Chinedum Orji For Federal House by cpapa: 7:24pm On Sep 05, 2022 |
That nonsense guy way d only thing he knows is just to be drinking on his Facebook wall I pity the people that voted him as councilor. The guy can drink for Africa no single constituency project |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by cpapa: 9:54pm On Aug 15, 2022 |
Lexusgs430:
Only your wife gets a supporting letter, your visa is hinged on her application....... So be a good boy ....... ![wink](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/wink.png) but I know a family that have gone they gave both main and dependant the letter |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by cpapa: 8:12pm On Aug 15, 2022 |
Lexusgs430:
You're the extra bag ........ Don't fight with Madam o, so she does not leave you behind in buhari/tinubu's nigeria............ ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) Any idea |
Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 8 by cpapa: 5:31pm On Aug 15, 2022 |
Good morning Gurus in the house please I need your advice I was given a 2yrs visa to UK but it didn't come with a supporting letter why that of my wife came with a supporting letter she will show to the immigration upon arrival am a dependent. |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by cpapa: 5:27pm On Aug 15, 2022 |
Good morning Gurus in the house please I need your advice I was given a 2yrs visa to UK but it didn't come with a supporting letter why that of my wife came with a supporting letter she will show to the immigration upon arrival am a dependent. |
Travel / Re: General UK Visa Enquiries - Part 5 by cpapa: 4:13pm On Aug 15, 2022 |
Good evening Gurus in the house please I need you advice my Uk visa I have been given a 2yrs Visa as a dependent bit it didn't not come with a supporting letter what do I do |
Health / Re: How To Get Rid Of External Genital Warts In 3 Days by cpapa: 7:36pm On Aug 06, 2022 |
Please am having this terrible pain from my buttock to my laps I have taken drugs ND I have browse it they say is call scaitia |
Travel / Re: Man Praises Hope Uzodinma Over Road: "If You Wan Build Road, Build Better Road". by cpapa: 4:16pm On Jul 27, 2022 |
Make UNA leave the guy |
Travel / Re: Think Well Before You ‘Japa’ — Nigerian Man Shows Homeless People In US (Video) by cpapa: 7:43pm On Jun 14, 2022 |
Artiiclebeast:
Demons...
You are evil to think you can and must succeed alone.
Goat.. Bros no mind the guy he does not have up to 10k for account Nd maybe no work too Nd he discouraging people |
Travel / Re: Cost Of A Nigeria International Passport by cpapa: 10:08pm On May 23, 2022 |
giselle237: try next week..
PCO is doing business/corruption na so |
Travel / Re: Cost Of A Nigeria International Passport by cpapa: 10:03pm On May 23, 2022 |
EbonyCy:
They should have cos i was told to come pick mine up tomorrow I went there today Nd was told to come on Thursday |
Travel / Re: Cost Of A Nigeria International Passport by cpapa: 7:21am On May 21, 2022 |
please can someone confirm if port Harcourt immigration office has 32page passport I was to collect on may2 till now no show |
Romance / Re: Do You Know Of Anyone Repaying The Nirsal Covid-19 Loan? by cpapa: 8:45pm On May 09, 2022 |
I was send an account no to pay to
but I never get money to pay |
Politics / Re: Sit At Home Unknown Gunmen Kill Igbo Returnees This Morning by cpapa: 12:13pm On May 05, 2022 |
Waywardchild: Our people pls sit at home. Nnamdi Kanu is suffering for us we cannot be enjoying while he is in jail sit where are u ok |
Politics / Re: Sit At Home Unknown Gunmen Kills Three Travelers GRAPHIC PICS by cpapa: 12:48pm On May 02, 2022 |
minasi4841: May their soul rip. We are not in support of the killings. But our people should just obey this MNK mumu don dey enter Una head |
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Travel / Re: UK Startup And Innovator Visa - My Journey On How I Got An Endoresement by cpapa: 4:33pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
@buster nice innovation I would like to be part of it |
Nairaland / General / Re: High Chief Obi Aguocha Declares For House Of Reps Before Members Of Ikwuano Leg by cpapa: 12:08pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
he should go and sit down |
Crime / Re: Abia 2023: Chikwe Udensi Picks APGA Governorship Nomination Form by cpapa: 7:29pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
the guy on blue was the guy that had accident that Came out of a damage car check him on Facebook chinedum obilor |
Nairaland / General / Re: How To Build A Website Site by cpapa: 1:51pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
good |
Politics / Re: Abia Deputy Governor, Ude Oko Joins Governorship Race by cpapa: 8:23pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
the man is use less he has no vision for the state 8yrs speaker 8yr deputy governor now wants to be governor God forbid 2 Likes 1 Share |
Nairaland / General / Re: . by cpapa: 11:11pm On Mar 02, 2022 |
where is ur location |
Family / Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by cpapa: 7:54pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
oladiddy: My wife and I have been married for over 3 years now with a beautiful daughter who is 2years plus but things are falling apart everyday.
Whenever we had arguments she will want to sabotage my job. Couple of months ago, we had an argument and I was to give update to my team via teams meeting (I work from home)..My wife keep raising her voice, I left the living room and went to bedroom lock the door behind to continue with my meeting but surprisingly to me, my wife went through the window and started the drama again.
Just yesterday there was another drama and she picked my phone unknowingly and call my overall boss.
Note: it is from this job am sponsoring her Masters in one of the centers in Uniport and also feeding the family. More than 70% of my monthly earnings goes to her. I am not a social person..I don't drink and either spend lavishly.
My wife is a very proud person and she has this obvious non challant attitude which are all seen by family members. Everybody keep talking about her but she's not changing. Although I have my own differences as well but she believe I can't control her. She's not submissive at all...I can say that over again and again.
Even while she's doing her masters, I was the one taking care of my daughter at home (thanks to covid)..in fact all my team members knows my daughter as my second colleague. I believe we all know how working from home with kids is like.
Please I need your advice. I am already thinking of divorce but the fear of loosing my daughter to her custody is my biggest challenge.
I am loosing my mind.
Please push to FP! guy dont be afraid she will be d one that we regret someday just hold on to ur daughter 2 Likes 1 Share |
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Autos / Re: Very Clean Registered Toyota Camry 2005 by cpapa: 5:36pm On Sep 08, 2021 |
1.4m |