Brilliant as always. You did not disappoint.

Once in a while, we meet someone who we completely overlook their flaws and just want to be with them. We break all the rules to put them on a pedestal, for instance, in your case, a guy that is repeatedly verbally abusive to you is a good guy. It is possible that when someone asks why you think he is a good guy, you just can't say. If this is the case, then his goodness is in your head. In this case, there is really nothing else for you to do but cease communication with him, blocked and delete his contact, tell his family that he was abusive and you guys are no longer together. If you have the opportunity, move away from where you live presently. I cannot promise you that you will stop loving him, but I can promise you that if you stop communicating with him, it will feel like you have stopped loving him and eventually you will begin to forget details about him like all those numbers you memorized, the little details that make you think he is a good guy and maybe eventually, you will meet someone who takes your breath away.

I'm a guy so I can tell you that the second guy doesn't love you more than you love him or else he wouldn't be able to walk away. So, you should probably consider leaving him too. Yeah, body counts, I know. But a girl should learn to worry less about that or else, she will be forever stuck with the runt of the human race.

So, the advice you were looking for is: cut them both off. If the second one comes begging, then take him back. If not, replace him. Two, remember that every new broom sweeps well, so if you have issues with a guy now, the issues are going to get worse with time. Three, never go back to an old lover, unless you do so experimentally, because it is like reading a book twice: you know how it ends.

All the best.

ubunja:
For guys getting triggered over this writeup.....





And don't worry guys, I got you. It's gonna be sweet when I put out writeups for Male Gold Diggers. Just chillax.

While some guys are wondering if Ubunja has switched camps, I'm sitting here with a bottle of beer thinking, "What a wonderful guy!". Now I know how to fall in love if I want and I know how not to ever fall in love and how to keep a girl committed. What power! What sure-handedness! What freedom!

Ubunja, you the man!

Awesome work as usual. The amount of research that goes into your work is nothing short of amazing. People would think that women should hate the truths in these revelation but I think different. Actually, I would not like to come up against a girl that knows these things because she is going to be a bit more difficult than the rest. So why do women complain about your post @ubunja? I wonder.

No green light, no approach! I always love your conclusion. Well done!

Yes, this is all true. Rather than fight it or try to prevent it (of course you can only try), some guys prefer to come up with their own plans too and ensure that the girl's spree is not executed with their money. Two can play that game. Thanks @Ubunja, you took your time on this one. Awesome delivery as usual.

ubunja:


There's a level of Attention and Validation that if a woman gets from men it cancels out her need for Sex. The female sex drive differs from the male sex drive in this aspect. While the male sex drive is a physical hunger like the hunger for food or the thirst for water, The female sex drive is VALIDATIONAL in nature.


#TheRedPill
#MGTOW

This is the meat of post. You did it again @ubunja. I know things but I learn a lot more than I know from each post you make. The time you spent writing this is worth everything: it improves the ease with which we get to navigate this world. Well done!

The thing about your writing @ubunja, is that you write stuff most players do but don't really know why they do it or why it works all the time, only that it works. When a non-player judiciously apply it, he would immediately get the results that the players are getting and he would wonder if it is a fluke until he has tried it a few times. You make this a science and we are grateful for your insight. Thanks a lot.