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Romance / Re: Pls I Need Advice/he Wants Me To Change Everything About Myself. by crystalflies: 8:30pm On Feb 23, 2015
Whatever
whizbee:
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Working on my rap album
Romance / Re: Pls I Need Advice/he Wants Me To Change Everything About Myself. by crystalflies: 8:28pm On Feb 23, 2015
U no well....,
StPete:
And what do you mean by 'guys can be trickish (tricky)'?

Sometimes I wish I can just e-slap somebody
Romance / Re: Pls I Need Advice/he Wants Me To Change Everything About Myself. by crystalflies: 8:26pm On Feb 23, 2015
Nice... Thks
Beamborla:
Did he not see you with the trousers and make up before running after you?
if you want to make this kind of changes, it has to be for yourself and out of your own conviction; not to please someone.
Romance / Re: Pls I Need Advice/he Wants Me To Change Everything About Myself. by crystalflies: 8:14pm On Feb 23, 2015
Thanks
missjenna:
Op, I read your post and I have a lot to say

Firstly,I don't like religious fanatics. They believe that their belief is superior to that of others and everyone should follow their beliefs and behave the same way they behave

Op I believe this guy is one of them religious fanatics. No offense.
I won't dabble into religious ordinances as pertaining dressing because If I do, that means I would be writing a whole epistle.

But I have to say this, nobody has the right to force you into his belief. He hasn't even married you and his is already expressing his authority in such a manner.
I don't think wearing make-up and trousers has anything to do with your level of spirituality.

Now op, I have a question for you. Do you love this guy. Because if you don't then I don't see why you should continue with the relationship. Their are other men out there that would respect you for who you are

As for me, I don't like this kind of guy. Please I am just speaking for myself. These kind of men are too domineering. They feel like they own you and you should submit fully to their laws.

Op, don't change who you are because of a man. That's all I have to say
Romance / Pls I Need Advice/he Wants Me To Change Everything About Myself. by crystalflies: 5:45pm On Feb 23, 2015
I've known him around my hood for 6yrs now, he's been trying to get 2 me since the 1st day he set eyes on me,but i always ignored him, a year ago anytime he sees me he would be shouting Hey!!! With a command tone asking me 2 give him 1min., i ignored him few times, but 1day i just decided to listen to him, and also tell him to stop calling me "Hey" cuz it was annoying, so i told him my name, and i asked what he wanted, he said he liked me & he wants 2 make me his wife, it took time before i released my fone number 2 him, cuz i think he's proud, he took time 2 understand d kind of person i was before he was able to get me to reason with him, Now i know he's a good person and he only wants a "good thing" and not a "bad thing" from me. He came 2 my house once..... He attends MFM church and he says i will have to change for him , he said i should think about how i am going 2 stop wearing trousses,wearing hair ext., makeup,earrings etc. That's if i want 2 be his wife, "i frowned with my eyes" lol... cuz am not good @ respondin quickly but i told him it aint possible,... But he said i should go and pray and think about it., the next time we discussed i told him i cant change anything, cuz i sat down 1day and imagined giving out all my troussers jewelries and makeup away, and i realized i cant do it. So i 4got about him, after a wee... while he came again still asking me 2 change, and i still told him i cannot, and that i dont want 2 talk about this again...,the third time he came again i had to tell him bluntly " if u cant accept me the way i am then leave me alone" if i have to sacrifice my style for him what will he sacrifice for me in return. Relationship experts always say you shouldnt try to change someone, So now he called yesterday telling me to 4get d issue dat his friend from lagos wants 2 talk 2 me, dat his friend adviced him., i was not in town so i couldnt go, but promised 2 see them coming weekend, Now my fear is dat his friend might want 2 talk me into changing my mind, which may get me upset. I dont like it wen people try 2 change me. U know guys can be trickish*, I need ur advice AM I RIGHT OR AM WRONG IN MY ACTIONS AND REACTIONS??
Music/Radio / Re: Young Entertainment Writer Needed by crystalflies: 5:26pm On Feb 19, 2015
Solelymag@gmail.com
nhop:
Are you young, have a flare for entertainment, ready to challenge the norm and can express his/her words through writing? If yes, kindly drop your email address.

P:S You must have a laptop and access to the internet. This is a paid gig
Literature / Re: It's Been 8yrs, I Don't Know Where Patrick Is. by crystalflies: 6:16pm On Feb 18, 2015
FUNNY!
stint:
I told u the data is what will be used to get the results. Orunmila needs to ping yemoja. Oya send 500mb first. Later u ll complete it.
Literature / Re: It's Been 8yrs, I Don't Know Where Patrick Is. by crystalflies: 8:48pm On Jan 29, 2015
Lol....Are u kidding me? I need 2 see results before i do sacrifice of 1G data ooh ,
stint:

Ifa says you will see him when u least expect at a time when u think it is no longer possible. He has moved on too, he has a son now. He remembers u too and he is doing well. You have moved on, thats good. If u want IFA to help draw the meeting closer, you will have to make a sacrifice, you will have to send the Gods 1Gig mtn data. Orunmila needs to ping yemoja because she is the one who can go across the seas to bring your beloved patrick.

Literature / Re: It's Been 8yrs, I Don't Know Where Patrick Is. by crystalflies: 8:34pm On Jan 28, 2015
What did ifa say
stint:
Wait let me ask IFA
Literature / Re: It's Been 8yrs, I Don't Know Where Patrick Is. by crystalflies: 8:32pm On Jan 28, 2015
Nope.. Can't even remember, [quote author=ruffhandu post=30125569][/quote]
Literature / Re: It's Been 8yrs, I Don't Know Where Patrick Is. by crystalflies: 8:31pm On Jan 28, 2015
Nope ... I have absolutely no idea or material dat can help me trace,, so i rest my case. There are lots of fish in d water though..
ruffhandu:


What about where he used to live?
Literature / Re: It's Been 8yrs, I Don't Know Where Patrick Is. by crystalflies: 8:28pm On Jan 28, 2015
Ethereeal na 4 wher u frm waka come
Ethereal0110:
i cant recall his surname , but he is ibo guy
Travel / Re: How Can A Nigerian Get To Las Vegas? by crystalflies: 11:13pm On Jan 27, 2015
2 option; Enter canoe. Or call ur tavel agent.....
GlitzPrincess:
HOW CAN A NIGERIAN GET TO LAS VEGAS please guys? We have a Nigerian passport and a driving license

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Literature / Re: It's Been 8yrs, I Don't Know Where Patrick Is. by crystalflies: 11:05pm On Jan 27, 2015
I cant recall his surname
[quote author=ruffhandu post=30125569][/quote]
Literature / Re: It's Been 8yrs, I Don't Know Where Patrick Is. by crystalflies: 12:49pm On Jan 25, 2015
Thanks i dont have his email add,
ruffhandu:
Meme,
Why didn't you guys ever used email?
Anyway, don't know anything about his heritage?
I feel you sha. But lemme warn you: if you meet again now, you may likely continue from where you stopped.
Literature / Re: It's Been 8yrs, I Don't Know Where Patrick Is. by crystalflies: 8:04pm On Jan 24, 2015
Mai fwend! Go n sleep ! Wat do u knw?
Cutehector4u:
Any story dat ends with to be continued is a fiction and as such shouldn't be believed. I am entitled to my opinion
Literature / Re: It's Been 8yrs, I Don't Know Where Patrick Is. by crystalflies: 8:02pm On Jan 24, 2015
Lol , indeed
Zehner:
you better come and complete the story. angry u knw weda I b 'patrick' sister?
Literature / It's Been 8yrs, I Don't Know Where Patrick Is. by crystalflies: 5:55pm On Jan 24, 2015
TRUE STORY
I was a teen, he was in his late twenties, we met @ my office,
i finished secondary sch. @ an early age and started working so as to earn, 1 morning my boss told me someone was coming from Reltel office to deliver some phones to us, he gave me his number and told me the guy would call me for directions, "fast4ward........
He called several times,...when he got 2 ojota bstop i told him 2 get a cab and drop @ a specific bustop, durin our conversation over d fone he told me he liked my voice, i told him tanks & rolled my eyes, i was like; if na 1 ugly mororoe him be i go jst bone my face, i dont hav time 2 b wooed,
Finally... He called n told me he'd dropped frm d cab and he,s outside my office, OK.. I felt a little awkward, i told myself be nice or be rude,or be both, i went out ,saw him, & led him in, he was a tall brown & fine guy, ........ok i was nice, i told him welcome offerd him a sit and asked for wat he brought, instead he said wow u are as beautiful as ur voice, give me the fones 1st i told him, he was just smiling and lookin @ me
TO BE CONTINUED.....

He handed the package to me and i signed on a receipt, where u came from is really far u hav 2 start going.. i told him, he said yes, but he was still sittin down, he told me he felt like spendin time with me and mayb we can be friends and i said yes, i was laffin @ him inside, he seemed like a simple guy, he left,.. When he got bck to his office he called again, dats how he kept on callin days later, and yeah i called back na.... We kept a long distance rlatnship over some months, he talked about marriage and me comin to his place @ surulere,... I was scared i never went. The 2nd time he came 2 my office, i was excited 2 see him. But i was jst lookin, we were talkin & we ran out of tinz 2 talk about.... "MOMENT OF silence" just wen i was about lookin away he grabbed my chin and kissed me,, i was like Whaat?! Na so My head scatter, i didn't knw what 2 do, so i kissed him back, we talked and he left believe me i was scared being a teen @ d time, .
Later on he called and told me he was leavin Reltel, then both of us were using reltel lines with kyocera phones my number was 014364627 & his was 014970848; "these numbers dnt exist anymore" ( i guess reltel has changed 2 visafone now) truly he left and was wrkin with samsung but work there was boring 4 him, he had stopped using his reltel line and was now using a normal line, must hav been Mtn line , we later quarelled over wat i cant recall right now, we were still callin each other, i left my job, abandoned my line; my mistake, i wrote his number somewhere but i lost it later,
ever since i have been thinkin about him, wishin and prayin dat our path will cross again ; they say the world is small but when i stand on the bridge in lagos i can see how big d city is,. Truth is i've been missin him for 8yrs now , wishin i could just see him again, i just want 2 knw how he's doing mayb he's married, travelled or watever, even if its jst a glimpse, i wonder if i can still recognize him, as 4 me my face never changed, even my old friends can recognize me frm far ,,, abeg if una help me see my PATRICK ,,, tell him MEME is lookin 4 him, dat was d pet name he use 2 call me, i remember he had 1 koko on his left wrist..
CHAI... LOVE IS NOT FAIR Ooh
i have MoveD on but i miss him and am wishin 2 see him again.
THE END.
Family / Re: Meet The Nigerian Woman Who Married At 43, Gave Birth At 60 ( Photo ) by crystalflies: 2:46pm On Jan 14, 2015
[quote author=lalasticlala post=29782479][/quote]# when they told me ‘this is your baby; it’s a perfect baby,’ I wanted to scream and say ‘Wow! So this is what was in my womb!’ I lack words to explain. Even though I was in pains, I couldn’t sleep throughout that day. I was just looking at her and I kept saying to myself, ‘So this is you I have been waiting for. Where did you hide?’ I was really very happy.”#
cheesy[b] GOD IS BEAUTIFUL.[b]

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Jokes Etc / Re: HELP!! Am Having Butt Ache by crystalflies: 2:09pm On Jan 14, 2015
LWKM grin
Maakhir:
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Jokes Etc / HELP!! Am Having Butt Ache by crystalflies: 1:53pm On Jan 14, 2015
I have been having unusual feeling in my Butt. i don't know, maybe i have additional fats there , i dunno
pls any one who can guess the cause? or have any ideas Y
Crime / Re: Ex-Banker Forces His 9-Year-Old House Maid To Have MouthAction With Him In Benin by crystalflies: 12:57pm On Jan 14, 2015
THE THREAT IS ALWAYS TO #KILL THE VICTIM if she says anything undecided[
quote author=lalasticlala post=29762482][/quote]

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