Kewellbanks:
You still doesn't have to judge. You are judging from mere assumptions which is very wrong even in the court of law it takes several years to convict a victim if hasn't found guilty. That's why they go on several trials. Just not as the Bible says

@Kewellbanks respect to you. You are right just not as the Bible says. In a court of law it is who can change the mind of jury. So the guy with best lawyer always win. Yeah morally i shouldn't judge thanks for pointing that out this could have happened to anyone for all i know the op could be telling the truth or painting the truth. It is better everyone hear both side of the story that's the deceased parents side of the story.

echesilver:
Would u say this if she hadn't died..be wise

I honestly dont know but am going to ask question or questions why someone donated her kidney to a stranger. Or would you do that?

Awoo88:
The story no complete. 2hy are you the one taking responsibility even after being separated from your former commander?? You are posted to another part yet your boss doesn't have subordinates taking care of his house in his absence that you have to be the one in hospital with his maid. You are more involved in the kidney transplant than you are letting on. You probably secure the service of the girl for your boss. Na you the family know and it is you that acted as a middle man that is why you are been held responsible.

Lobatan

PhilipReigns:

I didn't want to comment before, but for this last statement of yours, let me be honest with you Mr para military agent (aka police man) hiding his identity. Nobody donates a kidney for free, except of course it's out of ignorance. My aunty who was a police woman died from kidney problem in 2014, I know what we saw. Both the carrier of the ailment, and the donor will lose their lives at the end of the day, at most between 2 to 3 years after a successful transplant, d ailment is that terrible! The same way u re hiding your career as a police officer is the same way u are hiding true facts from the public, we shall gladly give u a lasting solution to this in the form of an advice when u have fully decided to tell us the whole truth about the innocent girl's death. Good day!

Thank you @PhilipReigns some people believe we are all gullible.

Kewellbanks:
Are you not here to judge? His Boss probably killed his wife and the secret cult needed another head right? Why are human so judgemental when there's no concrete proof? I fear people like you pass snake

@Kewellbanks if you believe that story then you'll believe anything. For the fact that there is no prove doesn't mean one cant connect the dot in this story.

Average Nigerians will never give their kidney willingly to another person (my opinion) and those that are less privileged no matter the poverty won't willingly give out their kidney to a stranger. So you are telling me the boss doesn't have siblings, extended family, inlaws etc.

The part i would like to know is how a medical Dr in Germany carried out the operation without checking if the donor is related to his boss. so you sincerely believe the operation was done in Germany?

James4358:
Am not from your part of the country where money ritual is the order of the day. People earn as much as 400k plus monthly as civil servants in this country,. Keep ur money ritual thoughts to urself.

Hahaha funny you arent from my part of the country where do you think am from? I use to watch nollywood movies and i see the haplening there all tribe in Nigeria do money ritual so stop the prejudice towards some tribe.

The question is

HOW MUCH WERE U PAID.

Anyway back to your story. Don't ever agree to marrying her dead corpse.

veave:
Hmm. Hope no be African Magic series be this


Having read this story, I feel something fishy went down. I put it to you that you guys kept looking for naive and gullible house help until you got the perfect person who's kidneys matched. So you're trying to say that in all the 300million plus people in Nigeria, you just randomly picked one person as domestic staff and boom, you got a donor? Search yourself Mr man. What is even surprising me is that you sound so casual about a whole human life lost. All you're still thinking is yourself and what would happen to you if you do or do not perform the said rites.

How convinient for your Boss to run away and leave the mess for you to clean up.


Kai!!! God will punish poverty!!!
God punish poverty!!!
God punish poverty!!!

It is well. And Amen to the prayers it is painful to read whole story the funniest thing is nothing is going to happen to this oga

James4358:
Stop being shallow minded. Not every happening u'll termed as being occultic or related to money ritual. Do u knw the salary structure of an Assistant Comptroller of correction? I bliv u dnt.

Sorry @James4358 you cant see what your boss is into. Explain to me why a stranger offer her kidney to your boss. How much did he pay her how much were you paid. Can we hear her parents side of the story because there is always 2 or more sides to a story.
Beside it is against medical ethics to buy or sell kidney

James4358:
No one seems to understand my story. I was practicaly far away from them. I was working in calabar at the time when she was at abuja. But nt for respect for the dead, i would have uploaded her pics. This girl was jst too big for her age. She was 21yrs old this january. I was the one who approached her parents for her services, that's why the blame is upon me. As am typing, my boss is stil abroad & planning to return to nigeria this week. She was never used or forced.

That is your side of the story let us hear the parents side then we are gonna know the truth.

I am pissed right now. Cuz u took advantage of their poverty.

You need restitution your boss is evil esu satanic

I don't want to judge here, but officer your story is too good to be true. You've painted a picture as if you are saints here but you are not. Because of poverty you guys use this girl for exchange.

1) your boss have family extended family why can they not offer their own kidney why this young girl.

2) how much were you paid be honest.... why didn't you give your boss your own kidney since You've known him longer.

3) your boss probably killed his wife, now his secret cult need another head he used this ibiobio girl for exchange.

4) you come across like someone from ibiobio or efik, am going to be honest with you next time is going to be your head if God never destroy you.

God is going to judge you. Go confess to her parents how much you were paid.

SEGLIZ:

@Zzor, you no just well chai!
have told you leave marriage to those that value it and remain at peace.
why you like dey drink headache for another person water abi na drink water for another person headache?
apostle Paul in the Bible chose not marry that was his choice but still he didn't go around discouraging people because he felt he wouldn't cope in marriage.
he even wrote more script on marriage than any other of his contemporaries. he went as far admonishing couples on how to manage their union.
marriage is an establishment of God and a mare fantasy of man as such we are suppose to value, cherish and hold it in high esteem.
embrace peace to know it, know peace and embrace it.

Thank you for the knowledge. God bless you sir. [

Georgekyrian:
Oh I'm very happy today, not because I already made it but because I found out on the long run I'm not the first and can never be the last. I join Nairaland since 2011 and since then is my best place to be online, like my particular Bestie will always say; Gi na Nairaland mgbe obula (you and Nairaland everytime), that's when she want my attention but only to found out Nairaland has it already.
This forum had made me learn a lot, find out a lot about life, know my worth, and now I cannot stay a day without surfing through this place at most 8 times on my busy days. I have my favorites pals here and can't get to their post without a gaze at the thread, when I talk about this people @Lalasticlala (snake lord) @explorer @ilegend @anuofgod @righteousness55 and lots.. comes to my mind.
Thanks you all for been family, thanks for the times we share, thanks for the knowledge.
Life comes with all it's challenges but above all things I give my God the glory
Let love leads

Happy birthday to you sir may God bless your new age oo more blessings more break-through more babies more money in your account too open doors

wany:

Sex can never be a compensation for being used.on a normal he can get all the sex he wants but not love and trust.na people like you naira Marley take sing awon girls lor ma sett tia up,a won boys lor ma fuc e up.the girls will everly use sex to sett you up and the boys will finish the deal, pervert

You are a legend. Frank and brutal but the truth sad some men abi na African men do think sex is everything.

managingpartner:


It's obvious she is not into you as you observed. I will suggest you move on. It's quite painful but you will be okay las las.

God bless you for your honesty ma. Me hope op go listen

omaclarry:
Bros let me help you: Call her, tell her how bad u felt, accept her apology, continue showing her love, plan her upcoming birthday, be the major sponsor, tell her you hav everytin sorted out for the d-day, help her invite friends even make enquiries for lounge to use.. make her happy.

on that day call ur guys, fyn better noisy bar hangout with them put ur phone for silence and allow the universe fight for you.

Most times you dont need to show ur pain and retaliate immidiately cos she will already be prepared for ur worse, but follow my advice nd watch her pain

Silent assassin you be . You are hire to work for cia. Respect sir

yetunsbay:
this life no balance. Me wey just met my gf (2months). She needs a phone and I'm afraid unfortunately she is been looking towards purchasing for her but for me ooo ain't ready buying any phone yet except we sex first. Buying the device no be the issue but man don learn. Talking fr experience.

My question is how can I achieve this without making it a pre requisite for purchasing her the gadget ?

Oga tell her the truth. If she is wife material she go stay if not she go waka

@londonbanks based on what I've read, your girlfriend doesn't love you, no feelings for you and she is using you.

Quick question, is this girl your first girlfriend? because you sounded like someone with first official gf, who is in love and wrapped up in love.

If you really want to pay her back with her own coin, break up with her on her birthday just ruin her day afterall you're not the only guy in her life.

Gosh this is awful.

What's the point of killing her? Now if you see people setting these armed bandit on fire you feel for them.

JONNYSPUTE:
...Nice one. Remain blessed

Kind of agree with you people ask because they care it is also chat up line to have conversation

pocohantas:


It is not about your kind of person, it is stereotyping. I am sure you are guilty of a few- I have spotted one sef. That is the same way he formed his own notion. You kept saying you haven’t eaten and it triggered his alarm...

Trigger his alarm lol. True most naija girl neva chop if u ask them

It could be the guy thought it is his duty to help you with food and bills, most naija girls automatically wants guys to help them card food, bills and help solve their family financial wahala. I know there are some good nigerian men out there same with women.

2017 i met a girl online became chat buddies. 2017 she helped me deliver a birthday cake to a friend, 2018 i was supposed to send her £22 for birthday cake accidentally sent her £2,200. Guess what she did? She returned all my money back i know theee are honest guys and ladies out there online.

Bola146:
I have met a lot of guys in Angel's image and I have met some useless, insane, kids, lazy guys here on nairaland, so I'm not surprised. I think he is looking forward to know much about you financially and materially. Just don't expose all your life to him, he is a pretender looking for sugar mummy ( they are many here especially those kids ) he knew you couldn't be hungry , just play along with him.

Your ex should go for another test second opinion matter alot.

bammo:


I have a close relation that no one has heard from since the day of the massacre.. we can't just jump into conclusion that he was killed by the army.. it's really complicated..
There's this woman that acknowledge that her son was killed in a YouTube video.

It is well sad that people can just vanished without a trace

Chai

So

Okay

Lol

decatalyst:
Finally, our ugwu has officially gone international!

I buy ogu leaves here fresh not frozen fresh which is awesome

NwaObinkita:

Shame on Nigeria.

We value the west more than our own.

-If LASG will pay for Holyfield to visit Lagos as a guest when Bash Ali is a tenant in Lagos.

-When we celebrate Halloween and demonize the Oro and Ekpe festivals.

-When Government officials use BMWs and Mercedes Benz when we have Innosons and yet scream buy Nigerian to grow the Naira

-When we watch Kaitlyn Jenner's show on E and call Denrele and Bobrisky perverts.

-When PeterPsquare, an Anambra boy goes to London just to watch live Chelsea FC matches yet he has never been to the Ifeanyi Uba FC Stadium at Nnewi.

-when herdsmen slaughters are not talked about by supposed celebrities but you hear them tweet #PrayForParis and co.

When will we value our own
When will our inferiority complex end

Still I weep

You just hit the nail on the head of everything wrong with that country

Lol

Life is tough ooo