nairaman66: Calabar girls are an epitome of class and beauty.. Now that's a fact! Even the city's topography speaks for itself.

Class?? Beauty?? Hmmm

Nice one

ifekemmy: most Africans especially the women are not satisfied the way God intended them to be so the cook up good excuses as to why they wear false hair,false nails,false eye lashes,even false boobs and backside too.they just want to copy the white people who colonised them,they are never free,they have also lost the true identity of an African women even some men too

Truth, i love my weaving

From your picture, you have make up on, and that u equally used attached. Please try building up your own self esteem by doing away with all the fakes on you. Thanks

bellalove: where ru based madam?

Sorry, just saw this now. In calabar. You?

Pictures of the shoes on a model

The 2nd one
Still very new

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Intresting let's get that of ladies too

I actually got them for personal use but they are a size to small(size 38). I Am putting it up for resale at #3500.

Here are pictures:

apolonius:

Tell him again in clear and serious terms. Many women convey serious messages in unserious ways,this many men do not always get.

If you love him,telling him again and again will not be bad. Of course,if he is unserious and the sex is so bad for you,then go for an AY with commitment.

Telling him again and again might be seen as nagging and the guy will get this "I am not appreciated or seen as good enough feeling" at the end of the day, he may end up cheating or leaving the OP.

Another is this teach him how to do it advice is quite tricky... Girl, u know your guy o (from what you said so far he's got some ego) if he is d kind that hates it when their woman tends to know more than them sexually then you shouldn't try that. And what's with the talks about telling you to manage etc, you are not married yet, so go for what you want. Don't decide to go along because peeps are telling you too.

Forgive her ignorance! Now that you know her own version of keeping a secret, Next time keep some things to your self. Just cool off for some time before going back.

Godmystrength:

i want sometime to pass before i raise it with him again but just want to know if it is not out of the ordinary. Who does that?

Lol! He loves you and is just insecure. His mind maybe playing tricks on him.

To mrs emioga...my dear, I really felt for you. Every1 has been advisin u to lovee ur hubby, but I will like to add, love your MIL too. Find a way to also love her and avoid every sort of confrontation(but its good to voice out once in a while so you don't die in silence but don't insult) are you a christain? If yes, devote time to church activities, altleast it takes you out of the house. You can learn a skill too. It will pass.

Tenderlover: No No, my hubby complements me. Five years down the line and I am glad I said Yes to him. He is not perfect though and neither I my but I love the way he loves me.

Ma'am so the thought of how it would be with someone else has never crossed your mind evn for a second

Larrysky: Not yet married but scared i might loose it on the way. Fear of getting bored

Lol! You can never get bored o. When the kids are there? When u have to argue, disagree to agree with your partner? And God forbid, you enter one chance, you will hav lots of blows to contend with. Lots of hubby's gfs to keep tabs on or enough fasting and prayer sessions for you. Not boredom o, far from it

What if he is trying to save your bro the stress of having to drive down to Enugu for the whole process(

Igbo process demands coming like 2-3times b4 the main ceremony) rather you guys only come once for the trad ceremony?

If he is not comfortable with it, he can still follow the due process

aisha2: This is not a minor issue. "at my discretion" doesnt work in
If you want to be a traditional wife dont come complaining when he acts like a traditional husband.

Will the husband be the modern husband? Because it won't be a biggie. If both are modern. But When the Man wants her to act like a modern wife, while he still acts like a traditional husband.....hmmm

ElFenomeno1:

Let me tell you something.... My role centres around three key areas

- Be a leader
- Love my dear lady unconditionally
- Serve and provide for my dear lady

As long as i am doing all of the things above well, my wife is happy... She will do some things without waiting for me to turn up.

Pot of stew? SMH... My wife doesnt wait for me to come back from trips before she heads to ASDA or Waitrose to do the weekly shopping... and no, we dont have a joint account.

Why should a working woman be fighting her husband for money to make a pot of stew if the husband has been good?

Even when i was dating, i had times when my ex will do the grocery shopping without my knowledge, and i will ask for the receipt so i can pay her, and she will reject it...

My wife does that till today... At times when she does the grocery shopping, i ask to reimburse and she rejects.... what do i do? go out there and buy her a nice gift to show appreciation and gratitude for using her head and playing the role of a wife well.

What you mentioned above is something every girlfriend or wife will do, the difference here is, you didn't call your ex or wife at a point and told them "because you work, I am assigning this role to you" rather you knew you have to provide for your family and having seen your efforts in caring for the family they can't afford to close their eyes if something to be done. In the case of the OP, they are not even married yet and he has started delegating roles.

bukatyne:

When he is providing everything?

Is the wife to be asleep?

If she does not want to contribute, no lele; she does all the chores herself

As if the Man will even help with the chores even if she accepts the duty "delegated" to her
Most women know they can't delegate even minor chores like washing plates to the husband. They can only beg for assistance occasionally.

kingviny: Thanks to you all. My friend intend to be paying all other bills. He even told her that when things get better for him economically that he would take her off that bill too.

He wants to be giving her money for bulk purchase of staple foods periodically so that he can concentrate more on saving for their un born kids. He merely want her to be handling stuffs like soup , soap and other minor but short term expensis like that.

Is it fair for modern ladies to want to be traditional when it comes to family finance and Kardasian when it comes to romantic treatment?

Modern Nigeria Men wants to be traditional in house-keeping/cooking things and Kardashian in financial matters.

Yomieluv: Let them thrash the issue out,before tying the knot.to me,the wife should be allowed to use her discretion in financial issues,delegation of duties seems autocratic to me.

You are right! And no wise woman will keep herself from helping out especially when she is capable financially.

adanduka: I think it's OK especially if...















the wife delegates house chores to the husband.




I'm joking

Its no joke, I think you are right! The wife should delegate house chores to the husband. Its partnership- Lol.

Please leave before you cheat on him with AY. You have started comparing already and I doubt your shola can measure up to your AY.