same here wit me. My boy friend is realy mad @mi bcoz i told him dat i didnt love him again dat am breakin up wit him & after tellin mi dat he's goin to kil himself if am serious wit wat am sayin i naintained my seriousness too buh now he has bounce bck @mi playin same prank wit mi bck. Stil mad @mi ryt now though hurting buh jst enjoyin it, its fun. Bro in ur own case dont wori tak it easy wit her she wil stil get over it bsyd she might want to use dat opportunity to play her own April fool pranks to u bck. Sorry abt dat buh dont 4gt to stil tak it to God in prayer bcoz he's d only dat heal our wounded hearts. Gd luck to u bro 4ur wife wil com bck to U wit more love!quote author=Formidable1 post=44316560]My wife has taken my April Fool joke very seriously. I decided to pull a prank on her today, and it's almost going out of hand.

It was in the morning, and I knew she wasnt yet aware that it was April Fool's Day. So I told her that I had a confession to make to her and it has been eating me up. I told her that I have a child outside our marriage. That I have a son who's around 12yrs now. That I had the child before I met her, but I couldn't tell her because I didn't want to lose her.

She was speechless but I could tell she was shaken. She searched my eyes to know if I was joking, but I maintained my seriousness. She calmy started asking me questions to know whether I was being real, but I was already prepared for any question. By the time she was through interrogating me, she has already broken down in tears.

I continued with the joke, and I told her to please forgive me for not telling her all this while. She believed everything I said and by the time I told her it was April Fool's joke, it was too late. She was inconsolable, and she told me it wasn't a joke, cos she knew I was telling her the truth. She said she had always had the feeling that I had a child cos she saw it in her dream before we got married.

To cut it short, right now she's mad at me...and she has threatened to leave with my 6 months old daughter and abandon our 3 yr-old marriage. She has already called her mum and sister and narrated the whole thing.

So, guys plz I need una help right now. My own April Fool prank has gone all wrong. What can I do?[/quote]

God will not allow to waste because he have not finish what he sent him to do, i believe this is just a trial and God in his infinite mercy will heal him fast to continue the good work,Amen! Uncle Paulcy You are healed in Jesus name, Amen.[qquote author=viviangist3 post=43789807]PAULCY CYPRIAN IWUALA (PAPI) IN A SERIOUS MOTOR ACCIDENT..THE GOOD SAMARITAN NEEDS OUR HELP!

Paulcy is the young man that goes round the country in search of HOPELESS SICK individuals,sick ones who cannot afford adequate medical treatment, Paulcy is the man who finds a way to pull these impoverished ones out of their hopeless mystery.This humanist of our generation hard a misfortune this morning on his way to Lagos State to in continuation of his service to God and mankind.He had a motor accident along Orie Road,his leg and head was reportedly in bad condition due to the accident. He is under emergency Care Unit currently at Orie General Hospital. I call on friends, family,NGO's, Government and good spirited individual to help save his situation. He need to be moved from The Orie General Hospital immediately to where he can get better medicare.He is priceless Gold and gift from God to the weak, the poor and afflicted, lets be our brothers keeper and help him recover from this accident. He was going to Lagos unannounced to deposit a medical bill for a sick patient under his NGO, HOPE FOR THE HOPELESS.You could recall,it was same Paulcy that raised alarm about the hopeless situation of CHUKWU ARISA before Abia State Government came to Arisa's Rescue, same is applicable to Amah Tobin kala-mama before River State government approved to take care of his medical bill. Currently his foundation is battling with a cancer patients from Mbaise in Imo State and the lady her situation took Paulcy to Lagos this morning before he got this accident. ... as he is steadily building his HOPE FOR THE HOPELESS. Lets show him love and care now please.I Pray nothing happens to him.
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Paulcy Cyprian Iwuala wrote on his facebook wall hours before his accident at Orie Road.

PUSH YOURSELF TO THE LIMIT IN ALL YOUR DOINGS

I was introduced to this beautiful girl she's so lovely, full of life from the first day I spoke to her I liked her, she speaks with so much authority yet weak, I can feel her voice that she must be a strong girl the kind that will hold any man's home and make it a heaven for the man..

When my father married my mother he bright her home and on the first night my mother opened all her baggage and my granny said to her " This kind of woman that laid all her baggage open na wa oo at least keep some hidden but my mother is a rare kind of woman, she is strong gentle, energetic, outspoken, so transparent yet authoritative in my house only my Mom disciplines, that's the kind of girl I spoke to, she's every man's kinda woman unless you want a lady that the world will ride on and she waits for the husband, I can assure no man's wants such liability..

I promised this beauty I'm going to visit her to see how we can work things out, I hope it goes well and I hope that all my heart desires will be met, I'll relate with her and then I'll tell you my people the rest of the story I hope and pray that it turns out to be a very positive meeting, if you are my fans please do pray for me for safe journey and that all I seek on going there will be fulfilled ... I love you guys and I'm proud of you all...

Guys she might not really like myself so if your interested in this beauty do indicate because I'm gonna make her a friend of mine.. See you guys from up there till the touch down ...

I apologize to all my family members, I'm so sorry for not telling you all I'm going to Lagos, especially my father, I know with good arrangement he will still ask me to go, but I did not tell him so please apologize to him for me and tell him I love him, and I'm going because I wouldn't want anyone to delay not cancel this movement, my family have been supportive of me and I want them to please forgive me and know that I love them so much ...



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Not easy though but fact! and my opinion & answer to the question up der is 5!

Toks2008:
All over the world,women divorce their hubbies for so many reasons but statistics have shown that infidelity tops the list especially in this part of the world where polygamy has become the norm,but the question is;does it make sense for a lady to divorce her hubby over infidelity when same man can as well decide and indeed marry more wives?

I want ladies to understand this one vital point that most and i mean MOST HUSBANDS will cheat on their wives even if they are married to angels and the fact that your husband cheats on you does not mean he does not deeply love and desire you.

Please don't get it twisted...Not all men cheat and adultery is a sin before GOD and all adulterers be a man or woman shall end up in hell but i am not here to preach any sermon but to face reality head on.

Many ladies are always quick to say they can not stand an adulterer as a husband and some will threaten to rain fire and brimstone on a philandering hubby but in case you discover your hubby cheats on you please what would you do?

1.Would you rather leave your marriage, remain single and celibate for life?

2.Would you rather leave your adulterous hubby and start sleeping about with other men who are probably randy or husbands of other women?

3.Would you keep changing the new man to start all over with another if he also cheats on you?

4.Would you prefer to stay with an adulterous hubby and also shamelessly philander about in the bid to seek a revenge?

5.Would you prefer to stay with a philandering hubby,live a decent lifestyle and focus on your life and that of your children and just see him as a sex partner warning him to use protection if he must eat out?

6.Would you prefer a sexually decent hubby to take a new wife because he says he hates sleeping with random women?

Please don't answer with "none of the above because if you are in that position,you will certainly be faced with an option.

This is what i want many married ladies to know and i can't stress it enough..There is absolutely nothing you can do to stop a man to be polygamous either by sleeping around or taking a second wife "IF" he wants to and you can't even nag him out of it but In order to have a good stand if your hubby cheats on you,be a good wife first by being very humble,GOD fearing,Excellent cook,Financially independent,a crazy LovePeddler only to your hubby then watch and see.

Many ladies make some adulterous hubbies feel too important.Don't even think about worrying your head about your husband's fidelity but warn him to use protection if he must keep mistresses...i bet he will be so scared that he will sit up. Unfortunately many ladies just give their husband an excuse to have that Alpha ego whenever they rant and give them heat over an inconsequential emotionally vulnerable side dish.

There are more interesting things in life so please don't spoil your fun by hinging your happiness on your hubby's infidelity to you..trust me,If every married lady can care less if her husband cheats and just focus on developing her life and that of her child(ren),how happy many marriages will be. Its not difficult,,its a thing of the mind.

Hope this makes a little sense.

Not easy though but fact!

Toks2008:
All over the world,women divorce their hubbies for so many reasons but statistics have shown that infidelity tops the list especially in this part of the world where polygamy has become the norm,but the question is;does it make sense for a lady to divorce her hubby over infidelity when same man can as well decide and indeed marry more wives?

I want ladies to understand this one vital point that most and i mean MOST HUSBANDS will cheat on their wives even if they are married to angels and the fact that your husband cheats on you does not mean he does not deeply love and desire you.

Please don't get it twisted...Not all men cheat and adultery is a sin before GOD and all adulterers be a man or woman shall end up in hell but i am not here to preach any sermon but to face reality head on.

Many ladies are always quick to say they can not stand an adulterer as a husband and some will threaten to rain fire and brimstone on a philandering hubby but in case you discover your hubby cheats on you please what would you do?

1.Would you rather leave your marriage, remain single and celibate for life?

2.Would you rather leave your adulterous hubby and start sleeping about with other men who are probably randy or husbands of other women?

3.Would you keep changing the new man to start all over with another if he also cheats on you?

4.Would you prefer to stay with an adulterous hubby and also shamelessly philander about in the bid to seek a revenge?

5.Would you prefer to stay with a philandering hubby,live a decent lifestyle and focus on your life and that of your children and just see him as a sex partner warning him to use protection if he must eat out?

6.Would you prefer a sexually decent hubby to take a new wife because he says he hates sleeping with random women?

Please don't answer with "none of the above because if you are in that position,you will certainly be faced with an option.

This is what i want many married ladies to know and i can't stress it enough..There is absolutely nothing you can do to stop a man to be polygamous either by sleeping around or taking a second wife "IF" he wants to and you can't even nag him out of it but In order to have a good stand if your hubby cheats on you,be a good wife first by being very humble,GOD fearing,Excellent cook,Financially independent,a crazy LovePeddler only to your hubby then watch and see.

Many ladies make some adulterous hubbies feel too important.Don't even think about worrying your head about your husband's fidelity but warn him to use protection if he must keep mistresses...i bet he will be so scared that he will sit up. Unfortunately many ladies just give their husband an excuse to have that Alpha ego whenever they rant and give them heat over an inconsequential emotionally vulnerable side dish.

There are more interesting things in life so please don't spoil your fun by hinging your happiness on your hubby's infidelity to you..trust me,If every married lady can care less if her husband cheats and just focus on developing her life and that of her child(ren),how happy many marriages will be. Its not difficult,,its a thing of the mind.

Hope this makes a little sense.

There wives nid 2b blame bcoz d hustle is all bcoz of dem, so dey should alwyz make sure dat der husbands re in gd tym wit each oda & in der biz. Dat peter's wife is a big case study in Okoye's family, i wish der Mom is stil alive!

Samjr:

Dude please don't blame the ladies they got married to please I beg of you.

The wives nid 2 b blame bcoz all d hustle is all bcoz of dem, so dey should alwyz make sure dat der husbands re in gd tym! dat peter wife is a case study in Okoye's family, i wish der Mom is stil alive!

Samjr:

Dude please don't blame the ladies they got married to please I beg of you.

CutieViva:
Am nt gd in replyin msgs wen i read buh dis particular trend touched my hrt. Bro alot of pple here ve advice u alot & i hope u should jst yeld 2der advice. Am a Lady wit mch experience both frm Guys & my fellow gurls, tins happen evryday. i ve had such hrt break frm a dude buh dat wont mak mi 2 treat d gd pple around mi bad. Plz i want 2 urge U 2 tak it 2 God in prayer bcoz prayer answereth all tins evn ur broken hrt & move on wit ur lyf. God wil giv u ur hrt desire as a wife mayb she's nt urs datz Y it happen dat way, bsyd any woman dat does'nt bliv in her Man's future does'nt worth a hard working man like U. Plz dear jst dust ursef & move on wit ur lyf & God wil C u 2ru & bless U wit ur desire Job in JSN, Amen! U can jst cal mi wit dis Num 08180496489 4 more courage, i mean 2 connect u wit som1 dat wil inspire u & mak u unstand dat ur d best & dat mocker is nt meant 4u. GdLuck & stay bless!

Am nt gd in replyin msgs wen i read buh dis particular trend touched my hrt. Bro alot of pple here ve advice u alot & i hope u should jst yeld 2der advice. Am a Lady wit mch experience both frm Guys & my fellow gurls, tins happen evryday. i ve had such hrt break frm a dude buh dat wont mak mi 2 treat d gd pple around mi bad. Plz i want 2 urge U 2 tak it 2 God in prayer bcoz prayer answereth all tins evn ur broken hrt & move on wit ur lyf. God wil giv u ur hrt desire as a wife mayb she's nt urs datz Y it happen dat way, bsyd any woman dat does'nt bliv in her Man's future does'nt worth a hard working man like U. Plz dear jst dust ursef & move on wit ur lyf & God wil C u 2ru & bless U wit ur desire Job in JSN, Amen! U can jst cal mi wit dis Num 08180496489 4 more courage, i mean 2 connect u wit som1 dat wil inspire u & mak u unstand dat ur d best & dat mocker is nt meant 4u. GdLuck & stay bless! One more tin Bro, dont use bcoz of wat ur passing 2ru now 2 tag all gurls bad, & dont allow it 2 mak 2 treat oda gurls bad bcoz it may stil make u 2 loose d ryt person God ve destiny u so jst act wit Wisdom & kip on being a gd & Faithful guy 2 any gurl u meet! 10k u.

hurting:
Good day all! I never thought I will never create a topic like this because I believed I had a perfect love life. I have to create this moniker just for this topic that has and still eating me deep. I will try to make it as brief as possible.

I have been a relationship for 7yrs with the lady that I love beyond measures. I do anything possible within my reach to satisfy n make her happy. She has also been wonderful and almost perfect (nobody is). We started dating from uni days and where d pride n envy of many even after school.

After my service, I started looking for job but as things get murky in d labour market, I started a little ICT troubleshooting hustle, just to keep body n soul together before d job comes. Now this lady has been supportive all d way, after her service she moved to where am based, we managed what we have. She got a job while I was still doing what I do, I could provide for d daily running around like food, clothing, small bills, etc. I could pay my rent sometimes but atimes my siblings support me. When biz haven't been good.

Now this my lady resigned from where she was working because her female boss wasn't treating them well, tru one of my friends I secured a better paying n welfare job in a construction firm for her. We have been doing fine all this while but when I proposed to her she said we should wait till I get a better paying job. I make an average of 35-40k at d end of month but because I spend on what we need in d house I usually don't have it in bulk at d end of d month. She earns around 80k plus a car. Her new boss gives car loan to all his staff down to d secretary. She is an engineer there. She have been having this fear of lack because of what she faced as a child, so whenever d issue of marriage comes up she says I shld wait till I get a job n when ever her friends or mine wedd she cries n complain that I dnt want to marry her. I have promised her that we can make it with our present earnings n with time I will get that job. I knw I live far better than some married men in terms of finances.

This year I made up my mind to ask her for hand in marriage on vals day, but last week she gave me d shocker of my life, but telling me she had moved on because of my employment status. I have begged like I ave never begged anyone before, telling her that am very sure d job will come before d babies start coming. She told me she has found someone else and that she has made up her mind.

She still loves me, but the job issue I her phobia, dont get me wrong she is very decent n has been faithful all our yrs together. Right now my heart is torn to shreds, I don't sleep at night, I cry every night, I cant eat well, I have lost weight. Am I beginning to scare my self with d kind of suicidal thoughts I have these days. I have built my whole adult life around her, I try to let go but cant.

Pls nairalanders advice me before I do something drastic, I need all the advice I can get, am on job sites 24/7 now just to get something n probably win her back. She is not after riches just d basics. And for those that will lash me, I need it too, it might cheer me a bit.
Pls help a brother.

pls help me push this to FP I need all d advice I could get before its too late for me.

P.S. Sorry for any grammatical blunder n punctuation errors.

Sage ur nt making tins ryt, plz find out tym 2 C her 1 on 1 & propose 2her, online pranks is childish. Plz make it matured & propose 2her facialy. Bcoz if am d one i wont tak u serious! 10ks!

sage2:
There is this girl that has been my very good friend for six months now. I really love this girl and want to marry her. Now I want to pop the question during our WhatsApp chat. Is it appropriate?

We re all human beings & u knw it 2 wel aw it hurt wen som1 u luv disappoint u, plz brother put ursef in dat gals shoe & C aw painful & hurt it is. U knw quite sure in d beginning dat she's ur age mate, & u go ahead & ask her out. Now she accepted u & 4 God so kind, she got a job b4 u & she determine 2 support u bcoz she luvs u & ur here sayin dat she kip on remindin u aw she tels u dat she's supportive 2u. Dis aw somtyms God wil giv u somtin gd & u reject it out of ignorance & later u cry had i knw & suffer d consequences. Plz u nid God's hand in dis & his wisdom 2 handle dis issue if nt, hmmmmm. i rest my case buh is goin 2b terrible if u take a negative decision. 10k U & may God open ur eye 2 tak d ryt decision, ur blessed!!!

louistearer:
I met a girl after my service year in 2013, but then she wasn't working, we met and started dating. Two months to our relationship she got a job and has being supporting me financially because am still yet to get a job. She rented an apartment for me and even furnished it, she pays all my bills including feeding and clothing me. But all she wants in return is to get married to me though we are age mates. Nairalanders if u were in my shoes wld u walk her down the aisle bcuz she has being supportive or wld u marry a girl that's ur age-mate

[s][/s]Am sure dis new must b a joke! i cant blv it #

@ Demigod! My dear i felt ur pain so mch dat i dont knw aw 2 express dem here buh i got a solution 4u, if u can call mi wit dis Num 08180496489 , i wil tel u wat 2do. 10ks.

Lifebender:
Zuka Zukatada!!!
Wetin ma eyes no go read for dis nairaland
When una dey Add the bed,Subtract the cloth,Divide the leg and started Multilying the things,una no ask us for advice oooh.....
Abi,if no be say u daft,u do exam,una no wan resultAbi craze dey ur head.

Una con dey ask mii how to kill a future presidentHaba!!!A look like shekau to you!!!



The only free advice wey mii go give una be say,if u like make una use over mutiple dosage...That day wey the pikin go con out,im go first sama u 2 hot slaps con open ur palms then pour all the melecin for una hand.

Even animals knw better.Free the guy joor..
Onye Ara

Am a gal & a virtous woman in d makin aswel. Plz 4 dose of u guyz out der dat tink dat moni is evrytin & also a reality in a relationship. U guyz re in a longtin, i mean u guyz re gettin it all wrong bcoz if u want 2 knw if ur goin 2b wealthy in lyf it's d power of a woman bcoz we women ve powers 2 control tins. If u lyk ve all d masion on earth, if u marry a woman dat does'nt ve a vision & focus she wil drag u frm masion 2 mud house. So my dear frends, wether it is 21 century or nt wether or realistist or idealist. D 2ruth remains dat if u marry or date a gal bcoz u ve moni, ur goin 2b doom. 4 my strugglin guyz, my advice is u should kip on 2 show ur woman d luv & appreciate her, if she loves u: she wil b der 4u evn if buhari son is askin her out. Then my general advice & conclusion is dat real women in quote ## VIRTOUS WOMEN## look out 4 men of focus wether stil strugglin or nt, dey look out 4 luv nt moni. while ordinary women look out 4 material tins believin dat moni is all abt luv buh i quote dem all wrong dat moni is nt all abt Luv. gd mornin peeps, 10k u all.

ajahexcel:
RIP

May God giv der parents d hrt 2 bear dis hurt. RIP.

deebee13:
So I got married recently, and my in laws are quite religious. Last week I got a new job after waiting for so long for it... T

he problem now is, my in-laws claim they prayed about it, and I shouldn't take d job. It's at an NGO, with a beautiful package and future for me.

I also have till 2nd of July to give my answer to the regional office.

I need mature advices on how to handle this matter pls!!!

U should knw Y dey dont want it & den talk it ovr wit ur hubby.

Niagarafall:
Naija everyday is a new story. Buhari should not try it ooooooooo. They're his brothers, he should keep them in his farm to take care of his presidential cow. He should not try it at all. We no gree ooooooo

yes oooo