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Family / Re: I Lost My Wife (a Nairalander) by cy4cent(f): 11:11am On Sep 02, 2022 |
My heartfelt condolences to you and yours. Take solace in the fact that she was loved while on earth, and will continue to be loved by God up in heaven. |
Foreign Affairs / Re: FBI Raids Donald Trump's Home In Florida by cy4cent(f): 11:45am On Aug 09, 2022 |
Jeffersonagain: If his crimes are not prosecuted, someone else will do it. Trying to overturn an election in USA where they conduct one of the fairest and most transparent elections simply because he can't accept defeat just like typical narcissists is a crime. The insurrection of the capitol is another. Having his family members occupy political positions is a crime. These are some of the things they are trying to investigate and those documents should be in the archives not in his possession just like other presidents sent theirs. Trump is known to break and disobey rules, he should be made to follow them for precedence. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: Tattoo: Not Under My Roof — Ireland-Based Nigerian Mum Scolds Daughter (Video) by cy4cent(f): 2:06pm On Aug 07, 2022 |
TheMensch: I swear bro my friends don't forget that experience when we chat till today. |
Family / Re: Tattoo: Not Under My Roof — Ireland-Based Nigerian Mum Scolds Daughter (Video) by cy4cent(f): 10:02am On Aug 07, 2022 |
Zonefree: Lol, reminds me of when my dad told me not to plait my hair until I become an undergrad. In SS2 close to our final exam I tot I was now a big girl after all I had just SS3 left. All my friends make their hair, and it was allowed in my school. That was how I told my friend to plait my hair with rubber thread when I got home and greeted him the reply was, in my house? I thought I gave you specific instructions? I was asked to sit down, and he brought out razor blade and cut each one without losing the hair. When he finished, you'd think rats ate my hair or someone used bottle to cut it. He said I don't want to see you go to any salon to level it, you must go to school like this till the end of your exam, that is your punishment for disobedience. I could not cry or scream, that was how I wrote my 3rd term SS2 exam. People were staring at me in school on the first day, it felt like the earth should open and swallow me up. Chai, they are all memories now. 11 Likes |
Family / Re: Women Submit TV Remote Control To Men During Family Handover Ceremony by cy4cent(f): 8:53am On Aug 06, 2022 |
Nice one, happy family. 2 Likes |
Career / Re: How lucrative are IT courses? by cy4cent(f): 12:55pm On Aug 04, 2022 |
IT without a doubt. He can learn online and still be doing his master's. Try freecodecamp.org, udemy, udacity etc. 2 Likes |
Career / Re: How Do People Survive On 30k Per Month Salary In Nigeria by cy4cent(f): 10:02am On Jul 23, 2022 |
daluta: Serves him right, marrying 3 wives without a tangible source of income and giving birth to 8 children to what end? He is the cause of his poverty, he shouldn't be pitied. 3 Likes |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: How A Company In VI Treated Her New Chef Staff by cy4cent(f): 12:41pm On Jul 21, 2022 |
With the high unemployment rate some people are still this picky when given accommodation rent-free, many others would appreciate that accommodation and turn it into something spectacular. She sounds so entitled! 17 Likes |
Family / Re: Wife Throws Her Nigerian Husband Stuffs Out Of His Own Home (pic/vid) by cy4cent(f): 9:59am On Jul 20, 2022 |
OlawaleBammie: I didn't plan to reply to that topic anymore, just as a note, the way you're sounding now seems like someone who loves (though not expressive) and truly cares, but the way you put it yesterday when other guys were showing their 'false hatred' for women it sounded like you were maltreating her emotionally. I wasn't the only one who quoted you about it. Probably it was your presentation. Enjoy your relationship bro, glad you stood by her in trying times and hopefully she'll be there for you too whenever you need her to be. |
Family / Re: Wife Throws Her Nigerian Husband Stuffs Out Of His Own Home (pic/vid) by cy4cent(f): 7:54am On Jul 20, 2022 |
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Family / Re: Wife Throws Her Nigerian Husband Stuffs Out Of His Own Home (pic/vid) by cy4cent(f): 6:14am On Jul 20, 2022 |
OlawaleBammie: I know Bro, there are women like that. They can stick around tightly, and pretend to enjoy what they are not because; You either take care of her financial needs She doesn't think she deserve better Or she doesn't think she can get better. But the truth is the day she meet someone who takes care of her emotionally, and financially (if she is dependent) that is the day she will realize what she has been missing. You are not a bad person, I read some of your previous comments but gone are the days when you have to treat women badly just to show you're the man. A dog that you feed and treat well, is excited when he sees you from afar. A dog you give food without care is lukewarm about you, a dog you treat badly detest and barks at you from afar. I see you don't trust anyone even your parents, but she shouldn't suffer for it. [b]Hurt people hurt others even without intending to, and like someone said if you don't heal where you were hurt you will end up bleeding on those who didn't hurt you. Your trust issues are excess baggage that you shouldn't bring into a relationship.[/b You can keep guard of your heart or monitor your partner all you want, if they want to hurt you they still will, but if the emotional and psychological support you give them is unique they can't hurt you even if a richer and better-looking partner comes along. 'The watchman watcheth a house in vain' 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Wife Throws Her Nigerian Husband Stuffs Out Of His Own Home (pic/vid) by cy4cent(f): 1:52pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
OlawaleBammie: That woman is suffering she deserves someone better who will love her and be sensitive to her feelings, the day she meets him she will dump you. |
Family / Re: Wife Throws Her Nigerian Husband Stuffs Out Of His Own Home (pic/vid) by cy4cent(f): 1:40pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
RightToReject: God bless men like you, and your kind will definitely not go into extinction instead more responsible men will spring up, join you and treat women better. |
Career / Re: What Quotes Motivates You While You Work? by cy4cent(f): 11:25pm On Jul 11, 2022 |
When you are backed against the wall, break the damn thing down and keep going! |
Religion / Re: Hymns Or Gospel Songs, Which Do You Prefer? by cy4cent(f): 11:52am On Jul 10, 2022 |
Gospel song it is for me. I could sleep off while listening to hymns. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Webmasters / Re: Elon Musk Terminates His $44 Billion Twitter Deal by cy4cent(f): 11:29pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
Attention seeker. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Men, Stop Setting Unnecessary Standards That You Will Never Meet. by cy4cent(f): 1:37pm On Jul 08, 2022 |
ibechris: God bless you Ser! 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: See What A Lady Sent To Me Just Because I Didn't Call Her For 3 Days by cy4cent(f): 10:06am On Jul 08, 2022 |
Even if you don't love someone at least respect them and their emotions. How can you not reach out to her in 4 days, and yet you are calling her baby and could reply to her message in 2 minutes? Imagine if you were the lady and someone treated you with such nonchalance? 4 Likes |
Politics / Re: 2023:I Will Dump My Garment As Prophet If Tinubu, Atiku Wins - Prophet Faleyimu by cy4cent(f): 1:41pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
Lol, this is hilarious. |
Celebrities / Re: JJC Skillz Wasn't A Submissive Husband That's Why He Was Thrown Out - Blessing by cy4cent(f): 4:06pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
christaddicted: Actually, I don't care what men want or see anything as. I was pointing out the definition of 'unconditional love' as used by you earlier not submission. If you get something in return for something it is not unconditional. 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: JJC Skillz Wasn't A Submissive Husband That's Why He Was Thrown Out - Blessing by cy4cent(f): 11:43am On Jul 01, 2022 |
christaddicted: Unconditional love extracts total submission. You guys should learn to do your part first, that is unconditional love, expecting her to submit first before you love her is not unconditional but conditional, quid pro quo, and Performance-Based Love (PBL). |
Family / Re: Marrying A Feminist by cy4cent(f): 10:04am On Jun 25, 2022 |
SavageBoy: Today's reality is different from Fela's mother's days reality. When people compare our fathers and mothers with today's generation, it is every shade of wrong and unequal equivocation. In the days of Fela's mum there was no mobile phone can you do without mobile phones today? There was no internet then, there was no Instagram or FB, there were no online jobs etc. If you'd prefer women from that generation, be ready to give up all the modern niceties you're enjoying today, can you? No. So, if you like advancement why should women remain in those days? Don't select the good from this generation and be reluctant to accept changes which comes with it. We can't eat and have our cakes. Continuing to have expectations of the past generation from women is what has led to the disappointment and frustration many men feel today and hence their vituperations towards women provoked or unprovoked. I'm not big on the feminism topic specifically, but If men embrace and face the present reality and modernization which they are benefiting from btw, there will be less friction btw both sexes. Peace bro. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Lady Shares Message From A Man Whose Marriage Proposal She Rejected 7 Years Ago by cy4cent(f): 10:18pm On Jun 23, 2022 |
abbey621: I love blocking people as well, , Both of us are unmarried so if I did not accept while we are single, how would he get in my 'pants' when we are married? Lol. Even if narcissistic men have 100 girls that 1 that rejected them eats away at their soul because they don't expect any one to say no to them. Lol Stop rationalizing and normalizing pettiness and immaturity in adults. Just like you told me I can not tell their state of mind from a single post, same way your 'it does not mean the guy is unhappy in his marriage' is a stretch. Happy people don't taunt, or mock, nor are they condescending and mean. It was nice having this normal conversation with you, it is something very rare on NL with all the insults, attacks, mean and almost meaningless posts on a daily. 1 Like
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Romance / Re: Lady Shares Message From A Man Whose Marriage Proposal She Rejected 7 Years Ago by cy4cent(f): 2:37pm On Jun 23, 2022 |
TheGift: God bless you, some guys think you must agree to anyone who proposes just to be counted as married whether he fits the bill or not otherwise you will suffer Lol. There are good men no doubt, but there are many suffering married women some have even died in their marriages. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Lady Shares Message From A Man Whose Marriage Proposal She Rejected 7 Years Ago by cy4cent(f): 2:24pm On Jun 23, 2022 |
abbey621: Haha, I know what I'm talking about. I have seen guys who keep tabs on exes to know if they are happy in their marriages, simply because she rejected his narcissistic ass, I know how much it bruises their ego. Many men don't take rejection well Lol. I can't be happy and be keeping tabs on someone in the past or trying to show off to him. It is childlike to be petty like high school children, emotional intelligence should differentiate adults from children unless we are agreeing that uncle is childish and the lady dodged a bullet. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Lady Shares Message From A Man Whose Marriage Proposal She Rejected 7 Years Ago by cy4cent(f): 12:52pm On Jun 23, 2022 |
Emaprince: The same way she and many responsible women are rejecting all the damaged, toxic, and man-boys. They will continue to cry and feel unworthy even if they are married. Do you know what rejection does to some people psychologically? Lol, you have no idea. Why did this guy send that lady the message after 7 years? It is because he is looking for validation, and she still didn't give it to him because she ignored him. He is dead inside, empty and depressed, that is the kind of treatment many damaged men deserve especially when they think they can get any woman they want because of money. Why did Burna boy's ego get bruised to the point of altercation? Rejection. Lol There are still very many responsible women rejecting petty, damage,d and undeserving men, they are not as indispensable as they make themselves appear (with due respect to all the well-mannered, worthy, respectful, and decent men of this generation. I rest my case, enjoy the rest of your day. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Lady Shares Message From A Man Whose Marriage Proposal She Rejected 7 Years Ago by cy4cent(f): 12:14pm On Jun 23, 2022 |
Emaprince: There is no scarcity of men, if you read my post objectively you would have deduced that but when you are clouded with emotion and ego this is what you get. Lol. It is not all of you 'boys' that are men or that are marriage materials, many of you are damaged goods looking for who to fix you. Note: every woman you see on forums/ SM are not necessarily looking for a man, sometimes they want to be updated with happenings around. I don't have a TikTok account, I've not posted on FB for 2 years, because I'm busy. This does not make me better than any of the ladies posting half-naked pictures and it does not mean they are all bad. Abroad, people dress worse than this and Nigerian guys over there respect them because their society does not allow you to disrespect women. And talking about being worthy, a man like you that types so much venom is not worthy of responsible women like the Twitter lady so you deserve the kind of rejection she gave the dude, and for ignoring the man-boy. It is better to be alone than to be with toxic men, the likes of you and the rejected, pained, bitter loser. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Lady Shares Message From A Man Whose Marriage Proposal She Rejected 7 Years Ago by cy4cent(f): 10:54am On Jun 23, 2022 |
dopedan: And men don't need women? Women need responsible, mature men not boys in men's bodies. Some of you 'boys' work overtime to make women accept any low-life, immature, irresponsible guy like the one the neurosurgeon pointed out. |
Romance / Re: Help! I Am In A Relationship With A Big Manipulative Woman by cy4cent(f): 3:00pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
DOWN2HeartLoved: Sorry, but you deserve a slap! You are still talking about loving her, and her coming clean despite all she has done? Haba! Use your head. What you need as a guy at 24 is pursuing your dream and building a legacy not this desperate love you are professing to someone who is your ancestor by age, and definitely taking advantage of you. Were you not loved as a child? The number of times you have mentioned you love her is outrageous, irritating, and disgusting. You are begging the narcissistic being to love you, and you are almost going mad in the process. You sound almost incoherent. Go plan your life, career, or whatever the right love will come when you are more mature, this is just infatuation. It is one of those cruise you were supposed to catch at early 20's but you took it serious. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Crime / Re: Video Of Couple Walking Around Unclad At VGC In Lagos Sparks Reactions by cy4cent(f): 3:15pm On Jun 14, 2022 |
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Family / Re: ₦150000: Nigerians Underprice Our Sperm - Donors Cry Out by cy4cent(f): 4:42pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
Transcriber: A woman can ovulate monthly from age 13 to 30 and may just need 4 children of her own, calculate how many months she can donate her eggs and make more money than men. You people should stop trying to minimize women, and allow them to be happy. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: ₦150000: Nigerians Underprice Our Sperm - Donors Cry Out by cy4cent(f): 4:31pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
toujurs: Why the hate and jealousy? Anytime females have something men don't have some of you bring out your misogynistic side. Many men on NL say how proud they are to be men daily nobody attacks them. At this rate, you are going to be jealous of your wife when she is better than you in any thing. 1 Like |
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