@uju, please get a life! since u are so good at pointing out how much men suck, why dont you get married to a female?

@poster although we dont know the gravity of your mistake, the real deal will be to never ever let yourself make this same mistake again.you seem like a good person, and i would hate that she looks @ ur mistake and overlooks your personality.take kia of ur woman, she's all u've got.

uju you want to be totally certain of a fully financially secure life?then make your future yourself.YOU DONT NEED ANOTHER MAN'S WEALTH TO SECURE IT!

I have left so many chics for that same reason,(no offence,best decision of my life).im currently dating someone who is worth it.just the fact that she truly loved me when i was a mess, gives me the internal conviction to give her the best life has to offer.if you knew her you would understand when i say she is having quite a blast( and we aint married yet!)

It is no sin to want someone who is more than able to cater to ur financial needs, but note that it takes years of toil, blood and sweat to get there.If your man gets there without you, what does he need u for?

be careful, what you wish for,you may get it as well as the consequences of such a decision.im pretty sure that u r a nice person, so i'll advise again''change ur mentality, and do so fast'' Good men arent easy to find.

[b] Uju,im being totally objective here.i will truly, truly run away from anything or anyone that sounds like you just like any reasonable man would, because i want a lady who will appreciate me(totally outside my accomplishments), not one that loves me because i have a ticket to the big life.even if ur guy was as rich,what makes u think he would go for you?he will probably go for the ministers daughters and not get to your level.
My advice: change your mentality, and do so fast!!!!

Truthfully, cheating on you when carrying your baby is totally unforgivable.if it was a one night stand, it would be a different affair.spare yourself more pain, you've been through enough already.Dissolve what you have and move on.probably the hardest thing to do but the best thing to do in my opinion.THIS TOO, WILL PASS.

Hi Guys,
salsa is becoming a global trend among young people because of its informal nature and close male/female contact.I am a salsa instructor/ IT engineer with a passion for the latin dances,but i want to find out,what do u guys think about salsa and the hype it is generating all over the world?