stanliwise:
There is something that is called hot and cold. When a girl behave lackadaisical, give her a little space before you ping back. The more unreasonable she behave the more and more gap you give her before you relate with her later on.
As soon as a girl start to comply then the little and little energy you start to add energy too.
It must sync meaning you should over react or under react someone/any of you will start feeling a little low or akward

Like when she calls you, you don’t need to pick all the calls but do pick most times. What you do in the calls is what is most important. How relax you are and how soon you get out of the calls is important. Be in control of when to leave and when not to.

Thanks man .....this is a new account (same guy)

liljboy:

Bro, if you're going to be successful with women, you need to forget every limiting belief you were programmed to believe. Such limiting beliefs:

1. Get lucky
2. Win her heart
3. Deserving of her affection


1. Get lucky: it implies that a man isn't capable of seducing a woman, that it all depends on luck, which is wrong. Listen up, you don't need luck, you need masculinity to attract a feminine woman. Be direct & straight forward, don't be sneaky & passive

2. Win her heart: it implies that women are some prize that men must compete for. That as a man you must jump through hoops to get her heart, which is wrong. Desire must be given by her own volition, never negotiated, appealed for, forced or earned

3. Deserving of her affection: it implies that as a man you must 1st achieve a certain standard of success approved by the gynocentric society, before you get permission to attract & seduce women. Bro, you never have to "prove" yourself to a woman, that's beta behavior

These are but just some of the limiting abilities. They're wrong & limiting in nature. You don't need to COMPETE for a woman, LUCK to be with a woman & GIVE yourself permission to attract & seduce women.

Thanks man I appreciate.

HARDDON:


did you just refer to me as Hardin?

You liked her and ASKED her out. Yea? Ofcos you did.
And she used one of their default mode responses when they kinda like you but aint attracted to you yet or when they ain't sure if you are for real or just want to shun between meeting and getting down.


From her follow up response about getting upset when you flirt with others, it is obvious she just needed a lil assurance from you, guess you didn't make joke of such airs, ramp up your attractive revs and you just left her in a state of limbo. The lil light you sparked in her heart died the moment you were out of sight and she found someone more interesting during the lockdown.
Most gurls are bored now and spend alot of time with guys that brings fun. not hello ha guys. if she is ignoring you at this time in history, I must say you are really boring.

If I were you, immediately I ignored her for a month, I'm never going back there until she reaches out(which I would usually ignore at first) or until we meet again in school and she hellos.

Why would you tell her you would call and didn't till a week after? That is totally wrong. always be a man of your words. Or better still, you should have told her to call by 7am in the morning. Bliv u me, she would have.

Going forward, DONT call her again. Let her return your call.
Read up the thread to know how to spin an engaging convo but first, what do you really want with her? that would dictate your choice of words and how the convo wud flow.

NB: a guy who hasn't signed his signatures all over a gurl's heart nor replaced her red blood cells with his blue ones have no business ghosting her. it is to his disservice.

Rich Regards,
Don.

Thanks harddon..sorry for misspelling your name the other time ..this is a new account(same guy).
during the lockdown we were still cool for like a month and half or so ..The thing is I have this soft spot for girls I like ...I do all those things you teach to other girls I don't really like. ie, making fun of them in a witty way and stuff and I don't always have problem with that but once I start developing one mumu feeling for a girl like this ...I start acting nice.... before your response I commented on her status and she replied ..got me confused like see who is not picking my calls .....please harddon, what do I do when we resume or when she calls...I won't really say am boring tho I just get tired of long talks and damn she is always bored .. how do I keep up with that?lol. And yea I want her to be my girlfriend.