I am a 40 years old man,married with 3kids...I got married 6 years ago. In my early and mid 30s I wooed several women most of whom either turned me down or weren't ready to settle down at that time even though some where in their late 20s.
I needed them so badly back then but nothing seemed to workout. Very beautiful extremely outspoken and gallantly curved.
I am fairly financially ok but maybe they knew better what they wanted.time was not on my side and so I eventually settled with a girl I actually love and she loves me too.fast forward to 3 more years in my marriage, some of these women i either dated or wooed in the past started finding their ways back into my life knowing fully well I am married but didn't mind still getting a piece of me despite how hard I tried to fight it. The obsession of times back didn't leave my head so I tried to knakk so that I may do away with them permanently and focus better.
Most of them still look as good as they were, the only difference is time and interest.
What baffles me the most is some who dated better men than I was in the past now find me more attractive than their present men even though this has nothing to do with looks or money. They have answers to such pensive innuendo. Some even left their marriages cos of their husbands infidelity only to end up with me who is also married and this keeps me wondering why they left their husbands in the first place....
The aim of this writeup is just to pinpoint gratitude of the rejection of the past coz it has saved me from marrying women whom are either not OK with one man or loose in its entirety.
To set the record straight for those who did not read this writeup till the end, I did not sleep with any of these women as I am still faithful to my darling wife as she is to me too. It is not easy even though I know I may fall in the future as the temptation is biologically potent.
I keep asking myself this question , do men become more attractive as they age or it is something we have no control over as even girls half my age don't mind been my sugar baby. The temptation is just so much and I do not know how long am gonna be able to handle this. This may be the only sin to land one in hell and I do not want to there.

I just calculated the amount I spend on fuel per week and its #15,000. Imagine. During Jonahs regime is was #5,000... I never even talk of generator fuel and cooking gas oh. See Nepa bill, dstv & other utilities....in this Nigeria we will soon understand why some people venture into crim

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1. HIRING OF FOREIGN MERCENARIES- at this juncture it is safe to say that the Nigerian military and paramilitary are just nothing but tired horses without strength and sense of direction. They are so confused that they don't even know who the enemy actually is. The dss on the other hand have lost sanity as to their aim as a an established secrete unit. The only secret about them is receiving salary despite the huge security breaches in every corners of the country and this is why it calls for foreign MERCENARIES to be paid millions of dollars to challenge the maggots causing problems. This can be done in collaboration with the dead military assistance they can get. This will go a long way.

2. STATE POLICING- whether we like it or not , as a country , we have gotten to the stage where if each state is left to manage its security challenges with direct orders from each governor, In less than 1 month security problem will be a thing of the past. Everybody is relying on the president for result , he is not a magician. Take this or leave it.

Its now a clear fact that brokage can make even your birth mother bad mouth you talk more of an ordinary girlfriend.
I do oh make e no be like say I no do ....babe was on steady allowance in my little salary of 45k back then. She didn't even know the figure I earned but no she steady dey chop everything. It was all I had back then but atleast I bring small thing from my little but honest earning.
Pimped her as much as I could paid for hostel accommodation for her while I struggled with my own rent. These among many things I did back then.
Babe later realised how much I earned and started to pity me oh, imagine. I remember paying her flight ticket from the little salary. Me sha no get sense back then. Well me was playing good guy with poor salary.Started giving me attitude. Anyway but she still was sucking me dry till she upgraded.... & left me..
I didn't let it weigh me down but I rather used that abandonment and rejection as a motivation. I learnt a lot about making sure am equipped financially before later going into any relationship.
Now am back in business. 500 grand per month now ain't a bad one oh and I don't care if am not rich with this but damn she has created a monster
Ps. No single editing in my writing.just in my mood without looking back