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Pineapp: The idea that I might not be the father is overwhelming. |
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EfemenaXY:Thanks a lot for your contribution I am not trying to paint her a LovePeddler. I would have never agreed to anything had I any prior knowledge to what happened with the other partners. I had been in a sober mood for a couple weeks now. I would never deny my involvement but it's a very huge leap to take in faith. I can't bear the tots of me fathering a child that may not be mine. That's y I'm hear to seek advice and opinions. I can't inform my people because they may not consent to it and I don't want to become popular in the media for this. |
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x240: Thanks a lot. I already took into consideration the conception date. It was within the period the stuff happened. Don't u think me not taking responsibility will spark an outrage. They might misinterpret it as me denying. |
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ifyalways:Thanks alot |
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yomi007k:The advice is urgently needed |
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jemype:Thanks |
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Please don't bash me or tag me a pedophile. I'm a man in my mid 20's. To reduce the length of the story. Something led to something, I had sex with a minor last year. I felt sorry for my actions and moved on (note the girl was experienced). Fast forward to this year, the last day in the month of January. The parents of the girl called my attention to the issue, I didn't deny my involvement, Because I was involved and secondly because of the fear of legal sanctions. So I had to plead with the family and agree to take full responsibility. (note abortion was not an option because of the gestation period of the fetus) The family of the girl wants my family involved as a form of guarantee of which I agreed. My family is about to meet with hers when I had some shocking discoveries. The first is that the girl's family had met someone before me(this person was a minor too.) but he denied his involvement. (note when the mother narrated the issue about this person she said that she only went the to clearify because she suspected the person and swore to me that the boy never had sex with her). Secondly, I went Tru her whatsapp chat and I discovered she had been meeting with another boy in an hotel. After I read the messages without her knowledge, she deleted them. When I asked her about the issue she denied it out rightly. Still based on the whatsapp message, a third boy who was the bf to the girl had unprotected sex and broke up with her because he was worried she was pregnant. (please note she claimed this third boy is thesame as the first but I have my doubts). Finally when I asked her who the father of the baby was, her countenance changed and admitted I was after about 20 mins (coupled with the fact that I encouraged her just to mention my name). I have to be careful because her parents her kind of desperate and would resort to legal actions as all other potential father are minors and some unknown to her parents. (all messages read on her whatsapp sent and received referred to events which happened within the range of period of conception based on the scan result after considering the +/-2weeks stuff). Please some urgent advice 1 Like 1 Share |
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