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Romance / Re: I Am In A Relationship With A Guy I Don't Trust. How Do I Figure Him Out? by dedegbe(f): 9:50pm On Feb 04, 2017 |
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Romance / Re: I Am In A Relationship With A Guy I Don't Trust. How Do I Figure Him Out? by dedegbe(f): 5:22pm On Feb 04, 2017 |
ikp120: Thank you. Exactly. |
Romance / Re: I Am In A Relationship With A Guy I Don't Trust. How Do I Figure Him Out? by dedegbe(f): 5:19pm On Feb 04, 2017 |
Martin124: Wow. Thanks alot for your advice. |
Romance / Re: I Am In A Relationship With A Guy I Don't Trust. How Do I Figure Him Out? by dedegbe(f): 5:18pm On Feb 04, 2017 |
enesty77: Yes. Thank you. |
Romance / Re: I Am In A Relationship With A Guy I Don't Trust. How Do I Figure Him Out? by dedegbe(f): 5:17pm On Feb 04, 2017 |
SirKriz: Thanks so much. I will. |
Romance / Re: I Am In A Relationship With A Guy I Don't Trust. How Do I Figure Him Out? by dedegbe(f): 5:16pm On Feb 04, 2017 |
enesty77: Thank you! |
Romance / Re: I Am In A Relationship With A Guy I Don't Trust. How Do I Figure Him Out? by dedegbe(f): 5:16pm On Feb 04, 2017 |
thorpido: Oh no I didn't mean it like, 'I know I'm beautiful'. He was calling me beautiful which made me kind of stuck. I did not have that confidence in myself so it was like he was the only source. I am working on it now and I understand that it takes yours to feel loved and not others. |
Romance / Re: I Am In A Relationship With A Guy I Don't Trust. How Do I Figure Him Out? by dedegbe(f): 2:54pm On Feb 04, 2017 |
decatalyst: Thank you! |
Romance / Re: I Am In A Relationship With A Guy I Don't Trust. How Do I Figure Him Out? by dedegbe(f): 2:53pm On Feb 04, 2017 |
Talk2Bella: Thanks so much. Yes, they do. It was so hard. I am actually deleting everything right now. I made the right decision by coming here. This is the first time I posted on a forum about this. Thanks alot. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: I Am In A Relationship With A Guy I Don't Trust. How Do I Figure Him Out? by dedegbe(f): 2:36pm On Feb 04, 2017 |
cummando: Thank you for your advice. You are totally right. And I actually haven't given him money. I know it's easy to think I did. Trust me, I've seen others do the same. But for some reason, I've always clutched my money tightly because I help my mom with the bills and always put my famly first. I have however, have been thinking of giving him money because he complained of an illness. I stopped because my mom called me two days and she said she had a dream I was about to give someone money on Western Union and she had been angry in the dream. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: I Am In A Relationship With A Guy I Don't Trust. How Do I Figure Him Out? by dedegbe(f): 2:25pm On Feb 04, 2017 |
Benita27: Thanks alot for your advice and I agree. I am working on that and moving has helped alot. |
Romance / Re: I Am In A Relationship With A Guy I Don't Trust. How Do I Figure Him Out? by dedegbe(f): 2:16pm On Feb 04, 2017 |
TrapQueen77: Thanks alot for your advice. |
Romance / Re: I Am In A Relationship With A Guy I Don't Trust. How Do I Figure Him Out? by dedegbe(f): 2:15pm On Feb 04, 2017 |
Fuqman: Yeah, that was what I was refusig to accept. But now I'm accepting it. There's just too many red flags. |
Romance / Re: I Am In A Relationship With A Guy I Don't Trust. How Do I Figure Him Out? by dedegbe(f): 2:14pm On Feb 04, 2017 |
I know. Thank you for your opinion. |
Romance / I Am In A Relationship With A Guy I Don't Trust. How Do I Figure Him Out? by dedegbe(f): 2:03pm On Feb 04, 2017 |
I met him at an internet café in Ghana where I vacationed. We clicked, had my first date on a beach and it was like a romance I didn't expect myself to have. I was there for two months. When I left Ghana, we already exchanged numbers. We have been chatting for two years. My family doesn't like him because they saw pictures of him drinking on Facebook and they said they had a bad feeling. Even my extended family in Ghana said I should not deal with someone from his town. He is from Dzodze. I keep thinking that they don't understand, but I am now having those bad feelings too. Several times he has asked me to use my bank account to accept money for him. I refused. And the thing is, he keeps asking in a quiet way thinking I forget. He goes back to being loving, and then asks me again. He also asked me to ship cell phones for him and I refused because I thought it was shady. Recently, we spoke about having a future and he gives me a link to a website called worldremit. He wanted me to help him accept money and I said no. He said I didn't need a bank account anyways and dropped the subject. He then had me accept a package for him. He told me not to open it. I did anyways and found a cellphone. At this point, I keep thinking of the conversations we have and tell myself that I'm going crazy. We both read and are interested in politics. He's even more knowledgeable about that than I am and I am learning alot from him. He is calm and has said that he didn't want to come to the US, making me think he has nothing to gain. But now I cannot ignore this. I cannot trust him and I feel like I am being played. And I honestly blame myself for this. I honestly don't know what to do. My family has told me to stop interacting with him but I still do for some reason. I have tried to block him but he somehow called my number with his phone number that I blocked. I want to block him and stop talking to him but I keep thinking he was he first guy who liked me. I somehow feel some need to be with him because he tells me all these things about me being beautiful and I just fall for it, even when in the back of my head, something is telling me that he is saying that just to say it. I have made big changes in my life. I deactivated my Facebook and social media accounts, left my terribld jobs and moved to New York to start over again. I am writing now and it has been fantastic. But I am also thinking about him often and the fact that I don't trust him. I really need advice on this and I totally understand that many of what is going on is my fault completely. But I just want to hear the opinion of others. |
Culture / Re: Which Of The Nigerian Local Languages Would You Like To Learn? by dedegbe(f): 5:52am On May 25, 2015 |
All but that's not gonna happen anytime soon lol. But I would really like to learn yoruba 1 Like |
Romance / Re: White Guys Are More Caring Than Black Guys by dedegbe(f): 5:30am On May 25, 2015 |
I go to school with them in the US. I disagree. They might be quiet but I don't think they are more caring. |
Education / I'm Working On A Short Story Of Experiencing Bullying In America As An African by dedegbe(f): 10:48pm On Nov 10, 2014 |
Hi guys! I'm working on a writing sample on anti-bullying. I'm new, but I've been reading posts on Nairaland for about four months now. I enjoy reading whatever The synopsis is based on my experience as an African coming to America at eleven and facing bullying at school in an urban neighborhood. I'm interested in hearing similar stories like mine to help in writing. I'd like to hear of what your experiences were and how you dealt with them. Other stories of bullying is also appreciated! |
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