cute, a, I very much understand your points. I have problems accepting that anybody out there may call or referred to my boys (never mind my husband) as "Domestic Man". YES my boys (2 of them) will have a very enjoyable marriage when they finally got married because they see a good role model at home in their father, you and I can however say they were brought up to be domesticated should there be need to take control of their home on the absence of their wives or girlfriends. I would hate to think there are girls out there who would/might see them as "domestic men".

Someone on here mentioned housekeeper, yes if my boys chose that option that is fine but at least if they their partners will never be let down if the housekeeper leaves without notice (which they usually do).When my kids were little, I had nanny and housekeepers in Lagos but there will always be an unexpected excuses of why they must travel back home immediately eventually returning back to you just as you were managing well without them.


I am still counting my blessing,

I mean the name " Domestic Man" is very degrading and off putting or any man but I would like to say I have been married to my husband for a very good enjoyable no regret 19 years, we both work full time now, (when the kids were little I was a stay at home mum) my husband cooks voluntarily before I return from work, he occasionally put clothes in the washing machine and generally helps round the house, not vacumming or making beds or cleaning baths or toilet. He has always been very dedicated to his immediate family (us) and I thank God for him. I have never seen him as "domestic man" other than "my other half" because that is the way he sees it.

so please do not lebel men that are well trained by their mothers before we became their wives with such a awful degrading term.