Mariangeles:


That explains the pretence...

Do you have other siblings by her and your dad?

none

aeion:
How old are you, OP?

24

Mariangeles:


Is she your stepmother?
Except for the bolded, I see nothing wrong...

yes she is

What can someone like me do to resist my inner mind from being oppressed by this non mother- like attitude.Cos ones mum would never do things which could hurt one's feeling. Nowadays i feel as if used to do all that's expected to the last minor shits at home, and irrespective of that i still face some Ill manners like being shouted at, being abused before food is passed to me.Even when she's about leaving for anywhere, u will hear things like do this, do that or else no food for u.And if i lock up my self in my room. My dad always get annoyed that I'm acting weird, but everything seems fine when he's at home.I'm being treated like someone who came for holiday or came to enjoy luxury and must pay in kind.He feels shebi it's the child at home that does everything but I do tell him, not to the last minor shits.It's so frustrating if someone couldn't come over for a little while. If I'm off for days, my dad will be like i deserted him.Have made this understand my discomfort all times but he hardly believe as she tends to act plain in his presence