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Romance / Re: Look What She's Successfully Turned A Simp To (photo) by Destiblack(m): 5:12pm On Jan 12, 2022
When you deny me my rights in my marriage as my wife,that means you are going back to your parents forever.

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Celebrities / Re: EFCC Re-Arrests Mompha For Alleged ‘Money Laundering’ by Destiblack(m): 3:34pm On Jan 11, 2022
What does slavery have to do with you Thieves scamming old retirees globally?




Wise up bro, am an Electrical Electronics Engineer and I don't do that to people cos that is my choice. I can employ your generation in my Electrical farm, who are you to judge people? Mind your business and face your future.
Sports / Re: Afcon 2021: Nigeria Squad Numbers Revealed by Destiblack(m): 5:39am On Jan 11, 2022
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If you know you know
Celebrities / Re: EFCC Re-Arrests Mompha For Alleged ‘Money Laundering’ by Destiblack(m): 5:14am On Jan 11, 2022
Audio arrest. I bet if FBI gat hold of this guy, hushpupi's case will be a child's play compare to his own.

Death to all scammers


Your generation was use for slavery till death for the right purpose. Let those that want to be paid for their generational labour get paid. Bleep off, life is all about choice and the decision is truly yours to make.

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Family / Re: Generally, Can Marriage Work? Yes Or No. Vote Now by Destiblack(m): 6:09pm On Jan 10, 2022
Life is all about choice, there is a true life partner for everyone in life. Most marriages never worked cos they were built on lies, lust and materialistic things.

Only the marriages built on true love, respect, friendship, and knowing the fact that no one is perfect except God gives births to a happy family forever.
Nairaland / General / Re: Did You Really Achieve Your Goals In 2021? by Destiblack(m): 1:47pm On Dec 30, 2021
Am grateful for everything God gave to me this year 2021. I know he is at work making 2022 better.


Just be thankful in any situation you are right now
Romance / Re: Mature Responses Needed by Destiblack(m): 5:33pm On Dec 22, 2020
Man you need to realize you are loving the fake woman as your wife. Lied he is her cousin but later you got to know they were not related after marriage. Paid her US trip for her alone and she lied to have resigned from her work but later discovered that she did no such thing.


Men my only advice for you now is to talk the hair or saliva of your kids I assume to the nearest hospital that are capable for DNA test. God is just trying to save your life and you are talking about love.


The outcome of this advice should determine your next step, it is better you know the reason you gonna consider your home and marriage.


She as told you love isn’t enough to keep a marriage and that what she believes you offer.
Wise up and be a man



Merry Christmas
Crime / Re: Hoodlums Backed By Protesters In A Real Gun Battle With Police In Benin City by Destiblack(m): 11:03pm On Oct 20, 2020
This is ring road, in other words King square Benin city Edo state Nigeria. It is real not fake, since the government does not value the lives and right of Nigerians revolution is the solution. Edo state is the place linking every other regions in Nigeria. I don't support the violence but I suggest every state send down 10000 youths to Edo state and let ground Nigeria. This is the right time to put things right and no going back. let face the politians cos the police have learnt their mistakes and should be forgiven. The politians are our real enemies, kill them all Spartacus. Forget the police for now and face the politians eating our destiny.

God bless Edo people
God bless Edo state
God bless Nigeria
God bless Africa
God bless the world.
God save the souls of the falling heroes during this struggle to free Nigeria from bondage.
Politics / Re: Buhari Loses 100K Followers On Twitter As Reno Omokri Starts #unfollowbuhari by Destiblack(m): 6:44am On Oct 11, 2020
I know the only way to make things right in this country lays in the hand of the youths, we have to be united no matter your tribe and religion or believe, culture and tradition. The only way to get back the destiny of our Great Country is only by united revolution. We the youths have to save the future of this nation by stop killing ourselves in the name of cultism and supremacy, we have to realize respect is reciprocal and behave ourselves in good conduct and manners in all our daily social cultural existence in the society. Let put the energy together and fight the government for the future of Nation Nigeria. Make men they pass men update for street to make genuine yahoo money with blood of an innocent soul, make men for burst everywhere face this stupid generation of leaders, Ogun kill all the leaders when de deprive us of our right and empowerment after obeying the law and performing our duties as citizens of this Nation. United will stand but divided shall fall together. Never say I have money and am not into fraud, what goes around will come around someday. Anyone might be the next victim directly or indirectly.
Romance / Re: My View On The Beating Of Nigerian Women In Marriage by Destiblack(m): 11:36am On Sep 03, 2020
You spoke well till you called your harlot of a mother a beast not me


I can see your father and mother generation lack knowledge and wisdom. You all are living fucking animal

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Car Talk / Re: Leaving Bottled Water Inside your Car Can Start A Fire by Destiblack(m): 9:33am On Sep 03, 2020
Life is short, there is so much to learn and life is no life without knowledge. We learn everyday, a man can only stop learning except he is dead. Thank you for the information, you are absolutely correct and it is possible.
Romance / Re: My View On The Beating Of Nigerian Women In Marriage by Destiblack(m): 3:20pm On Sep 01, 2020
In life every is free to air his or her view, why crucifying the brave man am sure most of you can not even do what he has done by saying this. In a nutshell, any man or nigga that beats his wife is classless, uneducated even if he has PhD,a beast without wisdom. We are suppose to love,advice, support,share ideals,be best of friends, best playmate forever to our spouse no matter the condition. It is better to remain single if you can not learn to tolerate others in life. No one is perfect and do to others what you want them to do to you. I have learnt in life never to force things your way always cos I may not win every fight but the battle. Date your like mind, marry your like mind, no one can destroy or repairs your destiny except you and God. You are always the architect of your destiny. It is always the destination before the journey. Happy new month to everyone. This is our month of productivity
Health / Re: Stubborn Rashes On The Head: How Can I Treat This? (Disturbing Photo) by Destiblack(m): 5:17am On Apr 06, 2020
Dm me bro, I truly know the cure.
Sports / Re: Franck Ribery Faces Ban For Pushing Referee After Serie A Match (Photos) by Destiblack(m): 10:46pm On Oct 28, 2019
ursullalinda:
What am I doing here.....I'm running away




Run to Somalia
Family / Re: I'm Struggling With Love In My Marriage by Destiblack(m): 6:10pm On Oct 28, 2019
merit1988:
I got married as a young virgin...probably didnt understand what love was all about then....I've never really felt love or being loved in my marriage..coupled with some other marriage issues..I wear the shoes and I know where it hurts...all I need is advices on how to build my love life and not yabs pls...it's very hurtful cry




All u need is to love urself more

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Romance / Re: Is She Falling In Love Wit Me - Advice Pls by Destiblack(m): 6:20am On Oct 28, 2019
Omar09:

All men sir. All men.



No boss, I disagree on that.
Romance / Re: Is She Falling In Love Wit Me - Advice Pls by Destiblack(m): 4:04pm On Oct 27, 2019
lilmax:
I told her I will make sure she get everything she wanted at d birthday ( food ND drinks).


One of the reasons why men fail

One of the reasons why men are worthless







Not all men bro but some.
Family / Re: My Sister Wants Court Marriage, Her Husband Doesn't. Advise Her Please by Destiblack(m): 11:07am On Oct 27, 2019
Chaclaitmilk:


She said she can be forcibly thrown out and her children taken from her if she is not protected by the law. She isn't doing it for money.



Here u let the cat out of the bag, In life it is always the destination before the journey. Ur sister knows she is not the right woman to her husband for having such thoughts, she is aware of her been throne out of her marriage with no time cos she has evil attitudes n character to prove her intentions. In life only God protects,we are guided by law and law does not guarantee our safety but God. Tell her to have a change of heart, care and love her family endlessly with pride of being a Mrs. Pls stop misleading ur sister, always tell her the truth without fear.
Family / Re: He Cheated And Blames Me by Destiblack(m): 10:28am On Oct 27, 2019
Madam most of the comments have seen are either blaming u for shifting ur attention to the kids,u doing all house works alone and u been not there for yourself either. The truth is every man cheats directly or indirectly. it is in our nature to do so but not what we are proud about cos its bad in every aspect. All u need to do, Get a house cleaner that works thrice in a week, know that ur husband is ur first child,love him adorably with ur kids, show them care and affection. never bother to check his phone anymore neither accusing him of cheating. In a nutshell "love urself" most. Enjoy ur family mrs.
Religion / Re: The Credentials That Got David The Kingship Of Israel by Destiblack(m): 9:58am On Oct 27, 2019
David was favoured by Jehovah in all his days.
Romance / Re: This Is How Sperm Taste Like by Destiblack(m): 1:01pm On Oct 26, 2019
Mazigabriel:

You are crazy, how is tasting my own sperm make me a gay see your uncivilised mentality.




U that is proving your madness and displaying your foolishness of being a gay. Bleep dude cos don't have time for gays like u. u should go and kill yourself now cos u a living dead.
Romance / Re: Please Help Me Guys I Feel Guilty. Cheated On My wife by Destiblack(m): 5:24pm On Oct 22, 2019
Ireblessingss:
Guys I'm feeling very guilty, my wife has been nothing but sweet to me but recently we were faced with a very serious financial challenge to the extent we had no money to eat, because I haven't been paid in my place of work for months now and we have exhausted all our savings, feeding transportation and all plus we are building our own house.

Long Story short.
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I'm a very cute guy, average height but real good looking, there is this lady who stays close to where i work, she is a very advanced lady around early 50s who approached me and said he likes me because I carry myself very maturely and bla bla. She is rich from the car she drives you can tell. So I told her no problem we can be friends, we exchanged contact, we do chat normally on whatsapp and call sometimes I stop to see her before going home, I introduced my wife to her and all,

Today I was having little misunderstanding with my wife today because of the money issue and I got annoyed and left this morning, during my break time at work I went over to her place and explained to her my problems she offered to give me 100k with two conditions

1. I take the money and pay back when I have it

Or

2. I take the money and never pay back but she would like to have fun with me (which I know she meant sex)

At first I thought about the whole issue, I tried to resist but thinking of paying 100k back with a lot of expenses ehn just tire me guys I swear.

I fell for the second option

Now I feel disgusted at myself. I feel guilty I feel suicidial, I don't know how I can now even look at my wife, I don't think I can go home today, I took a vow to be faithful and I have broken it

Guys please help me I feel depressed and ashamed of myself cry cry cry cry





Man never repeat that again if u want true happiness in ur home. mind u that woman will never let u be so easily but u will succeed by not falling for her again. know that ur wife should always be special and priceless no matter the condition.
Romance / Re: The Amount Of Times You Can Forgive A Cheating Spouse - Bamisepeter's Blog by Destiblack(m): 5:15pm On Oct 22, 2019
bamisepeters:
It is a known fact that Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each other but there must be limit to the extent of forgiveness as it will be taken for granted.

Apart from one or more characters of your spouse that you might find uneasy to contend with, i think cheating is the greatest crime one's spouse can commit which can warrant that extra ordinary spirit of forgiveness.

I know of someone whose women cheated on him for up to four times and he has been forgiving her, four times is nit cheating any more, it has become an attitude.

There is limit to everything in life, so also in relationship there is limitations to everything you do to your spouse.

If you cheat ones and your spouse forgives you, you should just count yourself to be lucky because many cannot forgive a cheating spouse.

It is not because of ego or anything but because there is limit to what everyone can accept.

For someone who cheated just ones it takes the intervention of the supernatural forces to be forgiven, and it shouldn't pass just that once.

If it is more than once, believe me it will continue because it has turned to attitude as your spouse will always have it at the back of his or her mind that you are a legend when it comes to forgiving.

Like i said in a post that divorce should not be the last resort to all marital troubles it doesn't mean that you should now turn yourself to complete fool all in the name of keeping your home.

Divorce may not be the last resort to marriage issues, but it is the ultimate solution to many other people's matrimonial challenges and no matter how hard they try to defend the union in the face of persecution they can never win that battle.

If your spouse cheat on you for the first time I think they deserve another opportunity to make it right.

Like a colleague made mention of a quote sometimes ago that fool me once, shame on you. Fool me again, shame on me.

And you will continue to be that lovely and romantic fool if you listen to another reason why your spouse cheated on you again when you know you are up and doing when it comes to your union.

I know that for some people the idea and reality of cheating is innate, hence, they will never stop even after you forgive them, if you know you cannot cope just give yourself a final break.

You are not worth that torment that comes along with a cheating spouse.
The thought of someone else over-smooching a woman you deal with gently in bed or the thought of another lady over-satisfying your man to the brim to the extent that he finds it hard to satisfy you when you are in the mood alone is enough to deal with you greatly.

I trust you will not try that 77×77 times that the Holy book preaches for forgiveness as this is not that kind of offence you can apply such law for as you even find it so hard to forgive just once let alone 7 times.

After one more chance I don't think someone in his or her right senses should even smell cheat anymore, else, you will be taken for granted for life.

This is my opinion, kindly add your contributions as it is important to me.

Source: http://www.bamisepeter.com/2017/08/the-amount-of-times-you-can-forgive.html



Ones trust is broken, it can never have a solid foundation. The best is to move on and get a better life.
Health / Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by Destiblack(m): 11:08am On Oct 22, 2019
Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do.



My guy u r the one destroying ur generation with ur thoughts . Do this, always eat water melon, Cucumber, ginger juice and eat less sugar. Do it for a month,invite ur girl and see the wonders. Always be happy,never let the thought destroy ur future today.
Romance / Re: What Is The Most Stupid Thing You've Ever Done Because Of Love? by Destiblack(m): 6:53am On Oct 22, 2019
Gwagone:
Thumbs up Lol God bless our hustle and Hustle must pay


Amen, u too correct man.

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Romance / Re: What Is The Most Stupid Thing You've Ever Done Because Of Love? by Destiblack(m): 6:39am On Oct 22, 2019
Gwagone:

See mouth

Beta double your hustle



bro my hustle tight pass as u think, I fit even employ u to hustle with me if u don't mind. have a nice time.

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Family / Re: My Baby Is A Year Old by Destiblack(m): 11:07pm On Oct 21, 2019
DortmundGirl:
Im a woman and a mother. Everywhere in the internet you will be warned not to display to open pictures of your children. Once in the net, it will never disappear cause anybody can download or spread the picture.

I'm not against displaying this sweet girl, but keep private pictures to the family. That's all I'm saying. Seems hard to understand for some folks



nobody is disputing the fact of u being a woman but reasons for such comments was unguided. people like u cos unnecessary issues at home when u have a male family from ur husband side or friend staying around. U better change ur mentality and focus on positive part of peoples happiness and gratitude. fake life, u can't even set up what this beautiful queen mother did. Even when given more resources and please learn to appreciate peoples effort.

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Romance / Re: What Is The Most Stupid Thing You've Ever Done Because Of Love? by Destiblack(m): 10:23pm On Oct 21, 2019
lilianofentse:
capable in what ways?

DM me for private chat if u cares, have a nice time.

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Romance / Re: What Is The Most Stupid Thing You've Ever Done Because Of Love? by Destiblack(m): 10:09pm On Oct 21, 2019
lilianofentse:
are you the right man?


Yes am more than capable, I mean my words.

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Romance / Re: What Is The Most Stupid Thing You've Ever Done Because Of Love? by Destiblack(m): 9:37pm On Oct 21, 2019
tiffanyfan:


Sharraaapppp there

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