[quote author=Nuelmatic post=63209436]I am getting married in March next year to a lady I met last year on facebook. we have never had sex because she said no sex before marriage and i know she is going to be my wife. we do every other thing like kiss and romance but not sex. sometimes, during the romance, she feels weak and wants the sex but I know at that point, she is only vulnerable by my actions but that was not what she ask for so i wont do it. Why the rush, she will marry me

sorry to say but u b mumu! Hw can u be pampering her while someone is smahing her out side! Bro i knw u want to marry her but it would stupid of u nt to av sex with her b4 marriage! It's says that one man angel can be another man bitch! Pls b careful girls of nowadays are something else

To me there are two ways to these which are the spiritual and factual way, been spiritual means you have to wait on the lord for the right man and keep praying! but been factual means you have to deal with fact! You said u av been dating him for a year and no sex! And you also say u ar a virgin which i understand how tough it would be for u to just av sex with him! But the question here is how do u want to know if he loves u! you can never knw that unless u try! Sometimes been a virgin can either be a good luck or a bad luck! So u av to knw wat luck it brings u at dat age! Dis is wat i av to say to u
1. keep nursing the guy abroad till you meet the day he told me! And if he keep posting u on different date leave him alone
2. Go out meet other guys! You don't know where u can find ur future! U can find him anywhere church,party,club
3. There is no man u would meet that won't want to have sex with you! The good or the bad they would always want sex! And if u meet any man who don't ask for sex pls run lol
4. If he is been secretive dont force ur self on him!
5. U guys av been together for more dan a year nw! I think u shud giv it a try and know is mind! Becos if u don't u would never knw! But if u at going to do it don't do it for him, do it because u want it! So dat u won't regret if anything happen
6. Marriage is nt a race don't try to rush into it! Is not hw fast is how well! Av seen many married Woman who pray everyday to b single! So pls b careful