Men love milk so much. It's in their nature. At baby stage they suck their mum's own, youth stage girl friend's and adult stage wife's own. It's natural

It's really amazing the way somethings happen. Talking about knowing God's will when it comes choosing a a spouse. This take a high amount of grace and patience. A lot of people will not see it from the angle I am seeing or have seen it from. This is because I've seen God's grace and awesome power at work. Can I say not everybody enjoys this grace because some people will go outside the will of God for their lives and that's the end, no remedy no matter how much they try. As write this response, you might believe that I am a living prove to awesome power and grace of God. Couple of years back, I met a lady who I loved so much and she loved me too. I was financial ok and never scared of anything money can do or any problem money could solve. I gave people money at will whenever I heard they wanted to wed. I even sponsored my elder brother's wedding so that he could get married before it comes to mine, gave my cousins money when they wanted to wed. Mine became an inexplicable issue, immediately we fixed a date for the family introduction terrible things started happening. My streams of income started drying up but I never gave it a thought or look towards that direction. I looked for a way out just ensure it was done because all my friends were married and I needed to do same. We went ahead with the introduction and fixed the wedding to come up three months from that day. Immediately that was done a disaster occurred, I lost everything I had ever worked for in just a single day. Four day later, I moved into a new flat with the money had reserved for the wedding and we had to shift the wedding date. Immediately it was three months before the wedding again another disaster occurred. I lost my mum who was hale and hearty four days before her death. The day I saw her last, she said to me that if my fiancee fails to get pregnant the wedding mustn't take place just for me to hear she suddenly took ill and died. As I was planning mum's funeral, I got a message that God said if I marry that lady I wouldn't live long. This message I ignored believing my family were up to a trick. I told my fiancee what my mum said before her death. The lady and started making efforts to get her pregnant but all to no avail. I buried my mum a month and two weeks later, it was really funny that the funeral was an elaborate one going by the standard of doing things. I footed majority of the bills. This time, I shifted the wedding again due to I had exhausted all I had. We kept on making efforts to get her pregnant but all was abortive. After several scans, well-woman test and treatments, hormone profiler, abdomino-pelvic test and scans etc still nothing. Few months later, I got another message again that God said that my fiancee will soon be pregnant but I go ahead to marry her, am walking into my grave. Surprisingly, the period I was told she'll get pregnant she truely did but funny enough she took my money to abort the pregnancy after all the efforts we had made to get her pregnant that all failed. She aborted it and ran away. Again, another message can that God was against that pregnancy because He doesn't want His own to perish without achieving his destiny. God later said He wants me to work for Him but I felt how can for God when I have my own job besides am I to be a chorister or an usher? I was later told how my wife looks like but I didn't believe, I was told that God wants me to be Pastor and preach the gospel for Him but yet I didn't believe.. But can you believe that today I am an ordained pastor preaching the gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ? The lady met and want to marry now matches the exalt description I was told and shown, she's also a minister of God. God made me realize that He also made me broke by bringing one thing or the other that would make me spend money whenever the wedding date draws near, at least if I don't have such money I wont embark on the wedding. Whenever I gatherd money God takes it away one way or another. To my greatest surprise, the lady I want to marry had been told about me three years ago but she doubted it then. Now she had given her life to Christ she had seen me even before meeting me, she broke up the man she was with just to obey God. I myself had gone to pray to ask God to show me who my wife be and the revelation I saw her. Who would have believed that night crawler, drinkard, womanizer, club-boy, an egomaniac, a fashion freak, a church hater like would be a pastor today preaching to people and bearing the title "Pastor"? This taught me that God is a master planner. This nothing but divine alignment. Today my streams of income has increased beyond the former and am happy. This is a true life experience which has taught me a huge lesson.