Please please and please, do as the family said. My Uncle has experienced this. The girl was pregnant and died while giving birth. The family insisted in marrying her corpse. Which he gathered some family member and did as they said but begged them to bury her in father's compound and his own because he does not want my grandfather who is his father to know.

There is no garagara in this, do as the family wants for peace to rain. Besides, as long as you did pay bride price, your son belongs to the girls family. It's only the bride price that will give you custody of your son.

If you choose to follow it in court way, they might follow it spiritually with you. It has repercussions.

You just a bitter soul.

benzene00:
Wetin concern us

Please just go into trading. It will pay your better. Especially, children wears (clothes and shoes) if your consistent, within 5years u will be building a house and living a good life.

I need to hear from nairalanders: Which one is better, Earning N300k in Nigeria and earning $3000 monthly in America.

In Nigeria, out of the 300k, about N120k goes into saving. But I don't know how life over there will be like considering going with 3children and no help.

Advises abeg.

She's having short cycle, there's nothing wrong with her.

If your a female, it good graduating with your father's surname. Let your maiden surname be on your certificate. Then after graduation, you can do change of name. Get affidavit, news paper publication to back it up. Your good to go.

God has a way of doing his things. Nigeria might not be up there in terms of good health care system but Mercy of God still upholds this nation . Don't be surprise that casualty won't be much in Nigeria.

soberdrunk:
Something is not adding up, Nigeria with her poor healthcare system is discharging patients with very minimal deaths but US with their plenty resources and high level health care is recording more deaths.........

Lack of spiritual understanding about what sex us all about. Sex is sacred and a spiritual thing. The world today don't see it as anything.