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Politics / Re: Shocking!!! Buhari did not Reduce fuel Price In His Time despite Oil price fall by Dmh(f): 11:19pm On Mar 22, 2015
Jonathan shouldn't av given us d 10 naira CHANGE in d 1st place coz pump price is now 100 naira.soooo sad, APC.....anything but jona
Politics / Re: Shocking!!! Buhari did not Reduce fuel Price In His Time despite Oil price fall by Dmh(f): 11:17pm On Mar 22, 2015
[quote author=xreal post=29946659]but, he left it the way he met it, isn't?

this man from bayelsa almost doubled the price. And because we are clamoring for CHANGE, he decided to give us 10naira change.

Clueless man

Jonathan shouldn't av given us d 10 naira CHANGE in d 1st place coz pump price is now 100 naira.soooo sad, APC.....anything but jona
Family / Re: Tell Us About Your Marriage by Dmh(f): 6:07pm On Jul 29, 2014
bagoma: my story continues...

after d birth of my second boy, customarily both mums (mine and his) came to do their bit, one after the other and as expected my husband moved out of our bedroom to another to give the mums room to care for the baby especially at night. they left about two months later. i expected my husband to move back to our room but alas he did not, to me it seemed as if he loved his new-found privacy and prefer that to being with me. and that was the begining of TROUBLE for us.

as the days past and turned into weeks i began to feel worse. i started feelin unloved. i felt i was no longer needed, i mean i had given birth to his children and as such fufilled my role and i'm no longer useful in his life anymore. i felt useless, i felt ugly. i felt used. but rather than call him to talk and clear up things i became bitter and would snap at him at every turn. this made him turn away even more and we went from bad to worse. we drifted apart. we became two strangers living together barely talking except to scream and curse at each other. we were heading for the rocks.

then one day, six months after the birth of my son, i packed a few things into a bag and told him i was leaving! that shocked him. and as i looked up at him, i saw the fear in his eyes.
"so you finally want to leave me?"
"yes"
" please dont leave me, we can start again, please."
"to what end?" i asked
"because i cant live without you"
"WHAT?" i asked " i thought you no longer wanted me as i have finished playing my role. it was his turn to scream "WHAT?"
"i thought you couldnt stand me anymore. i thought you hated the sight of me. at first i attributed it to post-natal hormonal feelings thats why i thought i should stay away and give you time but you got worse"
but i thought... i thought ... no i thought....

oh the trouble and pain we would have saved ourselves if only we communicated. so that night we made up and determined we would always talk. we didnt sleep, we talked and talked into the night till early morn. form then on, we became one again. we became stroger and tighter. laughter and happiness was back in my home. two years later, we celebrated five years of being together.

            shania twane's ''still the one" was our song.

            looks like we made it , see how far we've come my baby
            we might have took the long way, we knew we'll get there someday
            they said, i bet they'll never make it but just look as we're still holding on
            we're still together, still going strong.
             still the one, you still the one i run to, the one that i belong to.....

he said we'll play it on our 10th anniversary. everyone who thought we couldnt make it, all those who stood in our way, would be invited.... i once sang "i wanna grow old with you" (westlife) to him and he jokingly said but you are already old now grin i screamed and chased him, we ran around the house like kids. my marriage was bliss, my home, heaven on earth. life was too good to be true.

how long do you think the marriage would last?

i thought it would last my lifetime but it didnt.
just like angelaZ, he died in a ghastly auto accident some months after our 5th wedding anniversary, tearing my world apart.

its close to 3 years now and i've learnt to be strong again. i have learnt to live with the pain.
goodness God!! dis is really painful,It is well with u & d kids.A̶̲̥̅♏ really scared of dis institution called marriage
Family / Re: My Fiance Asked Me To Choose: House Or Marriage? by Dmh(f): 2:16pm On Jul 29, 2014
This guy actually knows what he's doing,it's not as if d lady is pestering him for any wedding which means he only want to know what her opinion/priority will be. Mind u, d guy might as well av more than enough cash for d wedding & d Building project.
Family / Re: My Fiance Asked Me To Choose: House Or Marriage? by Dmh(f): 10:05am On Jul 29, 2014
Grayz:
I am not even in a hurry to get married. so it would've been different if I was pressurizing him hence my madness towards him.
relax dear, he only wanted to know if he can rely on u in d area of decision making in d future coz a time will come in marriage whereby d wife will av to make/take some decisions 4 her husband. Pls don't be mad @ him coz he only want to know how effective u will be in dat area
Family / Re: My Fiance Asked Me To Choose: House Or Marriage? by Dmh(f): 9:55am On Jul 29, 2014
grin
alutacontinua: Please, can somebody kindly tell me what exactly he was testing in his fiancee? undecided
Her REASONING; D guy wanted to know how wise her decision could be & d lady did a good justice to dat.it's a simple mindset TEST. Av I answered ur question sis
Celebrities / Re: Happy Birthday To Olu Jacobs! by Dmh(f): 9:27am On Jul 29, 2014
Alleluia:

R u okay Fool
u are such a sily girl.u really need some trainings @ home dear. Double FOOL!!
Celebrities / Re: Happy Birthday To Olu Jacobs! by Dmh(f): 2:41pm On Jul 13, 2014
Alleluia:

Ashewo lasan lasan undecidedundecided
pls dnt tell me dat u are a yoruba lady coz u sound so razz & uncultured.ur moniker is a sharp contrast to ur personality,pls learn how to relate wit people abeg. Haba!
Health / Re: FG Challenges NMA To Public Debate. by Dmh(f): 12:48am On Jul 13, 2014
sisiafrika: Some people are planning how dey gonna meet in Akure, hmm, HIV is real.
oh! Is dat wot u think sis? A̶̲̥̅♏ only telling him dat some of his facts are not true.HIV don get drugs nah unlike other deadly diseases(lol)
Health / Re: FG Challenges NMA To Public Debate. by Dmh(f): 7:41pm On Jul 12, 2014
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youngdoctor:
better??i stay in oritaobele street.we only have light from 11p.m -4a.m daily..so from 4:05-10:59..its by God's grace..
Where in akure do you stay MR??
I stay @ oda road and elecricity is gud here.we do av light during d day & @ nyt ,I mean like 80%,maybe u need a relocation then(lol)
Health / Re: FG Challenges NMA To Public Debate. by Dmh(f): 4:59pm On Jul 12, 2014
Dmh: total backout in akure Which area are u coz A̶̲̥̅♏ so sure dat light is much more better now in akure.so ur sumission abt dat is untrue doc
youngdoctor: As a doctor..i can tel yu ds FG is schizophrenic...we ve made a mistake electing ds bastards.
Ok,wat do dey expct frm d debate...we call of d strike?IMPOSSICANT..dey re jst making us feel more special and needed..
1).poly guys on strike
2).college of edu.guys on strike.
3).no intrvention into O.A.U's mata.
4).Chibok girls ve bn frgotten.
5)football has bn banned.
6).me nd ma colleagues and seniors on strike.
7)total blackout here in akure.
Nd yu cal ds a government...i laff in physics....F*ckd up pipu..shioor
total blackout in akure; Which area are u? coz A̶̲̥̅♏ so sure dat light is much more better now in akure.so ur submission abt dat is untrue doc
Nairaland / General / Re: Tell Us About Your Moniker by Dmh(f): 1:01pm On Jul 11, 2014
Daughter of d Most High(DMH)

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