CokeBar:
Lmao at your last statement

"I know guys are polygamous in nature and guys cheat for pleasure but a cheating girlfriend/fiancée/wife is unacceptable especially when you have the intention to marry her."


Help me understand, if it is unacceptable, why exactly are you taking her back?

Please don't waste that lady's time if you made up with her because you feel you've invested so much money and time or you're scared of being lonely.

If you're creating a thread about it, it obviously means you're not over it. End the relationship and let her heal from the pain of a broken relationship she caused.

In fact, since she came plain to you, you should also tell her you've cheated.

I don't understand how people even cheat without protection sef... that should be the bone of contention here!

Unku, take her for medical check-up before your next 'fornication' appointment. Condom dey burst

I'm not wasting her time. That's I gave her another chance because I love. Its not matter of how I invested in her but the pain of seeing the one I love cheat on me is unbearable. I did medical check up for her in order to see if she has any complication after she said she has terminated the pregnancy. I conducted HVS and Urinalysis test for her in order to see if she has any infections but she has no bacterial infection. I treated her for yeast infection and I'm the one that foot the medical bills.

I wish for her to be the mother of my children but I don't want to get her pregnant immediately. I just want to watch her for some months to see of she has change or not and if she hasn't, I have no option but to end up the relationship.

MajesticKris:
why not what.... so after getting pregnant with someone else, you expect the love to still remain the same abi...

Exactly bro.. If she wasn't pregnant, its a separate thing. Though, she has terminated the pregnancy and she wouldn't have let me know she was pregnant. She would have terminated it behind my back but she decided to confessed to me.

I told her she wouldn't have confess if she wasn't pregnant. She said she didn't enjoy it. She has terminated the pregnancy three weeks ago and the guy is not her ex.

MajesticKris:
first ask yourself this question...

1 would she have confessed if she wasn't pregnant??
2 Ask her if she enjoyed it... or got what she was playing bro get..

Well if she wasn't pregnant I would have advised you take her back...

But she is... I guess don't

cus after providing for her all she needs, the only thing she wanted was an adventure with someone else.. and she's got it...

My advice Don't ,Why because she can never be faithful, but I respect the fact she was honest..

if you check well that guy fit be her Ex..

Hello Nairalanders,

I just want to know if anyone (particularly guys) has given her girlfriend a second chance when she cheated.

My fiancée that I intend to marry cheated behind my back two months ago. Though, I didn't catch her red handed but she confessed to me because of the mess she put herself into. According to her, She was trying to play game with someone she met two months ago just to get money from the the guy. At the process, she got carried away and had sex with the guy twice without protection. She confessed to me because she became pregnant and she knew I wasn't the one responsible for her pregnancy because I used protection all the time after our first experience. I was mad at her and I had to end the relationship in the presence of her parents. Though, she has terminated the pregnancy and was begging me to forgive her.

I forgave her three weeks ago so as to move on but it was so hard because I love her so much and I have nurture our relationship for three years. Before I forgave her, we both had one on one conversation because I wanted to know the reasons behind her cheating. All she said was to play game with the guy and got carried away by mistake. This is someone I provide for all I needs, care for her 100%, helped her parents with finance, go any length for her just to make her happy. I gave her money for upkeep every month and the money i give her every month is not up to the money she collected from the guy within those two month she messed around. In fact, She doesn't lack anything with me because she knows I'm not a thousandnaire and I also Bleep her well that she tells me how tired she was each time we had sex.

I gave her another chance because I love her so much and this is the first time she will ever cheat on me. I set rules (Do's and Don't) this time around I know no one is perfect and I have also cheated behind her back with several ladies (fling and call girls) in which she doesn't know about but I always used protection with these ladies back then.

Guys, can you give your girlfriend or fiancée another chance to prove herself right knowing fully well that trust has been broken?

I know guys are polygamous in nature and guys cheat for pleasure but a cheating girlfriend/fiancée/wife is unacceptable especially when you have the intention to marry her.

It's not good. A girl who is committed in her relationship should not dare to give her number out cuz it will cause serious problem in her relationship. Guys are not to be trusted.

Girl's

My girlfriend and I have been dating for eight month now. When I told her I have feelings for her, she accepted instantly without saying no nor did she give me tough time in getting her.though, she turned every other guys down that came before me but she said yes to me without giving me tough time.does that make her cheap? She can't avoid my romance and sex.she tried to avoid me but she can't when we are together..I love her so much and intend getting marry to her next year but am scared.am scared in the sense that if she can be able to resist other guys since she gave in to me without stress.i consider that as being cheap since I didn't go through stress.guys what is your opinion on this?I no my trend sounds childish but I don't want to make another mistake

i invested some huge amount of money in her business and i am yet to get my capital neither my interest back..i have asked her how far with the business i invested on indirectly becos i just dont want her to feel bad but she keeps giving me hope with her sweet mouth.i am yet to see result and her insincerity is pissing me off.i just dont want to say words to her that will make her feel bad and i dont want to regret the words that i will say to her..

i have been patient for a very long time and she is not showing any sign of wanting to help me out with my money..i even told her that i borrowed the money i invested in her business but she acted as if she does not care..

pls what do i do? i dont even need the interest back..all i wanted is to get my capital back from her..though, i have learnt my lesson.some family members are not to be trusted...

please i need your opinion on how i can get my money back from her....

ITbomb:
Hope she no use am for T winkas, if so just forget about your money

nope..she does not..she has a business of her own and she is not into ponzi scheme

i invested some huge amount of money in her business and i am yet to get my capital neither my interest back..i have asked her how far with the business i invested on indirectly becos i just dont want her to feel bad but she keeps giving me hope with her sweet mouth.i am yet to see result and her insincerity is pissing me off.i just dont want to say words to her that will make her feel bad and i dont want to regret the words that i will say to her..

i have been patient for a very long time and she is not showing any sign of wanting to help me out with my money..i even told her that i borrowed the money i invested in her business but she acted as if she does not care..

pls what do i do? i dont even need the interest back..all i wanted is to get my capital back from her..though, i have learnt my lesson.some family members are not to be trusted...

please i need your opinion on how i can get my money back from her....

thats awful bro..girls this days dont monitor the inner part of their body.they are just after their facial expression, physical attraction, fancy dress and lot more...statistics have shown that girls that like material things, flashy dress and most especially having random guys are prone to STIs and BV.

op just send the dirty bitch parking and make sure u always protect yourself becos most of the girls you see on the streets and on social media are just destiny killer...

run for your life and always make sure you go for STIs test and perhaps test any girl you want to have something with in order not to put yourself into danger in the nearest future.

though, your thread is just so funny and i cant stop lafing