ksbusari:
I'm confused. Please I need your advice. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a while now and just yesterday she confessed that she had sex with someone I had been suspecting. She told me she had sex with that man for money knowing fully well my financial status at this present time. She begged to be forgiven but don't know what to do.

Pls help pls. This is a girl i really love. Everybody around me already knows her.

In this life we all need a second chance. The fact that she confessed to you shows she is remorseful and should be given second chance. We are not perfect but try to attain perfection

Why are you broke? Is it her fault? Make she no chop because of love? Oga no loyalty for poor man oh..you bera double your hustle

victorakpabome:


Guy pursue that bitch. Get another one. They are many

lol bros you wicked small oh. You mean he should send the b... Ch away and get another b... Tch...... I salute

Chase the bastard. Once a cheater is always a cheater.
Never you forgive a cheater . where boy or girl. Man or woman. Let them go.

ksbusari:
I'm confused. Please I need your advice. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a while now and just yesterday she confessed that she had sex with someone I had been suspecting. She told me she had sex with that man for money knowing fully well my financial status at this present time. She begged to be forgiven but don't know what to do.

Pls help pls. This is a girl i really love. Everybody around me already knows her.

ksbusari:
I'm confused. Please I need your advice. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a while now and just yesterday she confessed that she had sex with someone I had been suspecting. She told me she had sex with that man for money knowing fully well my financial status at this present time. She begged to be forgiven but don't know what to do.

Pls help pls. This is a girl i really love. Everybody around me already knows her.

I have have only one advice for u I have been with different girls I have date many girls and there was a time I was inlove but latter I found out that most girls are not what u think they are lets me u something I have one girl am Fu===c=k==ing right now she is about to marry I just meet her and in less Dan a months I have f her and she is about to get married and the guy she is about get married to she and the guy have never had sex with her but I just saw her and I have f her u see don't ever trust girls don't ever fall inlove if u do don't show it to her Any girl that we go.out and have sex becus of money pls don't take that kind if girl serrous pls am advice u this is not the first time she is doing it so.no matter how she beg u pls don't take her serious again cut that love am.telling u because that guy who.f=u==ck her will still do it again and again and this time she will not tell you and she will f==u==ck more guys all because of money pls be careful don't allow love to turn u like mumu all the name of love if she beg take her back but this time turn her to f++=+u++ck mate yes don't show her the love again if she love u as she said she won't go out and f--u--ck other guys because of money pls don't be fool by love luck ur heart and join us play boy we don't care about any girl will just show u we care but down we don't pls fellow my advice because I.took time to.writes this Godbless u bro

safarigirl:
before I judge your babe, wetin she use the money do?

Was it a life and death matter? Pesin been dey hospital? If that is the case, it may be a bit unfair to judge her because of the tight situation

Did she use the money to feed you? If na si, dumping herd may be awkward considering you ate from rhw forbidden fruit

However, if none of the above is the issue, kick that bish to the curb.

Its a question of morality, I believe if someone falls for sex due to money then mehn forget it, it will happen again if it were because of emotional inadequacy that's different , what's not to say when they marry and things are tight that she won't sleep around, its a question of morals and ethics its not meant to be easy and if they can succumb for cash then it means their values are low. That's how I see it, cheaters will always cheat regardless of the situation

Baba why are you brooding because of lady. Your own still better, no be my girl go get belle for another guy. I just do as if I no know. If you know you can't continue dating her, forgive and let her leave your life. Don't kill yourself on top woman.

ksbusari:
I'm confused. Please I need your advice. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a while now and just yesterday she confessed that she had sex with someone I had been suspecting. She told me she had sex with that man for money knowing fully well my financial status at this present time. She begged to be forgiven but don't know what to do.

Pls help pls. This is a girl i really love. Everybody around me already knows her.

I guess u would not come here at initial if you really love her and you are also a matured mind except if this is not the first time this is happening.
Naturally, you need to confirm that she still loves you, then you can forgive her guide her, fend for her needs as necessary, then most importantly, love her more and blind your eyes to her iniquities.
Again, be sure that she still loves you if not, put her on your fork list.

vingeophysicist:
lol...From what I could decipher from your write up, it was after she notices an improvement in your finances she disclose her infidelity to you.She made it clear why she slept with the man which is simply because of money.Any Lady that cannot control her urge for money is not really ready for marriage, marry her at your own peril.I am very certain she will fall prey again and again.She might need money in future eventually to get something you probably term as unnecessary expenses, what stops her from resorting to selling her body to fulfill her needs. Young man, be wise , even the bible condemned money as the root of all evil.

how can the guy be wise when love has turn him to another tin I can't see my self in love no way

just forget her...be as if you don't know her..if you remain in love with her,every time she will be in need of money that will be the system...so better leave her alone

Espada11:
Do not forgive but don't let her go..use her as your part time Bleep mate.

guy ur heard they there na the same tin I tell the guy no take her serious again turn her ti f%%uc%%k mate no time to love na baby mama sure pass

Northernonyenku:
Both of u should forgive each other cos am 99.9% sure u'v cheated too..everybody dey steal but person wey dem catch na him be thief.

You're only saying what you're capable of doing , don't use yourself to judge others

Purebeerry:
You literally encouraged cheating, so if am dating a man and he doesn't give me what I want, I go and cheat on him because I don't have enough.

A virtuous lady is contented with the little she has and before you come here to say something, let me tell you, I've been in a situation where I was dead broke and I wasn't getting enough, guess what? a man was offered me huge amount of money for me to sleep with me and date him but I refused cos I didn't want to cheat.. That is contentment.

And what make you think the lady is poor?

see your mouth give u what u want how many tins your papa don give u na stop puting your hope on men see I date different girl I no they give them anything if u ask me I go tell u say go meet ur papa when bron u I know u go say I be broke guy but u don't know how much I get my advice go work for your own money stop asking your bf for money

ksbusari:
I'm confused. Please I need your advice. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a while now and just yesterday she confessed that she had sex with someone I had been suspecting. She told me she had sex with that man for money knowing fully well my financial status at this present time. She begged to be forgiven but don't know what to do.

Pls help pls. This is a girl i really love. Everybody around me already knows her.

Haha... Forgive her is all I can say. What if she dnt tell you, what if she stood on her ground and show no remorse? This world is just full with surprises, don't be taken unexpected neither should you over react

LorDBolton:
My question is what does she bring to the table?

This "I love her " shiiit should end in 2017

lol am telling u hahaha

abokibuhari:
Chai! Women and prick

Men and toto

How much she come get?

safarigirl:
so, you mean you dated everybody this year and learnt such a valuable lesson? That is a lot, how did you date over 7 billion people?

And look at me, here, I've never met you, but everybody cheats

my opinion.... my Business.... ur opinion.... ur business

Ermm,I think I missed my way here. Wrong thread. Make I find my square root.

She will always cheat again whenever she needs money and you can't provide. And by the way, once a guy bleeps a girl once it so easy for that same guy to Bleep her again and again without much stress. You can forgive if you want but Dump her for good. Take your decision don't look at people that have known the two of you together for a long time, your happiness and future are what that matters cos those people will not be there in future when she hurts you again and again cos i know it will definitely happen again and she will always have it at the back of her mind that she will always be forgiven.

ksbusari:
I'm confused. Please I need your advice. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a while now and just yesterday she confessed that she had sex with someone I had been suspecting. She told me she had sex with that man for money knowing fully well my financial status at this present time. She begged to be forgiven but don't know what to do.

Pls help pls. This is a girl i really love. Everybody around me already knows her.

I am sure it will reoccur again during marriage. That's the basic problem.

If you're to take her back, make sure it's a harrowing experience for her so she'll never engage in such when marriage.

I hope hands too are clean? Jehovah no dey take nonsense (Hebrew 13:4). The sauce that is good for the gander is also good for the goose. With God, there's no partialty.

Just give her a hard time accepting her back.

You know what? Simply take the advise of the guy above me. He said the blunt truth.

Bro forgive her and just end the relationship on mutual ground.

Talking from experience.... Don't waste your time with her further.

Cheating is what I hate most.

DJperdurabo:


Easy for you to say.

The demise of that relationship has been laid down already. The human mind is a curios thing. Watch how every time he sees her, he imagines the man she cheated with plunging and thrusting hard into her.

Watch how he wonders if she enjoyed it. Did she moan in ecstasy, gripped his bum tighter for deeper penetration, even compared his prowess to that of her guy.

In fact, it's over. The humanmind will ensure that. It takes one who's very well skilled and developed in mind control to overcome the images and nebulous thoughts that the mind manufactures when it really gets to work.

As for OP, what can I say. If I'm going to be brutally honest with you, I'd tell you to walk away. If you truly love her as you say, let her go. Both of you would be the better for it as one of the.most important ingredient in any relationship worth its salt is Trust and you, my friend, just lost it for your woman.

It can NEVER be the same. Stay at your own risk.

What will you say if this happened in a marriage? let's say you mistakingly stumbled on dirty stuffs on your wife's phone & along the lines, you are able to force her into confession. After that she swore to an oath right in the presence of her relatives that such won't happen again. will you still advise that the man go for a divorce?

Girl's

what determines whether or not she should b forgiven is the motive behind such action: which in this case is money! op, i would advise u continue with the relationship (love is very logical)
1. if u dont mind her repeating the same each time u're broke
2. if u are guilty of the same.
However, forgiveness is divine and very good but can u or would u ever forget?

Bros i beg u, just free her ooo, i forgave one, and now shes married to another man... I am talking from experience....

victorakpabome:


Very true. Never you trust a girl. They all Bleep around. Even the ones that carry church on their head

Who are the people bleeping these gals is it not Men/guys or do the gals bleep themselves arrnd Lol

#Just asking

victorakpabome:


Very true. Never you trust a girl. They all Bleep around. Even the ones that carry church on their head

AND the guys preach around. ..abi?

Bros let go, my gf did d same thing for me, and after av 4gvn her she still repeat it again, she did it for pleasure not money, if u 4gv her she will do it again

What matters is, to what use did she put the money Forgiveness should be dependent on that, or else, it will repeat itself again and again.

ksbusari:
I'm confused. Please I need your advice. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a while now and just yesterday she confessed that she had sex with someone I had been suspecting. She told me she had sex with that man for money knowing fully well my financial status at this present time. She begged to be forgiven but don't know what to do.

Pls help pls. This is a girl i really love. Everybody around me already knows her.

eheheeehhh ! bros why u na..... wetin be de assurance say she nor go do am again when u go broke! its like taking ur life savings to play bet9ja