Religion / Re: Biden Receives Communion At Mass At St. Patrick's Church In Rome( Pics) by Doncyn(f): 5:52pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
People criticizing Biden are hypocrite. Who are u to have right over someone's body,do with your body whatever you wish. |
Religion / Re: Biden Receives Communion At Mass At St. Patrick's Church In Rome( Pics) by Doncyn(f): 5:49pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
[Amen
quote author=Firloda post=107216000]God bless America[/quote] |
Politics / Re: Masked ESN Member Tells FG To Bring Kanu To Court On 21st October 2021 by Doncyn(f): 12:49pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
The most stupid video I ever seen .... Ozi a di oke mkpa ,ozi a di oke mkpa. I can't wait to see wat what is going to happen. |
Celebrities / Re: Annie Idibia Drags 2Face Idibia On Instagram Over One Of His Baby Mamas by Doncyn(f): 12:09am On Sep 03, 2021 |
Matters arising!!!! Why all dis celebs dey carry Dere family wahala de drop for our head? We get family issues but nobody fry hear am.sometimes i see it as immaturity.u won make public decide on ur matter? 9 Likes |
Politics / Re: Gbenga Daniel Daughter Kehinde's Wedding: Jonathan, Patience, Osinbajo Attend by Doncyn(f): 4:23am On Aug 08, 2021 |
Will you keep quiet ? Chiee there is God ooo, there's God ooooo |
Politics / Re: Nnamdi Kanu's Trial: Inside The Court Room (pictures) by Doncyn(f): 4:40pm On Jul 26, 2021 |
[OMG,na lie ooo .nothing is happening here in aba.nomal business as usual
quote author=Ezehillary post=104107021]TODAY NA TODAY NO MARKET IN SOUTH EAST TODAY THAT IS THE SITUATION OVER HERE[/quote] |
Health / Re: COVID-19 Update For July 3 2021 In Nigeria by Doncyn(f): 4:57am On Jul 04, 2021 |
Hmmmmm.....praise God for all his creatures |
Romance / Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by Doncyn(f): 5:30am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Firstly NNE ur a hypocrite.what do u mean dt u gave ur life to christ by joining pentecostals?so we catholics are not born again? U don't deserve dt man in question because dat man who believes in his faith is more Godly than u.just give gap for so dt d man will marry someone of d same faith with .because with u ,ur saved life will surfocate d man's life.
In ur next life pray and asked God for u not to b decived again. Ur that type of woman who visit eventually all the prayer house . Catholic are selected human beings. We die there. 1 Like |
Travel / Re: My Visa Denial Experience: What You Should Avoid by Doncyn(f): 2:09pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
Mr writer make sure u know the reason ur visa was denied and correct and get ready to prove beyond....incase ur reapplying |
Politics / Re: Adamu Garba: Okonjo-Iweala Should Be Investigated Over IPOB's Activities by Doncyn(f): 11:16pm On Jun 05, 2021 |
So stupid of him today mentioning that woman name again..on Whats she knows nothing abt....dis ADAMU needs strokes of 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Nuella Njubigbo Acquires A N19m Lexus SUV (Photos, Video) by Doncyn(f): 9:37am On Jun 02, 2021 |
Meaning it was a gift,she didn't bought with her money Anyways which ever way congrats |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: N-power: We Have Paid All N-power Beneficiaries – FG by Doncyn(f): 7:21am On May 28, 2021 |
Dis woman can lie for africa 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Nollywood Actress, Ify Onwuemene Dies Of Cancer by Doncyn(f): 2:17pm On May 26, 2021 |
D same sick killed my aunty last year...mY her soul rest in perfect peace We should take care of our health ooo |
Education / Re: Man Disguised As A woman, Sneaked Into Female University Hostel In Port Harcourt by Doncyn(f): 2:14pm On May 26, 2021 |
May be he. Went to pick up inner wears or pads for rituals. |
Politics / Re: Turkish President Erdogan Phones Buhari, Seeks Nigeria's Support For Palestine by Doncyn(f): 5:04am On May 16, 2021 |
As in ree,so Nigeria has turn to lslamic country abi,God forbid... we are not coming,wen nigerians are supporting pale and USA supporting israel,who una think go win dis battle? 1 Like |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Nigeria Urges Israel & Palestine To See Reason & De-Escalate by Doncyn(f): 6:59am On May 14, 2021 |
Try and d- escalate what is happening here now before u talk abt another country. |
Politics / Re: Awurum Eze Not ESN Operative, Says IPOB by Doncyn(f): 6:55am On May 14, 2021 |
Biafrans of all age brackets are now at the mercy of the double-faced Nigeria security agents as all they need to arrest and kill them off is to brand them ESN operative or sponsor,” the IPOB concluded.
Is a liar here..we are afriad of kidnappers and unknown gun men since dis ESN and federal securities started Dere tinx.we really need security where am living because dat place has become a free zone for kidnappers.dey kidnapp any how dis days.even dey try taking me but God was on my side. |
Politics / Re: Robbers In Aso Rock: Gambari Confirms Attempt To Burgle His Residence by Doncyn(f): 6:15am On May 11, 2021 |
Who cares whether they enter or not ? |
Politics / Re: Buhari At The Closing Of 2021 Ramadan In Abuja (Pictures) by Doncyn(f): 10:35pm On May 09, 2021 |
What is he praying for? Look at d country God trusted him with,he allow people of underworld to took over� honestly God will b angry with him on d last day.i come in peace 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Herdsmen Killings: This Madness In Nigeria Must Stop – Umahi by Doncyn(f): 5:32am On May 09, 2021 |
[All those empty lands Dere on d highway at north,can't it b use as ruga instead of looking for problems in people's region.sometimes talk like someone dt atleast read ABCD. DON'T BE FOOLISH ANYMORE TO WRITE DIS TYPE OF THINK HERE.GO IN PEACE
quote author=Kaduna1stson post=101502738]
We will make sure your people will never smell aso rock again until you give us 500 hectares of land we demented for RUGA. [/quote] 1 Like 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Desmond Elliot Bridge Vs Onem Tyna Miracle Bridge (Photos) by Doncyn(f): 12:11pm On May 08, 2021 |
Desmond is a stupid idiot |
Politics / Re: Buhari, Atiku, Saraki, Ishaku, Others Mourn "Mama Taraba" by Doncyn(f): 6:47am On May 08, 2021 |
All the things on my mind has been written down so make add mine,kaa nke oma.death is inevitable |
Politics / Re: Senator Ademola Adeleke's Graduation Ceremony At Atlanta Metropolitan College by Doncyn(f): 6:43am On May 08, 2021 |
No time is late .u can still make it no matter ur age, kudos sir 33 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Insecurity: Where Is The $1 Billion You Withdrew To Purchase Arms – Wike by Doncyn(f): 5:38am On May 05, 2021 |
[ What makes him a fool my friend?is it because he is asking the right question?
quote author=HellAnus post=101384908]Wike is a fool [/quote] |
Romance / Re: 10 Exceptionally Unique Romantic Names You Can Call Your Partner by Doncyn(f): 10:12am On May 04, 2021 |
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Politics / Re: Ikonso: Nnamdi Kanu And The End Of ESN by Doncyn(f): 2:14pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
Can dey now return to sambisa for shekau |
Events / Re: My Twins Are Plus1 Today I'm Happy Single Father (pictures) by Doncyn(f): 2:09pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
God will always b ur strength. . happy birthday to dem ,may day live beyond human expectations.amen |
Romance / Re: He Doesn't Pick Up My Calls When He's At Home by Doncyn(f): 10:44pm On Apr 22, 2021 |
I don't wanna read other people's comment but just write my own . Please better call it a quit because he is married.d younger brother na his wife oky |
Politics / Re: Abia Government Warns Aba Residents To Stop Attacks On Road Contractors by Doncyn(f): 6:20pm On Apr 21, 2021 |
Don't worry one day aba will grow
quote author=PlayMaker14 post=100996651]While Anambra, Imo, Enugu and Ebonyi youths are building, developing and protecting their properties, the average Aba boys are destroying their own house.
During my short stay at Aba, I noticed that an average Aba boy get easily provoked over little things and they will go as far as unleashing their anger on innocent dwellers in the state.
No wonder the state is still under developed while neighbouring States flourish.
ngwababe, come and talk to your people.[/quote] |
Crime / Re: Gunmen Invade Aba, Shoot Sporadically As Residents Scamper For Safety by Doncyn(f): 9:02pm On Apr 08, 2021 |
Story story.. I was Inside town today,main park to cementry market also azikiwe by mosque around 13.30pm to 3pm ,Dere was nothing like gunmen.just dt police was patrolling and people were running saying dt gun men send msg to police for attack |
Romance / Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Doncyn(f): 2:14am On Apr 04, 2021 |
PERVENCHE: *NOTE With all due respect, I have changed names and some too familiar details about myself out of respect for my wife to be. I know she likes to catch cruise on nairaland.
My name is Friday (of course not my real name) I am from the middle-belt. So please save your tribalism with all those una Igbo, Yoruba and Hausa insults. I met Grace(my wife to be) few years ago. It was love at 1st sight. She was everything and is still everything I had hoped a woman should be. There is this crass about her that makes her effortlessly better than any lady around her. My type in the true sense of the word. Tall, busty, curvy, sassy, elegant, personable and above all, she has a graceful soul. From the 1st date to this day, I still pinch my self like.. What in God's green earth is a beauty like her doing with a shrek like me.
But then, true perfection is always a utopia. Grace in all her graceful demeanour and aura, has a flaw; Indecision! More so, blind trust seems to be her albatross. (I swear she can even take Lai Muhammad's word to the bank) Though, I still love her; flaws and all. Her complete or should I say blind trust for me and Abigail became one of the reasons Abigail(her younger sister) has become an unending chapter in our relationship. Even though the blame of what happened squarely falls on me.
Abigail just shy off 20, is too savvy for her age. Not the outright outstanding beauty like my Grace. What ever little she lacks in beauty, she more than makes up for it in her mentality. For she is truly a smart and an intelligent girl. Just five years younger than Grace. One who expect them at least to be close and be like Asaba and Onisha but then...they are the direct opposite of each other. While Grace is the introverted shy person, Abigail is quite the extrovert and likes to make friends for Africa. It is only fair to believe their formative time in secondary school played a part in their output towards life. Grace likes to conform like most day school students. Abigail on the other hand, is the boarding school nightmare all parents hope not to experience: the deviant.
Through the 1st years we dated, Abigail was in secondary school and was never in the picture. For some odd or strange reason, Grace was not ready to fully commit. Not that I blame her or something. At 23, Most girls her age are like Alice in wonderland; they crush on celebrities and Chase childhood dreams and fantasies. The vile ones, if truth be told...tend to live out their hoė phase. At 28, I was already grounded to know what I wanted and it was Grace and marriage. Sometimes, you do all you can do but then life has a way of throwing in a curveball. More over, "No be say because I wan chop egg I go begin dey worship chicken." Sensing her shakara, I pulled the hand brakes on us and walked out of the relationship.
***2 years later*** Fortunately or unfortunately after letting go, Grace became incensed and started to want me back. I hardly do any social media at this point. Pride won't let her call me, so there was no way to send coded messages on whatsapp status to me. Being the introvert that she is and the all trusting graceful Grace, she started to send Abigil over to my place to bridge the gap. In just over two years, Abigail had changed and developed into a sexy hippie bohemian. Not that I fancy her in any erotic way or something. It's just that in our contemporary naija society where mostly everyone conforms, it is hard not to notice a bohemian.
Knowing I would do no better than Grace even with a million dollars and in a hundred years of searching, I mended fences with Grace and our relationship became stronger than ever. Over time, Abigail became a bridge between us. At first, Grace would send her over to run errands for her. After a while, it became a second nature for her to come over and fidget with my electronics. Courtesy demands you be nice to your in-laws to be and so I was nice to Abigail.
Abigail's posturing over time made it difficult for me to say no to her especially during them Nengi and Laycon days in the house. She was a fan of big brother lockdown. And would always ask for my keys to watch the silly show for she was equally as silly to be gushing over that vanity fair. Grace seems not have any issues with her coming over and I also did not for I was hardly home and God knows the sub was kinda wasting away.
There are some things in life that are not planned. They just happen! My boss at work then tested positive for Covid and we were all asked to quarantine at home. Grace still had to go to work while Abigail was always free because of the ASSU strike. Suddenly, I started to be alone with Abigail. She would come over "for big brother" around 9am and leave around 7pm in time to beat her curfew at home. It was awkward staying all day with Abigail. Grace too predictable, only comes over on Sunday. For some strange reasons, on Sundays, Abigail will never show up.
There were times, and I am sure it could just be my imagination, that she enjoyed teasing me. She would come dressed like a sister Mary Amaka from home but after a while, she would take her bath and transform into a Kardashian. Wearing skimpy cloths and heavy make-up. I tried to give her her space. I was in quarantine and therefore, had practically no where to go. I am basically the type that don't flock with co-workers and I hardly keep any friends except for Grace. I am not one to be neighbourly with my neighbours so I was stuck with Abigail all day. Humans are social animals and we tend to gravitate towards each other especially when we are alone with someone. Gradually, she won me over and I started to watch the big brother show with her. While she was rooting for Nengi after her Erica left, I was simply for Neo for he had my height. And the bond between us grew. God knows I had no vile motives and evil intentions. It is hard not to enjoy Abigail's company for she is a smart, gleeful and witty girl. While I do all the talking with Grace, Abigail on the other hand does all the talking with me and it was a welcome change.
*** D Day *** It became obvious Abigail was not telling the truth at home. She would pick their calls and tell them she was in her female friend's house. And in the spirit of our new found big brother bond. We kept the secret. On this faithful day, it had rained all day and Nepa had struck and the plug in my generator was no good. The rain had brought with it a cool breeze and some magical thunder. Seemingly, we could not watch our show so I took a blanket because of the cold and buried my attention on my PC (laptop) re-watching season 5 of the game of thrones.
Naively, Abigail joined me and entered the blanket with me. I use the word 'naive' because I honestly do not want to qualify her as a minx. And I know she does not see me as a Justine Bieber of a crystal ball for her to be drooling at. While in that warm blanket watching the movies in such compromising position, One thing led to another and alot of that one thing opened up her Pandora's box and I... I ate the most forbidden fruit there ever was. There is no telling how wonderful making love to her was at the heat of the moment and there's no shame in the world that equates to the shame that immediately dwell and still dwells in my soul shortly after even to this day. There's a lot to blame our mistake and betrayal on. Could it just be the moment? the weather? the chemistry? the devil? (laughs) my opportunistic habit? Her feminine warmth in such close proximity? my placing a hand on her thigh and meeting no resistance? My foggy mind and grown erection? Her racing and panting heart? Her feisty zeal and deviant nature? My libido? Hers? My morals? Buhari? Herdsmen? IPOB? Sunday Igbahor? Dstv and big brother? NEPA? Game of thrones? Was she after all really a minx? In all fairness, she is just a little naive girl that does not deserve to be pilloried for my betrayal. As the adult, I should have known better and acted a lot better.
Climbing down from our lustful climax, we both knew immediately what we had done, the gravity and the implications it could have on not just us, but grace and the whole family. In the most contrite way possible, we apologized to ourselves and vowed never to repeat it again. We felt it would be better not to tell Grace or anyone and we agreed Abigail would stop coming over. I started to avoid Abigail at all cost. I did not just release cum after my despicable act with Abigail, I released every thing good in me and every form of happiness. I felt much less of a man and wished I had died as a child or better still was aborted.
I hardly could face Grace after. The more I try to ghost her, the more she held on tightly. It became awkward visiting their family house for I was not comfortable around them trusting and accepting me. Not for the fear that they would find out...just my conscience eating me up. I stayed away and made peace with my gross mistake. For over six to seven months. I did my penance and nothing happened with Abigail. I know I am in a better place now to make sane decisions about cheating. To give something back to Grace, I have vowed never to sleep with anyone till die. We know how cheating amongst married men is common these days. I no call Adekule Gold name oh!
Me and Grace are set to marry on the 17th of this April. The thing is...Abigail is her chief bridesmaid and preparation demands I see her most times. She still has a look in her eyes...dunno what to make of it. A look of blackmail? Of you could still hit it if you want? We have unfinished business kinda look? You should be paying a bride price for two look? I die inside every time I see Grace happy she again got us back to talking terms because of the wedding. Ignorance is truly bliss.
I have doubts going through with this wedding. Folks may laugh and say I chickened out because of the inflation and money, others might blame Grace. It may ruin Grace for ever. How do I do this knowing Abigail will always be family?
After reading all ,dis matter come weak me.please no allow the abigail to notice dt ur guilty of dt forni.take it dt old thing have past away to welcome new thing.but guy if u no commot eye for abigail ,I go happen again.a failed relationship is better than a failed marriages Advice: go ahead with ur marriage nd carry the secret to d crave. Girls nawadays always looking for people to put in trouble |
Romance / Re: Men Please Stop Deceiving Yourselves, You Will Choose Beauty Over Brain by Doncyn(f): 6:19am On Apr 03, 2021 |
This brain we are talking abt,is it brain academically without attitude or academically with attitude? Because there some women dt has brain but behave like mumu 1 Like |