I hav a friend named kaka,the guy is cute,i mean very cute(with 2much swag) but he's about 5.4 ft in height,we were hangin out on 1st october when he saw a girl he has been admiring 4 so long,the girl was walking with her bf and he signal the girl 2 come back later which the girl did,b4 he could even say a word the has already told him how she's been liking him 4 so long,yesterday the girl came back and told him her plans of dumpin the other guy 4 him,that she's simply not attractd 2 ugly guys(beauty is in d eyes of the beholder)although i know the guy and he's actually ugly in my own eyes but he's over 6 ft tall, so our argument yestanyt was,do ladies prefer short handsome guys(5.4 ft) to ugly tall guys(6.ft)I hav a friend named kaka,the guy is cute,i mean very cute(with 2much swag) but he's about 5.4 ft in height,we were hangin out on 1st october when he saw a girl he has been admiring 4 so long,the girl was walking with her bf and he signal the girl 2 come back later which the girl did,b4 he could even say a word the has already told him how she's been liking him 4 so long,yesterday the girl came back and told him her plans of dumpin the other guy 4 him,that she's simply not attractd 2 ugly guys(beauty is in d eyes of the beholder)although i know the guy and he's actually ugly in my own eyes but he's over 6 ft tall, so our argument yestanyt was,do ladies prefer short handsome guys(5.4 ft) to ugly tall guys(6.ft)

pls y is my thread doubling itself? I didnt send dis tin lyk dis

I cant believ dis, i met a gal 2 wks back n we bcame close frnds n bcomin more closer as day passes by,she always txt me 2 let me knw wat she feels 4 me,some days bk she gv me her 2go i.d n we always hv a gud chat till yestaday she updated a status dat saids"vivian biko bia biem oma" meaning vivian pls come n kiss me, imidiately she saw me online she changed d status cos she knw i undastand d language, i suspectd somtin n decided 2 open anoda 2go i.d wit a female profile,i did n wen i added her ,she acceptd n ask me hw i gt her i.d, i told her dat one of my lezbian frnds gv it 2 me cos she's pretty,she demanded 2 hear my voice 2 b sure ,i gv her my new line n quickly get my landlord's dota 2 talk 2 her,she called n d gal i brought play d game wel by tellin her hw wet she is,she ended d call n came bk online n demanded 4 my nude 1st, i snt her d one i hv,she snt me her's ,n i was telin her dirty tins abt suckin her n she was screamin,i askd 2 c her full nude,she snt many 2 me dat has her full image including her face,she's beggn me 2 come 2 der house n hv sex wit her, am confused cos i really lyk dis gal,she's d most caring gal dat i hv ever met,she's nice n calm,n also easygoin, pals wat do i do? Shuld i 4get abt her lesbianism lyf n move on wit her or shuld i 4get her totally?I cant believ dis, i met a gal 2 wks back n we bcame close frnds n bcomin more closer as day passes by,she always txt me 2 let me knw wat she feels 4 me,some days bk she gv me her 2go i.d n we always hv a gud chat till yestaday she updated a status dat saids"vivian biko bia biem oma" meaning vivian pls come n kiss me, imidiately she saw me online she changed d status cos she knw i undastand d language, i suspectd somtin n decided 2 open anoda 2go i.d wit a female profile,i did n wen i added her ,she acceptd n ask me hw i gt her i.d, i told her dat one of my lezbian frnds gv it 2 me cos she's pretty,she demanded 2 hear my voice 2 b sure ,i gv her my new line n quickly get my landlord's dota 2 talk 2 her,she called n d gal i brought play d game wel by tellin her hw wet she is,she ended d call n came bk online n demanded 4 my nude 1st, i snt her d one i hv,she snt me her's ,n i was telin her dirty tins abt suckin her n she was screamin,i askd 2 c her full nude,she snt many 2 me dat has her full image including her face,she's beggn me 2 come 2 der house n hv sex wit her, am confused cos i really lyk dis gal,she's d most caring gal dat i hv ever met,she's nice n calm,n also easygoin, pals wat do i do? Shuld i 4get abt her lesbianism lyf n move on wit her or shuld i 4get her totally?

Pls am i missing anytin 4 nt havin a gf? my cousins wount let me b,always askin who's ur gf? Yestaday evn my mum jokenly made a statement dat reffers as askn me who's my gf,is dis gf issue nw a must do tin or wat? Its nt dat i dnt want 2 hv bt its jst dat it hasnt workd out yet.

R ugly guys also playboys? I knw beauty is in d eyes of d beholder bt i tink there r some ugliness dat is general accepted(super ugly)am askin dis because of wat hppnd yestaday,i met a guy on 2go n his status said"am d best player arrnd" so durin our chat he strtd gvin me tips on hw 2 play lyk him,i bcame interestd n requestd 2 c him since we both r in calabar,but wen i saw dis dude i gt distractd abt his teachings, my question is ,r ugly guys(super ugly) also playboys,or am i d one misundastndin d meaning of playboi?is teachings, my question is ,r ugly guys(super ugly) also playboys,or am i d one misundastndin d meaning of playboi?

I'v been wonderin d real meaning of "he used her n dumpd her after spoiling her" my problem is,is there really anytin dat is spoiled in a woman's body dat has been used sexually by a man? Or is it jst abt d repuatation,

B4 i start,i wish i could rewind y'all memories abt d topic i once posted here abt how no girl has eva accepted me for 27 yrs of my life,and hw dey changed their mind after some few hours of accepting me,i wish d nairaland admin can bring up d topic it would ve make more sense so y'all will understand me more,i posted d topic here and i got uncountable different of answers,some said i dnt hv skill to talk to women,some said i might hv body odour,some of u call it low self esteem but only few told me what my problem was which is SPIRITUAL WIFE i didnt even believe it then,my good friends do u knw that SPIRITUAL WIFE is real? Am a living witness,it was a battle in my life both spiritual n physical,i neva knew i had 2 kids in d marine world,which i identified ,my spiritual wife name was sheilaa,wch i also identify,it was tough breaking d relationship,i tot women rejecting me was my only problem but i neva knw sheilaa held all my gudluck for 27 yrs,my life nw is different 4rm me i used 2 knw,am feelin lyk a newborn baby,it seems am out of prison dat i was all my lyf, am nt a gud narrator but i wil do dat in my book dat am writting tittled 27 YEARS WITH SOCCUBUS during my battle with sheilaa,i learnt dat many pple hav dis problem,especially gals,n dis spirits has diff ways 2 manipulate human,some make u 4got d dream u had last nyt because dey came n made luv 2 u,some mk u change ur mind uneccesarily on tins,some hide ur objects 2 mk u search 4 it n loose ur target,some tells u wt 2 wear n u wore it without knowing,some of dem really dnt disturb u till u gt married,while some of dem can neva worry u because wat dey nid 4rm u is just sex,d funny tin is dat dis spirits r nt doin dis 2 hurt us,dey tot dey r protecting us as der husband n wives,if i narrate all my story here, d page cant contain it,i knw dis whole tin wil sound stupid 2 u d same way it sounded stupid 2 me d day prophet jude told me dat am a fada of 2 in d marine world,bt he prooved it 2 me SPIRITUAL WIFE i didnt even believe it then,my good friends do u knw that SPIRITUAL WIFE is real? Am a living witness,it was a battle in my life both spiritual n physical,i neva knew i had 2 kids in d marine world,which i identified ,my spiritual wife name was sheilaa,wch i also identify,it was tough breaking d relationship,i tot women rejecting me was my only problem but i neva knw sheilaa held all my gudluck for 27 yrs,my life nw is different 4rm me i used 2 knw,am feelin lyk a newborn baby,it seems am out of prison dat i was all my lyf, am nt a gud narrator but i wil do dat in my book dat am writting tittled 27 YEARS WITH SOCCUBUS during my battle with sheilaa,i learnt dat many pple hav dis problem,especially gals,n dis spirits has diff ways 2 manipulate human,some make u 4got d dream u had last nyt because dey came n made luv 2 u,some mk u change ur mind uneccesarily on tins,some hide ur objects 2 mk u search 4 it n loose ur target,some tells u wt 2 wear n u wore it without knowing,some of dem really dnt disturb u till u gt married,while some of dem can neva worry u because wat dey nid 4rm u is just sex,d funny tin is dat dis spirits r nt doin dis 2 hurt us,dey tot dey r protecting us as der husband n wives,if i narrate all my story here, d page cant contain it,i knw dis whole tin wil sound stupid 2 u d same way it sounded stupid 2 me d day prophet jude told me dat am a fada of 2 in d marine world,bt he prooved it 2 me

@thecon, u really touched me wit ur own story but 2 b candid wit u am nt n wil neva b hapi 2 get a woman only if i fast n pray n lost it wen i sin,dis is total hrt brking,d worst of dis all is dat ppl tink i can gt evry woman just lyk u said in ur own case,anyway i'v made up my mind of quitin d game of search n move on,mayb i was born 2 b single

I hv seen all ur gud replies n i really appriciate it,but as am readin dem the more bad i feel(no offense)because i'v nt seen wat i'm expectin wch is som1 acceptin 2 hv dis experience once or knws who has,i feel lyk i'm sufferin dis tin alone in dis wide world,abt me telin my parents,hw do i walk up 2 my mum n told her no woman wants me 2 date her,as old as i am,dis whole tin is makin me feel bad,its not dat i'm so curious abt hvin sex or datin som1 bt i'm curious abt y nt hvin wat odas hav freely ,evn doz dat i tink dat i hv more access 2 it dan dem,abt low confidence dat y'all talks abt,i dnt get it because d same way oda guys goes abt it is d same way i do,some guys evn dnt say anytin 2 a gal n she falls,so wat abt me dat says somtin,i'm really tired,d question i nid d ansa 4rm u guys is,has any1 of u eva passed tru dis experience or do u knw any 1 dat does?

Tanx 2 y'all contribution,i appriciate it,abt me havin a mouth or body odour is nt true,i use maliza body spray,abt me nt hvin a gud pickup lines is also nt true,i councel guys on how 2 gt a gal n it worked 4 dem bt wen i try tins fall apart,abt dem hearin somtin abt me n runaway its nt tru,i once met a gal in bayelsa wer no 1 knws me,n she acceptd bt later txt me nt 2 call her again,wen i askd her she said she just dnt want me again,abt me goin 2 ashawo,my frnds dats where some of u wount belv me,do u knw dat wen eva i'm wit a prostitute i wil neva get erection til she walks away,d truth is dat i'm a masturbator all my lyf,i did it 2 ease my self 4rm dis sexual urge,somtyms i feel lyk i dnt really knw who i am

Hey friends,i'v bn dyin in silence, now i decided 2 figour out wat my problem could be,i'm a normal guy lyk odas,5.7 ft tall,fair in complexion,people do compliments dat i'm handsome but dis compliments mks me sad cos for d 27 yrs of my existence no woman has eva agreed 2 date me,it happns dat any1 i talk 2 says no,evn if she agreed she wil call bk some few minutes later 2 reverse her word lyk she jst made a terrible mistake,my cousin's frnd heard 1 of my songs tru my cousin's phone,she fell  inluv wit me while she hasnt seen me n she was worried 2 c me,d day we met,she was lyk woww lyk she just saw an angel,she evn agreed 2 brkup wit her bf if i agreed 2 date her,bt afta some hours i left she called 2 reverse her words,wen i ask she swear dat she doesnt knw d reason of d sudden lost of interest,none of dem has eva gv me any gud reason,infact evrytin in dis world dat is call women dnt jst lyk me except my mum n sisters,if a gal is admirin me n wen eva i admired her bk she wil hate me n startd runnin 4 jst no reason,it happens 2 me everywhere,in school,street even inside church,dis happns tru out my 4 yrs in university,n i'm ashamed 2 discuss it wit any1,sometyms i cry ova it cos i knw dat its nt just ordinary,i'm pastin dis all ova d internet jst 4 solution,pls i nid ur opinion