Celebrities / Re: Uche Okoye: I Am Ready To Do Anything To Have Sex With Wizkid by Dspmarteens: 10:37pm On Jul 03, 2019 |
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Religion / Re: Rape Allegation: Nigerians Protest At COZA Church (Live Updates) by Dspmarteens: 12:10pm On Jun 30, 2019 |
eraj4real: I am a young man, and at about age 17-18, a pastor often called me to his office in Port Harcourt to teach him to use computers and huged me tight behind the door of his office. Then used his penis to try pressing on me. Because of fear, and confusion I often kept quiet. Till a day at about age 20 I visited the church he was posted to in Onitsha as I was returning on a journey. He made me pass the night, and made us sleep together in the parlour (his wife traveled). That night he attempted having sex with me, but I resisted all night, but didn't say a word till I got into a bus the next day on my way back to Port Harcourt, I sent him terrible text messages. He apologized. I forgave him. 5-6 years later in year 2011, when he opened his church in Ibadan, I donated N264,000 as a NYSC corper (I closed my account) to support his fledging church. It was only today, at age 33 that I summed up the courage to tell him, "never contact me again". Pastors have a controlling power on members. I didn't add, I also put his son on scholarship for about 2 years but ended this year (I paid over 250k to support his son, mainly because though he tried hurting me, he gave me books and advice that really helped me in business and life in general. He also once called a young entrepreneur who gave me this advice at age 18, "what will you want you children to call you? Papa or Daddy". That influenced my actions for life. I suggest pastors constantly go for counseling to avoid destroying the same people they build. He helped me see my talent in computer than studying medicine even when my parents forced me to study medicine. Pastors have strong influence [s] eraj4real: I am a young man, and at about age 17-18, a pastor often called me to his office in Port Harcourt to teach him to use computers and huged me tight behind the door of his office. Then used his penis to try pressing on me. Because of fear, and confusion I often kept quiet. Till a day at about age 20 I visited the church he was posted to in Onitsha as I was returning on a journey. He made me pass the night, and made us sleep together in the parlour (his wife traveled). That night he attempted having sex with me, but I resisted all night, but didn't say a word till I got into a bus the next day on my way back to Port Harcourt, I sent him terrible text messages. He apologized. I forgave him. 5-6 years later in year 2011, when he opened his church in Ibadan, I donated N264,000 as a NYSC corper (I closed my account) to support his fledging church. It was only today, at age 33 that I summed up the courage to tell him, "never contact me again". Pastors have a controlling power on members. I didn't add, I also put his son on scholarship for about 2 years but ended this year (I paid over 250k to support his son, mainly because though he tried hurting me, he gave me books and advice that really helped me in business and life in general. He also once called a young entrepreneur who gave me this advice at age 18, "what will you want you children to call you? Papa or Daddy". That influenced my actions for life. I suggest pastors constantly go for counseling to avoid destroying the same people they build. He helped me see my talent in computer than studying medicine even when my parents forced me to study medicine. Pastors have strong influence [/s] eraj4real: I am a young man, and at about age 17-18, a pastor often called me to his office in Port Harcourt to teach him to use computers and huged me tight behind the door of his office. Then used his penis to try pressing on me. Because of fear, and confusion I often kept quiet. Till a day at about age 20 I visited the church he was posted to in Onitsha as I was returning on a journey. He made me pass the night, and made us sleep together in the parlour (his wife traveled). That night he attempted having sex with me, but I resisted all night, but didn't say a word till I got into a bus the next day on my way back to Port Harcourt, I sent him terrible text messages. He apologized. I forgave him. 5-6 years later in year 2011, when he opened his church in Ibadan, I donated N264,000 as a NYSC corper (I closed my account) to support his fledging church. It was only today, at age 33 that I summed up the courage to tell him, "never contact me again". Pastors have a controlling power on members. I didn't add, I also put his son on scholarship for about 2 years but ended this year (I paid over 250k to support his son, mainly because though he tried hurting me, he gave me books and advice that really helped me in business and life in general. He also once called a young entrepreneur who gave me this advice at age 18, "what will you want you children to call you? Papa or Daddy". That influenced my actions for life. I suggest pastors constantly go for counseling to avoid destroying the same people they build. He helped me see my talent in computer than studying medicine even when my parents forced me to study medicine. Pastors have strong influence |
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Pets / Re: Join The Biggest Pet Store In Nigeria On Whatsapp by Dspmarteens: 10:44pm On May 05, 2019 |
08110141701.... Please add me to the group |
Fashion / Re: Picures From Arise Fashion Week 2019 by Dspmarteens: 11:48am On Apr 23, 2019 |
But me neva see any fashion show there.... Na fallen Olympus show e b na |
Celebrities / Re: Victoria Kimani: I Can’t Date A Broke, Unambitious Man by Dspmarteens: 11:45am On Apr 23, 2019 |
Guys come, Na here I wan sit down read how nairaland guy go use comments finish am 3 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Top 10 "Crazy" Pre-Wedding Pictures By Nigerians by Dspmarteens: 8:34pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
The no.4 pics tho... Flying without wings 1 Like |
Events / Re: Pre-Wedding Photoshoots: Which Of These Is The Best? by Dspmarteens: 6:50pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
Ok AkupeMBANO: this idiot because of joblessness, boredom and foolishness put together, went to people's instagram pages to gather photos just to post here. haven't seen such mediocrity in decades. |
Celebrities / Re: Adaeze Yobo Celebrates 29th Birthday With Stunning New Photos by Dspmarteens: 5:03pm On Apr 14, 2019 |
Question of the week ednut1: Abeg why none of these gals dey marry their former guys before stardom 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Teacher Marries His Former Student (Photos) by Dspmarteens: 5:02pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
Who b this one? DrObum: If this guy was abroad, he'll need to prove that he didn't take advantage of the teacher-student relationship.
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Romance / Re: Teacher Marries His Former Student (Photos) by Dspmarteens: 5:00pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
Adam Smith in 1776 once said that "it's not from the benevolence of the butcher, brewer or baker that we expect our dinner, but from their own regards to their own interest". oyetunder: any hen should know that it is being fed not out of kindness but to be edible one day. |
Romance / Re: Teacher Marries His Former Student (Photos) by Dspmarteens: 4:58pm On Apr 13, 2019 |
Adam Smith in 1776 once said that "it's not from the benevolence of the butcher, brewer or baker that we expect our dinner, but from their own regards to their own interest. oyetunder: any hen should know that it is being fed not out of kindness but to be edible one day. 1 Like |
Pets / Re: Pitbull Puppies For Sale 4 Interested Buyers It’s N350,000.00 Only Each by Dspmarteens: 3:13pm On Apr 11, 2019 |
Dr. Sir, you mean three hundred and fifty thousand naira for puppies? |
Crime / Re: Blessing Benedicta Daniels Killed By Italian Man Over Poor Sex Performance by Dspmarteens: 3:04pm On Apr 11, 2019 |
She no first do apprenticeship for naija before touching down Italy?
Na this kind people where no de gree wait learn work finish 1 Like 1 Share |
Crime / Re: Blessing Benedicta Daniels Killed By Italian Man Over Poor Sex Performance by Dspmarteens: 3:02pm On Apr 11, 2019 |
Muhylonaire: Eeyah.. RIP.. The Italian should have searched for a calabar girl instead u say wetin? |
Romance / Re: "I Can Actually Make Your Boyfriend Mine" - Nigerian Lady by Dspmarteens: 2:55pm On Apr 11, 2019 |
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Health / Re: "Stop Putting Cotton Buds Into Your Ears. Your Ear Cleans Itself" - Doctor Warns by Dspmarteens: 2:50pm On Apr 04, 2019 |
But doctor Nonso or whatever you call yourself, you I should throw away the sachet cotton bud I just bought on my way back home? |
Romance / Re: Men Grab Backside Of A Curvy Lady On Bike, She Twerks Instead Of Shunning Them by Dspmarteens: 2:43pm On Apr 04, 2019 |
Baba I hail ooo Xaos: Why are men sooo obsessed with the butt?
I always wash my hands 3 times with antiseptic and perform a sacred ritual whenever I intentionally or accidentally come in contact with the ‘butt’.
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Education / Re: Meet Sackey Percy Ghanaian Dancing Teacher Who Dances With Students After Class by Dspmarteens: 3:37am On Apr 02, 2019 |
The guy must be a fan of Bollywood movies or..... |
Religion / Re: Pastor Tokunbo Olorunnimbe Is Dead by Dspmarteens: 5:22pm On Apr 01, 2019 |
Then what? SarkinYarki: If this man doesn't have 10 million Naira in his account then |
Celebrities / Re: Shatta Wale Cries As He Dedicates His Award To His Dad by Dspmarteens: 3:24pm On Apr 01, 2019 |
No be small jieta: This guy is ugly |
Celebrities / Re: Sunny McDon: I’m A Born-again Christian, Not Evil by Dspmarteens: 1:13pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
[b][/b]Wetin concern me? |
Travel / Re: 15 Things To Know About The Third-mainland Bridge by Dspmarteens: 2:38pm On Mar 22, 2019 |
OK na |