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Family / Re: About Peace And The Care With Words And Gestures by duchaB(m): 5:12am On Sep 16, 2022
Supreme beauty can only be born in us when the Ego has died in a radical, total and definite manner.

We are ugly, horrible, disgusting, as long as the psychological Ego is alive within us.

Fullness of Beauty is impossible while the psychological Ego exists within us.

If we want real Peace, we should reduce the Ego to cosmic dust. Only thus will there be inner beauty within us. From that beauty there will be born within us, the charm of love and the true peace of the tranquil heart.

Creative Peace brings order within oneself, eliminates confusion and fills us with true happiness.

It is necessary to know that the mind cannot understand what true Peace is. It is urgent to understand that the Peace of a tranquil heart does not come to us through effort or from belonging to any society or organization dedicated to making propaganda for peace.

Real peace comes to us in a totally natural and simple way, when we reconquer innocence in the mind and in the heart, when we become like delicate and beautiful children, as sensitive to everything beautiful as well as to everything ugly, to everything good as well as to everything bad, to all that is sweet as well as to all that is bitter.

It is necessary to reconquer the lost childhood, as much in the mind as in the heart.

Peace is something vast, huge, infinite, not something formed by the mind. It cannot be the result of a whim nor the product of an idea.

Peace is an atomic substance that is beyond good and evil, a substance that is beyond all morality, substance that emanates from the very core of the ABSOLUTE.

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Family / Re: About Peace And The Care With Words And Gestures by duchaB(m): 3:04pm On Sep 15, 2022
Real Peace comes from legitimate beauty, wisely understood.

The beauty of a Tranquil Heart exhales the delicious perfume of true inner peace.

It is urgent to understand the beauty of language. It is necessary for our words to carry the substance of sincerity. We should never use disharmonious, gross and absurd words.
Each word should be a true symphony. Each phrase should be pregnant with spiritual beauty.

It is as bad to speak when one should be silent as it is to be silent when one should speak. There are unlawful silences and infamous words.
There are times when talking is a crime and there are times when keeping silent is another crime. One should talk when one is supposed to talk and be silent when one should be silent.

Let us not play with words because they are a serious responsibility.

Each word should be weighed before being pronouced because each can produce in the world much usefulness and much uselessness, much benefit or much harm.

We should watch our gestures, manners, dress and all types of actions. May our gestures, dress, way of sitting at the table, behaviour at dinner, manner of treating people in our living room, in the office, on the street, etc., be always full of beauty and harmony.

It is necessary to understand the beauty of kindness, to feel the beauty of good music, to love the beauty of creative art, to readjust our manner of thinking, feeling and acting.


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Family / Re: About Peace And The Care With Words And Gestures by duchaB(m): 4:28am On Sep 14, 2022
In this painful word in which we live, each person seeks his fantastic peace, the peace of his opinions. People want to see in the world, the peace of their dreams, their special type of peace, although within, each person carries in his interior the psychological factors that produce wars and enmity of all kinds.

In these times of world crisis, everybody who wants to become famous founds a pro-peace organisation, makes propaganda, and becomes a paladin of peace.

We must not forget that many political foxes have won the Nobel Peace Prize even when there exists an entire cemetery on their account and they have in one form or another secretly ordered the assassination of many people when they have seen themselves in danger of being eclipsed.

There are also many true masters of humanity who have sacrificed themselves, teaching everywhere on earth the doctrine for the dissolution of the Ego.
These masters know by personal experience that only by dissolving the Mephistopheles that we carry within, does peace of the heart arrive within us.

While hatred, covetousness, envy, jealousy, the spirit of acquisition, ambition, anger, pride, etc., exist within each individual, wars will inevitably exist.

We know many people in the world who boast of having found peace.
When we have studied these people in depth, we have been able to see that they do not even remotely know Peace and that they merely locked themselves up within some consoling and solitary habit, or within a special belief, etc. However truly these people have not even remotely experienced what true Peace of the tranquil heart is. Really, these people have only made up an artificial peace, which, in their ignorance, they confuse for the real Peace of Heart.

It is absurd to seek Peace within the mistaken walls of our prejudices, beliefs, preconceptions, desires, habits, etc.
While the psychological factors that produce enmities, disagreements, problems and wars exist within the mind, true peace will not exist.

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Family / Re: About Peace And The Care With Words And Gestures by duchaB(m): 9:48pm On Sep 12, 2022
In his mind, each person forms fifty thousand absurd fantasies about Peace. Each person tries to raise around himself a selfish wall of false ideas, beliefs, opinions and absurd concepts about what Peace is.

Each person wants Peace his way, according to his cravings, likes, habits, mistaken customs, etc. Each person wants to lock himself within a fantastic protective wall, with the purpose of living his own mistakenly conceived Peace.

People fight for Peace, they desire it, they want it, but they do not know what Peace is.

People only want not to be hidered in order to be able to do their mischief calmly and at ease. That is what they call Peace.

It does not matter what mischief people do, each person believes what he is doing is good. People find justification even for the worst of crimes. If the drunkard is sad, he drinks because he is sad. If the drunkard is happy, he drinks because he is happy. The drunkard will always justify the habit of alcoholism.

All people are like this. They find justification for every crime. Nobody considers himself perverse. All people boast of being just and honest.

There are many vagabonds that mistakenly suppose that Peace is to live, very tranquil and effortlessly without working, in a world full of marvellous romantic fantasies.

There are millions of wrong opinions and concepts about peace.

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Family / Re: About Peace And The Care With Words And Gestures by duchaB(m): 5:36am On Sep 12, 2022
Peace is born within us when we have radically changed in an intimate way.

Checkups, pro-peace organizations, peace treaties, etc., is a question of detail, points in the ocean of life. They are isolated fractions of the entire picture of Existence that can never solve the problem of Peace in its radical, total and definite way.
We should look at the picture in its complete form.

The problem of the world is the problem of the individuals. If the individuals does not have peace within, society, the world will live in inevitable war.

School, college and university teachers should work for peace unless they leave savagery and violence.

*It is urgent* and indispensable to show students of the new generation the path to follow, the intimate path that can take us with precise accuracy to the real peace of a Tranquil Heart.

People cannot understand fully what true inner peace is and only desire not to be disturbed or bothered, even when they, on their own account assume the right to hinder, bother and make bitter the lives of their fellow human beings.

People have never experienced true peace and only have absurd opinions, romantic ideals and mistaken concepts about the latter.

For thieves, peace would be to steal without the police crossing their way. For smugglers, peace would be to be able to smuggle their goods everywhere without being stopped by the authorities. For those who prey on people, peace would be to be able to sell at an expensive price, exploiting left and right, without being stopped by government inspectors. For prostitutes, peace would be enjoyment in beds of pleasure, freely exploiting men without health authorities or the police intervening in their lives.


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Family / About Peace And The Care With Words And Gestures by duchaB(m): 9:46pm On Sep 11, 2022
ABOUT PEACE AND THE CARE WITH WORDS AND GESTURES

Peace does not come through the mind because it does not belong to the mind. Peace is the delicious perfume of a Tranquil Heart.

Peace is not a matter of projects, international police, United Nations, organizations of states, international treaties or invading armies that fight in the name of Peace.

If we really want true Peace we should learn to live like a guard in time of war, ever alert and vigilant, with a quick and ductile mind because Peace is not a matter of romantic fantasies or beautiful dreams.

If we do not learn to live in a state of alertness form moment to moment, then the path which leads to Peace becomes impossible, narrow, and after having become extremely difficult, it finally ends in a dead end alley.

It is necessary to understand, urgent to know that the real peace of a Tranquil Heart, is not a house where we arrive and find a beautiful maid happily waiting for us.

Peace is not a goal, a place, etc. To pursue Peace, seek it, make projects around it, fight in its name, make propaganda about it, establish organizations to work for it, etc., is all totally absurd because peace is not of the mind. Peace is the marvellous perfume of a Tranquil Heart.

Peace is not bought nor sold, neither can it be acquired with a system of appeasement, special controls, police, etc.

In some countries, the national army goes through the fields, destroying towns, assassinating people, shooting supposed bandits, all this they say, in the name of Peace. The result of such actions is the multiplication of savagery.

Violence generates more violence; hatred produces more hatred. Peace cannot be conquered. Peace cannot be the result of violence. Peace comes to us only when we dissolve the Ego, when we destroy within us all those psychological factors that produce war.

If we want Peace, we must contemplate, we must study, see the entire picture and not only a corner of it.



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Family / Re: Cosmic Business- Karma Is Negotiable by duchaB(m): 11:14am On Aug 28, 2022
Our internal GOD usually shows us the karma (punishment) we are going to receive through dreams but by symbols. Example: dreaming of police stopping us, seeing ourselves naked, getting wet with rain water, being attacked by a lion, bathing with dirty water, etc.




If you have an economic or sentimental problem and you want a perfect solution; when going to bed while laying down, say the Lord's prayer slowly, as if you were speaking with a person called GOD. At the end, request like this: "My God, help me to solve this problem", say the Lord's prayer again and repeat until falling asleep. This must be done with much faith. It is possible to receive an answer from your internal GOD only that night. You can ask for a medical treatment, but it is necessary to do good deeds, because faith without deeds is dead (James 2:26)


It's possible to get credit with Divine Justice, this is something many people ignore. It is urgent to know that all credit must be paid with good deeds or much pain.


Karma in the Bible.

Bible

For all those sincere investigators of the Bible, here we are presenting a great number of quotes related somehow to the Law of Karma.

The great Kabir Jesus, said: "Agree with thine adversary quickly, whiles thou art in the way with him; lest at any time the adversary deliver thee to the judge, and the judge deliver thee to the officer, and thou be cast into prison. Verily I say unto thee, Thou shalt by no means come out thence, till thou hast paid the uttermost farthing". (Matthew 5:25-26).


Galatians 6:7-9 "Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap. For he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption; but he that soweth to the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting. And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not."


Exodus 21:12 "He that smiteth a man, so that he die, shall be surely put to death"
. Exodus 21:23-25 "And if any mischief follow, then thou shalt give life for life, eye for eye, tooth for tooth, hand for hand, foot for foot, Burning for burning, wound for wound, stripe for stripe."


1 Corinthians 6:16 "What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh."

During sexual intercourse, karma is transmitted from one to other. You have probably noticed how life have changed to some people after getting married. Example: If a man with good economic situation decides to marry a woman who has a lot of economic karma, both will be affected and the man will start having economic problems. 


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Family / Re: Cosmic Business- Karma Is Negotiable by duchaB(m): 7:01am On Aug 28, 2022
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Family / Cosmic Business- Karma Is Negotiable by duchaB(m): 6:52am On Aug 28, 2022
KARMA can be paid with DARMA, that is, doing good deeds. The same way we can cancel our debts with money in this physical world, we can also pay karma with COSMIC MONEY or DARMA and this way. we can avoid pain and suffering.


Justice and Mercy are the two columns of the Divine law. Justice without Mercy is tyranny and Mercy without Justice is satisfaction with crime. That is why, karma is negotiable, and everyone can modify it on their own destiny, making a deal with God: A COSMIC BUSINESS.


Many people who suffer remember their problems, wishing to solve them, but they forget other people's problems and this selfishness makes their situation worse.


If these people devoted themselves to serve those who have similar problems, feeding the starving, dressing the naked, teaching that one who does not know, etc.; they would put good deeds on cosmic scale's pan to tilt it in favor of themselves, and this way their problems would be solved. Now we can understand that Christ's phrase on the Bible (Matthew 6:33): "But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness (pay what you owe), and all these things will be given to you as well".


Unfortunately, humanity is very selfish and that's why we suffer. 
We only remember GOD and our fellow men when desperation has come to us and this is something that everybody has verified. You want to recover from a disease? Help somebody else to get well. A relative is in the jail? Work for the freedom of others. Are you starving? Share your bread with those who are worse than you.


When you finish paying the equivalent value corresponding to each karma, you will be let off; if not you will pay with pain, in this or next lives. That's the law....


A very practical manner to cancel karma, we have verified it many times, is to know, practice and spread Gnostic wisdom on the face of the earth. This is because this way, we are giving people the techniques to know themselves, change and live better. 
Within Divine Justice's world, this is the most desired currency for business, that is, to give this wise knowledge to people, is equivalent to negotiate with cosmic dollars.
Family / Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by duchaB(m): 9:07pm On Jul 04, 2022
Failure44:
I'm in pains and so annoyed.
I can't even boast of 10k in.......
I vow to make that man suffer at old age and to bury him in a shallow grave.

Everything in life is a matter of perspectives, nothing and nobody is useless in the grand scheme of things..
And you shouldnt allow your emotions take a better part of you, dont create a vicious cycle cos whatever karmic current in that negative recurrence would keep flowing. Its makes sense to be compassionate, save energy and transform the entire situation to your own benefit. Life is not fair.

What did I do in my past life to be born into a broken home?

There is no cause without an effect, and no effect without a cause...
Maybe you were a very bad Father to your own kids in a past reincarnation and so the Lords of karma made you return inorder to have a good taste of your own medicine. Be smart about it

Well, in life, there is no evil that lasts a 100years...
Everything passes, so this too shall pass, dont let it consume you...

Food / Re: How Much Do You Spend On Feeding Per Week? by duchaB(m): 7:49pm On Jun 28, 2022
cococandy:
This nonsense AmeriKKKa is not left out o.
Gas is $7 per gallon now and everything has doubled in price

It doesnt mean you are tired of the "nonesense Amerika" cos if you are, you would have considered moving countries back to your Imo, to cultivate your Akpu farm...

Life in the country is fun, very peaceful and cost of living is less...
Family / Re: What Does It Really Mean To Be Good? What Is Justice? by duchaB(m): 7:14pm On Jun 28, 2022
Learning to live justly; that is what is important. The majority does not know how to live justly. They do what they should not, wanting to be just.

Claiming one's rights is correct. Not to claim them is to become an accomplice of the crime.

If a person so-and-so, for example, owes us a large sum of money, that we are in need of, and he owes us. He has with what to pay, we are sure that he does, but suppose that he does not want to pay, that he does not feel like paying. We have then the responsibility to ask, to claim our rights before the justice, before the courts, before the law.

Any person could say: "But that is absurd. Being a Gnostic, how will you bring charges to him?" It is not about bringing charges, it is about claiming one's rights which is different.

So you can see what justice is. A Gnostic could say: "I forgive." Who are they forgiving? A gentleman who has sufficient money and does not want to pay? It is a forgiveness out of its place.

But if we are sure that he does not have it, then things change: one should perhaps forgive that debt. But, having it and being in very good conditions and not wanting to pay? Then it is a duty to claim your rights.

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Food / Re: The 200 Naira Suya Meat I Bought today In Birnin Kebbi (photos) by duchaB(m): 7:08pm On Jun 28, 2022
Mariangeles:


How about you shag yourself? cheesy

Must you respond to rubbish....
Family / Re: What Does It Really Mean To Be Good? What Is Justice? by duchaB(m): 9:19pm On Jun 27, 2022
The same question was asked to Krishnamurti; he was unable to give the correct answer. They said to him:
"Well, and if you are with a sister and they try to rape your sister, what would you do?"

He said:

"I am not in that circumstance."
"And if you were to be in such a circumstance later?"
"Then I would already know what to do in that moment."

He went off on a tangent, but he did not give the answer as he should have.
The harsh reality of the facts is that if a man, at that moment, does not act with energy, if he does not draw the sword, if he does not resort to arms and fight to death with the
assailants, obviously, he does not only become an accomplice to the crime and looks bad up there, but also looks bad down here in front of the judges on Earth, because there are laws that punish him in the penal codes.

For example, here in Mexico, it is already stipulated in the penal code. I do not know about your country, but for here there is an article where one is considered an accomplice and goes to jail for complicity with the crime. I don't know about there, in your country, but for here it is a crime.

Well, then, what has to be done there? Well, to die fighting even if we have to die, right? It is better to die fighting there to defend your family, to fall in the fight, than to become an accomplice of the crime. Thus, a virtue that is out of place is unjust and bad; and it is a virtue! But it is bad.

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Family / Re: What Does It Really Mean To Be Good? What Is Justice? by duchaB(m): 6:02pm On Jun 26, 2022
Being tolerant, for example, with the ideas of others is correct, but tolerance out of its place makes one an accomplice to crime.

What would you say about a father of a family, one hundred percent gnostic, who has his wife and daughters, and who is fulfilling his duties to his wife and his daughters? Tolerant up to the maximum, he became accustomed to complying with the words of the Gospel
that say: "If you get hit on the right cheek, put out the left for them to hit harder."

Well, suppose a disaster is provoked and a group of bandits raid that house to kill his wife and rape the daughters and all.

But, in the Gospel, he was taught to turn the right cheek and to bless those who hurt you, to love those who hate you.
Then, instead of de-fending the woman and the daughters, he blesses the thieves, the bandits: "Oh, thieves! Oh, bandits! Do not do that, never do it again, because with that you will get a lot of karma upon you, I forgive you!" and the bandits rape his daughters or kill the poor wife.
What would you say about a man like that?

He is complying, apparently, with the Gospel, with tolerance and forgiveness of offences, right? It is a virtue that is out of place.

So, what to do in that case?

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Family / Re: What Does It Really Mean To Be Good? What Is Justice? by duchaB(m): 4:24pm On Jun 25, 2022
But they were fulfilling their duty, their virtue was impeccable, of course. And how much damage did they do with that virtue of fulfilling their duty?

How many apparently righteous judges, in fulfilling their duty as judges, have put many innocent people in jail?

Good, is everything that is in its place; bad, is that which is out of place; just, is that which is in its place; unjust, is that which is out of place.

Fire, for example, is just and good, where? In the kitchen. But how about a fire in the room, burning our curtains? That is no longer just or good, right? It is evil and unjust.
The water in the sink is just, it is good; but outside the sink, flooding the rooms, out of its place, is unjust, is bad. That is how virtues are.

Being tolerant, for example, with the ideas of others is correct, but tolerance out of its place makes one an accomplice to crime.

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Family / Re: What Does It Really Mean To Be Good? What Is Justice? by duchaB(m): 7:06pm On Jun 24, 2022
I told him:

"Man! A lot of harm can be done with virtues as well.

Do not harm with virtues! A virtue out of place becomes unjust."

"Then, what?"
"Say yes, that you ask for those books to be printed".
They were books that were for the Great Cause, for the good of humanity. Books, our books...
Well, he heard the advice. Here he already admitted, that no one is harmed by this lie, well whom would he harm? Instead, he prevents someone from going to jail and leaving a wife and a few children abandoned.

So, with virtues evil can be done as well, of course. It is unjust to use virtues badly because one can harm others with virtues.

Do you think that, perhaps, the executioners of history were not honorable?
Do you think that, for example, the executioners of the guillotine in France did not do it in full compliance with their duty? They were men who complied with their duty fully. And some of them, even with a horrible sacrifice, fulfilled their duty: letting the "Guillotine" blade fall on the heads of the noble.....

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Family / Re: What Does It Really Mean To Be Good? What Is Justice? by duchaB(m): 7:51pm On Jun 23, 2022
Yes, even with virtues you can harm others! Do you want to know a case of evil that I could have done?

Someone, whose name I do not mention, printed some of my books, not with his own printer but with the government’s printer. He did not do it for evil, but for good; but it happened that the government found out.
Since that someone was the administrator of that printer, obviously, the government protested and he was called to trial, but a charge and a witness were required.
The accused named a former juror as a witness. He said he could assert that this so-and-so had sent him to print those books. Those books were financed by this so-and-so, therefore, it was not the government who ended up paying the bill for the printing of such books.
But it happened that that so-and-so, the supposed witness, did not have anything to do with it. However, being a lover of truth and justice and rectitude, the man said to me:

"What should I do? I believe this gentleman has unjustly appointed me as a witness. He has said that I asked him to print the books in order to defend himself, but I did not ask him to print them. Now, if I say no, he goes to jail! If I say yes, he will not go to jail. But how can I lie if I am used to telling the truth and nothing but the truth? How can I say that I did ask him to print such or such books if I had never asked them to be printed? It would be a farce, a lie. I am a Gnostic and I am on the path of rectitude, therefore, I am not going to lie." Unquestionably, with the virtue of sincerity and that of truth, this man, in fact, was going to condemn an unfortunate person to jail, who knows for how many years, right? He asked me for advice.

What did I tell him?
Family / Re: What Does It Really Mean To Be Good? What Is Justice? by duchaB(m): 5:52pm On Jun 22, 2022
If, for example, a catastrophe happens in the cosmos, the type of vibratory waves that reach and touch the human machines do terrible things, and millions of these human machines then launch themselves into war against millions of other machines.

Machines against machines, what are they going to know about good and evil? They raise flags, slogans, they say that they are going to fight for freedom, for justice, for democracy. They do not know that it is the cosmic forces of a catastrophe at the cosmic level that set it off.

Could these people know about what is good, what is evil?
Undoubtedly, in everything that is good there is some evil and in everything that is evil there is some good. There is much virtue in the wicked and there is much evil in the virtuous. Could the ones asleep know that?

Yes, even with virtues you can harm others! Do you want to know a case of evil that I could have done?
Family / Re: What Does It Really Mean To Be Good? What Is Justice? by duchaB(m): 7:25am On Jun 21, 2022
Well, what can ordinary peiple know about justice?
Absolutely nothing.
What do they know about justice? What can people with an asleep Consciousness know about what is just, about what is unjust? About what is good and about what is bad?
They do not know anything.

One thing is good when it suits them and bad when it doesn’t suit them. This is how the concepts of good and evil are among people with subjective psyche, among people of subjective justice.

But to have consciousness of good and evil, they do not have any consciousness about that. They do not know anything about what is good nor what bad. They sleep profoundly.

They are machines, machines that act and move by forces that they do not know.

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Family / What Does It Really Mean To Be Good? What Is Justice? by duchaB(m): 11:34pm On Jun 20, 2022
NB-This is a didactical thread.

Now, this matter of justice is important. It is clear that there are two types of justice, and that is, first of all, what has to be classified, because one thing is subjective justice, and another is objective justice. One thing is the justice of this world, the subjective courts, and another is the Courts of Celestial Justice. They are different.

Thus, one has to fully differentiate between this subjective justice, that is bought and sold, and the objective justice, where it is not possible to bribe the judge.
The Courts of Celestial Justice are completely different. This matter of Justice is worth comprehending.
But, well, what can ordinary people know about justice?

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Family / Re: ₦150000: Nigerians Underprice Our Sperm - Donors Cry Out by duchaB(m): 5:33pm On Jun 13, 2022
Is it sad people are suffering and are in need but then...

This is the height of fornication..
A crime against nature and the divine.
A serious crime against the holy spirit.

That is why our entire world is on the verge of a total collapse and still no one is paying attention.

Money you expect to get from fornicating and being an accessory to an act thats an express challenge to the Divine, can and would only bring untold pains...
Fashion / Re: GUYS! This Is The Best Makeup For You!!! by duchaB(m): 12:45pm On Jun 13, 2022
Islandlady:
Dear Men, I will tell you that having a good HAIRCUT is the best makeup for you...it makes you look more Handsome and responsiblegrin

If as a guy, you have a nice haircut and looks responsible, and you approach me as a lady, I will listen you wink

I absolutley agree with you on this one.
This confirms what a bunch of lady friends of mine had said to me..



First impression matters... Something must appeal to one physically first, before anything.. At least an aspect of one physicality..

As for the matter of one approaching you....hope you are fly sha.. wink


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Religion / Re: Jesus Is Trending Today by duchaB(m): 6:35pm On Jun 07, 2022
Everyone of us should please go and repent. Jesus, krishna, budda, or muhammed followers...

Thats the most important thing in life especially in this day and age of darkness
Romance / Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by duchaB(m): 11:32pm On May 14, 2022
jackals:
Thank y'all. He responded to the message I sent to him in the morning and we talked a lot over the phone. I made it known it was my insecurity getting the worst of me. And he already fixed to see me during the week. We're in good term now.

I'm not one that undermine the effort of a man. I was just scared he might Become uninterested if I start to throw myself too much. However, I learn from that and I believe such thing is of the past.

Thanks everyone. And to those that insulted me, I want you to know that nobody is above error and we live to learn.

Jacqueline cares ��

You must be gracified. All the best..

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Romance / Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by duchaB(m): 11:28pm On May 14, 2022
Puskas:
Vagina people and their victim mentality. Imagine how this one is blaming the innocent man for respecting himself. You shunned his WhatsApp messages for two days and you still expect him to be crawling on his knees begging you to reply his chats. Who does that except a man suffering from Simpson disease. If you are beautiful with good characters just like you described yourself you would have married in your twenties and not being desperate to marry ********. Let me ask you one question. If the man is foolish enough to continue chatting with you and later marries you what exactly will you offer him apart from your worn out *****? Be truthful and answer this question

Hoping its a fictional story you just responded to, but lets assume its a true life story of the poster, then those asteriked parts arent nice.

You shold send her a heartfelt telepathic apology..
Cos Karma is everyones bi**h.. Waiting to get you f**kd real hard , just a matter of time

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Family / Family Karma by duchaB(m): 2:40pm On May 14, 2022
Family Karma

Every family, as a group of intense interaction, creates a complex and deeply interwoven web of action and consequence. Many families have been together for hundreds of years, deepening and intensifying their suffering from life to life, and occasionally sacrificing for each other in beautiful ways.

Families share a common psychological link. Every family is designed by the cause and effect stream of each family member, who collectively have a strong psychological affinity. Although many families embrace their idiosyncrasy as “unique” or “special,” it is actually just karma, cause and effect. Thus we see families who are proud, arrogant, ashamed, or insensitive, lustful, addictive, intellectual, artistic, mechanically-oriented, etc.

In family karma, the roles often switch: it is common to return as one’s own grandchild. Usually, this is due to strong recurrence in the family. The cruel father is born as the child of his own child, in order to have done to him what he had done to others. If the new parent expresses his own resentment through brutality and cruelty, the cycle will invert and repeat again. Thus we can understand those families that are torn by murder, rape, and other horrible crimes.
Romance / How To Cultivate Virtues by duchaB(m): 5:49pm On May 08, 2022
How to cultivate virtues

Self control clears the mind, strengthens judgement and elevates your character. It gives you freedom , peace, bliss and joy. It strengthens your will.

He who conquers himself is greater than the commamder-in-chief who conquers a country.

Self control is the master key that opens the realm of eternal bliss and immortality.

There is no triumph more glorious than that of the victory obtained over your own self.

Control your senses and mind. You will attain self realization.

Obtain self mastery. Conquer thyself. Till you have done this, you will only be a slave of the senses.

He who is a subject to his passions is the worst slave on the face of this earth. He who rules his passions, desires, cravings and senses is the real King of kings. He is the Supreme Ruler or president of self-Goverenment. Crowns and sceptres are nothing for him. He is the best Government.

Every temptation that is resisted, every evil thought that is subdued, every desire or craving that is destroyed, every bitter word that is withheld, every action that is checked paves a long way to the attainment of evalasting peace and bliss

He who can command and govern himself can govern and command others.

Self control gives you power to withstand trial, to bear sufferings and to face danger.

Self control leads to the highest merit. Self control is the eternal duty of man. Self control surpasses in merit charity and study in the vedas.

Self control imcreases your energy. self control is highly sacred. Through self control, you will be purified of all your sins, and gifted with energy and character. You will acquire the highest blessedness.

There is no other duty equal to self control. Self control is the highest virtue in the world. Through self control, you can enjoy the highest happinessn both in this world and in the next. Gifted with self control, you will win great virtues.

The self controlled man, sleeps happily and awakes happily and moves in the world happily.He is always cheerful. Self control is the best of all Vows.

Sivananda
Politics / Re: Senator Francis Arthur Nzeribe Is Dead - Sahara Reporters by duchaB(m): 5:31pm On May 08, 2022
duro4chang:
Death is inevitable. Everybody will die. This man was powerful in 1980s and early 1990s especially during the famous June 12.

I was just ganna say this...

Remember the slogan back then in the 80s

"Authur Nzeribe, the choice is yours"

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Family / How To Cultivate Virtues by duchaB(m): 5:22pm On May 08, 2022
How to cultivate virtues

Self control clears the mind, strengthens judgement and elevates your character. It gives you freedom , peace, bliss and joy. It strengthens your will.

He who conquers himself is greater than the commamder-in-chief who conquers a country.

Self control is the master key that opens the realm of eternal bliss and immortality.

There is no triumph more glorious than that of the victory obtained over your own self.

Control your senses and mind. You will attain self realization.

Obtain self mastery. Conquer thyself. Till you have done this, you will only be a slave of the senses.

He who is a subject to his passions is the worst slave on the face of this earth. He who rules his passions, desires, cravings and senses is the real King of kings. He is the Supreme Ruler or president of self-Goverenment. Crowns and sceptres are nothing for him. He is the best Government.

Every temptation that is resisted, every evil thought that is subdued, every desire or craving that is destroyed, every bitter word that is withheld, every action that is checked paves a long way to the attainment of evalasting peace and bliss

He who can command and govern himself can govern and command others.

Self control gives you power to withstand trial, to bear sufferings and to face danger.

Self control leads to the highest merit. Self control is the eternal duty of man. Self control surpasses in merit charity and study in the vedas.

Self control increases your energy. self control is highly sacred. Through self control, you will be purified of all your sins, and gifted with energy and character. You will acquire the highest blessedness.

There is no other duty equal to self control. Self control is the highest virtue in the world. Through self control, you can enjoy the highest happinessn both in this world and in the next. Gifted with self control, you will win great virtues.

The self controlled man, sleeps happily and awakes happily and moves in the world happily.He is always cheerful. Self control is the best of all Vows.

Sivananda
Celebrities / Re: Marvin Gaye: His Life Before His Painful Death. by duchaB(m): 8:47pm On Apr 01, 2022
Marvin, he was a friend of mine, and he could sing and song....his heart in everyline...
Marvin...sang of the joy and pain..
He opened up our minds and i still can hear him say " Talk to me, so you can see, what going on....say you will sing your song forever more

Just know marvin is doing fine on the Night shift..

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