Have done that, but he doesn't have regards for them as well

AgentGoat:
You will have to report him to elders of his family.

Reported to his parents so they can talk to him, tried to sit him down and talk to him myself, but he wouldn't listen, we will end up fighting, even the house we live in I built it myself while I was still working

shortgun:
what have you done?

He's employed, a medical doctor for that matter

AgentGoat:
Is he unemployed?

He doesn't care about the family, he has never paid the children school fees, he doesn't care about how the family feeds, am still the one who feeds him

AgentGoat:
How's your husband irresponsible.

What can I do, when he is never available to talk to him,
always drinking alcohol everyday of his life

shortgun:
Why call your husband irresponsible?
This shows you don't even respect him or value ur marriage.
You left the most important thing and you are chasing shadows.
Don't you know that nothing will work for you until there is peace in your home?

Hello nairalanders

I need your candid advice on what I can do, I lost my job about 3 years back, while working I had a business of distributing milk which I was doing with my job, so when I lost my job I just took the milk business serious then started living on it, but all of a sudden all my capital was lost everything all went down the drain, so this forced me to acquire a loan from a microfinance bank, things went on like that till present, presently am now owing seven microfinance banks and several individuals which the total sum of the debt has now summed up to over five million naira, which I don't even now am going to pay up the debts.
I have two children which I cater for pay there school fees and feed them, feeding in the house has now become a problem, i hardly go out because whenever i go out am going to meet somebody i owe who is going to embarass me, I got married to a very irresponsible husband who doesn't care about his family.
Please I need your candid advice to get myself out of diz mess am into presently and possible business I can do that can fetch me huge profit, I have a mercedez Benz jeep I can sell off to start life all over again.

Please matured comments only, thanks in anticipation of positive comments

Hello nairalanders

I need your candid advice on what I can do, I lost my job about 3 years back, while working I had a business of distributing milk which I was doing with my job, so when I lost my job I just took the milk business serious then started living on it, but all of a sudden all my capital was lost everything all went down the drain, so this forced me to acquire a loan from a microfinance bank, things went on like that till present, presently am now owing seven microfinance banks and several individuals which the total sum of the debt has now summed up to over five million naira, which I don't even now am going to pay up the debts.
I have two children which I cater for pay there school fees and feed them, feeding in the house has now become a problem, i hardly go out because whenever i go out am going to meet somebody i owe who is going to embarass me, I got married to a very irresponsible husband who doesn't care about his family.
Please I need your candid advice to get myself out of diz mess am into presently and possible business I can do that can fetch me huge profit, I have a mercedez Benz jeep I can sell off to start life all over again.

Please matured comments only, thanks in anticipation of positive comments