The reason for your concern is because your job is important than your home and I feel that it is a decision that u should av been thinking about b4 he made it for u after having a triplet for that matter even twins is not easy with job added. I will advise that you look for something else to do like business that u can manage while d children are in school and be home while they are back. This is not a battle that u can win bcoz u started it. From your statement, I don't think the man is not financially OK to take care of u all, Plz make it work so that another woman don't end up nursing the children for u