DoctorOlasDesk:



I still fought a legal custody concern for a kid up to Lagos state judicial systems. You''ll be shocked how the judicial system is well organized when you have personal experiences.

The law regarding custody of children globally is same. That kids are owned by both parties in a marriage, and in any situation where one can't cater for the kid/kids, the other party automatically gains custody. If it moves away from the other party, the state takes custody.

Forget the sensationalism of news reportage, did you think she just walked away and ran without families of both meeting and talking together to agree?


I've fought countless sickness related issues. My dear. I even picked up a young guy dying on the road last year who's head burst and brain burst, stayed with him and treated him with help of emergency medical professionals. Till i got him safely to where he underwent operation after 7 hours. I only walked past him where the accident occuered o. You think i haven't seen evil?

It's his family to bear up the burden as the condition had gone beyond a woman and has now become a family thing. It's not a fight a woman can have all the mental strength and power to fight. He didn't marry a witch na

Very correct sire. All these busy bodies saying they will value their own brothers more than their wives yen yen yen, they will not even see one family member that can put up with their health condition as long as the wife, they will still say, "brother but you know am a busy man nau, i have a family to feed, i will come back and check u later" of which they dont even show up or they say, "but whats the essence of your wife, she should be the one to take care of you". But as soon as they hear their brother is dead if he is rich they run like usain bolt to challenge the wife. If he is poor they seat in their house to wait for a formal declaration by the wife that the husband has passed.

femiasaolu2014:
I will leave here, a snippet from one of my seminal papers on love and money dynamics:

The value of a man lies in his ability to provide.

The only people who will ever receive true, unconditional love are women, children, and pets.

So that serpentine female serenading you with the "I love you" song is like the Sirens trying to lure the Argonauts to their certain death.

So don't be deceived, she doesn't love you but your pocket.

This is why I see nothing wrong in having many partners, smashing all of them, breaking hearts, chopping and cleaning mouth, etc.

Women are by nature hypergamous and therefore more pragmatic than men.

As a man, your mantra should be: Na Mumu dey love.

Repeat after me: Na Mumu dey love

Hmm but u crave for a woman's love... I see(rubbing beards and thinking deeply)

Adesina18111:
I always say this to myself...my wife can never be my next of kin...thank God I have a younger brother..I prefer if my brotherr goes away with my hard earned money rather than to watch one gold digger spoil my life for my face...I have told my fiance and I asked her if she gree or not...once I have a child then he or she becomes my next of kin...that gender is horrible

She gree?

OlawaleBammie:


U be imbecilic apparatus

How? If he had had side chicks while the going was good, IF[b][/b] they were assisting his wife with some of her duties, i dnt see why their skills wont be needed now it matters most. Or are they only good for flexing and not helping. Men keep sowing wild oats and wait on that patient woman to rock their boats when they are either ailing or old. No disrespect to Julius. A subtle note to men.

Remman:
Men are blinded by love while women are blinded by money. It's that simple! However, only a submissive wife who loved you when you were peniless can stick around with you forever. Most educated girls are not submissive, this is one of the reasons why muslims forbid western education for their girls and try to force them to wear hijab in schools. However, it's good to marry a well mannered and educated girl but if you're going to be broke then it's hard to make an educated lady a choice because she was only there when the money was rolling in. However, this is exceptional for educated industral ladies who believe they can go with even a penniless man as far as they can make a penny for themselves and family (but this type of ladies are 1 in thousands... As they're very scarce and hard to even find or fall in love with as most of them are ugly).

Its the last part for me , but cam-an, u cant have everything.

Bigfish121:
Then don't go into marriage since you can't keep the vow.

The men that have been going into marriage to cheat and maltreat their women, are they keeping their vows?

bigpicture001:
I was in a very sound relationship years baack and suddenly had a fatal accident .. I broke my leg from my knee up...

Sweetheart gf ran away... And never tried calling again after visiting once. At the hospital....

Manny years later two years ago.. had another sweet relationship that we are planning to get married this year...

I had a sudden shake. In my business and lost alot of. Money and was shaking to stand... Gf abandoned me and ran away... Till date...

Conclusions... If u don't have money women will always run.... And for those that have. It.. don't fall in love, cuz if. U do, u lose... They ty tto tie u down with love cuz u have moneey...

If u havve. Moneey allways enjoi ur life and cheat alot.. even in marage.. those. Genda are dangerous

So you are okay if ur wife cheat on u?

Dsalvo:



They don't have hairy chest though. Let's start there. Lol.

But body odour... Hmmm

Dsalvo:


Painment talk for you though. Truth hurts. I have seen Igbo women agbero behaviour in Lagos, first hand, to know I never want to ever visit the SE to experience she-man madness your women are famous for.

No finesse, feminine appeal or soft spirit. Women like men. Too jacked up on testosterone.

Are your own women soft? Common to price their market as if where they got their goods from, they did not price it before buying, they start raining curses on their own grandfathers.No single business acumen on only bad attitudes and nocturnal visits at night

ThickSharon123:


Yeye they smell, talk your own. Everyone has their own Tyson in their own tribe. I'll help you explain. . I heard there's a tribe that if it starts all hell is let loose, bottles and plates would be flying helter skelter and people would break their nails.

Even in their normal lives you can see it under the bridges or in white-collar jobs, if someone offends them, they turn it to wrestling match and more noise, shouting in the whole neighborhood

Yet run when the real fight starts

VEHINTOLAR:
Imagine ! Two shameless,uncultured women from potopoto republic !

Shut up cultureless people from dustbin/litters republic.

EyeKandy:
To each their own. 2-3 is fine with me; enough companionship, easier family bonding, quality education and the best I can provide.

Guess some parents envision the future that some may be doctors, engineers, sportsmen, ... High achieving professionals. That's their hope. It may work for some though.

Lol at hope, when the financial capacity is not there. Good samaritan go help train all their children finish, but all the glory to the parents at the end of the day. Have you heard stories of poor kids that suffer so much to make it, with little or no effort from their parents?, no one ever wants his child to suffer yet we must plan for rainy days.

Yoruba1stson:
Cursed tribe, cursed people

Lol afonja already cursed you, skull miners fc

I wonder why its broke guys that fantasise marrying a fargin the most

GreatResearcher:
yes am not mentally ready for marriage that's why I opted for contract marriage.

Hope she is aware of this? Or u marrying for travel purpose?

NGsultan:


Lol. My own be sey the country that supports gender equality should deploy 50% male and 50% female soldiers and should not ban only men from leaving the country. That's it. Otherwise they should end the gender equality nonsense

Just nature. Women are spoils of war. If more men die and lots of women survive, there can be progression to humanity meaning a man can marry many wives which is very evident and true today, but where women who have the potential to fall fatal in times of combat thats not the case. A woman biologically can not take on more men at the same time, and can not naturally have so much children at a go which of course is rare. If a man plans to have 30 children he can not just task that woman to provide him with all those children without her health on the line so marries more. Even in ancient times that has been the case. Classic example is the lAfrican Literature "Women of Owu" by Femi Osofisan. Except you youself has lost hope in the continuity of the human race.

NGsultan:


Don't you think it's unfair that only men are banned? Wat about women? What happened to equality?

Would you task ur sisters to go and fight while sissies like u r on the run?

SlyDev:


Respect and manners is like petrol in alaigbo

Common sense and true federalism is like petrol in aboki enclave.

Trojan8:
A restaurant is not supposed to be that serious that you would sack a staff for dancing. Those men would be alright last last

But they can employ ladies that dress almost half naked to dance like their lives depend on it just for advert? While with the meagre salaries these guys combined both jobs seamlessly, now they are saying professional yen yen... When banks open new branches do they employ dancers to come and start shaking butt about?

Artiiclebeast:
Congratulations....

Na two wives you get so.

You marry one, get another one free.

Sooner or later, small small pikins go dey shout anyhow for dat one room station.

Next time, squeeze rag put for your wife mouth.

But the knacking will be making noise nau, as an experienced, what shud he do?

donchris369:
Wow, beat my sister because of my wife even to the extent of dripping blood. Wow... When we were struggling together from childhood, going to primary school, secondary school and even university, pulling things through together where was my wife. When we were drinking garri together in our struggling days in a very harsh condition, where was my wife. When people were making carricature of my family, even taunting us where was my wife. Now am a made man, rich and get myself a wife, i should now turn against my family. Beat my elder sister for what? If i didnt make it in life, will my wife look my way at all, but, i guess my sister will still put effort to make me a made man. Op did you say my elder sister? my elder sister is probably a senior to my wife, so why should my wife say nasty things about her to disrespect her? Wow.... I love my wife but, i will never turn against my family because of her. GOD forbid bad thing. Oya, i know all the married women in the house will want to take on me now. But, ask yourselves if your junior brother you sufferred for beats you up because of his wife, no matter the reason how you will take it.

If am the sister, he can do dat if i have crossed my boundary, of which i reapect myself. I myself just think of myself as a married woman who also have in laws would i want my own inlaws to come amd beat me in my husband's house. Superiority complex among Nigerian inlaws need to stop. Every sister in law should stay in the 4king husband's house. You love your bro so much why dont u marry him so anoda woman dont get tge chance to enjoy what you 'labour' for. If am that your sister's husband ehn, i will send her out of my house and you the bro who put her over his own wife should go ahead and marry her. What will cause a respectable married woman to leave her husband's house to fight another woman in her own house if not bland disregard for the person who put money in her palmwine gourd?

Tekzyflex:
Old fire wood no dey quench! OK let me advice you what to do. Take her phone without her knowing. Delete the man's contact on her phone. Delete every form of social media contact she has with the said man. Just do it secretly. Thank me later

And the man calls her back?

Ceedarlin:
I v seen instance where d woman reports 2d elder bro (available inlaw) yet d man didn't talk 2his bro, me think Very right i cAn do same ll not only arrest him i ll even call soldiers on Him if i v 2 must a man pour out his frustration on his woman.

What if tge said man is a military man?

bennyrazz:
it is better for a woman to pack her bags and leave her husband when battered than to report the matter to the police. It depicts maturity. My opinion

Will you be the one to accommodate her?

Simplyleo:
Now this is beauty.

Nothing like natural or artificial beauty.

If it is not beauty by nature, na scam.

All these clowns taking more than 5 hrs to apply cosmetics then wear one kind koi koi shoes and begin to walk like tolotolo are very stupid.

Your muslim women too wear makeup even professional type, so dey too fall in the stupid category

Best gift a father can give the son is properties and training, but the mother to the daughter just training.. Hunhh

Khaleepha5681:


They're nowhere to be found.

Some Made in Britain Israelis too do not believe in the fairy tales they're children of God.

The reason that God does not care about them.
.........

All religions are delusion,you should just chose the one "believe" in.

Its your own that is delusion...carry your fanaticism to the religion section, all you people know is passing boundaries.

Khaleepha5681:


First of all,the Israelis that Quran is talking about have been swallowed by the wrath of Allah. They are not longer in existence.

Secondly, it is not Ibadah to hate them. They were the chosen tribe before Muhammad came forth.

Thirdly, they're example of people that Ummah should not copy.

Fourthly,they were most educated tribe on earth (Regarding the religious affairs ).

But these self-made fake Israelites of nower days are made of UK. Look at their faces closely,you'll see "Made In Britain" sealed on their faces.

Which wrath of allah that did not swallo them today, pls we are discussing education keep your religion in your pocket.

seborrhic:
Same Delta state government that supported the Oromoni's just based on what the father said in the video,without waiting for proper investigation and a proper autopsy.
If not that Dowen college is in Lagos with also powerful interests,a government like that of Delta would have already prosecuted those children for murder,arrested and also prosecuted the owners,teachers and hostel masters.
For this boy that flogged this child and the owner of the school,sorry is their case because no one will come out to hear any other side of the story.
No where did Delta state government say they would set up an investigation into the case.
No where is anyone asking why a child flogged and treated in a hospital for some days died.
Or is it every child that is flogged by even parents themselves,that die.
No one is excusing the flogging,but why can't a proper investigation be done to ascertain what caused the child's death and if the flogging had a direct or was the remote cause of the death or if there was medical issues that coincidentally came to play same time the flogging occurred?

In no less than ten words what's your point??

Danniedpastor:



You think its easy to obtain license in Nigeria. Its pretty expensive.
Asking government to close such school would only promote unemployment (and you know what that can lead to).
Besides, even registered schools have had issues like this too.


Teachers need to be careful. Why should a child of 1year+ be flogged?


I feel bad seriously.

But they charge fees or is it a charitable organisation? With the years of operation what stops them from doing the right thing? Yet wants to enjoy privileges other schools are enjoying

ahnie:
In one of my diary entry,I narrated how one demonic teacher at uzoigwe primary school asaba so dealt with my son who was 3yrs old then,she wasn't even his class teacher sef,she just finds flogging my son as a sport.

When I felt I have had about enuf of her madness,I went to the school with mopstick used it to beat craze out of her miserable life,yanked her weave off,gave her correct isoko mending,we ended up in the Vice headmistress office,where her fellow teachers were trying to cover up for her.

I was begged and pacified to go home that such incident would not happen again.

Imagine my son was even scared going to school,just imagine.
Till date...miss ify does not go near my kids again and I have taken my son out from that school,only my daughter is there.

I heard she still calls people's kids swine's,idiots,imbeciles and vagabond,but them no born her well to call my daughter such name.

I love you dear, in fact i like like-minds like you. I like as you really went toe to toe with her, your child must be proud of you. They take parents concern as insolence and see parents as dumpsters who needs someone to clean their mess. Forgetting if there are no parents they don't even have that job in the first place.
I dnt really blame some schools that ban flogging oo, there are many ways to punish a child for erring. But no the average nigerian mindset believes flogging corrects even the position of the sun!

Rugaria:
Where do you start to flog a 19 month old?
What kind of frustration leads to this?

If they really flogged their own destinies like that they will be in better positions of lufe. Most Nigerian teachers don't know any other thing but to have a tag name of "the most brutal teacher in school" i womder if its a competition amongst them. Many proprietors even commend such teachers. Mek one frustrated human being touch my pikin fess.