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Travel / Re: 10 People You Will Meet In A "Danfo" Bus by Ebonycrystal(f): 7:53pm On Sep 11, 2014
Can't stop laughing ere
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: 300k/month In Onitsha OR 150k/month In Lagos by Ebonycrystal(f): 2:50pm On Sep 09, 2014
Can't believe smeone would actually consider dat, lagos is jst over hype and u will even spend more and plenty stress dere, so stick to d bigger money and save more besides onitsha is even closer to ph wher she is based...

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Religion / Re: Christian Dating In A Godly Relationship by Ebonycrystal(f): 12:46pm On Sep 09, 2014
Well my opinion is that a relationship isn't about sex its about getting to know each other, the both of you have to have d same believe and standard about sex bfor such relationships can work, fornication is a sin and we all know that doesn't mean we shldnt go into relationships because of that, thats why God has given us self control and the holy spirit to lead us, draw the limits and set your standards and you won't fall into temptation even if u are in a relationship.... And please you don't have to come here and condemn people or insult people in order to get your point accross you should be greatful for the grace you have so if u have to preach about fornication do it without judging and condemning because its only on the last day we wld know those that will go to heaven or hell so we should all jst trust in God to give us the grace to finish the race.

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Family / Re: Which Lady Is a 'Wife Material'? by Ebonycrystal(f): 2:27pm On Sep 05, 2014
perry2020:
Husband material is almost same wif wife but u no d duties of a wife is more.
1.GODFEARING ( he has to love God,himself before he thinks of loving u.if he sincerely loves god n respect god n his commandments he is "likely" not to cheat and behave in some kinda way.
2.look at his mentor n role models den u can tell d kinda man he will become
3.check his family history while dating b4 getting to serious and how he was brought up Eg broken home history,mental illness,epilepsy,violence etc.if he is clean den he is morally up right
4.he must not be easily manipulated ie sum1 told him ur cheating he dint even find out he just jumped into conclusion or a business deal was introduced and he manipulates u n gets money n pour it all into d business.
5.looking at how he loves,treat and respect his mum is the way he is likely"most often times" gonna treat u.
6.AS FOR ME OO EXCESSIVE MOMMYS BOY AINT HUSBAND MATERIAL COZ HE WOULD ALWAYS TAKE EZ MOTHERS WISHES OVER URS AND MAY NEVER BE ABLE TO STAND UP TO HER. so his mums wish is final
7.he must have an independent mind of ez own,patient,must control ez temperament.
8.he has to be the type that listens to ur opinion n takes advice.a guy who is always boosy and wants it to me only me can run my family is not a husband material
9.there are some men that feel it's only them that must make decisions,they dont ever want decisions to be made by women bcoz they see them as lower humans is never and can never be a husband material for me.
10.he has to be responsible financially,psychologically, spiritually ,ethically. the way a guy takes his job says a lot about him.
11.what is his views about marriage?family?kids?togetherness also says alot about him
12. he has to love(let ur ride ez car instead of treking under d hot sun n f e knt let u,e should drive u),respect,adore u,provide for u,profess ez love for u,and protect u to show he is a husband material.
13.hez got to be smart and sensible to prove ez a husband material
14.a waster isn't a husband material(a matured man who would prefare to pop a casket of champagne rather than help the needy or provide for the home front)
15.a man that knows how to invest his tym and money is a husband material.
16.a man who respect himself enough to no dat he is the head and been a provider and protector is what makes him the head.
17.a guy who makes u ez best friend and diary rather than friends who aren't even there for him in times of need is a husband material(he chills out with d men n all but still knows it's only ez wife that should no ez secrets)
18.a man who knows how to create good communication,a man who is understanding is a good husband material
19.a man who tells u ez next step before taking them or talks to u,asks for ur opinion and respects it.before making decisions is a husband materials.
20.a humble man who listens to advice and can make up for mistakes e makes,who isn't too proud to apologize when has done sumtin rng is a husbnd material.
PLZ NOTE:A GUY WHO BEATS YOU WHILE U ARE DATING OVER LITTLE TINZ OR SLAPS U IN D NAME OF CORRECTING U IS NEVER EVER NEVER AND CAN NEVER BE A HUSBAND MATERIAL OOOOO
Erm dis is all I can remember for now I will modify as I remember Hope dis is helpful. wonder why ur asking sef coz I no ur married.


Tnx for dis buh reali how many men dese days are husband material yet dey ll be lukin for wife material lyk dey deserve her.....
Literature / Re: My Crony by Ebonycrystal(f): 6:26pm On Aug 26, 2014
How do i vote, pls give details
Literature / Re: My Crony by Ebonycrystal(f): 5:49pm On Aug 26, 2014
Okay now i can drop my comment, had to join so i can commend you... You got be glued to my bed for hours trying to complete ur story and it has bin worth it so far, vry cool story kip it up...Still waiting to see how it ends doh

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