Utanisco:
That's is why I can never marry


Stupid set of nonsense creature

I just don't understand why God shud take out our ribs to create these monkeys called women

Those people can and will never have conscience

God forbid them

Mind u I detest homosexuality
If in case yur stupid mind drives u there


Unam ikot

Nigerian women go show you shege

IgOga:
Sorry to hear your story.

You did not marry for the kids you married for yourself. You cannot live the rest of your life unhappy because of the children...it will negatively affect them....you will not be a good role model as you will become a grumpy dad.

Waiting for your wife to commit the next adultery is also not a good strategy.

You are upset and that is understandable. I would advise you to both speak to a wise couple who can help you in this difficult time if you are still interested in saving your marriage. They will need to explore a few things with both you and your wife

1. Do you still want to be married to him/her? Both of you must answer this question honestly

2. They will need to explore the root cause of this drama...e.g. long distance relationship, bad/lack of communication, bad sex, attraction, money issues ( which you mentioned), values and believes

3. Work with both of you to come up with practical solutions to issues from point 2

4. You both would need to become accountable to this wise couple until things get back to normal between you and your wife.

NOTE: The healing process will take some time.....there are no quick fix to a damaged relationship but it can be fixed.

I wish you well

best advice here

pocohantas:


Ah. E reach to do DNA and even go shrine. Pregnant and still fcking her ex? This one is very strong!!

Even the ones condemning him, their wives may be doing worse than this.


Marrying this generation of Nigerian women is no longer worth it.

Firstcitizen:
Women!! Many calling you names here have wives who have done worse but they know not

i swear their wives are worse but they don’t know

I just bumped into this thread https://www.nairaland.com/7284714/wifes-ex-boyfriend-ruin-marriage

And several others that have plagued nairaland romance section for the past 2 years.

It didn’t use to be this bad.

Is feminism finding foot in Nigeria with their campaigns responsible for this?

What could be attributed to this?

How did it get this bad because 10 or 15 years ago, women cheating inside marriage was unheard of or very rare; the trend has become upsetting.

How can a woman be having sex with 5 months pregnancy ? Jesus christ.

Angelfrost:


What children?!! His or the Ex?!!

You actually believe those kids or kid will be his! Lol!

the fact she is allowing him sleep with her and cum inside her while she was 5 months pregnant means she knows the child is his own.

All women know the real father of their child

Buhari has finished Nigeria

tonyashburton:
The Anambra airport has not received any foreign flights as yet.The Ebonyi Airport has not even received any flighrs as yet.How many flyers will fly out from Abakaliki weekly?

e go shock you the number of yahoo boys and expatriates in abakaliki

Slymontee:
See small boy earning x2 the salary of a professor with 20 years experience. This country was structured to favour lunatics and punish sane people. I hope we all get tired and change this narrative soonest!!!

I swear. Earning 1 million monthly at the age of 24. Just for being an Aide.

UyaiIncomparabl:


I'm not against studying Nursing, please. Just ensure it's a passion rather than a means to japa.
Someone like me can not study Nursing. I can't stand body fluids and all that hospital smell.

That being said, IT can never be saturated and competitive. The sky is wide for everyone to occupy. It all boils down having the skills and capacity. All the same, your reasons are valid.

it’s still not bad to study nursing with intention to japa, I mean, who doesn’t want the best standard of living ?

kumbhuru:

I am Product of failed marriage. Not only am I irredeemably dumb i am also cursed for life.
I wish i could sacrifice my life for rituals at least to be useful to my wretched family but I doubt the ritual would work as it seems I am empty in all ramifications.
I spit on my soul. May it never know peace

Just read what you typed again Amen to all you have said.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Everybody wants to study Nursing. Lol. Nigerians and bandwagon effect.

If you know what some IT professionals earn, you'll shudder. Also, I hope you aren't doing this because of the prospects. Nursing is a passion. You have to be interested in it. Not another means to japa.

Sis, not everyone wants to work on remote (from home), some people like to step out everyday to work. I personally enjoy hospital setting.

Meanwhile IT is getting very saturated and competitive, to get Gig now harddd. So much competition.

Lifebender:


Bad advice.
School of nursing is easier, faster.All he needs is RN certificate to leave Nigeria.And if he decided to stay,he can opt for distance learning for his degree.
That's the best.
The difference is the degree and sometimes the post basics offered by some universities

plus school of nursing don’t go on ASUU strike

NairaMaster1:


Nursing. Japa will be like ABCD for you. I am a Pharmacist and go anywhere I want without too many questions or phobia.

are you based Nigeria or abroad

idu1:


God save you. You editted the comment.

wetting you for do if no be to rant, and I insult your mother and you insult mine and I give you more ?

God save me from wetting, you ?

pocohantas:
They never see anything.

No more “Abuja be nice to your girl”

All of us done rest small.

waka waka babes

Lose girl

Sending nude to a man or woman na signs of loseness.

Make em use you shine so other people wey care go learn lesson. You at least no go repeat am again.

Smoking is very difficult to stop.

ogbright:


Indirectly you are advising me to pursue my nursing career. I got it

go on with it. Many opportunities too if you graduate and want to travel abroad like Uk.

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Fineman87:
Kogi state universities are not on strike. They have had uninterrupted learning since Gov. Yahaya Bello proscribed ASUU in the state. As I write this, no university in Kogi is on strike.

In Kaduna state, Gov. El Rufai recently handed an ultimatum to the KASU staff to resume or get sacked. As I write this, the university has resumed and are preparing for exams.

In Ebonyi state, Gov. Dave Umahi didn't tolerate strikes. Their universities are currently in session.

The problem with the FG is lack of will. From Buhari to his entire cabinet, they consist of low worth individuals who cannot be decisive in anything.

Since 1980s, ASUU has been going on strike for silly reasons, yet the FG cannot contain them.

If Gov Yahaya Bello could proscribe ASUU, why can't the FG and the National Assembly cooperate and end their madness. Since 1980s, one union holds federal universities to ransom.

I insist that ASUU strikes are useless. Every sector needs revitalization, not only Universities. ASUU has been a negative influence with their strikes because other unions copy from their lawlessness.

The FG must follow Kogi and Kaduna' s approach to contain ASUU.

I support your motion, but the FG will not hear

Anytime they want to embezzle money, this is what they say.

lifeandjoy:
Umuahi is still fighting a meaningless battle.

Obi 2023,these Batistards cannot stomach an imminent defeat.

Ebonyi south is not among. Umahi is the candidate.

vicdom:

You can call god for all you care. Never you in your life quote me if you want to remain uncouth and uncultured in your life. Who are you to call me a "son"?? Do you even know me in person??

calm down son.

Septagon:
Shatap.fake news.only one person died and the others are receiving treatment at UUTH.i saw it!

honda passenger or aktc passenger

Unigrad:
Since she has been expelled from the party, who will then be the party senatorial candidate for Ebonyi south?

Umahi

Goahead:
Seriously, we were all surprised seeing Ebonyi on that list...

thank God Ebonyi is not. BudgIT didn’t get their facts right.

Good

BudgeIT should be ashamed

ahnie:
Who else noticed that rotund michellin tyre on green sports wear?




And the FAT Mrs ikpeazu flirting with a bottle of **oh mpa*
Hero lager beer.

Nylon and dirt to litter train tracks very soon.

Those markers should have union leaders that will maintain orderliness and cleanliness along the rail tracks which those markers surround.

Man United is synonymous with failure