Politics / Re: Buhari To Inaugurate 650,000bpd Dangote Refinery May 22 by ebuzchief(m): 8:45pm On May 07, 2023 |
This will help us in the economy and save a lot of dollars for the country if they are sure of what they saying. |
Travel / Re: Ibom Air Begins Commercial Flight To Bayelsa Airport.. Photos by ebuzchief(m): 3:54am On Feb 10, 2022 |
Bayelsa state has been of news for a long time now, they are bringing this one to trends. |
Pets / Re: 7 Weeks Old Presa Canario for sale. by ebuzchief(m): 10:48am On Jun 27, 2020 |
I stay in ph, can i get it? |
Education / Re: The Terrible State Of Irepodun High School, Ipao Ekiti Ikole LGA, Ekiti State by ebuzchief(m): 5:02pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
DatAbujaBoy: Don't know why IGBOS hate school like this ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png)
be reasonable at times |
Education / Re: The Terrible State Of Irepodun High School, Ipao Ekiti Ikole LGA, Ekiti State by ebuzchief(m): 4:59pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
What a country we are leaving. |
Politics / Re: Dockworkers Commend President Buhari, FG For Reopening BUA Terminal, Rivers Port by ebuzchief(m): 4:53pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
Slawormir: Damnnnnn niggarrr Isoright all this Damnnnnn stuff |
Romance / Re: My Sister Is About To Marry An Osu Man, About To Commit A Serious Taboo by ebuzchief(m): 9:19am On Nov 24, 2019 |
Osu tradition, has been abolished from igboland for sometime now, all the igbos chiefs have gathered together and said no to that. |
Family / Re: How Do I Understand/satisfy My Husband? by ebuzchief(m): 5:45am On Nov 22, 2019 |
UnbiasTruth: I am sorry this is rather too long but please I need to pour out my mind because I need your mature advice. I have been going through a lot of trauma since my husband stopped working and it is really getting to me because my blood pressure is high.
I love my husband and despite what is happening now, I still love him. I just need advice on how to manage the situation right now.
My husband is a hard-working, loving, caring and gentle man; he showed me true love from the first day I met him. He was very dedicated to his job and he received commendations from his boss and colleagues at work but something just happened that led to his resignation.
A kind of conspiracy against him. He was advised by one of his superiors at work to resign. Now it’s been more than a year that he is out of job. All attempts to get him back into the labour force had been futile because he keeps saying he does not want to settle for less.
He was earning six figure salary while at his former place of work and he has a side business which he still manages till now but the profit is close to nothing and it is not even constant.
Now, the issue I have with him is that my husband gets angry at almost everything. He nags and drinks (not with friends because he is an introvert) excessively, so he is always at home. He keeps on complaining about our house helps even when I investigate and realize that most of his complaints are flimsy. We have changed house helps in this year up to 4 times.
So, in August this year, I decided not to get any maid again since we could not find one whose domestic care service would satisfy my husband.
Mind you, I have been the one practically footing the bill after two months that my husband lost his job because we made a huge investment in acquiring some property shortly before he lost his job. So, I pay house rent, school fees, feed the whole family (we have 3 lovely children) from my salary.
My nature of work rarely gives me time so I can’t afford to take care of the children and do much of the house chores. I explained to my husband to assist since he is always at home but he keeps saying if he had not lost his job, I wouldn’t have asked him to do basic house chores.
I know he was raised with silver spoon so he rarely knows how to do most domestic work. I had been the one doing this before we started having house helps and my job at office got more engaging.
My pastor recently advised that I should consider getting a professional cleaner who will only do some routine cleaning and leave immediately because my husband may not be comfortable with a stranger in the house.
Two days ago, I came across a thread https://www.nairaland.com/5426688/what-cost-getting-regular-home here on Nairaland while searching for a good cleaning service here in Lagos and I decided to pay for the service of a male cleaner.
After discussing with my husband, he shunned the idea and still insists I do it myself. So, he asked me to demand a refund. I need someone to help me do some basic cleaning at home since I can afford to pay for the service, but my husband does not want to accept any stranger in our home.
I have asked my pastor and my mother-in-law to talk to him also but he is still keeping deaf hear.
Is there anyone with a better suggestion before I get fed up?
don't get fed up with him You no is not easy for one to lose his or her job and found joy to it, be patient with him he will definitely come down. |
Politics / Re: NEC Approves $250 Million investment For Nigeria Soverign Investment Authority by ebuzchief(m): 5:33am On Nov 22, 2019 |
The buhari government is releasing money this time and the masses has not see the impact.
Abi all this money naa for media? |
Politics / Re: Yahaya Bello Gets Certificate Of Return (Photos) by ebuzchief(m): 7:10pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
Of which use is this guy to his people |
Politics / Re: Yahaya Bello Gets Certificate Of Return (Photos) by ebuzchief(m): 7:07pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
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Politics / Re: Pressure Mounts On Secondus To Resign by ebuzchief(m): 12:35pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
millionboi2: How much is his salary
Dude is not a match to oshomole the problem he has is just that he can from region that value money more than the actual thing he can to do. 1 Like 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Pressure Mounts On Secondus To Resign by ebuzchief(m): 12:32pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
The name secondus, is really effecting the party. |
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Sports / Re: Lionel Messi Celebrates 31st Birthday With Lovely Photos by ebuzchief(m): 7:22pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
Kingsley1000: He doesnt need to train for him to perform.he's a natural and raw talent unlike ronaldo that struggles relies on hardwork and musle his way to tapin my brother life is all about struggling. |
Education / Re: PHOTO: Best Student In Crop Production In EKSU Gets 2 Thousand Naira by ebuzchief(m): 3:59pm On Jun 23, 2018 |
Nigerians are finished in this country how can struggle finish and eat like ant. |
Business / Re: Dangote Cement’s N179 Billion Dividend Excites Shareholders by ebuzchief(m): 8:06am On Jun 21, 2018 |
dangotesmummy: speak to my son ![cool](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cool.png) add your money in my account you are there. |
Politics / Re: Dogara, Lasun, Leo Ogor Padded The 2016 Budget - Sahara Reporters by ebuzchief(m): 8:37pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
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Crime / Re: Policeman Who Robs At Night Arrested In Port-Harcourt by ebuzchief(m): 6:39pm On Jun 25, 2016 |
Police are the real culprit in this country niger |
Politics / Re: EFCC To Arrest Ex INEC Chairman Over Oil Baron Bribe by ebuzchief(m): 10:50am On Apr 29, 2016 |
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Politics / Re: El-rufai To Suleiman: Mention The Day I Will Die by ebuzchief(m): 10:17am On Apr 03, 2016 |
Okanokan: El-Rufai and his supporters should be extremely careful rather than throwing barbs over the net. The word of God is clear "He comfirmeth the word of His servant and performeth the counsel of His messenger". El-Rufai and his friend should read and comprehend the story of Pharoah. who is the prophet |
Politics / Re: Rerun: Wike Flies His Family Abroad - Rivers APC by ebuzchief(m): 8:56am On Mar 18, 2016 |
APC is river state, PDP is a dead party Longtime ego |
Car Talk / Re: Is It Ok To Drive This Car As A Lady(photo)? by ebuzchief(m): 5:20pm On Mar 11, 2016 |
That car is too small for you, don't buy it simply
Big girl |
Politics / Re: Buhari To Attend Nuclear Security Summit In Washington by ebuzchief(m): 7:29am On Mar 10, 2016 |
This president called buhari, has not come to lead us anywhere, his plan is to junketing everywhere in the would why we hav serious problems facing our country here,no fuel no money people ar suffering now and then. |
Politics / Re: Air Force Bomb Boko Haram Camp In Borno Photo by ebuzchief(m): 7:09am On Mar 10, 2016 |
Picture of the camp |