@ bfbs, she needs your advice & not your insults mate. thanks.

@omogetodun,
hey sweetie, i'll strongly advice u quit that r/ship. come on girl, there r lots of young, romantic & ambitious guys out there, who'll love u 4 who you are, not what you are. money's not everything, remember.

u're 23 & a graduate, as u claimed, so i suggest this is d right time u started havin concrete plans 4 your future.

remember, u aint gettin any younger.

cheers!

I kindda agree with Onyinye 'bout quiet (or reserved) guys.

several chics i've come across - both initmate & platonic - have mostly identified me as such. but i've always maintained dat i ain't.

i would prefer d word reserved, & not quiet. Ladies prefer reserved guys.

A reserved guy talks & acts only when he needs to, not just to show off. He doesn't talk much.

i absolutely do not agree wit alot of folks who say guys do not respect when a lady makes d 1st move.

i ain't tryn to be loud on dis, but from way back my sec. school days through univ. till this day i've had lots of
gr8t girls who had always made d 1st move. some of 'em who were kindda shy either use their friends,
body languages, or send u anonymous letters/texts.

and i've always respected all of 'em. it doesnt come easy seein a good lookin chic walk up 2 a guy, come on!
so i never percieved 'em as cheap. if ain't interested, i humbly let 'em know that & they appreciate u 4 that.

a real guys never looks @ any lady who approaches him as cheap or slutty.

@yommys101,
i still think vsat & fiber-optic technologies respectively are fastest & most efficient form of internet connectivity; though d fiber technology is in its developement stage in our Country. 

for high speed internet connection, fast downloads, & un-interrupted network, i would strongly suggest vsat/broadband access for u. its requires installtion of both an outdoor - an antennae, & indoor units - modem, respectively.

bandwidth ranges include 32kbps, 64kbps, 128kbps, 256kbps, 512kbps, 1024kbps (1MB), depending on whatever range u choose to pay for monthly.

it cost a bit though - with d equipment & monthly payments - but boy u're assured quality service.

i am presently work with Internet Service Provider & this is part of d service we provide amongst others. infact i'm currently managing d internet/Ku-band clients. So i sure know what am talkin 'bout.

4 further enquiries, just call: Broadband Technologies Ltd, Ikoyi, Lagos. tel: 01-8121803; 01-2693480

i can entertain more questions also.

My Dream,, i've got a quite a long one though:

- To futher my education in one of d World's best institutions - Havard, Stanford & Imperial College.
- To start my own Firm in 'bout 5yrs from now.
- To be a billionaire Investor, Enterpreneur, Business Owner & Capitalist.
- To establish a Foundation - just like d Bill & Melinda Gates, Rockefeller & Ford foundations.
- To give to charity and missions purposes.
- To have a lovly wife & gr8t kids.
- To own a mansion in Lagos. Othes will be in London & California; also a holiday home in Bahamas.
- To be an Ambassador of my great Country Nigeria.

- My greatest dream, above all others, will be to make it to d wonderful place, Heaven.

So help me God, amen.

-  GLADIATOR
-  A BEAUTIFUL MIND
-  THE PATRIOT
-  THE DEVIL'S ADVOCATE
-  LORD OF D RING (TRIOLOGY)
-  LAST SAMURAI
-  SIXTH SENSE "I see dead People"
-  VIOLATED - Amaka Igwe
-  ENTRAPMENT
-  MATRIX TRIOLOGY
-  ALL JAMES BOND (007) MOVIES

could see all o'em over and over again

@ Bolarge,
that was a great piece i must say. what made it more fascinating was d mix of humour added to it.
u're d man.

i'd found that it's kindda absurd approachn a chic on d street, or on motion.
i tried it once - was ignorant then, u know - and of course i was shunned.

why most chics don't respond to guys on d street, i believe, boils down to the issue of insecurity - she doesn't
know if u're some kind of attacker, rapist or something. like kids will say - "mum/dad says 'Never Talk To Strangers'".

so as much as i do not buy d idea, i believe d way 2 approaching a chic on d street would be d ff:

-   make it seem as if u stumbled on her. Never appear as though u've been following her,
    as this puts sudden fear in her. and of course u won't get any response.
-   Look tidy, well dressed. Never appear Unkempt. She may take u for some holigan or something.
-   Smile. its eases some bit of insecurity around her
-   Most importantly, Respect her. if she's not @ all comfortable wit u, just take a step back honourably.

as i stated earlier, i do not buy d idea of approaching a chic on d street, so!.

@ dagashini,
  you're really quite right 'bout that. I think it mostly got to do with them feeln insecure. that was cool though.

@pin4eva,  i sometimes wonder if it really got something to do with looks u know. peps do say so, but i've never @ any point in time put that into cognisance, believe me.

@sammyjl, Trust is earned really, so i've got to build that.

cheers y'all!

@ toyinrayo, am the hot sexy bootylicious cute young koko mama baby hotmama lets!!!

come on girl. easy!.

_{oh sori, 4 ladies only}

@ efuah,

WORD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@ Emad
@ poster There must be something about you

nd what's it if i may ask? cheers!

want to 2 say a big thank u to all of ya who 've contributed so far 2 this post. am so grateful 4 all ya adivice. absolutely taken.

@ Frankies,
thanks so much pal. u ought not 2 give a hoot 'bout what some folks put down, u know. don't take it personal.
dey r simply immature.

cheers y'all.

thanks Guys, i promise to certainly get things right.

cheers!

@ Tawa-Temi, u very right. CHELSEA HAVE NEVER GIVEN ME HEART ATTACK. The Blue Blood still runs in my veins.

Let the sky be BLUE

no, really am not a womaniser. don't even enjoy double-dating at all. thats the fact.

well thanks for all your candid views so far.

cheers y'all.

@ olanajim,

Word!!!

@ davidyland,

men that was good.

@ don jazzie,

Thanks for ur candid advice. am grateful

cheers!

When ur Brother snatched ur girl the first time, what was ur responce?

See eh my guy, UR BROTHER DOESN'T HAVE A BIT OF RESPECT/REGARD FOR U. THAT WAS WHY HE DID IT A SECOND OR SO TIME. u feel me.

But all the same, thank God say no bi ur wife he straff.

men take heart bro.

@ geneloganok,
i have to admit that was pretty lame,maybe i need a drink.its my bday,yall

u can say wherever u wanna say dude, it ur birthday 4 crying out loud

@ poster,
i think u should've coined your topic properly. In my own opinion, Yelling shdn't be the word u should've used. thats too immature a word.
Real Guys don't yell @ their girls to make their stance known, don't do that myself.
If u say girls like/respect guys that are make decisions and stick wit them, make themselves clear,
and are sometimes stubborn, then i'd be ok with that. right.
safe

Why Do Girls I Date Hardly Ever Seem To Give Me The Benefit Of Doubt?

Hi sweet girls and guys, i've got an issue that needs some candid advice.

i can't still seem to understand why ladies profess their love & affection 2 me, yet find it hard to put some level trust in me. I believe r/ship should be 'bout that, u know. They believe i keep several girls, and dump 'em  @ my leisure.

- met this chic months after i mutually parted with ma girlfriend (she relocated last yr). though she liked me, spend gr8t time with me, but still seem to be indifferent 'bout our r/ship. can't just explain why. tried talkn it over with her, still.

- girl B, claims she loves me, yet what she does whenever we spend time 2gether is to check my phone 4 text messages. she always teases me about my carryn numerous chics, didn't find all these funny @ all. and though i show her i care very much, she has never given me a chance to prove how faithful i am.

another girl bluntly put it to me that she sceptical giving her heart to me because i won't tell her such a "ugly-lookn" guy like me does not have more than 2 babes at a time. was just dumbfounded.

i really want to stick to one girl, and give ma best to d r/ship, but with way most of 'em r just treatn me doesn't help at all.
girls and guys what do i do?

u r kindda right u know. but i still think a lady shd still love more - maybe 60-40.

Hi y'all, there's this argument 'bout who should love more - a Guy or a Lady. Some school of thought say women are d

more emotional beings, hence they r expected to show love more than men, who seemingly are the less-emotional

ones. Personally most ladies 've dated - till date - tend to show more love and affection than i do. Most men believe

showing love more than their ladies make them look like WUSSY. Some ladies attest to that also.

so Guys and Ladies in d house what do u think. d floor is open.

@ klassyguy,

i feel u bro. abeg help me tell her o.  

but i really suggest u do away with smoking. ladies are more liable to get cancer of d breast and lungs with it. so u need to stop it fast. cheers

@ snugle, i like that.

@ Bolarge,

i feel u bro. gr8t thinkn.

@ Ann Jolie,

Haba Ann, you're mean o 
u just finished that guy, come on.

@ poster,

i've always told u guys, NEVER EVER SEEM SO DESPERATE 2 LAND A CHIC. You no be guy-man, come on!!! 
how many times have u seen a chic come 2 this forum lookn 4 a guy. u think they don't need us more than we do need 'em. man u've got 2 be diplomatic. don't just degrade yourself. they're all urs hommie. got that right.