Hi peeps, I once read the below question from a lady and would like to have your opinons. Appears controversial  though. TGIF

"Okay so i have a question about what makes you a virgin. I know that different people fell different ways about this subject but i want opinions. I havent had s e x but i have given oral, and hand jobs, and i have been fi ng ered. Am I still considered a virgin or am i not because i have done some sex ual activities."

Guy, i can imagine how you feel. I would advise you to keep those feelings to yourself ( i know it's difficult) but keep it on a standby. It is not honourable to be a clog in the wheel of a friend's relationship (especially if she feels good about it and the guy is not messing up and you know this fact). Just wait, enjoy the friendship whilst it lasts. In this world, shit happens all the time. Her present relationship might end and you would have a chance later on. For now, just try so hard to keep your feelings. If your story was a plot in an indian movie, they will tell you to go for it (even right now) but this is reality. Be a man, try to wait. Continue to be nice to her, remain her friend and she might even naturally want a relationship with you eventually (but don't expect this). I hope this works a little. All the best man.

Hi, would really be glad if you may help with this question which has been bothering me a whole lot. I am 27years and my girlfriend is 24years. My girlfriend ended her period around April 7 and this experience which i am about to describe happened on the 24th April. My girlfriend is still a VIRGIN, however, we were making out and things got heated up that i had to place my manliness (without a condom) on her womanliness (the exact entry spot i guess). she was wearing a Pyjamas and a pant at the time. Although, i didn't expel, i notice the outter part of her pyjamas was a little wet with precum. Can she get pregnant? I mean i know precum can in rare occassions get a lady pregnant. Our worry is can she get pregnant by precum whilst she was wearing a pyjamas, a pant and being a virgin (all at the same time? I would be grateful if anyone could advise.

@UJujoan, Thanks for taking time out to write on this. How Old am i? Well, i am old enough to have worked for four years (after uni). For your information, we have had misunderstandings severally in the past and we have handled each one in a matured way. But this time, my girlfriend, like never before, snapped at me as if i was a nobody. I am not one of those who believe that a relationship would always be rosy, but i sure believe that the way and manner we express our disapparoval(s) especially to a loved one matters a whole lot. It's just like a wife pulling out a knife all in the name of " a normal or expected misunderstanding".

Dear All, i really would like to have your opinion(s) and pieces of advice. I love my girlfriend so much and we have been dating for about a year. The relationship has been good thus far. She actually thinks i am a special person. I am not like the normal guy, i made up my mind to marry the person that will be my girlfriend. Meaning i had prayed and planned to date only once. Hence, i took my time to be very careful in choosing a girlfriend. My girlfriend is nice and very loving. I am a cool guy who could do anything for anyone i am in love with. Our relationship is long distance for now but soon we hope to be in the same city. Honestly, we have had a very nice time these past few months and she actually knows i have plans to marry her. The truth is that she even wants marriage to happen sooner than i thought. Being the only person working, i have been making most of the calls (naturally, i guess) but lately, now that she's on a scheme that allows her to make free calls to me all day, it appears she isn't disposed to calling me as often as i did afterall. Lately, i note that she is capable of getting angry easily. Although, i have always believed she's on the subtle side. Somehow, after 12 months of dating, she snapped at me for the very first time simply because i have been constantly (not intentionally) asking about the wellbeing of one of her family members with whom she's had a quarrel and with whom i would want her to reconcile, she snapped using words that suggests to me that she doesn't respect me. The question i asked did not in my mind warrant such reaction from her. I am a guy but i have never spoken like that before to her and would never imagine expressing my disapproval to her using such language. I was surprised at her reaction and she knows because i wasn't expecting her to talk to me (after all i have done for our relationship) in the manner she did considering the question i asked. Now she's been drawing back from me a little because of the episode, reason being that she didn't like the fact that i acted "surprised" when she snapped. Her arguement was that she was only expressing her feelings.

Guys, i love this girl but i am a very peace loving person. I don't like people who get angry easily and i just note that this is the only "but" in my relationship. Anytime i call after the episode, she speaks in monosyallbles. If anyone should really be angry in the circumstance, i think i should be the one and not her so i do not know why she's acting up because i was surprised that she could snap at me in the manner she did ( i mean, that would be the very first time). She hardly calls me when she says she'd call me back after i have called and we couldn't conclude on a discussion (despite that she's on a free call scheme). In one word! i feel like i am being taken for granted by a person i love so much, it hurts bad and i have also decided to withdraw a little to see what's up( i actually find this very hard to do). Please let me have your views and experiences if any. Thanks