Romance / Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by Ednut90: 3:31pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
generationz: @GT07115
Your case is simple.
Finding someone we flow with and can meet our standards is difficult.
What you'll do is this
Start a business for her or let her learn a trade. Make sure the business is something she can do with or without a store eg buying and selling second clothes , shoes and bags or Chinese commodities.
If she decides on her learning a trade let it be something she can do for ladies eg hairdressing , tailoring etc. Even shoe making is a big business if your designs are awesome you can sell a shoe for 30k or more , she can sell sandals for as high as 12k. ( google dechayilsshoes on Instagram she's a graduate that worked in a corporate setting before becoming a big time shoemaker.)
Whatever you choose to start for her is what she'll use to sponsors herself through school. When she knows she is responsible for her schooling she will become mature quickly and be responsible with money and her education.
While you start the trade for her make sure you wed her. Don't train a girl in school without marrying her first. She might betray you
The okrika business is another one that sells like hot cake on Instagram and universities as long as she has an eye for trendy and sexy wears.
I know a lady who has two cars from okrika sales. She has a big store. The way she advertises the clothes on Instagram ehn ..
Make sure whatever she chooses to do she is good at it because she will be training herself while you cater for family expenses.
Don't give her money to start business. Make sure you are part of the whole process at the beginning. Also, teach her money management skills.
You guys can put off child bearing while she's in for the first few years then when she's in her third year you impregnate her. That's your insurance ( if you know what I mean)
Good luck
PS you are not obligated to take care of her family or siblings responsibilities. Make sure you are marrying a lady you know loves and understands you ( not only you loving her). U known many women who wrecked their fiances finances because he had to cater for her and her family . Most times it ends in separation. You are the man , take charge. Don't reveal your full income to her if you feel she will be immature and blackmail you into ceding her family . sister, u get brain.... kudos to u 2 Likes |
Crime / Re: “you Were Friends With Benefits” –judge Tells Lady Who Accused Colleague Of Rape by Ednut90: 3:27pm On Jun 02, 2019 |
cococandy: So women shouldn’t be friends with men or have sex with men anymore?
That’s a position for rape.
So people should just suck it up when someone they normally have sex with decides to rape them?
I don’t know how some of you think honestly. As long as u can prove ur case, its fine wt me.....We can't just say because d lady accused him of rape,we then believe her.....its not done that way |
Crime / Re: “you Were Friends With Benefits” –judge Tells Lady Who Accused Colleague Of Rape by Ednut90: 3:23pm On Jun 02, 2019 |
bukatyne:
That's why I think false rape allegations should carry same penalty as rape itself.
Else, real rape victims would never get justice. really? so the innocent guy should be punished for a sin he did not commit? U shd do better dear |
Politics / Re: Debt Profile Of The 36 States As At December 2018 (Pictured) by Ednut90: 3:50am On May 27, 2019 |
Abeg,Wetin FCT people dey use money do self... .who are spending d one-sixty kini kan Billions |
TV/Movies / Re: Zack Orji & Eucharia Anunobi's Sex Scene In 'Glamour Girls' That Shook Nollywood by Ednut90: 7:31pm On May 23, 2019 |
Both of them are now Pastors o |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Ajax Vs Tottenham Hotspur: UCL Semi-Finals (2 - 3) On 8th May 2019 by Ednut90: 8:02pm On May 08, 2019 |
I see Spurs qualifying tonight 2 Likes |
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 14 by Ednut90: 11:22pm On May 07, 2019 |
senny4ril2424: Let me first thank all the beautiful people on this platform...it was just by God's grace ..My interview went well yesterday and my visa was approved I got GTA for my msc program which covers the full tuition fee for the duration of the program as well as monthly stipend
My interview yesterday went below.
Me: Good morning VO: Good morning pass me your documents Me: gave her the required documents
VO: how did you hear abt the university Me: i first heard about the University during my undergraduate days through my lecturer who attended geoscience conference in the school, upon her return, she would not stop talking about the quality of academic research in the university (vo cut in) VO: Do you have relatives over there? Me: No No No ( I said that like 4 times) VO: what other universities do you apply to? Me: I applied to university of Wyoming, university of Wisconsin VO: why this uni ME: I'm interested in prof..... ongoing research project, this research project aligns with area of my research interest, the research is focusing on contamination and remediation of groundwater ( VO cut in) I was about saying contamination of groundwater is one of the environmental challenges in Nigeria today VO : Did you write GRE Me: yes VO: your score Me: 278 VO: what will you be doing as a graduate assistant? Me: I will be assisting the lecturer in the preparation of course materials, I will also be assisting in marking and grading of assignments and tests (VO..cut in) VO: when did you finish undergraduate? Me: 2015 VO: which University? Me: Ekiti State University VO: what have you been doing since then Me: I completed my NYSC 2016-2017 at national universities commission, immediately after that I got teaching job where I teach physics and geography at...... International group of school ( VO cut in is it secondary school? I said yes) I got my present job at.... Geophysical services Limited, I work as field geologist VO: what's your plans after the degree? Me: I intend to come back to Nigeria upon the completion of the program, I will have acquired adequate research knowledge as well as practical and field knowledge to enable me take up lecturing and research position in my alma mater (VO cut in) VO: your visa has been approved, take your I-20 form ,you will need at the port of entry.. Take this white paper and collect your visa in three business days in the location where I circled Me : I was like thanks thanks more that six times
My remark... VO didn't ask about how I got the scholarship ? She didnt ask about the SOA because I have deficit of 2780 Above all pray for favour and mercy of God.. Then always listen to whoever being interviewed before you. So that you can learn from their mistakes pls what is the name of the university that offered u GTA |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Liverpool vs Barcelona: UCL Semi-Finals (4 - 0) On 7th May 2019 by Ednut90: 11:04pm On May 07, 2019 |
Liverpool were amazing today......tonight was their night |