Vintage9999:
One thing i know is a lot of them are very masculine. I work in a hospital, and the head of nursing from what I know is unmarried. Very bossy n dominant and from the way she adorns herself, if you're a sabi man you'll just know she's a bop. That's how most are.

That's one reality people can shy away from but the truth.

NovusHomo:


WTF

I am expecting a reasonable response from you Sir.

toprealman:

Go pursue your dream. Leave drama.

Oga, am already living my dream...rest!

NovusHomo:


Accept it, they are above your standard. In other words, you are beneath them. FACT.

I hope you understand, what standard is inter professionally, like if the medics can do what I do more excellently than I do in my field...or can outdo me financially or what not...

spiSeyi:

Agba the OP is only trying to console himself 99.99% of ladies are after status, power and wealth

Just wondering why they get offended to the extreme in those scenarios, I get angry but I don't just start blocking people I have known for sometime...

jaephoenix:

Lol. Not true. They are regular babes. They just want the richest and most stable dudes around

You are right actually,that's the fact!

Gajagojo:

You sound like an expert

Lol, why did you say so?

bitsAndpieces:
Female doctors to me are the best if you want to be with an intelligent woman. They only go for intelligent men, and there aren’t many around.

I see no problem dating them. I prefer them to ordinary 9ja women.

Intelligent women shouldn’t frighten an intelligent man. You will both compliment each other to form a badass partnership.

Though there are intelligent ladies in diverse careers be it engineering,law, science, business, accounting etc.
The issue is how the ladies in question get extreme at the slightest provocation that erupted in those instances.

Drella:


Thanks.
Closing hours is 5pm or you work late into the night many times?

It depends on bulkiness/volume of work

Drella:


Please how's the hours of investment banking like in Nigeria?

Most people abroad claim they work 80+ hours per week. I've not really heard from Nigerian investment bankers.

Mine Mondays to Fridays...I do my businesses full-time on weekends

ednut1:
You are not their spec because you are broke. Shikena

Far from the truth. I even got them things, no need mentioning them here.

ednut1:
You are not their spec because you are broke. Shikena

I don't get your point at all...

1Sharon:
You are not equally yoked. Most female medics want other medics.

Those I know, stylishly find out your financial details in a more definitive way than in the past.

KingOfTheDamned:


Geta job bro. It will do you good? Stop wasting your time creating pointless threads

I already did for many many years now. That's not the point.

wunmi590:


Majority of them have ego, even during my days in school then, when we were doing some medical courses together like parasitology and medical Microbiology, the way they class themselves as if they were dropped from heaven self, you will hate it

I couldn't agree more on this...

FreeStuffsNG:

Gbam. Low self esteem is a very bad thing.

Where is low self esteem synonymous with broken relationships, it may contribute notwithstanding, but in parallel or sync? no...

NovusHomo:


Accept it, they are above your standard. In other words, you are beneath them. FACT.

Not at all, not on the basis of what I have acquired over the years in terms of Education, Skills, Training, Projects etc.

It is your personal opinion and it remains so.

Welcomme:
This is spot on. But why is it not always the case outside the country? My white colleague's girlfriend is studying medicine at one of the Russell Group schools in the U.K. My colleague is a Logistics officer with just a Level 5 certificate in Logistics and supply chain while the gf is already a graduate of Biomedical science before she decided to proceed to study Medicine. I am 💯 sure, this would never have happened in Nigeria. Hypergamy is real in Nigeria

It's peculiar to Nigeria from my experiences

femi4:
Speak for yourself, don't generalise. You are probably not good enough

I beg to differ on your submission. I have actually helped her get several good things of life. So that's not subject to contention.

wizod:

Are you married now?

Close to in my current affair... Trying to seal up certain things at present before finalizing.

Trueprophet91:

They're too uppity!

Exactly

nnamdi640:
How many of them have you dated before concluding?

About 5 of them now.
Like I said, I try my best being nice and not only medics, have dated, other areas are extensions of my dates. But the striking flaring up in medical students/doctors is the contention here.

Wickedlywicked:

In addition to that comment, never let any woman put you in that position. I stopped taking women seriously the very day I knew this. The same woman that is giving you hard time, another man is looking for a flimsy excuse to give her breakfast; a guy somewhere is already tired of her and the woman that’s dying for you is probably another guy’s prayer point.
Always go for a woman that can’t do without you and not the one that thinks she’s the one doing you a favor for dating you. Also if you love a woman, don’t let it be too explicit that you do. No be advice, na serious warning.
I just have this natural dislike for people working in the medical field. Most of them are just too proud and full of themselves

You have raised my concern too, loving too much can make some perceive you as weak as it's often said that the one that loves lower has higher power in the relationship.

GUNITGuy:

You got it
They could be Toxic most people marry them for financial security and sometimes could be nice too

The fact that about 5 I dated and just a little misunderstanding, they flare up and do the blocking is my issue here.
It's fine to get angry or disappointed, but I think pride is really what that flares it up.

ednut1:
she is a doctor now. What about you?

I am into Investment Banking and other SMEs I plan to scale up in the future.

CorrectionFLuid:


He made mistake generalizing, especially also adding nurses to it

But a lot of what he said is true to an extent (especially about female medical doctors). And he didn't deny not being rich either.

Female medical students/doctors I mean. I get your assertion. For the wealth, everyone has their own definition to that, am pushing...

Fiscus105:



Why you want to marry medics at all cost?
What stops you married other professions?

You too, since 2018 that ur ex, who is now doctor left, you are still wandering in the wilderness of singleness.

Thank God she is even mingle with cream de la cream now,......for you, a frustrated and depressed single papa, who has waited endlessly to marry female medics.



It affirms my earlier assertion that you belong to lowest of ladder in society.

GOLD DIGGER!

And you think, a Nigerian Female Medical Student/Doctor will agree to follow through with the lowest social status/worker in this same Nigeria...

You have decided to miss the point. No need explaining further please.

Fiscus105:



Abi.oooo, someone would just come online to use his abmysal performances to generalise the whole scenario .


.......you toasted 2 to 3 health professionals, probably bcoz u belong to least level of the society, you rush gragra to forum, to label entire medics ugly name.

Let him go to big hospitals and see how nurses scramble to have relationships with guys outside their doctors/nurses professions.

Your affirmation is not accurate Sir, mistakes do happen, but on trying to reconcile differences, that becomes a major challenge...

haybhi1:
Note: any girl who is in the medical school (studying medicine o), and still gives you attention, must really love you or she's been withdrawn. Where the time abeg? Una no know how much hard life is for an average medical student in a federal university(can't tell about others)—particularly among the top 10 medical schools.

Una think say na play dem dey play, lol.

But for the high intolerance level, that's just my concern.

SpaceX:
leave marriage for s.imps if you need any for a night just rent, pay and move on. Simple!

Smiles

Hezzyluv:
No be me oooo

I don't go close to them for relationship lailai.
Because, most of them are full of themselves.

One just started snubbing, ignoring all my attempts to communicate with her.
These hypogamy and hypergamy are actually real in dating, I believe, the female medics only believe they are marrying at par not even marrying up (hypergamy), if they marry their colleagues or very wealthy/influential professionals while they feel they will be marrying down (hypogamy) if they see the dating move(s) coming from outside the medical field from my several experiences.

Nyascobar1414:
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And the male doctors don't see them as the ideal woman...
Hypergamy 😹

My Male Doctor friend always discourage me from dating them, he personally says, he knows how they behave in medical school and he finally married of recent outside the profession.